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Hey, people what's up this is miracle we and today we are going to talk about 7 signs that'll

tell you if you're in an unsuccessful relationship or not.

Relationships, undoubtedly are of utmost importance no matter from where are you, and from which

social settings you're coming from.

Some take pride in their relationships, some flaunts it, but everyone cheers their relationships

in there own ways.

But with every relationship come things like, break ups, insecurities, and lots of drama.

And today we're going to discuss 7 such signs which can lead to a break up and you

should not ignore them, If your partner displays one or more of these signs, you'd better

re-think your relationship.

It is easy to recognize in the earliest stages that a friend is in a toxic relationship but

what if it is you who is in a bad relationship?

It is very common to become blind.

You stop noticing all the drawbacks and start to ignore signs telling you that a relationship

may be harmful.

so, first things first, there's a difference between using and checking, so If your partner

goes through your phone or reads your emails, always peeping through gallery and chat boxes

it means your relationships has lost its trust.

If your man invades your privacy like this he doesn't respect you.

Second thing, If he is controlling you, saying things like don't wear that, and forcing

you to get a haircut of his choice, or get bothered about your make up and he tells about

it all the time, that's a warning sign for you.

Because, no one have the right to tell you how to present yourself.

He forbids you to See Your Friends If your partner doesn't let you see your friends

and gets angry about it this is a bad sign.

No one can prevent you from meeting with your social circle or your friends and family.

For any reasons if You're Afraid To Express Your Opinion it's a sign on which you should

work as soon as possible.

A healthy relationship should be based on trust, honesty and respect.

If you can't be honest with your partner, it may be a sign that you need to rethink

your relationship.

He Tears You Down whenever he gets chance to do it.

A man who really loves you, won't insult you at every opportunity he gets.

If he does this then you are in a toxic relationship.

Remember, that you deserve compliments from man that will make you laugh and let you shine

by his side.

Though this particular point can depend on couples too but also if you guys tend to pull

each other legs often.

Make sure you do it all in private without hurting each other and cherish each other

when in public.

Now, this is a big problem, If he Controls Your Money, you should stop him or leave him.

It's important for you to be financially independent.

If your man controls how much and in what way you spend your money, you might be in

a toxic relationship.

If you want to protect yourself in case of a break-up, stop being dependant on someone

else.

Keep money out of your relationship and you'll be more successful as money can ruin things

in more than one way.

Did you heard your best friend / family members saying that you're looking upset since you

went in relationship ? If yes, there is a chance that they are right.

You may be blind and don't want to see it.

But you should listen to the people who love you and analyze all of, from you are going

through.

Love can make us blind, we refuse to leave our partner because of this strong feeling

and bond we share with each other.

They may hurting you in direct or indirect ways and despite you've told them number

of time, they aren't stoping repeating themselves.

Reason can be any, but if this is a case and if you're hearing me.

Stop and think what you've wished for and what are you getting.

Coz if you are in a toxic relationship your heart knows it, and you should stop ignoring

it, listen to it, and get out of this relationship and build some useful thing for yourself,

for once.

Thank you for being here and if you agree with what I've said, hit that subscribe

button, you can share your experience with us, seek for any advices we'll be in touch

with you.

Send us messages, or your queries on our instagram or Facebook page.

And share this video among your circle and with anyone you think should know this.

We'll meet next week till than have a sweet time with your family and friends :)

For more infomation >> 7 Signs : You Are In An Unsuccessful Relationship || MIRACLE WE - Duration: 4:38.

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How To Stay Feminine In Relationships - Duration: 9:23.

