💓💓Merry Christmas(late)🎄🎄
i was too nervous,i forgot everything!!
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Atlantic City Opens 227-Foot-Tall Ferris Wheel To The Public - Duration: 0:29.
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Watch Meghan Markle's First Public Curtsy: The Royal Custom Explained - Duration: 4:48.
Watch Meghan Markle's First Public Curtsy: The Royal Custom Explained
Christmas morning, Meghan Markle took part in her newest part of royal protocol: curtsying to the Queen.
She attended Christmas morning church services at Sandringham, one of the Queen's estates.
Those services were the site of her first public curtsy.
Curtseying out of respect to the Queen of England is an obvious matter of protocol.
But the question of who has to curtsey for whom becomes trickier as you go down the line of succession.
For instance, Markle must always curtsey for her future sister-in-law, Catherine, the Duchess of Cambridge.
However, for other women in the royal family, it will depend on the presence of their royal husband.
Markle would need to curtsey to Sophie, Countess of Wessex, only when Prince Edward is also in the room.
Perhaps more confusingly are those individuals whom Markle should sometimes curtsey for but sometimes receive a curtsey from.
She will normally have to curtsey before Princess Eugenie and of the royal blood: They were born royal.
But if Prince Harry is in the room with her, then the princesses will have to curtsy her instead because she takes Harrys rank, and Harry is the son of Prince Charles, who outranks his younger brother Prince Andrew.
Got that?.
For men, Markle's decision is made much more simple: If he's a prince, she curtsys.
The rules governing who curtsys to whom are not strictly based on the order of succession, but are rather based on a document from 2005 called the "'Precedence Of The Royal Family To Be Observed At Court.
" It was meant, those who study the royal family say, to keep Princesses Anne and Alexandra above Camilla in seniority at Court given that they had been serving the royal family much longer.
Princesses Anne and Alexandra, both blood princesses, had to curtsy to Charles first wife, Diana.
The British royalty adopted the curtsy is the 16th century, as a less formal alternative to a full-blown dropping to one's knees before royalty.
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Shameless star Tina Malone out in public for first time since panto sacking Breaking News - Duration: 8:50.
(Image: iCeleb) Tina Malone has been pictured for the first time since she was sacked from her pantomime role after admitting cocaine possession.
The 54-year-old was spotted looking glum as she ran errands in a pair of leather trousers and biker boots.
Tina appeared to be keeping a low profile as she went make-up free and wore her hair covered by a pink woolly hat.
Just days before Christmas, the Shameless actress was fired from her role as wicked fairy godmother Carabosse at the Cloud Nine theatre in Barrow-in-Furness, Cumbria following her arrest.
While she attempted to keep her head down as she indulged in some last minute Christmas shopping - Tina found herself stopped in the car park by a member of the public.
The passer by came over to give Tina a hug as she made her way into the supermarket. Since the arrest Tina has been branded a selfish diva by ex pantomime colleagues, who claimed she locked herself in the theatre's only toilet for hours, causing chaos for the young cast.
A former cast member said Tina would barricade herself in the only working toilet backstage, leaving child actors so desperate they would wet themselves.
She was arrested on Friday evening after police were tipped off she may be carrying the class A drug. She later accepted a caution.
A source told Mirror Online: 'She was an absolute nightmare. There was only one working toilet backstage and she would just sit in it for hours saying she was smoking. If you tried to go in she would scream and shout at you, even the kids were sworn at.
'With a cast of children the toilet needed to be available but Tina didn't care - she just wanted to stay in there. And when she wasn't in the toilet she was in her dressing room - surrounded by rolls of twenty pound notes.'
Shocked theatre staff also said she made no secret of her cocaine possession, adding she was heard asking for 'her little bag of snow' before going on stage.
Suspicious parents at the Sleeping Beauty pantomime also reportedly saw her with a white substance under her nose.
Tina Malone quizzed by police over claims she was taking cocaine during panto performances
A show source told the Sunday People: 'Tina had been asking people earlier in the evening if they had seen her 'little bag of snow'.
'She seemed concerned that it had gone missing. 'One of the parents at the panto noticed a white substance under her nose and asked what it was.
'She just winked and said 'It's showbiz snow'.' Liverpudlian Tina, best known for her role as foul-mouthed Mimi Maguire in Channel 4's Shameless, was pictured only hours before her arrest eating a takeaway burger in between shows.
