Hey everyone, I'm Sam Kayden
and this channel is about queer life beyond binaries to inspire you to live a happy fulfilling life as your true self.
Pride is just around the corner.
So I think now is a great time to talk about who belongs at pride and who doesn't
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Every year as Pride rolls around there always seems to be a conversation
online at least, about who belongs at Pride and who doesn't. So I'm going to unpack that a little bit and talk about
who I think should be at Pride and who shouldn't be. The short answer is everyone belongs at Pride.
The way that we gatekeep Pride and determine who should be there and who shouldn't based on identity or physical characteristics or
Personality or looks is ridiculous
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So the way that this gatekeeping tends to work is that
Somebody will say that because of this identity characteristic,
you do not belong at Pride. And a lot of the people that tend to be pushed out of Pride protests or celebrations
tend to be those whose identities are on the margins of the queer community.
So for example, people who are asexual aromantic, transgender, bisexual
pansexual, fluid...folks that don't have
identities that are gay or lesbian
tend to be excluded from
the queer community as a whole. And I think part of that is due to how over the years we have
redefined what it means to be queer.
The acronym itself has grown and increased as we have discovered and accepted more and more identities
And I think that it's really important that we
have a new definition of queer than maybe what was used
20, 30, 40 years ago. The definition of queer today essentially includes anyone who does not fall under
cisgender heterosexual
A trans person could identify as straight and they would still be queer because they're trans. An asexual person might identify as asexual
but hetero-romantic
So that person is definitely still queer
Ultimately anyone that is not cisgender heterosexual and considers themself to be a
member of the queer community is queer and therefore they belong at Pride.
Including identities that have been historically excluded from Pride is not a threat to those identities that are already included at Pride.
It's simply not. It's just opening up the definition of queer. It's being more inclusive. It's being more accepting
It's being more aware and understanding of the different identities that exist because there are so many.
So that leaves the question,
Do cisgender heterosexual people belong at Pride. Yeah, absolutely
Anyone and everyone belongs at Pride. Of course, I can only speak for myself
But I don't think it's effective that if we as a queer community use the tactics that have been used
against us to exclude us and push us to the margins
against the people that were using these tactics in the first place
The better question is how much space are you taking up at Pride?
So for example, if you are a cisgender heterosexual person who does not consider yourself queer maybe instead of marching in the parade itself
You're standing on the sidelines and cheering us on. Maybe you're waving a supportive sign
But that question is actually one that all of us can ask ourselves whether or not we're queer when we're attending Pride.
The question of
how much space you're taking up is really a question of
What privileges do you experience based on your identity, based on who you are?
And what are you doing to level the playing field
so those that don't experience those privileges
are not left in the dust and are given just the same amount of space as you are
So for example, I'm somebody who doesn't require mobility aids to get around.
So when I'm attending Pride it's important for me to pay attention to how Pride is set up and how
accessible the area is and if I
notice anything that is inaccessible or that needs to be improved on I should say something about it
I should find a volunteer. I should find somebody who's working at Pride and let them know and try to get it fixed
That's a way that I can use my privilege as someone who
moves through this world without requiring mobility aids to make sure that things are set up in a way that people with varying needs
will have an accessible Pride. So if you're attending Pride this year, just ask yourself: how much space am I taking up?
Do I have some privilege that maybe others don't have and what can I do about that?
how can I make this a more inclusive Pride for everyone and not just people that fall under my
definition of what queer means. If you know someone who would benefit from this video
please share it with them and don't forget to subscribe for weekly videos on queer life beyond binaries
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DAY 2 OF MY DRY FAST THIS IS A 🔵🔴WEIGH-IN🔴🔵 VIDEO SEE HOW MUCH I LOSS-MY WEIGHT LOSS JOURNEY - Duration: 1:48.
hey guys I started my dry fast three days ago
today is day three it'll be a complete three days tomorrow at 7:30 in the
morning but this is my weigh-in for today yesterday I did a weigh-in I was
at 181 and I'm gonna get on the scale and see how much I lost today okay it
says 178 point six which is good they get on it one more time it's 178 point
six so that means I lost three pounds so in less than three days because
tomorrow will technically be a complete 24 hours so that means that'll be a
complete three days which will make it 72 complete hours at 7:30 tomorrow
morning but in three days because we won't count this as day three because
this day's almost over I'm about 12 hours into day three I have lost five
pounds so far so with all that being said please subscribe to the shit
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I'll see you guys in the next video bye for now
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How Much Fish Oil Should You Take for Your Eyes? - Duration: 1:46.
