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and I'm really sorry I'm late I almost didn't do this at the hall tonight

because I was so I ran into technical difficulties and that I am seeing people

here which is really fantastic maybe maybe this hour later is better

this seems better so um anyway totally on the fly tonight because I don't even

know it set up as you can see I'm what kind of discombobulated here

and hopefully give me a thumbs up and stuff if you can hear me

that would be great and okay so I was going to try and talk about a couple of

things when I got a question about two narcissists together and kids you

narcissists make it relationship will work well we know that they can because

a lot of us have parents in such a case I mean most most of them don't last

obviously but there are quite a few relationships that last forever and

quite frankly some of the worst relationships that I know of there the

people are really the most abusive our relationships where people have stayed

married well look at the couple with us searching kids in California they just

got they just got arrested for the has a kids all locked up and chained up in

their house you know there's a perfect example but my mom my parents have been

you know together forever and then also my sons both they're both of their

primary girlfriends if they had in their lives both had long time married parents

that were truly some of the most dysfunctional people that I've ever ever

seen so I'm not obviously the ideal the ideal is to be like my husband now his

parents my in lot my parents in law they're the ideal they married young and

they're lovely and they're in love and they're great and healthy and they

raised two healthy kids and and all that but among the couples that I know that

have lived out the duration that they are the exception

the rule kids also like we have my grandparents also looked forever

I mean together forever and they were also these my dad's parents we're also

very very dysfunctional very very dysfunctional so but but we know they

can make it work so how are how is that working always and also like my husband

now I mean exhales my ex-husband is now with a woman it was just like him well

maybe not just like him but she's certainly not like me she certainly he

had transferred the target role he had transferred that on to my oldest son

Noah and the woman that he's with is much more like him so you know how is

that working well I actually did some research and I there's nothing about it

out there but I actually I'm consulted with was SamVaknin about it and you know

actually I'm gonna talk to him I'm talking with him in the morning about a

question that I had him and talk to you guys about that in just a second.

But anyway he's kind of a fascinating guy him and his wife it kind of pass

today anyways I so what basically the thing is

there is as long as they're not the same type cuz they'll tend to compete so

if they're both if they're both they say cerebral narcissists and they're both in

say scholars both both professors which actually I know I know a couple exactly

like this and they were competitive and they did last forever and ever and ever

and then they broke up in their 60s very strange or maybe even 70s I mean they

were they were they were grandparents they were you know had raised three kids

into their well into their 30s but maybe 40s even before they divorced so go

figure but they were both professors um and so as long as they they and actually

actually infinity both be narcissist but different kinds maybes are the ideal

because they will be flattering to each other

in different ways so and and the way that Sam Vakninr describes it is that

they will they will they will feel about the other person almost like a art

collector feels that his art collection or you know about like their prized

possession like that so say you have a cerebral is a narcissist with one that's

most somatic so when that's you know the tip of the stereotypical will be the

beautiful woman and the rich successful guy that's the very typical case so you

go right to Donald Trump you think you Donald Trump exactly do that so I don't

know I don't know if any of his ex-wives were current life are narcissists hard

to say but I wouldn't I don't think so because the kid seems sort of like they

have their heads on straight so you wouldn't that you think there'd be some

amount of somebody teaching them some kind of empathy or something of course I

have empathy and I was treated like she but I had grandparents really close by

you know coming I've also kind of the conclusion that if you have we have

healthy sir is where it was what we're seeking you know our our brains our

hearts and our butt or seeking health and so it's like if we can if there's

any way to get it we'll get it you know we'll try and really get it it's you

know and so I really think that even if you have it was just so devastating when

I was discarded and heard happening to me how I lost everyone and that was

because the good people that I had were elderly they let my ground hurts and

they had died but it was enough like I try not being this very empathic person

even without having empathic parents or empathic brother and even you know even

some of my closest friends and I'd chosen and but certainly boyfriends and

lovers and they you know I had picked a lot of people that were really really

you know low compassion low empathy people but yet I still was really I

really intact him see and so I think that if you just have

one person you know one really good person who loves you unconditionally and

is modeling that for you it you'll seek that you know you'll see you'll seek

help and so the thing to about the narcissistic couple is that it has to it

has to feed and so if they're the same kind of competing that won't be in the

narcissistic supply that's just it a little bit they'll bang out because I

mean that's a good play and so a narcissist will only he'll only provide

our six supply if it's doing it if it's also junior for him at the same time and

so that can work that can work in that like the relationship that I talked

about where this thematic in the cerebral were they're really different

also the inverted narcissist which is a term which I'm not completely

comfortable with or not but I I think I think this is what my mother is in fact

or at least was I think she might have become more of a best time went on I

think she changed but when I think when they early on I think that she was more

like he wasn't over at narcissist she had that tenancy she wasn't she

wanted to be that but she wasn't confident enough or didn't have she was

female she grew up poor and she just didn't have modeling know how to even be

that so I think she was attracted to that in my father and got to kind of do

it vicariously through him and then over time as she got a she matured and became