Her four-year-old daughter Flame and husband Paul Chase, who is 19 years her junior, were in the theatre when police swooped.
She reportedly asked police not to handcuff her as she was led away while members of the audience were leaving.
Our source said: 'As she came off stage, she heard a rumour police had been tipped off she was using cocaine.
What did she come as? Tina Malone bares midriff in bizarre strapless bra and hotpants combo
'She tried to get a taxi, but police stopped her in time and took her inside the venue to search her. She begged the police not to handcuff her, and seemed very worried.'
A Cumbria police spokesman said: 'Police were called at 8:21pm on Friday to the report of a female being in possession of an illegal substance.
'A 54-year-old woman from Merseyside was arrested on suspicion of being in possession of a class A drug.
'The woman was detained whilst she helped police with their enquiries. She was later cautioned for the offence.'
After Tina's shock departure, production bosses drafted in a male stand-in, Alan French, for the final shows.
A spokesman for Joe Purdy Productions said: 'We and the artist involved have made a mutual decision to terminate contract with immediate effect as soon as we were made aware of the situation.
'The cast and crew were deeply shocked and saddened but in true panto spirit, the show must go on.'
But our source claimed the rest of the cast were pleased to see the back of 'diva' Tina, who has also appeared in Victoria Wood's sitcom Dinnerladies and C4 soap Brookside.
The source said: 'She was moody and always swearing, even at the kids.' Another show insider said: 'We had to move Tina from her original accommodation in a refurbished block of flats to one of the most expensive hotels in the area as she complained constantly.
'She didn't know the songs for the first show and one of the dancers had to sing it and she lost it with the kid and reduced her to tears. Tina didn't really mix with the rest of the cast.'
Tina was unavailable for comment despite repeated requests.
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Moscow Public Transport System | BEAM International Robot Games | Los Alamos Laboratory - Duration: 24:15.
at the beginning of time science Lagoon human time with might reduce of the
result much has been lost due to an energy
ingredient but the games are colossal due to our vision and insight
in agriculture we preview a futuristic Expo pavilion celebrating Britain's
biodiversity a major breakthrough in the treatment of cutaneous leishmaniasis a
parasitic disease affecting millions of people imagine a world where pint-sized
robots made from scrap metal can sumo wrestle their way to the top it might
not be too far away that's the message from scientists as we head to this
year's robot Olympic Games in New Mexico
we look at a future gone wrong where every Muscovites dream to own a motorcar
is poisoning the atmosphere of the Russian capital by heating co2 to a
supercritical liquid stage Los Alamos laboratories in the United States has
devised an alternative precision cleaning method to the hazardous dry
cleaning applications we have today
in nature art and technology combined with the best botanical specimens at the
famous Chelsea Flower Show
find out what's going on inside the Los Alamos laboratory famous for its
creations of nuclear weapons as diseased and abnormal tissues are not able to
withstand as much heat as normal tissue this thermo surgery instrument is
effective in curing a wide range of abnormal growths and diseases such as
leishmaniasis the instrument is able to heat a relatively small localized
current filled with the use of radiofrequency the tissue in the
treatment area is heated from within to a precise temperature that destroys the
diseased tissue while causing little or no damage to the normal tissue larger
areas can be treated using multiple applications which usually take about 30
seconds each here in southern Mexico dr. Oscar Velasco of the National Institute
of Epidemiology in Mexico City one of the country's leading parasitology
experts heads a program to treat indigenous people for leishmaniasis and
provide instruction for health workers
he was accompanied on this field trip to Key AAPIs by dr. Claudio meaned
in a small rainforest village they successfully treated 65 patients in a
few days this patient has an ulcer on her right shin
and this young man presents a typical lesion on his right arm and on his back
leishmaniasis is a parasitic disease that has been declared a world health
problem by the World Health Organization 12 million people in 88 countries are
affected and 350 million people are at risk of becoming infected the most
common form of leishmaniasis is the cutaneous form which produces chronic
skin ulcers leading to disfigurement and mutilation causing tremendous social and
economic problems this is a typical lesion on the forearm
of the young man we saw before
dr. Velasco estimates that 8 to 10,000 new cases of the disease appear each
year in Mexico this patient has an ulcer on his cheek it would eventually grow
bigger and disfigured his face if left untreated
since the thermo surgery instrument is so easy to use
dr. Velasco instructs several health workers in the operation of the device
and its technical features one treatment usually consists of one or more
applications of 50 degrees centigrade for 30 seconds which has to be repeated
until the infected area is covered
due to local anesthesia there is no pain involved and all the patients tolerate
the treatment very well
dr. Velasco is convinced that the thermo surgery instrument is the most effective
and affordable treatment for containing leishmaniasis this is an eight-year-old
girl getting treatment on her ear use of the thermo surgery instrument usually
achieves a 100% curing rate on lesions of the ear and the nose this patient
exhibits two large ulcers on his arm typical for cutaneous leishmaniasis here
he is treated by an indigenous health worker under the guidance of dr. Velasco
this indigenous woman has an extensive lesion on her right knee and is
receiving several treatments with the thermo surgery instrument the thermo
surgery instruments are currently being used in seven Mexican states
a recent study conducted by dr. Velasco on two hundred and thirteen patients
treated with the thermo surgery instrument yielded a 95 percent curing
rate with only 12 percent of patients requiring a follow-up treatment for dr.
