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Niharika Singh breaks her silence on relationship with Nawazuddin Siddiqui!

Bollywood actor Nawazuddin Siddiqui, who has impressed the audience and critics alike with his performances,.

is all set to unveil his autobiography, An Ordinary Life: A Memoir.

The 43-year-old actor stunned his fans with some shocking revelations in his biography, An Ordinary Life.

Siddiqui, a married man, did not shy away from making his brief relationship with Miss Lovely co-actor Niharika Singh public.

In the book, he claims that was in a relationship with Niharika during the filming of Miss Lovely.

From making passionate love to Niharika's faux fur, Nawazuddin divulged personal details in his biography.

The revelations have not just come as a shocker to his fans, but also to Niharika.

A source in the know told that though Nawaz had informed Niharika about him mentioning about their affair in the book,.

the actress wasn't aware about the extent to which he will describe their relationship.

Hence when the excerpts from the book came out, she was left a little surprised!.

While talking to bollywoodlife.

com, Niharika says, "Nawaz and I had a brief relationship during the making of Miss Lovely that lasted less than a few months in 2009.

So today when he paints me as a woman in fur enticing him into her bedroom with candles, or desperately calling him and mailing other women on his behalf, I can only laugh.

He obviously wants to sell his book and it would appear that he is willing to exploit and disrespect a woman just to do so.

He has chosen to fabricate stories and manipulate a fleeting relationship.

"None of what he has written has been with my knowledge, let alone my consent.

It is this very aspect of Nawaz that caused me to end my relationship with him in the first place.

I have always maintained that he's a brilliant actor.

However, I had hoped these acting skills would have remain confined only to the screen.

Still, I wish him well.

This is all I have to say." she added.

For more infomation >> Niharika Singh breaks her silence on relationship with Nawazuddin Siddiqui! - Duration: 3:29.

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Relationship Reboot: How To Be A Good Man To The Women You Know - Duration: 4:27.

For more infomation >> Relationship Reboot: How To Be A Good Man To The Women You Know - Duration: 4:27.

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Local university combats abusive relationships among college students - Duration: 2:23.

For more infomation >> Local university combats abusive relationships among college students - Duration: 2:23.

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The inter-relationship of mental health states: Language matters - Duration: 9:10.

The diagram that you have in front of you

helps us understand mental health and mental illness

better.

In our field, we are often confusing each other

by the language that we use.

When we use a phrase such as mental health issue,

nobody really knows what we're talking about.

A mental health issue could be a two-year-old having a temper

tantrum, or it could be a 17-year-old

in the middle of a psychotic break,

or it can be a 16-year-old girl with severe panic attacks so

bad that she can't go to school, or it

can be a 20-year-old college student who is housebound

because of social anxiety.

Those things are all very, very different,

and it is really important that we understand

what we're talking about.

Because if we don't understand what we're talking about,

if we don't use the right language,

how can we intervene effectively?

On this triangle at the bottom, you

will see a category that says, no distress, problem,

or disorder.

That is many of us much of the time.

We're having fun with our friends and with our families.

We're off at school doing our work.

We're enjoying ourselves in a recreational activity,

or even asleep.

So much of the time over a 24 hour period,

we can be in that zone of having no distress, no problem,

or no disorder.

On the other hand, all of us experience,

over the course of pretty well every single day,

mental distress.

And mental distress is the brain's signal to us

that we have a problem in our environment

that we have to deal with.

And this signal tells us we need to adapt,

we need to solve the problem.

The signal, which we call the stress response,

is the basis of resilience.

It's the basis of adaptation.

And once we successfully solved the problem,

the stress response goes away.

We no longer feel distressed, and we have

another arrow in our quiver.

We have not only become more resilient,

but we have developed new skills.

And we need to ensure that we don't protect

young people for these slings and arrows

of outrageous fortune.

Because it is through engaging with the normal stressors

of life that we develop the capacity to become

successful adults.

The next part on this triangle is

labeled mental health problems.

And mental health problems also arise

from environmental stressors, but these are stressors

that are quite intense.

They're not like taking an exam, or going for a job interview,

or not making the school basketball team,

or being rejected on your request for a romantic evening

with someone that you fancy.

These are serious things like your parent died,

or you've lost your job, or you're moving to a new country.

And they also elicit a stress response.

And this stress response is also normal.

When someone dies, it's normal to grieve.

When you lose your job, it's normal to feel demoralized.

And when we have these feelings, we

reach out to other people for support,

and guidance, and assistance.

But we don't need psychiatrists or clinical psychologists

if we lose our job.

We need a job.

And here we have to be very careful not to medicalize

normal human experience.

Mental health problems can be difficult.

They can be challenging.

They can hurt emotionally.

But as a species, we've learned how

to get through these things, and we count on each other

to help us.

We also have socially sanctioned healers that assist.

If we're religious, we go to our religious leaders.

If we're more secular, we often go to people like counselors.

That can be quite helpful.

And we always rely on family and friends.

At the top of the triangle are mental disorders.

These are the illnesses that are found in ICD or DSM

categorizations.

They are internationally agreed upon as diagnoses.

And they're very different than a mental health problem.

And they're very different than the mental distress signal.

They require therapeutic evidence-based interventions

provided by people who have been specially

trained in how to do that.

And we don't progress from distress to disorder.

This is not a spectrum.

This is not a continuum.

We can feel unhappy and distressed,

and we can feel very unhappy if we have a disorder.

Those emotions occur across each of these components.

And this is really important.

This and is we can be in every single one of these states

at the same time.

For example, an individual can have attention deficit

hyperactivity disorder, ADHD, which is a mental disorder.

