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Relationship Advice for Single People - Duration: 4:37.So tomorrow Instagram is going to be filled with photos of couples as it strikes midnight.
And it's gonna suck. What's up, watchers?
It's Jo and today's video is gonna be something a little serious. In case you missed this little detail in my
Reintroduction video: I have never been kissed. I have never been kissed. I have never been asked to a school dance.
I have been single my entire life. Middle school Jordan would tell you this is a travesty.
I'm 20 years old and no one has kissed me something must be wrong. Do you know how much energy
I wasted wishing that my life would be a teen romance movie?
It's a truly exhausting amount of brainpower and time that I will never get back.
It's really difficult growing up and seeing TV shows and movies and just seeing all kinds of stories where
two people end up together and
that's just not happening for you. I'm not gonna sit here and tell you that I'm over it.
I am clearly not. It sucks. That's the only way to put it it sucks.
It's also really difficult when you express
wanting to have that kind of love and people say, "Well, no, your family loves you and, no, your friends love you."
Those aren't the same thing.
I'm not going to sit here and tell you those are the same thing because, no, they're not and it sucks
to feel like you're not wanted the way that we're told
everyone is. Let me explain it to you
this way: The Greeks had this concept of six different kinds of love,
like agape love for the love of humanity or philia love between friends. That is different than
eros which is romantic love, love between lovers.
But there's still another kind of love in that mix that I want to talk, about the reason for this video is -
A name that I'm going to butcher -
Philautia?
Basically it means love for the self. In this instance, self
love is not the body positivity kind of love that I preach. Instead, this self
love is working on the relationship with yourself. How would you date yourself? You shouldn't accept garbage love
because you just want there to be love. You know, as much as I love it,
Instagram is going to be pain-in-the-butt tomorrow. /my timeline is just gonna be flooded with
couple midnight kiss photos, but there's gonna be other people who are gonna see that and feel lonely.
And I want to validate your experiences. I wanted to make this video for you because
I -
I never had this
There is one thing that I am sure of and that is you should not accept garbage love
just because you want a significant other. Just because you want someone to be there
it doesn't mean you should accept less than what you're worth.
Do you know what I've done while Prince Charming's off stuck in a tree somewhere?
I've consistently been on Honor Roll and Dean's List, gave six years of my life to a demanding as at Hell sport,
became editor in chief of my high school newspaper, written too awful books, earned miy Girl Scouts Silver Award,
became house manager of my chapter, made a whole bunch of videos and films, and
probably the most important and the one that I'm most proud of I
have been happy. So, either this video was a big help or a real downer, and I'm sorry it was so divisive, but I
really wanted to help out all the people who were kind of like middle school Jordan and just
felt really empty, it's -
It's not a way to go through life, and I want to help normalize that
it's gonna happen when it's gonna happen
and if anyone gives you flack for being twenty years old and having not had a kiss, they're just a garbage person
like.
Sorry. That's rude, and
your feelings are valid.
That's kind of the bottom line this.
If you feel lonely, your feelings are valid, and I want you to work on the relationship with yourself,
so that way you can help yourself because
that's the relationship that matters the most.
Cool?
All right cool. I have absolutely no idea where this video is actually going to go because I only scripted about half of it
But hopefully it was enjoyable, and if you did enjoyed it, like it and share it to help other single people like me.
If you want to see another one of my videos, here's something that YouTube thinks that you'll like and
I am back for winter break.
So, if you want to see more videos when school is like *Click* not a thing you can subscribe to my channel right around this area
Here. Remember, everyone: Agape Love.
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