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Hi, this is Dr. Sharon Cohen.

I work with professional women who despite having great success at work fail at making romantic relationships work.

And I help them have stable, committed, deeply loving relationships. Today

we're talking about the second tip the second key to having deeply loving relationships.

The first part of this tip was about chemistry being a non-starter. If you don't have it,

it's a no-go. But today the second part of the second tip is about communication.

Communication: the good thing about it is it's something that can be taught improved or

learned and so if you have chemistry and

communication is a little bit off. It's something that can be worked on and it's something that I help my clients with

so if you're having problems with it, then you can seek out help with it.

So first of all there's a lot of powerful women out there who are doing really, really well at work

However the communication skills that they use at work aren't necessarily translatable into their personal,

romantic life.

They're wondering why they aren't doing better on those first or second dates or even a little bit further into the relationship.

I'm gonna start off with a tip about the

first date.

Sometimes you'll find out when that you're on a first date that the man is talking a lot about themselves

And you're not clear on why he's not asking more questions about you.

The thing is if the man asked you out then he's already interested in you. He's

finding just joy and being around your feminine essence, in your beauty, and he already knows that he likes you. Otherwise

he wouldn't have asked you out.

So when he's talking a lot about himself what he's doing is he's sliding his resume across the table to you to say "hey, listen

I'm a worthy guy. I'm an impressive guy, and I want you to know that. I'm worthy of you.

I want you to like me."

So that's why he might not ask you as many questions about you especially on the first date.

So this would be one reason why

you might not get as many questions asked on that first night.

It's not that he's a narcissist, which is a word that we love to throw around.

Although he may be but I wouldn't throw that word out on the first date. So that's my tip on

communication. I have many, many more, but just for today.

If you like, this tip feel free to pass it on

subscribe to the channel and

If you want an e-book, please go to my website drsharoncohen.com Feel free to share this. Have a great day.

Take care. Bye-bye.

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RELATIONSHIP GOALS: AIRSOFT AKMS REVIEW BY MY WIFE! [ENG SUB] - Duration: 6:31.

Hey guys! -Hello

If you remember, last week I brought a gun for the favour of the M4 lovers

Those who follow my channel, probably know, that I'm also in this group

But I got somehing else for today

I don't want to exclude those who like to play on the other side

So I brought you an AKMS

Just like the last gun I reviewed, this is also a good starter gun and a good base for tuning

It's also very reliable and UNDESTRUCTABLE!

This airsoft version is the Cyma CM048S

But to make my video more diverse

First, my wife going to talk about it, and I'm out of here!

So here's the box...unfortunately there's no clothes inside...

Well what's inside..

It's called BB

It's a bit small package,,you can buy bigger at Combat Zone

It's the spare magazine

You can out the BBs inside

Maybe...

Maybe the charger

And

Well, THIS may be the charger

let's move onto the gun itself

Just a second and it will come out :D

It's very nice, and it's pretty heavy

So if you don't workout, do not choose it

Well...

This decor is made out of wood and it's very nice

It's high quality made

Alright, so I'm back

I was curious how much she knows about airsoft guns, well

we can state that nearly nothing

Well she is a woman

she doesn't really care about it...

But let's get back to our airsoft gun

And let's see what's inside the box

So first we've got a magazine...so a normal one

Battery

of course, and a charger

A stock BB package that I don't recommend to use

And the gun itself

It was a good statement that it's really heavy

As it's made of full metal and wood

So it's not easy but I don't recommend only for those who workout

If you don't wor out, you will get in shape with this!

Cyma is a good choice for start

because its external and internal positive attributes meet with affordable price

Whether you play as a russian soldier or a pmc, I think it's your gun!

let's see first which parts can be magnetized

Is the receiver cover?..yep

folding stock..yep

receiver yep

grip is plastic, but thetrigger guard, yes

magazine lock, yes

rear sight...no

let's see the outer barrel

It's not..

But the gas tube yes

Front sight

No

More like the muzzle brake

So these parts can be magnetized

Among the AK variants, the AKMS is a version with folding stock

So you can easily manouver in small CQB situations

to turn it down

You have to push the button at its side

and at the end you just turn down the butt

let's see the magazine

It's a 500 BB High-cap mag

You can use any other AK style mag, but for the authenticity I recommend these 7,62 ones

Hop up can be easily adjusted

And also very precisely

As it has an adjusting slide

and it does not move easily

So you can adjust it pretty easily

It's behind the dust cover

You don't have to spend in extra for the outer look

with different accessories

As you know an AK is nice just like that

The stock does not wobble when folded, just a little bit movement

We can set the selector switch even when the stock is folded

bottom: single, middle: auto, Top: safe

So in conclusion it is very sturdy, massive, precise and UNDESTRUCTABLE

but let's see its precision with a shooting test

20 meters, GG 0,28

So that's the end of this video, I hope you liked it

If so, don't forget to hit that subscribe and like button

See you in the next video! -without me! :D

Bye

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How To Build Trust In A Relationship - Duration: 8:02.

Kris Krohn here with Limitless TV and today we're talking about how to build

meaningful relationships built on trust.

Building trust.

Wow I got to tell you right now that um in

the 15 years that I've been in business which started when I was a college kid

being in my my mid-30's right now, I've had an opportunity to work with tens and

tens and tens and tens and tens of thousands of people. I've been able to

interview thousands of people, I've brought on dozens and dozens and

dozens of partners. Each business relationship and partnership is almost

like a marriage because you got to work your stuff out and you got to find a way

to make things happen right Nate? And I'll tell you right now that building trust,

there is an art to it. And there's two things that I think are

most important when establishing it. The first one I want to talk about is, is

managing expectations. You know, let's talk about how trust first of all gets

lost because the absence of lost trust is often trust.