Velasco the thermo surgery instrument has become the treatment of choice since
it is highly effective easy to use much less expensive than treatment with drugs
and totally safe the thermo surgery instrument a major breakthrough in the
effective treatment of cutaneous leishmaniasis
at the Los Alamos laboratories scientists from the supercritical fluids
experimental facility are taking technology that was originally used to
precision clean metal parts in nuclear weapons and modifying it to improve the
current practice of dry cleaning referred to as dry wash the application
is a fast non-toxic dry cleaning process based on liquid carbon dioxide or co2
that is applied through high-speed fluid jets liquid co2 is an odorless non
flammable non hazardous solvent that effectively removes oils sweat and dirt
from a wide variety of fabrics the co2 solvent is a far cheaper and safer
solvent to perform dry cleaning then the current hazardous solvent pro chloro
ethylene one of the largest cleanup efforts in the United States today is
sites with large groundwater contaminants from pro Clarett alene the
co2 application has no volume added wastes the only waste is the dirt and
particles that were already in the garment generally speaking this system
is both efficient and environmentally friendly very simply co2 is delivered in
liquid canisters once in the machine the pressure is increased to a desired level
then heated when it reaches the supercritical stage the co2 is exposed
to the cleaning modifying or treating process it then it is a separator which
converts it back into a gas phase the system is a continuous flowing system
and as there is nothing soluble in gas all the dirt and particles drop out
leaving the gas to go back into the pressure section and the process begins
again the research with co2 and supercritical fluids is far-reaching in
cover areas such as material modifications alternative solvent waste
minimisation chemical separations extraction of contaminants and solvents
chemical synthesis and polymer synthesis alternative solvent and waste
minimization involves experimenting with materials and aging and modifying
cements to a stage that would normally take hundreds to thousands of years some
instructions become stronger as they're exposed to our natural environment as
material naturally absorb co2 dramatically the co2 aggregation of the
supercritical gas phase adds predictability to the condition of
cement contain the cement will be twice as strong with this paper meaning that
some instructors need half the amount of material to produce gonna you know
extreme again refusal environmentally unfriendly voice this technology has
taken a complex application from the weapons industry and made it available
at a civilian level but the public and the government of America are excited
about the prospect of eliminate versus in replacing it with the
technology such as co2 dry wash Los Alamos Laboratories are equally excited
at being able to help protect the environment
there are long lines outside the Kremlin in Moscow but it's not tourists queuing
to see the treasures of the Tsar's but cars the number of motor vehicles in the
Russian capital has grown by 80% in the last 6 years
Lenin predicted that even in a capitalist system the car would always
be the privilege of the few following that philosophy no one was prepared for
the explosive development of the 90s when it became easy to buy cars today
the traffic in Moscow is catastrophic the United Nations Development Programme
is assisting the city in finding ways to make life easier for commuters while
reducing pollution imagine what a traffic cop is breathing the first phase
of the UNDP approach was a comprehensive study of Moscow's traffic problems the
idea was to identify prime targets for infrastructure improvement the views of
everyone involved from police to computers were taken into account the
first step will be to upgrade the alien public transport system and create lanes
for buses that are now getting stuck in traffic jams the pride of the Soviet
hero the Moscow subway is overcrowded and city stops at too far apart lines
will be extended to the surrounding communities that now form part of this
capital of over 20 million inhabitants a 1 billion dollar monorail is under
construction to connect the suburbs with a planned business center near the
Moscow brain Institute where legend has it Lenin's brain is preserved are the
officers of the UN agencies the priorities of the second program phase
are a traffic coordinating agency and the environment 80% of air pollution in
Moscow is generated by vehicles exceeding acceptable levels by 10 times
cars are regularly checked with UNDP donated equipment and all engines must
now be fitted with catalytic converters where the average salary is $100 a month
convert constitute a major expense so private
car owners cruisers unofficial taxis but the predominant source of air pollution
is trucks 69% of all road cargo in Russia has to pass through Moscow
terminals outside the urban area are on the list of improvements together with
more overpasses to eliminate traffic lights and reduce engine idling an old
