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I found in the official Steven universe book art and origins but before I start

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Amongst all the relationships in Steven universe, one of the most focused on

relationships in the show is between Steven and Connie

Connie was the first being that Steven fused with and she is also the one he seems to discover all his new powers with they've

Been emotional support for each other throughout the show and it's clear that he shares more with Connie that he does the gems

But what extent is their relationship go to. well some have argued that Connie and Stevens relationship is purely strongly platonic

Most fans argue that it isn't I happen to be a shipper of converse myself

Or stevonnie as some people call the ship

And it seems that this was the crewniverse's intentions in fact. We have the art and

Origins book to thank for the confirmation of this in fact one of the original plots to an earlier episode specifically We Need to Talk

Was supposed to take place because Greg caught Steven and Connie kissing

Of course we now know that the plot they went with was Greg accidentally witnessing the two fusing into stevonnie while dancing

But it's interesting that the original concept was supposed to be that they had kissed and that Greg tried to explain things to them this

Is what the actual paragraph reads Greg happens upon a kiss between Steven and Connie Greg starts out to give them with the talk?

They start asking the uncomfortable and magic questions

So overwhelmed Greg gives up and tells them about how gems

Introduced him to fusions this of course is now referring to how Greg was introduced to rainbow quartz

And it's confirmed that she's the first fusion he's made aware of and see's form

Originally the first fusion Greg was supposed to see was opal

But it's obvious that they elected to change this to rainbow quartz as well

we get a little bit of pearlmathyst in here too ay

Maybe pearl was the first gem amethyst ever fused with but that's a theory for another time anyways more content regarding

Steven and Connie's relationship can be found in Connie's concept art

there's multiple cutesy images of the two holding hands and just interacting with each other. There's even one of them kissing though

That's rather hard to see something that I found even more cute. However was the fact

There's a little note that says "faces like puzzle" then in the little kissing sketch you can see what that note means

Basically the creators of all but confirms that Connie and Steven are made for each other

Both literally and metaphorically depending on which way you look at it

I think that this Canon information combined with their other interactions in the show basically

Confirmed that Steven and Connie are each other's romantic interests

I know that this is probably obvious to most of you

But I know that there are still a few people out there

Who are a bit skeptical, but let me know what you guys think in the comments below. Do you ship Steven and Connie?

What's your favorite moment between the two and of course if you like this video?

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For more infomation >> Confirmed Romantic Relationship: Steven and Connie!? - Duration: 3:15.

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What To Do When Your Relationship With A Narcissist (Inevitably) Falls Apart - Duration: 5:25.

What To Do When Your Relationship With A Narcissist (Inevitably) Falls Apart

A woman I'll call Bethany got in touch with me asking for help.

She was 47 years old, had two children, and had been married for 23 years to a man with significant narcissistic

tendencies.

Although their marriage had never been great, the last decade was brutal.

The more time we spent together, the more I learned about their dynamic.

He would manipulate her to suit his own desires, withholding love and attention until she finally gave in.

He lied pathologically and made no apologies for having multiple affairs or drinking and gambling too much.

She had felt so alone for most of her marriage that she referred to herself as a "single married woman."

The more strongly she connected with her voice in that relationship, the further away he pushed her,

until he had finally pushed her right out the door – feeling frightened and desperately wanting to excavate the strong,

confident woman she once was.

Though he hurt her repeatedly, she still loved him.

When they parted ways, she was depressed and stuck.

I don't know whether our culture has bred an entire generation of narcissists,

if we have more information available to us today about narcissism, or if placing a label on someone who broke our

heart helps us rationalize our pain and move on.

Maybe it's a combination of those things.

I coach a lot of women who are healing from breakups and attempting to move forward in their lives.

When a client is attempting to heal from a breakup with a narcissist,

their journey is a little longer and has to go much deeper.

That's because there's no peace inside of a relationship with someone who is narcissistic.

You're never quite enough.

You're always to blame.

You're consistently on the receiving end of painful manipulation that crushes your self-esteem and makes you think

you're going crazy.

When a relationship with a narcissist ends, it typically ends badly.

More often than not, the narcissist is the one who steps away and leaves us in tears.

Occasionally, they'll get caught in one lie too many and we'll somehow find the strength to leave.

However, finding the strength to move on from a narcissist is incredibly difficult.

Here are the three main sticking points in recovery from a relationship with a narcissist.

1.

Perhaps your narcissist told you that all the problems in the relationship were your fault — and you believed him.

Since you believe that you are the source of all the problems, you believe that you can and should fix them.

You can change.

You can become the person he needs you to be so that you can get him back.

None of that is true.

And, since what a narcissist wants is a moving target, no matter what you turn yourself into, it still won't be enough.

You need to focus on getting your strength back so that your next relationship feels like love to you.

2.

If you're a romantic person, you may tend to see people for who they could be rather than who they actually are.

You may see greater potential in your partner than in yourself.

If you've dated a narcissist, you might place them on an unearned pedestal that has blinded them to the truth of who

they are.

Instead, become genuinely curious about how your partner interacts with others.

When you become the observer, you can detach, gain a broader perspective, and see the truth more clearly.

3.

You might be looking for closure, and it won't come.

When a relationship with a narcissist ends, you will be tempted to try to understand what went wrong and to explain the

pain you're feeling.

A narcissist isn't capable of understanding, acknowledging, or validating your pain.

You don't need to say it more clearly, find the right words, or raise the volume,

because your narcissist can't hear you.

When a relationship with a narcissist ends, healing must take place in order to move past the pain and avoid attracting

a similar partner in the future, thereby extending the cycle and, inevitably, the struggle.

Because the charming personality and beguiling allure of a narcissist are appealing on deep levels,

guidance from a trained professional can be immensely helpful.

For more infomation >> What To Do When Your Relationship With A Narcissist (Inevitably) Falls Apart - Duration: 5:25.

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How Parenthood Changed Cory Hardrict and Tia Mowry-Hardrict's Relationship | Black Love | OWN - Duration: 0:45.

CORY: Everything revolves around our son now.

Everything.

His schedule, his school, his playtime, his life.

And that's the most important thing to both of us, is our son.

TIA: But how did that affect our relationship? When we had Cree?

CORY: Um, well. How did it affect our relationship?

TIA: Mmhm.

Like, the dynamic.

CORY: Oh, Tia was, you know, it was about Cree.

You know, "get out the room!" or somethin'.

[LAUGHING]

CORY: You know.

TIA: The boob was for Cree, not for Cory anymore.

[LAUGHING]