Is omega-3 good for eyes
yeah we discuss it in length but Omega-3 we
like to shoot for about a thousand milligrams a day of omega-3
and we like to combine that with the healthy
omega-6 so we want to have a two to one ratio
omega-6 to omega-3
and an healthy individual if your a little less healthy you want to
do about four to one ratio so omega-6
4,000 milligrams omega-3 1,000 milligrams
you can do that by eating things like avocados
hemp seeds chia seeds and
flax seeds so incorporating those at the salads
into your green smoothies is really going to help it out
and so
our omega-3 is a thousand milligrams
per day and we're actually doing our black Friday
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you want to shoot for a thousand of those per day and then you want to shoot
for about 4,000 of the omega-6s
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Here is a simple technique to understand how much a property is worth - Duration: 3:31.
- So you're looking to invest in the property market
but you're just not sure how much the properties are worth.
Well keep watching because I'm about to show you a technique
on how to determine real market value
and the three qualities that you should be looking for.
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Hi everybody, Josh Masters here
and the other day I was teaching at a seminar
and one of the biggest questions that was coming up
or one of the biggest hurdles
that the group was facing
was really understanding the values of the properties
they were looking at on the market.
What were they really worth?
Now, if you're looking an area long enough
you'll probably start to get a natural feel for the place
and you'll start to see what the prices are
that are coming up each and every week.
But what happens when you don't have time
to inspect 10 properties every weekend
or it's an out of area purchase?
So as a regular investor,
one of the things that I like to use
is the sold section on realestate.com.au
and the sold section can be a,
it's actually a little tab up the top
next to buy and rent.
Now, what you want to be doing is comparing
the similar properties
that you've been looking at
to what's been sold recently.
This is how the valuers do it themselves
when they're working for the banks.
Now you want to make sure
that you're comparing similar configurations.
So for example if you're looking at three bedroom houses,
make sure you're putting in three bedroom houses,
with parking or whatever it is
to make sure you're getting that true comparable.
Now once you're there I want you to compare three things.
The first one is location.
Are you comparing a property that's in a similar location
to the one you're looking at
or is it on a main road?
Or in a terrible part of the neighbourhood?
You want to make sure that they're comparable,
so make sure they're in comparable locations.
The second one is size.
Are they similar sizes?
And I'm talking about either land, for houses
that's very important.
Or for units, are you talking about
a 60 square metre unit, or an 80 square metre unit?
Make sure they're comparable.
You also want to make sure that you're comparing
the newest sales and you can do that
by a drop down that says, date, newest to oldest.
Now the third and final category
is comparing the condition.
And that's both internally and externally.
Are you comparing something that's renovated?
Or are you comparing something that's just a dump?
And a bit of a knockdown.
These are three of the critical things
that you need to look at when you're comparing
like for like properties to get a real good gauge
on where the market value sits
for the properties that are on sale today
versus what has just sold.
You can also look at things like,
does it have a view?
Is the architectural quality the same?
Is there an upstairs, downstairs configuration?
You can go into all these minute details if you like
but they're the three main categories
that you should be looking at
and that will give you a really good gauge
on the value that you should be paying today.
If you have any question around this
or would like to ask more,
just drop me a line.
My name's Josh Masters and you've been watching
On The Ladder.
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Ruth Langsford tells Eamonn Holmes just how much he means to her - and it's emotional! - Duration: 1:46.
Ruth Langsford tells Eamonn Holmes just how much he means to her - and it's emotional!
The This Morning co-hosts have been married since 2010. Ruth Langsford told Eamonn Holmes just how much he meant to her in a heartfelt message read out on Wednesdays Loose Women.
The TV presenter teared up as she read out a love letter via text message, which she had sent to her husband and This Morning co-host.
Ruth – who was slightly hesitant at reading out the personal message live on air – wrote to Eamonn: My darling, we are all so busy I worry I don't take the time to tell you how much I love you.
Well, I love you more than you will ever know.
You make my life complete and give me the love and support to do everything I do. She ended the message adding: Thank you for making me feel like the most loved woman in the world..
All panellists on Wednesdays show had been tasked to write a love letter to someone they cared about, with Janet Street Porter, Stacey Solomon and guest panellist Catherine Tyldesley also reading out their messages.
Janet had decided to message Linda Robson, Stacey wrote to boyfriend Joe Swash, while Catherine took the opportunity to hint to husband Tom Pitford that she would like another baby – a suggestion he quickly shut down!.
By the end of the show, Ruth revealed to the audience that Eamonn had yet to respond to her message. She said: Eamonn! He hasn't even replied. I don't even do gushy things like that. I can him my poet.
Hes the gusher! Ruth and Eamonn have been married since 2010 following a 12 year relationship, and share son Jack, 16. They have also been working together for 17 years, something Ruth had wanted to do even before meeting her husband.
