Hi, this is Dr. Sharon Cohen.
I work with professional women who despite having great success at work fail at making romantic relationships work.
And I help them have stable, committed, deeply loving relationships. Today
we're talking about the second tip the second key to having deeply loving relationships.
The first part of this tip was about chemistry being a non-starter. If you don't have it,
it's a no-go. But today the second part of the second tip is about communication.
Communication: the good thing about it is it's something that can be taught improved or
learned and so if you have chemistry and
communication is a little bit off. It's something that can be worked on and it's something that I help my clients with
so if you're having problems with it, then you can seek out help with it.
So first of all there's a lot of powerful women out there who are doing really, really well at work
However the communication skills that they use at work aren't necessarily translatable into their personal,
romantic life.
They're wondering why they aren't doing better on those first or second dates or even a little bit further into the relationship.
I'm gonna start off with a tip about the
first date.
Sometimes you'll find out when that you're on a first date that the man is talking a lot about themselves
And you're not clear on why he's not asking more questions about you.
The thing is if the man asked you out then he's already interested in you. He's
finding just joy and being around your feminine essence, in your beauty, and he already knows that he likes you. Otherwise
he wouldn't have asked you out.
So when he's talking a lot about himself what he's doing is he's sliding his resume across the table to you to say "hey, listen
I'm a worthy guy. I'm an impressive guy, and I want you to know that. I'm worthy of you.
I want you to like me."
So that's why he might not ask you as many questions about you especially on the first date.
So this would be one reason why
you might not get as many questions asked on that first night.
It's not that he's a narcissist, which is a word that we love to throw around.
Although he may be but I wouldn't throw that word out on the first date. So that's my tip on
communication. I have many, many more, but just for today.
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