hello and welcome to feminine success secrets the place women come to become

powerfully feminine I'm Candice Oneida today I want to answer a question by a

subscriber dodo Shahin writes I love your videos I'm a new subscriber I

stumbled across your channel while I was trying to learn more about femininity

her question is I have a problem which is I can't commit in a relationship

because after a while it becomes boring and I don't feel the rush or attraction

could you please advise how to stay feminine and stay in a relationship I

love you so much

it's funny Dodo because your question how to stay

feminine and stay in relationship is the answer in that if you want the

relationship to work you need to get into your feminine the relationship is

probably not working because of the habit of taking charge taking control

leading not allowing the man's masculine to come forward so one of the things in

my mission that I've been really intent on doing is I have so many women that

would come to me and say something like but how can I be in my feminine you know

he's not leading and he's not doing what he should do and I'm not feeling met my

needs aren't being met it's like whoa sister Oh take a breath what if by

understanding that in your feminine power the more you get into your

feminine polarity the more you get into your feminine orientation you lead

through receptivity let me repeat that when we get into our feminine we create

a space a vessel if you like a container into which a man's masculine can be

invited into which a man can pour his leadership pour his beautiful masculine

power and energy into you now I was a woman that definitely would do

this thing where if the man was not Manning up leading making decisions

making me feel safe feeling protected and all that kind of thing my masculine

would just come on in and take charge and there's two issues here I was

previously in relationships with men who didn't know how to do that and so

because I did because of my training and I'm a strong woman I would take the

masculine pole so if they already don't own that pole and I come in and take it

there's no room for them to be able to learn how to do that

so that's one issue the second is if you're more in a dating or a new

relationship scenario situation you're attracting the wrong kind of men so dodo

you may be in a situation where that's what happens and so I made another video

I'll put a link up here which is was about why being in your masculine won't

work in relationships it's because when were in our masculine as women there's

no space for hits there's no space for the man's masculine to thrive and

flourish and if it is that you actually want a very strong man a man who was

strongly in his masculine and not strongly in his feminine then I would

suggest that you learn how to be in your feminine now I think the thing is one of

the things that we end up having to deconstructors women is that we've been

taught through our lives and through society and through all sorts of levels

of education we could even say thousands of years of masculine power being

dominant that the feminine needs weak is lesser than is secondary somehow now

whether I'm putting words to something that has gone on in the background of

your head and justified why you've gone into your masculine to be powerful and

strong and to take charge and control and to get shit done then this is

exactly why I'm here we're here to deconstruct the

foundational beliefs that have actually made us go into man mode BNL masculine

exert ourselves through that lens of being powerful and successful I'm here

to show you that the feminine is equally as powerful you can be equally as

successful you can in fact the point I'm making here is you can get more of what

you want by learning to be in your feminine power and when I say learn

really of course I'm saying relearn because there's a woman in a woman's

body all the know-how is inside of us and so I'm here to teach you how to

tease it out how to bring it out of you in order that you can start to

experientially embody what it feels like to be feminine what it feels like to be

in something more fluid more circular something less directional and forward

moving something that's more in the orientation of being and receiving

rather than that of constantly doing and acting learning how to be in the

orientation of surrender and letting go versus taking control and holding the

reins all of the time you need that sound familiar

so when dodo you're asking the question about how can I stay in a relationship

and stay in my feminine well if you're wanting to really know what it means to

be feminine then I would insist that you try and you learn the skills of feminine

power and then see if it turns things around in your existing relationship or

you may just find that that person doesn't have a strong masculine pole and

doesn't know how to exert that sense of polarity now I often do this thing with

my hands where I'm talking about masculine feminine priorities this thing

that does this and it's a good thing when I do that gesture it's because I

remember in biology when I was a kid in high school that when you'd watch

television underneath the microscope you'd see when the sperm fertilized the

ovum you'd see this thing where the cell division would happen and then two cells

would go BAM and it's like underneath the microscope boys go wow that's life I

can see life happening and then they come back together and they do their

thing and and then four cells would separate it was

like seeing the force of life and the beautiful power of polarity underneath

the microscope and this is actually what we're wanting to create in a

relationship dynamic we want strong polarity now this video is not so much

about when you swap polarity cuz some relationships they can swap between

masculine and feminine a bit that can happen but whether you're straight or or

gay I have noticed the gay couples always take a poll and it's beautiful

that there's a strong masculine and feminine poll whether you're gay or

lesbian couple and the reason for this is the law of nature behind this there's

something that's beautiful in the person that brings the masculine strongly in

the relationship and the person that brings the feminine strongly in the

relationship as in for me I said to be more in my feminine in my life in

general but definitely in my relationship and the more I've learned

how to do that well at the moment I've tracted incredibly masculine man

incredibly masculine so in his masculine polarity and so then it becomes even

easier for me to be in my feminine because he's come forth and he's

beautiful masculine ah I can like go and sink into his masculine it encourages my

feminine Ford and then we have this beautiful circle of encouraging each

other's masculine and feminine to be in the relationship and then what happens

is this co-creative dynamic back to the under the microscope image right is this

beautiful sense of creation of life going on right I'm not talking about

necessarily having two co-creators in be in business with each other or something

but there's a vibrancy in the dynamic in a relationship when there's a strong

masculine and feminine pole being held by the two individuals so I would love

you to put a comment below on any challenges or experiences that you are

having with regards to you being in your feminine polarity in the relationship or

even in the dating scenario if you liked the video today give me a thumbs up

if you haven't subscribed I encourage you to subscribe over here as I publish

every single Sunday and remember when you have the courage to go out there and

shine you give others permission to do the same so let's go out there and shine

this week bye bye for now

For more infomation >> How To Stay Feminine In Relationships - Duration: 9:23.