more of a equal and and all that I became more of her own her own over at

narcissistic self but I do and I do think that she's changed over time

well are they all actually they all have them that they've all only just gotten

worse in the disk art you know when the grandparents died straight downhill

after that and but yeah they just don't have gotten worse but the other thing

that's really really important that it is in fact in fact they

they're almost in some ways the only person that could really be with them in

it for the duration because they know what each other needs and they will

create and this is what my parents are doing and they were locked into it they

will they will they will be the keeper the curator and the you know the of the

memories so they will he won't stand out Lee when they get it when they're aging

and they're not now they don't have all the things they can go get the supply

fro now they have the person that will camera tell them

remember when and they can fix their memory for them so so they have each

other so they can both continue to be wonderful parents they can come with

their explanation but what happened to me and you know they can't they can just

rewrite history as a shared history that they like together better and keep it

going that way and there's really almost no one else that they can be in

relationship with and they almost aren't you know they almost really aren't they

have they live in a new place now where people didn't know me at all and so I'm

sure they've just rewritten history completely and written me right out of

it or made up some story about Who I am and then and then they as time went on

after the distaff of the discard I would you know come a contact with them every

every now and then and it had been like several years when my son died and so I

their Kate came some slight amount of contact when he died no no they came

over and you know had to be compassionate parents and loving parents

not like that but I think I got you know like a text message or something and but

it wasn't long before the point of it was where I was clear at the point of it

was to get not to supply that they that it was clear that she had contacted me

to find out that I was in pain and to tell me her version of the story and so

and the version of the story had just continued to get

you know that they'd written they'd written basically it has been like 16

years and they had written all of it out but about six months baby is written

that whole story out except for about six months and you know like and even

that was it even that was really tainted and twisted but it was six months of

served their purposes and so and and then those six months were from about

like 2003 he knows it was a long time ago but you know it said that you know

that they they they anybody else would mess with their would mess with their

false reality so that's that's what I see is they just you know how else are

they going to keep it going so but thanks for being here I'll talk with you

later all righty bye-bye

you

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What's the Relationship Between Law and Gospel? - Duration: 2:37.

- [Don Carson] The relationship between law and gospel is complex because it can

be measured along more than one axis. At the level of redemptive history,

the history of God's unfolding plan in the Bible, law simply precedes gospel.

That is to say, the covenant of law operates from the giving of the law at the

time of Moses until it is superseded by the New Covenant in Jesus' blood.

But it is actually more complex than that. After all, there is a sense in which the

good news is preached to Abraham, which precedes law. So in that sense,

you also discover that there is a great deal of grace in law.

God gives the law for gracious purposes and there is demand in grace.

So, at the conceptual level, there is a difference in emphasis.

Law makes demands. It does other things. It also makes promises,

and the demands are not simply because God wants to say, "Do this. Don't do that."

But for our good, the law has a restraining function.

But it does make demands and the law is not intrinsically powerful enough

to transform us. It can motivate us to some extent with threats and promises,

but it is not a life-transforming thing. By contrast, grace becomes a kind

of cipher word that covers the entire gospel of Christ Jesus.

And this grace works in us, not only to remove our guilt because

of Christ's cross work on our behalf, but also to transform us by regeneration,

to empower us by the work of the spirit, all given by God's free grace.

And this grace is powerful enough to change us. So, there is a sense in which

grace enables us to meet better conduct that the law itself demands,

yet at the end of the day, grace must pay for all the deficit

for all the sin. Grace must be the basis of our confidence

before God because we are never going to make it otherwise. Grace will so

triumph in the end that we will be transformed not only

in substantial measure, we will be transformed into the glorious

likeness of Christ's resurrection body where we will sin no more and see no more

if sin's effects upon us. All of this springs,

at the end of the day, from grace, not from conformity to the law.

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No Uralic Family? No Hungarian-Finnish relationship? - Duration: 3:53.

"The truth should not be proclaimed but searched for".

We are taught that there is a Uralic language family.

We are taught that Hungarian and Finnish are genetically related languages.

This is false!

But why is false information taught to us?

We can learn the reasons why textbooks teach this falsity as well-established facts from

Professor Angela Marcantonio's book: The Uralic language family.

Facts, myths and statistics.