railway around Moscow will be upgraded to reduce some of the road cargo and
commuter traffic to make rush hour driving ideally a pleasant experience
budding scientists around the world are redefining how we view robots no longer
are they simply life-sized human models designed to complete computer-generated
tasks for the people participating in these being international robot games it
is tiny fragile looking creatures that represent the future of robot design
this is the fourth annual robot Olympics in Santa Fe New Mexico where robot
assists from all over America have gathered to make the simplest model
possible competing in 14 different events they'll put their technical and
creative skills to the test hoping to produce small solar powered robots
designed to tackle tough challenges some will try their luck building and racing
leg robots over difficult terrain and racing swimming robots across fish tanks
others will battle in robot sumo wrestling one of the most popular events
of the games is solar rollers in this section competitors construct and race a
self-starting 6-inch dragster along a 1 meter glass track in full sunlight using
a 1.25 square inch solar panel for power like all solar powered robots a simple
circuit called a solar engine which stores the energy from the solar panels
and turns it into bursts of movement controls the solar roller the solar
engine is the simplest circuit and can be constructed around two transistors
the amount of movement it creates can range from 4 bursts a second to one a
day depending on the configuration solar roller competitors
along with everyone else in the competition are encouraged to use scrap
electronics to build their creation old Walkmans VCRs
CD players calculator solar cells and pages make the ideal materials this
minimalist branch of robotics is known as beam developed by Los Alamos National
Laboratory scientist mark Tilden the beam acronym stands for biology
electronics aesthetics and mechanics the basic principle is to make cheap
efficient and simple robots modeled on the repetitive biological processes of
insects rather than the complex human-like operations of traditional
robotics building large complex robots hasn't been entirely successful
so beams approach attempts to evolve robots from a lesser to a greater
ability as mother nature has done with biologics the scientific inspiration for
this new development comes from a combination of artificial intelligence
artificial life evolutionary biology and genetic algorithms the beauty of the
beam robots is that their simple design doesn't sacrifice their ability to
complete tasks solar rollers are still capable and agile despite costing less
than $20 to make even some $100 robots built from scraps are more adept at
handling terrain than expensive advanced computer robots the key to being robot
agility is the way they respond to their environment while many projects are
aimed at designing a robot that displays both cognitive thinking and reactions to
stimulus beam creator Marc Tilden has designed his robots not to think this
omission is based on the nervous Nets theory that dictates robots don't need a
brain to survive themed robots like insects are only given the equivalent of
a spinal cord allowing them to react spontaneously to stimuli given the
complex behaviors they produce nervous nets are surprisingly simple circuits
most have what is called a micro core which on average is built from only
eight to twelve transistors instead of just producing power the micro course
senses what is happening to the motor and makes necessary changes to produce
the most efficient gate for the robot but having the quickest gate is not all
that the judges are looking for at forums like this although there are gold
silver and bronze medals awarded for each event the emphasis here is not
uncommon it's all about innovation the forum offers robot enthusiasts a chance
to present their designs to each other and the world at large
those who invented beam robotics see the meaning of ideas as a way of improving
robot genetic stock creative ideas are rewarded in several special categories
there's the lunatic fringe award for ingenuity the special weirdness award
for bizarre innovations the ecology award for use of recycled materials and
the artificial life awards for robots with the greatest ability to look out
for themselves because of beam robotic simplicity anyone with a few basic
skills can build a robot Los Alamos scientists use these events to aid them
in their investigation of how these adaptive beam robots can be applied to
specific functions in space or on earth
scientists at Britain's Royal Botanic Gardens collect store and catalog seeds
from around the world they are steadily building up the world's most
comprehensive encyclopedia of plant varieties many little known or
threatened with extinction this is just one example of work towards protecting
the biodiversity of the planet that's being featured in the futuristic looking
British Pavilion at Expo 2000 the 170 country world fair opening in Hannover
in Germany later this year visitors to the British Pavilion will see four