She previously told HELLO!: I always admired him as a broadcaster before I met him [Eamonn] so I would like to work with him even if he wasn't my husband because I think he is so brilliant..
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Sarah Ferguson: 20 years after her divorce how much is Sarah Ferguson actually worth? - Duration: 4:40.
One of the most famous royal divorcees of all time, Sarah Ferguson, 58, was married to the Queen's son, Prince Andrew for 10 years
Married in 1986 in a lavish ceremony held at Westminster Abbey, over 100,000 people gathered to watch the new Duke and Duchess of York share that famous kiss on the balcony of Buckingham Palace
The two met when they were both children, but their romance was kindled by the late Princess Diana, who invited Sarah to a Ascot races after-party held at Windsor Castle
The Prince and Fergie began dating the same week, with the engagement following very soon
But with 22 years having passed since the couple's divorce, how much is the Duchess of York worth in her own right?According to celebrity intelligence website TheRichest.com, flame-haired Fergie is worth around $1 million, which is approximately £751,000
Since her divorce in 1996, the Duchess has kept her name in the public eye, now known as a writer, public speaker, charity patron, brand ambassador and television personality
Along with holding celebrity status, Sarah has worked with many brands over the years including British fine china and porcelain company, Wedgwood and cosmetics giant, Avon
Fergie has also held a decade-long endorsement with Weight Watchers, no doubt contributing to her $1 million net worth
The mother-of-two has also written various books including her own 1997 autobiography, My Story and 2011's Finding Sarah: A Duchess's Journey to Find Herself in 2011
She has also hosted radio shows and the 2009 ITV reality show, The Duchess on the Estate
The controversial TV show saw the Duchess journey to a working class estate in Manchester for a fly-on-the-wall documentary
This was followed by another called The Duchess in Hull.Before meeting Prince Andrew, Fergie worked in a public relations firm based in London, before working for an art gallery and publishing company
Despite divorcing over 20 years ago, Prince Andrew and Sarah remain on good terms, purchasing a £13 million chalet together in 2015 located in Verbier, Switzerland
Along with renting her own apartment in the expensive Eaton Square in London, Fergie also resides in the multi-million pound chalet
It was in Verbier that her daughter Princess Eugenie, 28, and her fiancé Jack Brooksbank, 32, met
Fergie's other work includes autobiographical books, charity work and radio work. Despite her high net worth, it was reported by The Sun in April 2016 that Sarah was selling her £150,000 Bentley for just £33,995 as she was "always short of cash"
The car was a gift from her ex boyfriend, Norwegian business tycoon Geir Frantzen back in 2008
It seems the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, as the Duchess' youngest daughter is also said to work full-time, holding a director position at Hauser & Wirth, a contemporary art gallery in Mayfair, London
The 28-year-old Princess Eugenie is marrying her boyfriend of eight years, Jack, at St George's Chapel, Windsor, in October
Fergie will once again come face-to-face with the royal family, after Prince Charles was rumoured to have snubbed his former sister-in-law at the Royal Wedding, leaving her off the guest list for Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's evening reception
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How to Value the Love of Your Life [Ep4] - Duration: 1:57.
You love your girlfriend fiancee wife the mother of your children, how much do you value what she does in today's episode
We're gonna learn the absolute best way to communicate how much you value the love of your life. Brothers
welcome to part two in our series of how to be the best man and husband that we can be. Last week
we learned that the women our lives are doing so much more work around the house and taking care of children
even after they work all day for pay. You had some homework to do. If you haven't seen that video yet go check it out.
Now, I know you value the women in your life you love them. You respect them.
You may even profusely praise them for keeping you and the family afloat.
If you're doing that, give this video a thumbs up. That is cool...
gratitude is important, but the best men don't stop there. In the Marine Corps
I learned this philosophy: that if you really value a mission or a task
then you have to be willing to do it yourself. The same goes for our relationships.
If you really value all that unpaid labor that we talked about in last week's video,
then you have to be willing to do it yourself. This week, make a commitment to identify one household chore or childcare
activity that you didn't do last week and then add it to the list of things
you're gonna do this week. Simple, right? In our
patriarchal society, power, status and influence typically go to the people who are bringing in the most amount of income and
by and large, those people tend to be men.
We tend to be valued more for our work.
If you've ever been asked to do a simple task when you get home
and you said, "but I just worked all day," then you at some level internalized this message of status and value.
But why is it that women are getting stuck doing all this unpaid labor?
Well, we'll talk about that in our next video. For now, if you believe in equality for women
like I do and want to be part of the solution, then subscribe to this channel right now, then share this video with other men
in your life. Until next time, keep doing good in the world.
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