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5 Essential Steps to Keep Jealousy from Ruining Your Relationship

No.1, Don't Act On Your Feelings.

It is hard not to act the way you are feeling.

The feeling of jealousy, or any other feelings is not the problem, the real trouble starts

when you start acting on that jealousy, and let it consume you.

You can feel the feeling, but do not have to act on it.

Remember that your better half is a human being, that is actively interacting with the

world around him or her.

That world contains people of gender that they sexually prefer, but that does not mean

that they will cheat on you with them.

There is a reason why they are in an intimate relationship with you.

If they wanted to date other people, they would have done so.

So, the next time you feel jealous, accept the feelings, yet change the way you think

about the situation, and be reasonable and wise.

No.2, Don't play games.

Jealousy is excruciatingly uncomfortable.

People sometimes try to make themselves feel better by trying to get their partner jealous.

Don't do this.

Flirting with other men or women all the time in front of your partner; constantly saying

how attractive, fun, and witty someone you work with is; and going out of your way to

talk about past lovers, just demeans you, and won't make either of you feel better in

the long run.

This isn't to say you have to pretend that no other attractive people exist in the world,

but you can acknowledge this without using it as relationship ammunition.

No.3, Express Your Jealousy in A Soft Way.

If you feel that your partner is doing something that is making you jealous, you can express

how you feel, and talk to them in a mature way.

You can also communicate it with humor, diplomacy or directly as long as it is respectful.

If you are humorous, you can joke about how insanely jealous you are when your partner

pays attention to someone else.

Laugh with them as you say this, because it will take the pressure off the topic, and

will get the message across.

When you are diplomatic, you can let them know that you love them a lot, and know that

they will never cheat on you.

And if you are direct, just tell them that you trust them, yet cannot control your feelings

and want them to consider how you feel.

No.4, Beware Of Inner Voices Dragging You Down.

Jealousy, according to psychological research, can manifest as a negative thought cycle,

which is familiar to depressives and anxiety disorder sufferers: the constant barrage of

thoughts like "I'm not good enough," "I'm not lovable".

This is a much more dangerous form of jealousy than simple anger and distrust at a partner,

as it corrodes not only the relationship but your own self-esteem through constant self-abuse.

No.5, Jealousy and love.

When you feel jealous in a relationship, remember that it's not a bad sign and it's not

something to be ashamed of.

It's just that you care about someone too much and can't imagine someone new taking

them away from you.

At times, you may not like your lover flirting with someone because you feel that they're

having a better time, even without you around.

This brings out a feeling of insecurity which can turn into bitter jealousy.

Jealousy can be cute if it's experienced in moderation, but anything beyond that can

change your happy relationship into a frustrated one.

Learn to relax and have a good time when you're in love, instead of suspecting your lover

all the time.

Jealousy in a relationship is just a subconscious way to get attention, so learn to face situations

and communicate with your partner when you feel low.

For more infomation >> 5 Essential Steps to Keep Jealousy from Ruining Your Relationship | animated - Duration: 3:48.

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Invest in Your Relationship: The Emotional Bank Account | The Gottman Institute - Duration: 2:20.

Ever wonder why some couples make it, and others don't?

Scientist Dr. John Gottman did.

He spent 40 years studying thousands of couples to find out exactly what separates

the relationship masters from the relationship disasters.

Shakespeare compared love to a rose.

Gottman uses a different metaphor:

an emotional bank account.

You know how a regular bank account works.

So what's an emotional bank account?

It represents the positive and negative balance in your relationship.

The best couples maintain a high balance.

Couples that break up are often in the red.

You make deposits through positive interactions, and you withdraw through negative ones.

What does a deposit look like?

It's a simple act of showing your partner that you care for and support them.

It's as easy as sending your partner a good luck text before a meeting or cooking them

dinner after a long day.

And pay attention when your partner shows you their admiration and support,

notice when they're investing in your relationship.

A withdrawal is either hurtful behavior toward your partner, or ignoring their invitations

to connect.

But withdrawals and deposits don't have equal weight!

In fact, Gottman found it takes five positive interactions to make up for one negative one.

Happy couples maintain AT LEAST this 5:1 ratio.

If you make constant deposits and keep your balance high,

you're saving up for a rainy day

when you'll need to cash in on that goodwill.

Gottman notes that small daily deposits,

like asking your partner how their day was,

is far more important than the occasional over-the-top romantic gesture.

Positivity leads to more positivity.

This is not about keeping score.

It's about investing in your relationship, and your shared emotional bank account,

moving from "Me-ness" to "We-ness."