separate displays of life in Britain with the underlying theme of diversity
alongside displays stressing environmental and demographic diversity
the spirit of diversity section features British achievement in fashion media and
the creative arts the government is confident the Expo will prove popular
both as entertainment and education the Expo will encourage debate to the world
is running short of water biotechnology can help develop crops like these rice
plants that can grow in draught prone soil but many fear the impact
biotechnology may have on biodiversity
the cultural scientist and broadcaster Robert Winston is organizing lectures on
some hot scientific issues like genetic engineering he is keen for open debate
on the human genome and how the human genes might be manipulated for good or
ill 40 million visitors are expected to tour Expo 2000 with a hundred and
seventy different pavilions to see it could prove a long day out but there is
no doubt this exhibit would keep the European public informed and entertained
looking at sketches of Los Alamos and its creations the Los Alamos National
Laboratory was established in 1943 it is located on the Pajarito plateau about 35
miles northwest of Santa Fe New Mexico the laboratory is most famous as being
the site where the world's first atomic bomb was created today Los Alamos is a
multidisciplinary multi program laboratory whose central mission still
revolves around national security Los Alamos original mission was to design
develop and test nuclear weapons and it is now broadened and evolved as
technologies US priorities and the world community have changed inside Los Alamos
is advanced technical equipment the core technical competencies developed in the
laboratory are for defense as well as civilian programs they're designed to
carry out responsibilities of national security and programs based in energy
nuclear safeguards biomedical science environmental protection and other basic
science research in other words Los Alamos is a Laboratory of academic
research and industrial production and helps to expedite the development and
commercialization of emerging technologies Los Alamos employs close to
10,000 people Los Alamos personnel consists of physicists engineers
chemists material scientists mathematicians and biological scientists
collaborations with universities for research
it is also heavily involved in providing educational opportunities to students
and professional scientists as well as collaborating with several universities
about research to develop resources for the future sketch of Los Alamos facility
the Chelsea Flower Show said in the grounds of the Royal Hospital in
London's fashionable borough of Chelsea is the unmissable event of a
horticultural calendar primed botanical specimens are set off by an engaging mix
of sculpture and Technology rubbing up against local roses and tulips at
Tropical displays like this marine inspired concoction from Malaysia
visitor numbers to this three-day melting pot of garden ideas are limited
to 160,000 water flows drips and cascades through many of the displays
this year the combination of water and some original outdoor artwork transforms
some of the plots into miniature sculpture gardens this mixture of
hi-tech and nature gives this year's Chelsea Flower Show rather a millennial
fever
and as a reminder that the information superhighway would be a grim place
without some green verges the organisers have put the show on the Internet a new
site caters to the millions who surf the web in search of horticultural
inspiration here's an idea for a front garden for someone with an astrological
frame of mind and for the back garden conservatories come in all shapes and
sizes but for people without large Gardens a new area of the Chelsea Flower
Show this year illustrates that limited space need be no barrier to inventive
design there's something here for every outdoor taste and whim
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How To Overcome Fear Of Public Speaking - Duration: 13:16.
Have you ever just been petrified to get in front of people, especially when it
comes to public speaking? You know it's the number one fear. Well you're not
alone and you're in the right place today because we're going to teach you
how to move past that and into your greatness.
Hey, Marianne DeNovellis here and today, let's talk about public speaking. Public
speaking is the number one fear in the entire world and I've been all over the
world, I've traveled to Kenya, I've been to South Africa, Bali, Peru, all over the
place, I've seen a lot of people and you know what? Based on my experience, it's
pretty true, I've seen even people who are defending their homes from lion
attacks and they are more afraid to stand up and speak in public than they
are to go protect their herd from a lion, it makes no sense when you really think
about it but that's what the experience is. The top fear, public speaking, second,
dying, third one, spiders. Who knew, right? So let's talk about, give this all of
this out of the way, let's get down to the nitty gritty on public speaking.
Now public speaking is the number one fear but why? Why is it the number one fear?