They can be dealing with the loss of a loved one,

say their mother, so they're going through grief.

They can be experiencing distress.

They didn't make the school basketball team.

And they can be having no distress, no problem,

or no disorder at the moment, as they're

hanging out with their friends, enjoying watching a movie.

And these things can be happening

all in the same period of time.

All these are components of mental health.

We can have mental health and mental illness

at the same time.

These are not separate categories.

And it's very important that we tailor our interventions

to the state in which the person is in.

Intervening for normal expected mental distress

can cause problems for young people.

It can make it difficult for them to learn how to adapt.

It can lead to things like learned helplessness.

I can't do with.

A mental health problem that requires additional supports,

but it doesn't require medications,

and it doesn't require CBT, cognitive behavioral therapy,

or specialized clinical psychological treatments.

However, if somebody has a mental disorder,

then we have to provide best evidence-based treatments

for them.

And so let's use the language correctly.

If we mean mental distress, let's

use words such as disappointed, disgusted,

angry, pessimistic, distressed, to clarify what state we're in.

If we're dealing with a mental health problem,

let's use words like sorrowful, demoralized, grieving,

despairing.

Those are good words to describe a mental health problem.

And if we're describing the mental disorder,

well, let's use the word depression.

If we use the word depression for every single one

of those states, I have no idea what you're talking about,

and you have no idea about what I'm talking about.

It's really essential.

Our language has many different ways

of expressing the nuances of all these important emotional

states.

Let's not confuse them.

Confusion can lead to inappropriate treatment.

Confusion can lead to protecting people

from the challenges of life that they need to embrace themselves

in order to become successful, independent, resilient

human beings.

So let's think about our language.

When we're using the word depression,

let's use it to mean depression and not

every single negative emotional state that we experience.

For more infomation >> The inter-relationship of mental health states: Language matters - Duration: 9:10.

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Justin Bieber & Selena Gomez: 13 Moments That Defined Their Rocky Relationship - Duration: 7:06.

Justin Bieber & Selena Gomez: 13 Moments That Defined Their Rocky Relationship

It is absolutely mind-blowing that after all theyve been through, Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez are now hanging out again as pals. Weve got 13 moments that defined their road from romance to friendship.

Justin Bieber, 23, and Selena Gomez, 25, have come full circle. From friends in 2009, to sweethearts for years  and back to pals again in 2017.

Theyve had so many defining moments in the saga that is Jelena, and weve got 13 of the most memorable ones.

After being pals yet rumored to be dating in 2010, the couple finally made it official in 2011 when they showed up at the Vanity Fair Oscars party together.

They even posed together on the red carpet and made out in the photo booth kissing in iconic pics that signaled the official coming out of their romance.

One month later in Mar. 2011, Selena went on the Ellen show and finally confirmed to the world that they were dating.

The 59-year-old host even gave her a hard time for staying quiet about it for so long, telling the singer, He's a fantastic guy. You can't try to hide that forever." In Aug.

of that year, she sweetly kissed her man before he went onstage to accept the Top New Artist at the Teen Choice Awards and they glowed when they attended the AMAs in Nov., kissing on the red carpet.

While the couple attended the awards show together again in 2012, they split up for the first time in Nov. While there were rumors of cheating, the reason was never fully clear. "I don't know what to say.

I don't know what's going on in my life, the Biebs told a radio host at the time.

Things were up in the air between the two until Justin posted an Instagram pic of him shirtless and snuggling Selena in May of 2013.

OMG, were they back together? Later that spring at the Billboard Awards, they were caught on camera in a backstage run-in where she gave him a friendly kiss on the cheek and they talked for a hot minute.

By 2014, all was right with the world as Jelena was spotted riding segways together, grabbing breakfast and doing all sorts of things that couples do.

Justin finally admitted they were a couple again via a police report, after he crashed his ATV while the couple was vacationing in his native Canada in August of that year.

Things fell apart again shortly after that and by Dec. 2014 he responded Im super single in a tweet about rumors that he started dating model Haley Baldwin, 20.

2015, Jelena fans finally got the proof that the couple might be back on when a video went viral showing the singer playing the piano in a LA hotel bar while serenading Selena! Several days later a another video surfaced of them slow dancing together.

What did this all mean? It was all the more confusing because in interviews following the release of Purpose, he said that their breakup had been really tough on him and that she was his first real love, and was still  someone I love dearly. See Jelenas most romantic pics, here.

All hope seemed lost when the Biebs spent New Years in St. Barts with Haley, and continued dating her into the early months of 2016.

But WAIT! By March, Justin posted an epic Instagram throwback pic of the former couple kissing, which Selena wrote perfect in the comments. That had fans SO hopeful that something was up between the pair.

A defining moment in the couples history came when Selena stunned fans days later by showing up at Justins Los Angeles Purpose tour stop on Mar.

She was photographed in the audience smiling and gazing at the singer, and Jelena fans absolutely LOST IT as it was the first physical public proof in months that they were still close.

Then all fell quiet on the Jelena front. Selena ended up going to rehab in the fall of 2016 for lupus-related issues while Justin continued on his world tour.

0f 2017, the Hands to Myself singer was spotted putting on a massive PDA show with The Weeknd, 27 after a romantic dinner in LA. It turned into a full-blown romance and the pair have been happily dating ever since.

There was no sign that Selena and Justin would ever reunite until he was spotted arriving at her Studio City home on Oct. 22, where the two spent hours together surrounded by friends.

While shes still with The Weeknd, he was away on tour and reportedly was okay with Jelenas hang-out, in which they probably spent plenty of time discussing her alarming medical crisis where she underwent a kidney transplant over the summer.

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