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Are your past toxic relationships affecting your life today? CLIP 2 - Duration: 2:34.

When relationships are unhealthy when they manipulative when they are toxic

When there is high

expectations that are

unreasonable or for some reason those are we that we are in relationship with can simply not live up to those expectations

We can experience our

relationships as quite distressing we see symptoms of of a great deal of stress we see symptoms of anxiety and depression

When relationships are unwell?

We all have to learn how to be in relationship. That's why we are in relationships. That's why we are drawn to relationships

It's because we want to learn and we want to grow we may not be aware of that

But that is what we do and if we are in relationships

We do grow if we allow that to be part of our experience

We all have to learn how to be in relationship

some of us have really good role models and life and

they teach as well and

For most of us our own role models are often not that good

And we need to learn how to communicate we need to understand our own

Expectations the expectations that we have of others and what our needs are around those expectations

In relationship to especially with our partners and our children it is often

We bring in unmet childhood

needs that were not met in childhood that we now want these are the significant others to meet for us

And they are simply not in a position to do that

So if we look at relationships we need to pay attention to the well-being of our relationships

We need to pay attention to how well we are in relationships

And if we have difficulty or when we have difficulty we need to know when to seek support

How do we navigate the difficulties?

How do we have an understanding of what is happening for us and for the other and?

We need to learn so if you feel that we can be of assistance

Please contact us on our Australian number 1300 001 220 we'd love to hear from you

Thank you. Bye

Alternativly contact us on Sandra.Bowden@newlandscounselling.com.au

For more infomation >> Are your past toxic relationships affecting your life today? CLIP 2 - Duration: 2:34.

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[HEALTHL] 6 Things You Need to Know About Starting a Relationship Later in Life - Duration: 3:02.

6 Things You Need to Know About Starting a Relationship Later in Life

If you're reentering the dating game after being out of it for a long time, don't fret: No matter how long it's been since you were single, you can navigate the new waters like a pro and find the partner you've been looking for.

But first, there are a few things you should be aware of.

Read on to discover exactly what you need to know about dating later in life, whether you're simply looking to dip your toes in the water or are ready to dive into a new relationship head first. Tinder Isn't Just for Teens.

Believe it or not, Tinder is a great place for older generations to meet, says Jenni Skyler, PhD, director of The Intimacy Institute for sex and relationship therapy in Boulder, Colorado. And it's not just for hooking up: Dr.

Skyler says that many of her patients have had more luck finding a relationship on Tinder than through online dating sites like Match.com.

"I think the level of rejection is less painful on Tinder, and it's easier to log on to an app than a website," she says. It's Helpful to Make a List of the Qualities You Want in a Partner.

Just because you're dating later in life doesn't mean you can't still have deal breakers. But when you're anxious to meet someone, it can be easy to ignore red flags, notes Skyler.

To stay focused on finding the right person, make a list of the qualities you want in a mate. "Doing so is a great way to balance your head and heart," she says. It's Ideal if You Both Have Kids.

If one of you has children, it's best if the other does, too, regardless of their ages, says Skyler. "There's this understanding that your kids come first," she explains.

When one person has kids and the other doesn't, issues like jealousy and power struggles can arise. You Still Need to Have the Sex Talk.

You might be nervous about getting busy with someone new, but it's important to communicate with your partner before hitting the sheets. "You need to talk about your sexual health, your desires, and what your boundaries are," says Skyler.

Doing so will make both of you more comfortable — and the conversation is an indicator that you're ready to take the relationship to the next level. It's a Good Idea to Examine Past Relationships.

"If you're divorced, it's for a reason," says Skyler.

"Maybe the sex got bad or you grew apart, but there were valid problems." To avoid making the same mistakes twice, it's beneficial to reflect on previous relationships and notice patterns in your behavior (for example, maybe you always shut down at the first hint of criticism, or you tend to get jealous easily).

Taking a hard look at yourself and your former relationships will help you reverse bad habits and find a relationship that works. Erectile Dysfunction at an Older Age Is Normal.

Men in their fifties and beyond may need a little extra time and stimulation to get an erection, notes Skyler.

And while that's totally normal, "having erection issues can make men shy away from dating or rely on taking Viagra more than they need to," she explains. She advises her male clients to have an open conversation with their partner.

Keep it light and playful by saying something like, Even though my penis is sometimes slow to the join the party, when it does, it will be well worth the wait..