So keep your balance high by doing nice things every day and recognizing when your partner

does them for you.

You'll build up that emotional bank account in no time!

For more infomation >> Invest in Your Relationship: The Emotional Bank Account | The Gottman Institute - Duration: 2:20.

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Relationship Advice - How to be Happy in a Relationship. Relationship Psychology of Happiness #31 - Duration: 6:09.

Relationship Advice for men and the women

5 rules of how to be happy in the relationship.

Psychology of happiness video #31.

Hi Guys.

My name is Elena Semenek.

Welcome to my channel - Psychology of Happiness, where happiness is the purpose of life!

Today we're going to talk about 5 rules of how to be happy in a relationship.

Let's start.

How to be happy in the relationship rule #1 is 'I statement'.

When you don't like something about the person, when you don't like what he or she is doing

or what he or she is saying, use the 'I statements'.

Say, I feel angry.

I feel sad.

I feel bad versus saying, you make me feel angry.

This is your fault.

You make me feel bad.

Say, "When you do this, I feel sad.

When you do this, I feel angry."

So this way you're going to avoid a lot of conflicts in your relationship.

And if you are in a conflict, it's going to make it smoother than argumenting and screaming

and fighting.

And when you use an 'I statement', you can communicate with the person!

How to be happy in the relationship rule #2 is practice 'listening'.

Learn how to listen and learn how to listen to your partner.

When he or she say in something, a lot of times we create misunderstanding in the relationship

because we don't listen.

A lot of time, if we're going to listen, we will know the answer.

So this is also an advice how to minimize or avoid conflicts, because when you listen,

you're gonna eliminate a lot of misunderstandings and when you listen, you can ask questions

and you can find something in common with your partner.

You can find the solution in your problems.

So rule number two is practice listening.

How to be happy in a relationship rule #3 is to be grateful.

Say 'Thank you'.

Say thank you for small things and for big things.

And it can be something like this:

Thank you for calling and letting me know that you are coming home late.

Thank you for letting me know that you stuck in traffic.

Thank you for making me a cup of coffee.

At the beginning, usually people do say 'thank you' a lot (at the beginning of the relationship),

but within years people kind of geting used to the partner, for example, is making you

coffee.

People get used to some small things and they forgot to say 'thank you'.

So be grateful and appreciate what your partner is doing for you.

Rule #4 of how to be happy in a relationship is to be a part of your partner's life.

I have a separate video, which is called "How to make him to love you forever".

And this is the step #3.

Make sure to watch it because I talk in details about this specific 'rule'.

I recommended it to watch for women and for men.

So learn, how to be part of your partner's life!

It's very important.

Let's move on.

Step #5 is try new things together, explore new things.

This is a great dating advice for the beginning of a relationship and this is also a great

dating advice for a longterm relationship (when you are in the relationship for years).

Why?

Because you are creating something to share.

You're creating memories between two of you, and you can learn about your partner more,

and when you are in a relationship for a while (for several years), you are getting used

to your partner.

So when you try new things, you're creating a new spark, new interest.

When you're trying new things, you are learning something new and exciting about your partner

and your partner is learning something new and exciting about you, and you create more

and more memories, more and more connections between the two of you and it will create

new spark in your relationship, new passion in your relationship.

If you're in a relationship for a while, I also recommend you to watch another video

is how to make your relationship last forever.

How to keep the spark, the passion, the loving, caring feelings between two of you.

I will leave the link below this video.

Also check my playlist.

I have a playlist specifically for men about women's psychology in relationship about women's

fear in relationship and how women fall in love and I have a playlist specifically for

women about men psychology in relationship, about men's fear in a relationship, and why

a man needs a woman.

I'm sure those videos are going to make your relationship more loving, more caring, and

more passionate, and you're going to enjoy your life and your relationship more.

I will leave the links below this video.

Check them out a click, 'Thumbs up" if you liked this video, share it with your friends

on your facebook, twitter.

Send it to your friends by email, subscribe to my channel, click the bell icon to receive

notifications of new videos that I post every week.

And thank you for watching Psychology of Happiness, where happiness is the purpose of life!

For more infomation >> Relationship Advice - How to be Happy in a Relationship. Relationship Psychology of Happiness #31 - Duration: 6:09.

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SHINee Talks About Their Relationship And Upcoming Comeback - Duration: 2:30.

SHINee Talks About Their Relationship And Upcoming Comeback

Ahead of their comeback, SHINee recently took time for a photoshoot and interview with @star1 Magazine.