What are we really afraid of? Think about it, in fact, grab out a piece of paper,
grab a pen or a pencil, I don't care for the glitter gel pen or a Sharpie from
your bucket, I want you to write down all of the things that come up for you when
you have this fear of public speaking, I guarantee they're going to find some
things that sound like this, "What if I mess up? What if they don't like it? What
if I forget my lines? You've seen the YouTube videos of the people freaking
out cause they forgot what they were going to say. What if they don't think my message
is valuable enough? What if they don't ask me to come back?" All of these what if's
are going through your mind and it's not helping you, guys. I can promise you,
they're just getting in your way. Make a list of all of these fears, pause the
video if you have to and write them all down.
You got your fears? You got them all written down? Good. Now I'm going to invite
you to do something, yes, try this at home but please do it safely, don't get me
into any trouble. Go outside to your barbecue in the back, take that sheet of
paper and light it up, those fears have no place in your mind and your heart and
your body, anywhere else, if you want to be a public speaker,
you've got to get pass them. Now if I were to write a list of
the number one fears of public speaking, here's what I would put on the top of
that list that could possibly envelop all of the rest of the things on that
list. Number one, rejection. And rejection can show up in so many forms, it could
look like, people don't like my message, it could look like they don't want me
back, it could look like the audience's deadpan, it could be they don't like me,
it could show up in anyway. Rejection is totally possible and you
know what? I have a secret for you.. It's going to happen. People will reject you, in
fact, you kind of want them to. No, wait, what? Why would I want people to reject
me? That's weird, that's not okay with me, that takes a hit on my self-esteem, who
wants that? Here's the thing, if you want everyone in your audience to agree with
everything that you say, then you've got nothing worth talking about, you are
going to polarize people and the key is, how do we do it correctly and how do we
do it in a way that serves us and how do we do it in a way that serves our
audience. In order to be a public speaker, you've got to have something worth
saying and if you have something worth saying, I promise you, it's going to rub some
people the wrong way. You got to get used to rejection and people saying no
because they are at choice, they're going to no matter what you say, especially if
you take a stand for something. Rejection will happen, I can promise you, you get
to learn to be okay with it. I'll never forget speaking on stage during one of
my monthly events over at Limitless and I had people, you know, that came up to me
and said, "I have a question about what you're saying, it really doesn't make
sense." I had one or two of those and most people that had a beef with what I was
saying, they really didn't happen that often and they really didn't come and
talk to me a lot, although one and two were brave enough to do so but you know
what I heard more often than that? "Marianne, thank you for sharing your
message. Marianne, thank you for getting up and taking a stand. Marianne, thank you
for being so willing to be vulnerable." I would get private messages, I would get
person-to-person feedback, I would get all sorts of feedback that said I'm
catching the right people and the people that aren't the right
people, they get to feel that and they have to think that and they get to have
that choice and I am so grateful for it because I am not on this planet to force
anyone to think, feel or be anything. I cannot make a choice for anybody, I can't
pretend that I know what's best for another person on this planet so guess
what? If that's true then some people will say no to what I have to offer and
that's okay. First step to overcoming the fear of public speaking is being okay
with rejection. The second thing that gets in people's way after rejection is
nervousness. I'm talking your classic stage fright here, the feeling of
butterflies that you get right before you take the stage that could make or
break your presentation. Now how could having butterflies make your
presentation? Let's back up the truck here and take a look exactly at
what we're dealing with, okay. When you have nervousness, there's some chemical
weirdness that's going on in your brain that shows up in your body. Did you know
that nervousness based in fear and nervousness based in excitement are
actually the very same thing in the brain? Think about it this way, if you've
ever been on a roller coaster ride, one of my favorite things to do, in fact, I
was with my daughter in Disneyland earlier this year and we went on the
California screamer which is the big white roller coaster that does all sorts
of twists and turns and loop-de-loops and takes you upside down and just goes
nuts and the dark tunnels and the bright lights and talk about stimulus overload,
right? It is the massive massive roller coaster and I gotta be honest, maybe it
was a scary one because not a lot of people who are in line for it that day,
in fact, we rode that thing six times in a row and before we got on, I was
standing next to my six-year-old daughter and she was feeling it, she was
nervous, she was just barely tall enough to get on the ride itself
and when she got buckled in, I could feel her next to me, I couldn't see her
because of all the safety equipment that was in the way but I could feel her
moving around and fidgeting in her seat and I could almost feel the smile on her
face as she was excited. When we got up to that
roller coaster and it started, you get in line ,you get in the roller-coaster, you strap