There is a historical explanation: it's the Darwinian model's effects on linguistics

in the 19th century.

But there is more!

Did you know that the Uralic-Hungarian genetic relationship theory was promoted by the Austrian-Hungarian

Monarchy?

The author wants to draw attention to the term 'theory'.

As it is a theory, it's not veritable nor falsifiable, it implies that it's not based

on 'scientific evidence'.

She tells us why linguists believe in the validity of the theory.

They simply assume that the Uralic paradigm was established scientifically and nobody

questioned it ever again.

She criticizes the method as well.

The Uralic language family is established by means of the Comparative Method, however

there are many problems with its application.

First of all, comparing random words, it 'fails to distinguish whether the corpus is the result

of a true linguistic connection or chance resemblances.'

Second, the reconstructions of the Proto-Uralic node contain more sound-rules than regular

etymologies.

Third, it's impossible to distinguish inherited elements from borrowings because borrowed

elements assimilate to the sound system of the language in a short time, if not the very

time of the borrowing.

It means, that it's impossible to claim whether a linguistic connection is a result

of common ancestor, borrowings or chance resemblances.

Well, if the linguistics don't help us to collect evidence for the Uralic theory, let's

search for evidence from other fields!

She examines the historical sources and proves, archeological findings and genetic evidence,

but at the end she draws the conclusion: neither linguistic, nor historical, archeological

or genetic evidence exists.

The whole Uralic language family and the Uralic-Hungarian relatedness are just theory without any evidence.

The final conclusion is that 'the correlation among the Uralic languages and between the

Uralic languages and their neighbours form a dialectal continuum.'

The author sees a connection among the so-called Altaic and Uralic languages.

Hungarian has a particular importance as it has an extremely poor correlation with Ugric

and Finnic languages.

If it's really needed to classify this language, it would be better to categorize it as an

'Inner Asian' language as the historical sources testify to this view.

To sum up, the biggest matter is the lack of scientific evidence which if not available

any theory remain only a theory.

It's not only extremely good and comprehensive book about the foundation of the Uralic theory,

but you can also acquire more and other useful knowledge about linguistics and the

issues in the field.

For more infomation >> No Uralic Family? No Hungarian-Finnish relationship? - Duration: 3:53.

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Robert Irvine Show(May 02, 2018) Former guests with anger and relationship issues - Duration: 43:21.

For more infomation >> Robert Irvine Show(May 02, 2018) Former guests with anger and relationship issues - Duration: 43:21.

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"Rich Man, Poor Woman" Reveals Spunky Character Posters And Relationship Chart(News) - Duration: 3:18.

"Rich Man, Poor Woman" Reveals Spunky Character Posters And Relationship Chart

Rich Man, Poor Woman have released their official character posters.

The upcoming drama is about Lee Yoo Chan (played by EXOs Suho), a cold CEO who cannot recognize peoples faces, and the bright, optimistic employment-seeking Kim Bo Ra (played by Ha Yeon Soo), who has an incredible memory. Soompi. Display. News. English.

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In the character posters, each of the four main leads stand in front of a letter, with the four letters spelling out rich. Suho stands in front of the R, dressed as a CEO of a company and gazes coldly at the camera.

Ha Yeon Soo poses cheerfully for the camera. Oh Chang Suk, the vice president of the company, looks smart and dandy as he grins. Kim Ye Won is fashionably dressed and smiles coyly.

The relationship chart shows the complex histories and futures between the four leads. Lee Yoo Chan is the 29-year-old CEO of Next In.

He and Kim Bo Ra, the 24-year-old university student who will graduate soon, slowly start to like each other. Min Tae Joo (played by Oh Chang Suk), the 35-year-old vice president of Next In, is interested in Kim Bo Ra.

Kim Ye Won plays his sister, 29-year-old Min Tae Ra, a curator and gallery owner. She is interested in Lee Yoo Chan.

The chart also shows the relationships between the leads and supporting characters. Park Hyun Woo plays Michael, a catholic priest and Lee Yoo Chans life counselor.

Lee Yoo Chan has a tense, business relationship with Jung Young Sook (played by Choi Ji Na), the Vice-Minister of the Ministry of Science and Information Technology. The Vice-Minister is also Kim Bo Ras helper.

Kim Bo Ra is a life mentor to Kim Boon Hong (played by Kim Min Ji), who happens to be Lee Yoo Chans first love.

Kim Bo Ra also has a roommate and best friend Park Mi So (played by Yun Da Yeong), a soon-to-be college graduate herself.

Rich Man, Poor Woman will air its first episode on May 9 at 11 p.m. KST, and will be available on Viki!. If you havent already, watch the teaser below!.