As they approach their 10th anniversary, the members were asked what they mean to each other.

In response, they commented, It has changed from being a friendship to becoming a familyship, and continued, You dont have to speak for the close relationship of family, so we feel awkward and shy expressing it in words.On how they feel about their 10th anniversary, they shared, 10 years passed in the blink of an eye.

Looking back, it feels like it has been a brief moment..

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SHINee also talked about their upcoming , revealing that they have been preparing for a long time.

The members contributed a lot of our opinions for a high quality album, and added, Its been a long time since we promoted, so were excited to make a comeback.The members commented regarding their fans, We are always thankful and touched to see our fans who have always been by our sides.

We want our fans who support us to feel proud because of our music..

SHINees full photoshoot and interview will be unveiled in the June issue of @star1 Magazine.

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For more infomation >> SHINee Talks About Their Relationship And Upcoming Comeback - Duration: 2:30.

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10 Things Only Mature Women Do In A Relationship - Duration: 4:28.

For more infomation >> 10 Things Only Mature Women Do In A Relationship - Duration: 4:28.

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Woman Says Fiancé's Family Is Destroying Their Relationship With Him - Duration: 1:42.

For more infomation >> Woman Says Fiancé's Family Is Destroying Their Relationship With Him - Duration: 1:42.

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Why Mom And Sister Say They Have To Intervene In Son's Relationship - Duration: 2:33.

For more infomation >> Why Mom And Sister Say They Have To Intervene In Son's Relationship - Duration: 2:33.

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5 Secrets to having a long and happy relationship - Duration: 3:07.

For more infomation >> 5 Secrets to having a long and happy relationship - Duration: 3:07.

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Bob's Corner Episode 5: The Relationship Between a Volunteer Board and the Executive Director - Duration: 1:04.

The relationship between the Executive Director and the client organization has to be a partnership.

You're looking for the volunteers to bring their industry or profession experience and

knowledge to the discussion and the executive director's role is to help execute on those

plans, strategies and tactics but also provide their expertise.

An executive director has trainings, attends sessions and has educational opportunities

to help them work with the board regarding governance issues.

Simple things like how to structure a board.

many boards have gotten very large over time and maybe it's time for a governance overhaul

and the executive director can play a real key role in that.

For more infomation >> Bob's Corner Episode 5: The Relationship Between a Volunteer Board and the Executive Director - Duration: 1:04.

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The Importance Of Customer Relationships - Duration: 7:48.

Hey, welcome back. Marianne DeNovellis here on the Six Figure Mastermind. You've

known us long enough to know that we are all about customer relationships. We're

going to dive deep on the importance of customer relationships in your

six-figure business. So stay tuned

Customer relationships are absolutely vital in building your six-figure

business. If you don't have a good relationship with your customers, you

don't have a good business and you might not have a business at all. So, let's talk

about the importance of customer relations right? Businesses rise and fall

depending on their relationships with their customers. Because guess what?Word

of mouth is going to get out no matter what. And if your customers aren't happy with

their experience, that's what they're going to share and people will trust their

friends more than they trust a marketing ad from you. So if you don't have a good

relationship with your customers, you may as well not have a marketing ad. You know

you're going to just think. On the converse side, if you have a great

relationship with your customers you have open lines of communication, you're

letting them know in advance of changes and policies and updates and sales.

That's going to boost confidence in your business and enforce those relationships

with your customers. So what happens when you don't have a relationship of trust

with your customers? And this is something that I want you to be very

very aware of. Especially if you're a service based provider, instead of a

product based provider. B-R-O-T. Build a relationship of trust and that happens

right from the get-go before the customer even has a first transaction

with you. In fact, if you don't have a relationship of trust with a customer

before they have a transaction with you, they probably won't even ever have a

transaction with you. So when you don't have a relationship of trust with your

customers, it's going to erode the quality and the integrity of your

business. You'll be constantly trying to play

catch-up. Constantly trying to you know allay fears and answer questions and

you'll find yourself buried in a business that frankly should have been a

passion for you in the first place. It's one of the easiest ways to kill your

passion is to erode that relationship of trust. And looses your motivation in your

business and it loses your customers ability to have a cool transactions with

you okay? Keep that relationship of trust from the get-go. I'm talking from the

start here. From the very very beginning and build upon it as your time together

with your customers advances. Let's talk about businesses that have great

relationships with their customers versus businesses that maybe don't have

a great relationship with their customers. The first business that comes to mind

for me is Apple. Now, I'm an Apple girl you know all you PC users lots of love

to you. But Apple is kind of the way to go. I'm just going to say okay? And one of