And when we set ourselves

up for failure it happens when we create expectations that were unable to fulfill

on or we didn't even give appropriate disclaimers of what might have happened.

You know for example, you're working with somebody and all of a sudden they see a

very different side of you. All of a sudden, that really fails their personal

expectations. And whether you want it or not, they're projecting these

expectations on you. You can't control it. People are setting expectations up for

you of what they expect you to do, how they expect you to respond, how they

expect you to speak, how they expect, how they expect, how they expect, how they

expect. And you really cannot control the perceptions of other people but you

can influence them. So one of the ways that I like to manage expectations and

and let me bring this to a two to a business conversation. When I'm sitting

down with someone and I'm looking at doing business with them, I want to help

them understand the good the bad and the ugly. And then I want to manage my

expectations by being honest and truthful and conservative. And I say that

again, honest and truthful and conservative. And what that might mean is

people are partnering with me on real estate all the time. I go to the best

places around the country and I help them invest their money. Their 401ks,

their IRAs, their home equity. And when I'm sitting down with them, one of

the things that I'm sharing with them is the range of possibilities of the best

case scenario and the worst case scenario. And then what I would expect to happen

and I'm sharing with them the things that don't always go well and letting

them know how often those occur so that they can be ready for them, so they can

be prepared for them. A total different scenario is people will come out

hundreds of people every month will fly in from all across the country. Some of

them from around the world to be with me for three days

where I do the most intense three day mindset breakthrough event. And when I'm

when I'm putting on this event with people, I'll get up there on day one at

the start and listen to the expectation I manage. As long as you are teachable

and open-minded you will have a life-changing experience and you will

never be the same again. That's a huge promise. But you know what? there's only

one reason why I'm giving it because I know that I'm fully capable of

fulfilling on it.

When you are speaking, talking, acting, let

me ask you,

do you ever exaggerate? are you prone to hyperbole? Do you, are you

that and if you don't know the answer to this question and all this ask you this,

do you ever round up a round down? If you round down, you're probably more

skeptical and conservative. If you round up, you might be an optimist and and you

might paint rosy pictures. Building a relationship of trust is about operating

inside of reality and you can manage those expectations by sharing with

people the possibilities of what may or may not happen. you know, when I married my

wife, we were making promises to love each other on the good days and bad days.

When things were good or bad. In sickness and health. And you know there's a lot of

people these days that live in a very conditional mindset.

Well, I'll trust you as long as.

And so, while managing expectations might be the

first thing what I want to share with you next I believe is the real secret.

The secret sauce to building amazing trust comes down to two words,

unconditional love.

The real secret to building this relationship of trust

comes down to what is your motive behind how you think of this person and how you

care about them. I believe there's room in my heart, in your heart, to hold a

space of unconditional love for every person

we meet. I'm talking about your spouse or your kids or your family members. I'm

also talking about strangers. Right now, we passed these expectations that put

people in these bubbles and boxes and these judgments? They're the things that

really get in our way and this is what erodes trust. But unconditional love has

the ability to transcend that. You see, I really actually don't believe I can

trust anybody. I don't say that as a cynic what I really say is the only

thing I can trust is for them to be who they are. I can trust their bad to show

and their good to show their good choices and their poor choices. And if I

can become, if I can separate from the expectations and this is that

paradoxical almost opposing advice is that we're balancing when we need to

have expectations that we manage but then the other part for your own trust

is to love regardless of whether people actually hit your expectations or not.

You see, I'm striving to be a person where I can manage everyone else's

expectations and at the exact same time honor and hold a space of unconditional

love that says ,I love you without condition. Now if you do something that

breaks my trust instead of getting angry and upset guess what? That's what that

person was capable of. Shame on you for actually thinking that you thought of

them even differently. Like, really you think you know this person? you hardly

know yourself! So this is like the whole ridiculousness of it is, do you trust me?

It's like with what? with my life? with breakfast? what I eat? when I'm gonna pick

up my kids? whether I'm late, early, sleep in? Like, like what does that really mean?

I'm just gonna trust you to be you. And I'm gonna hold a space of unconditional

love and this unconditional love says that, regardless of the choices that you

make there's gonna be love in my heart for you and because I see the choices

you're making I am going to distance myself in my business operations from

you or because it, but it doesn't mean that I'm sour. Doesn't mean I've said it

means that I'm learning. Means that I'm learning what I the possibilities of

what I can and cannot do with you. So really today, manage your expectations

with everyone else and then at the same time be careful what expectations you do

set. Because most of the expectations that we have are super unrealistic.

If you replace that with love people, want to be in a relationship where that

love is present. Yes it's one thing to mess up an expectation, it's another to

be okay with it and those are the people that I see building some of the greatest

levels of trust.

I hope you've enjoyed today's video. If this has resonated with

you, I want to invite you to consider coming out to one of my three-day

breakthrough events because when it comes to trusting others, the reality is

is that where we find our greatest mistrust is not with others. It's with

our self. It's the choices that we've made and it's easy to blame people. It's

easy to blame their actions and the things that we perceive them doing wrong

and some of us here have been really wronged by other people. But the solution

to your problem is not going to be found in their apologies. The solution is going

to be found inside of you. So click the link below and request more information

about my three day breakthrough event. And you know what? Hop on a plane, get in

your car and spend three days falling madly in love with the most important

person on this planet, you.