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Charlotte Crosby is 'moving to London' to work on relationship with Stephen Bear

This story has more twists and turns than the chord to our headphones after theyve spent three days at the bottom of a handbag – Charlotte Crosby and Stephen Bear appear to be back on.

They split over the summer, allegedly over Charlotte indulging in a boozy night with Jeremy McConnell, before getting back together.

Then they later split again after he was alleged to have cheated – both very publicly announced over social media as they pair had spats.

But now, theyre said to have kissed and made up, and Charlotte is reportedly making the big move down to London to be closer to him.

After a seriously on off relationship, which has included several very public break ups, the couple have apparently got things back on track and are dating again.

But this time around its getting serious, as Charlotte is said to be looking for her own London pad so that they can be near each other.

A source told The Sun Online: Charlotte is smitten with Bear once again. Although her friends are warning her off him, shes sworn to them that hes a changed man.

It was tough before because she was living up North and he was in Essex. The distance became a massive issue and it put a huge strain on them.

Charlotte believes that getting a property in London will help them get back on track for good – as well as being handy for her when shes working.

Shes not keen for them to share just yet, which is pretty understandable given the rocky nature of their relationship, which is why shes opting to get her own place rather than share his.

The 27-year-old is apparently determined to make it work while Bear has promised hes a changed man. Charlotte hinted to Metro. uk that this might be the case while walking the red carpet for the MTV EMAs.

When asked about his supposed replacement on Just Tattoo Of Us, after it was rumoured hed been sacked following their break up, Char told us: 'Nothing's been confirmed. None of the rumours about Just Tattoo Of Us are true.

Was this her telling us they hadnt in fact split?.

The pair were later seen snogging at the MTV bash, further fueling rumours of a rekindling. Heres hoping this time the couple can make it work.

For more infomation >> Charlotte Crosby is 'moving to London' to work on relationship with Stephen Bear - Duration: 3:25.

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How to Keep a Relationship Strong – Motivational Video - Duration: 5:15.

In your childhood you had no need of a boyfriend or girlfriend to become happy, but as you

grew up as an adult, due to some hormonal changes, you started to feel the need of having

a life partner.

So if you observe a little deeply, you can easily understand that, the root of our any

relationship is some kind of need.

These needs can be of various types, and to fulfil these various types of needs we build

up various kind relationships.

Now these needs can be physical, emotional, and psychological or even may be political.

Even if you want to give someone something, that is also a need.

So the fundamental of any relationship is some kind of need.

Now when these needs are not fulfilled correctly, relationships start to fall out.

In starting, two people have some common needs, so they enter into a relationship.

But as time passes away, the needs get changed.

These needs transform into expectations.

And as two people always have different expectations, conflicts occurred which ultimately leads

to damages in relationships.

So fundamentally there are two things that cause harm to our relationship, 1.

Expectation and 2.

Conflict.

Now imagine if in any relationship these two things become completely 0, I mean 0 expectations

0 conflict, then is it possible to happen any kind of problem in that relationship?

But for the normal people like us it is impossible to make these two things completely 0.

On the other hand the fun fact is, if you go out to fulfil even just one person's all

expectations, then the whole resource of this world will be not enough because, expectations

are always limitless.

If you meet one, another pops up.

And as there are two different people, so for sure their expectations will be different

also.

So what is the solution?

Are we helpless in this case?

I agree that it is impossible for most of us to have 0 expectations in a relationship,

but if we want for sure we can minimize it.

For which just a little amount of consciousness is needed.

Riya's boyfriend Raju asked Riya, "What do you want in your birthday?"

Riya said, "Oh!

I don't want anything�, although in her mind Riya was wishing may Raju bought her

the dress which they had liked yesterday, but due to short of money at that time which

they couldn't bought.

Now Raju is among those kinds of people who take everyone's word literally.

He don't understand all those complex thinking.

So as Riya said she didn't want anything, Raju didn't buy anything.

So, when Raju wished her on her birthday without any present, Riya got upset.

Raju figured out that there was something wrong with Riya, he even asked her, but still

Riya didn't say anything to Raju.

She only replied, "Nothing, I'm fine!"

This whole problem would never arise if Riya and Raju would have been a little more conscious.

If Riya would have been conscious, she would understand what type of a person Raju is.

He takes everyone's word literally.

And Raju would understand what Riya really wants.