the reasons is they have stunning like cutting-edge relationship with

their customers. I'll tell you about an instance I had a couple weeks ago. I had

my printer that I just replaced the drum and I have one of those laser printers

that I print off a lot of stuff at home. So, I replaced the drum and suddenly

when I did that, the Wi-Fi that connects my printer to my computer, it just wasn't

working anymore. They weren't communicating and I couldn't find my

printer anywhere on my computer. And I'm not terribly old-school. I do have an

air print printer so I didn't have a cord that would make them communicate

and talk to each other. And I was like, "ugh! I've got to go somewhere. I've got to

print this thing off. If I don't print it off. I won't have it and if I don't have

it why go and I don't want to be late." All of this... you can imagine. It's

like pretty hectic. I'm sure you've run into this and your own business. Some of

those moments right? So what do I do? I look up all the information for my

printer. I'm finding nothing. This brand has a very antiquated website that you

know has the drivers in the software but there's like no customer service. So,

after I checked on the printers end, I'm going to say, "okay, I know I have Apple

peeps got my back. So I'm going to call them. So I go to Apple. I make an appointment.

Because I'm using my Mac. And they say you know our customer service

representative is chatting with you right now. I'm chatting to a real person

not a bot you can bet I asked for that. I said is this a real person or is this a

machine. They say it's a real person. My name is Kevin. I'm right here from Apple.

And they're helping me walk through the whole thing. Now, Kevin from Apple, he says,

"you know what Marianne, I'm walking through this thing with you. It looks

like you've got a lot of the problem solving already done and you're still

running up against some problems. Let me see if I can share your screen on my end."

So, I can actually see what's going on. This was so cool it helped me feel like

a valued customer because someone was willing to take their time and

follow me along on my screen. So you know I allowed the screen share to happen and

we're going through the steps and we're opening up the files and we're checking

the Wi-Fi and we're seeing where the disconnect is happening and we're not

finding anything. Now a poor customer relationship set would said, "well I guess

it's just your printers fault. You're going to have to check with them now. They

didn't say that. And I'm so glad because I already touched my printer and that's

why I called you guys right? Here's what they did instead. They said, "you know what

Marianne, I can actually connect to the camera on your phone and in addition to

the screen share on your computer, would you be willing to do that?" So what I did

with that and this like this is cool tech tool by the way. So there, I said,

"okay, sure what do I need to do?" They said, "well what's your phone number? We'll just

send a notification to your phone." And I open it up and right there on my phone

says Kevin from Apple support would like to view your camera and I said, "okay" You know

that's cool. So I opened it up and Kevin can now see like what my camera can see

on my phone as well as what my computer is saying. So why is that helpful? Well he

wanted to check out my printer and see what model it was. He wanted to see how

current it was. He wanted to see you know the inside. See if there were any jams

and the guy doesn't run printers but he knows his stuff right. So he's

walking me through right on the camera on my phone. In addition to the screen

share on my computer and were totally attacking this problem from every angle

that I can conceive. He went above and beyond by sharing that tech with me

and walking me through. Eventually we got the printer hooked up again. Got it

working. Everything was fine. You know it took five or six tries to do it but

Kevin walked it through with me every single step of the way. That was superb,

superb customer service. First of all because they were easy to get a hold of,

meaning I could just go online and instantly chat with a real human being.

Second of all, this person knew their stuff enough to be able to share the

tech that enabled them to see my computer screen and my camera. So they

knew their stuff. Third of all, they didn't leave until the problem was

solved. They didn't abandon me and leave me on my own devices right? So those were

three things. Easy to contact, knew their stuff and stayed with me until the end.

Great customer relationship there. Much better than the relationship I had with

the company who made my printer, who didn't have a chat option online, who

only had an antiquated website with a very old Q&A

section that wasn't open forum that I didn't find answers on. I was able to

actually find answers to find answers through another vendor. Great customer

service versus Mac customer service. That shows up in your customers relationship.

Watch our videos on how to grow this relationships. We've produced quite

a few of them right here on this Six Figure Mastermind. So go check them out

and see what you think and see if you can find some ways for you to build

really amazing unique and very strong customer relationships in your

six-figure business. You know this. Customer relationships mean everything.

So comment below. Share with the mastermind what you're doing to enhance your

customer relationships. Remember to hit the subscribe button. Leave us a comment

and ring the bell. And I'll get an email to you when our next video comes out

tomorrow. I'll see you then

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