yourself in, all of the engineers come by and make sure that you're not going
anywhere and then the roller-coaster starts and
it starts off pretty slow, it's just taking you to the starting point which
is right in the middle of this big pond and this countdown happens, you feel it,
the same thing that you feel right before you go on stage, the time when the
moment comes down to the wire, that 3, 2, 1, BAM and then you're off and you shoot
all the way to the top of the roller-coaster and you feel all the end
all the rides and the twist and the turns and the g-forces are pulling at
your body but right before that roller coaster launches and that countdown
that's going on, that's when all of the nerves start to happen. Now we were in
the front of the roller coaster which means we had the pilots of you to everything
that happened on that ride but do you know what? I heard behind me, from all the
people on that ride, as we approached that starting line altogether, I heard
screams, I heard laughs and we hadn't even got
anywhere yet, nothing had happened yet in our world for those screams and things, I
mean, the car ride to Disneyland was more exciting than the ride to the starting
line but yet, there was all of that emotion and energy just bottled up, some
people were screaming out of sheer terror and you can bet when we did those
loop-de-loops, you heard those screams all over again
and some people were excited and laughing and screaming out of sheer
excitement and delight and when we got to those loop-de-loops, you were the same
kind of screams over and over again. Now I'm looking at my daughter or more
feeling her next to me and I can feel her shaking and as I go on that
roller coaster, we go through that ride, we go through the loop de loops, the
twists, the turns, the upside down, all of the excitement and everything we had
anticipated came to an end when the roller coaster stopped, we got up, lifted
the safety harness off and the first thing I did was I looked over at my
daughter because I wasn't sure if she was loving or hating it and I looked
over at her and she had her hair all in her face, her glasses were sideways and
she had the biggest grin on her face, this little sweet sick
year old girl and the first thing out of her mouth was, "Let's do that again."
Crazy, right? None of my other kids would even touch the thing but she loved it.
Excitement and fear are the exact same thing so when you're about to take the
stage and you feel that nervousness boiling up inside of you, think of it
like this, I can either choose to be excited and joyful or I can choose to be
scared and nervous. Nervousness is a very fascinating thing. Let's talk about
nervousness itself for a moment. If you've ever had a two liter bottle full
of soda, imagine taking that bottle and shaking it up and in fact, let's go all
simpsons style and put it in a paint shaker, right, they created some kind of
atomic bomb with that thing. You put the bottle in the paint shaker and you're
shaking it to the max, you've got all of this carbonation, imagine that being
nervousness and you're the bottle and everything around inside of you is being
put to the max pressure. How does nervousness show up in your
body? Sweaty palms, you got the shakes, you got the mind that's just reeling and
going a thousand miles an hour in a thousand different directions all at the
same time, all of that is coming up inside of you.
Nervousness is just a containment of energy. When you allow yourself to open
the top and let everything flow out of you, all the pressure is gone, all of the
containment has been released and your energy, your words and your actions,
thoughts, and desires can just be in free flow in front of you. So if you're ever
nervous to go on stage because you're speaking in public, just remember, be in
flow, allow your message to flow through you, give the audience everything that
you've got, empty your cup, empty your bottle, empty whatever you think this
vessel is and give it all you got because once you do, you're free to
receive more, you're free to receive inspiration, you're free to receive
intuition and you just leveled up your game big time. The last key to being a
public speaker and this is something I share with my highest level students,
speak to the one. If you ever think you're speaking to an audience,
I don't care if your front of two people or 20,000 people,
you're never speaking to an audience and to think that you are, you're just
fooling yourself, you're just disconnecting from the
people. You're always speaking to one, just one person, that's all you're
speaking to and you've spoken to a person before, I'm pretty darn sure of it,
I'm pretty sure that's a safe assumption to make. You've spoken to one person in
your life before, now I'm going to invite you to speak to one person again.
If there's 20,000 people, it's 20,001, if there's 50 people, it's 50 of the one.
Speak to a single person. When you're speaking on stage, create eye contact
with this person. Speak to the person who you know came to hear your message, even
right before you go on stage, ask yourself this question, who is the one
person that needs my message today? Ask for help, ask for helping and reminded
from others, say, "What can I do to find and connect with the one person?" and your
brain will immediately find an answer for you. Never speak to an audience,
always speak to the one. Get rid of your fears, be in flow, overcome your
nervousness and always speak to the one and if you combine those three elements
together, you are guaranteed the perfect presentation. Now that you've got a
mastery of public speaking, you know what it takes to overcome any nervousness and
totally how to be chilling in flow, I want you to come play with us in one of
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