And what Riya expected was that Raju would perform mind reading and would know somehow

what she really wants, which Raju didn't know how to perform, so it had become Riya's over

expectation.

On the other hand Raju expected that Riya didn't want anything at all, which had become

Raju's over expectation.

If we can be a little more conscious to this kind of situations and become aware of our

over expectations, then I believe our relationships can become far better.

Now the 2nd problem is conflict.

Conflicts occur when the needs are opposite.

So, how to minimize it?

By creating balance between them!

Means, by finding out win-win situation.

And for doing so doing compromise is very much needed.

And to be able to compromise we first have to listen carefully what the other person

is saying, what is his or her actual need that has to be listened carefully.

Not that when the other person is talking about his or her needs, I'm just waiting when

he or she will stop and continuously wondering in my mind about my own needs and planning

for how to represent it with more importance.

No, first you have to listen carefully to the other person, then you should tell him

or her about your needs and then together you should find out a win-win situation.

Then only conflicts in a relationship can be minimum.

Only this much is enough to make a relationship blissful.

Only two things, 1.

Being aware so that the expectations never become over expectations.

2.

?First listen to the other person then tell your own needs and then together try to find

out a win-win situation.

If some day we have a fight with one of our loved ones, for the whole day our mood remains

bad.

So, I think we should be at least this much aware in this case.

Always remember, "A true relationship is, two imperfect people refusing to give up on

each other".

At last a little request to you, if you find this video useful in finding any kind of solution

for your life problems, then, please share it with your loved ones.

Because by sharing, you can also help to change someone's life.

And please let us know by commenting below, on which topic you would like to watch the

next video.

Because our main aim is to help you.

More wisdom, more solution, better life.

For more infomation >> How to Keep a Relationship Strong – Motivational Video - Duration: 5:15.

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At Last! Selena Gomez Confirms Relationship With Justin Bieber|NVS News - Duration: 2:26.

At Last! Selena Gomez Confirms Relationship With Justin Bieber

Selena Gomez has finally confirmed her reunion with her first love, Justin Bieber.

The actress, 25, opened up about the men in her life in an in-depth interview with Billboard, telling the magazine that she and her ex The Weeknd ended their 10 month relationship as 'best friends.'.

'I'm 25.

I'm not 18, or 19, or 20,' she told the magazine of reconnecting with Justin.

'I cherish people who have really impacted my life.

So maybe before, it could have been forcing something that wasn't right.

But that doesn't mean caring for someone ever goes away.

Though the pair have recently started unfollowing each other on social media – and The Weeknd even deleted every post he had that featured Selena off his Instagram account, Selena says they ended their relationship as 'best friends.

Something that I'm really proud of is that there's such a true friendship [between me and The Weeknd].

I truly have never experienced anything like that in my life.

We ended it as best friends, and it was genuinely about encouraging and caring [for each other], and that was pretty remarkable for me.

For more infomation >> At Last! Selena Gomez Confirms Relationship With Justin Bieber|NVS News - Duration: 2:26.

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Relationships: Is It Time To Settle? - Duration: 4:43.

Hey guys, its Jo! I'm curious, how many of you feel like no one will ever really

love you for who you are? I know I definitely, definitely felt that way for

a really long time after I was assaulted. For a long time I didn't want to go out

on a date ever again. And then I thought, okay, maybe I can do

this and so I started seeing some guys who were not awesome guys by any

stretch of the imagination, so none of that really worked out. The way that

I saw myself was damaged and broken and undesirable at best. Like the most that

anyone could ever want me for was my body, like that was it. Like I was just a

piece of meat, basically and then one day I met this guy named Brian. We met at a jiujitsu

tournament we joked and laughed and I was pretty comfortable around him.

And by pretty comfortable I mean, all of my guards and defenses were up

and I was paranoid like always, but out of all the people I met and I felt okay

around him. And so we started talking and texting back and forth he went back to

New York, which is where he lived, and over the course of about three or four

weeks we were texting all the time. We really clicked, you know, we

really got along. But I was like, this is never gonna work out, because he doesn't

really know who I am, he doesn't really know what's happened to me, he doesn't know what

I've gone through. And so I I told him in a text message one day, I was like

but you don't really know who I am and if you did you wouldn't want me. He

basically told me, I really don't think that's the case, but, you know, let's talk about

it. And so about a week after that he got in the car and drove 26 hours straight

across the country from New York to where I live and we went out on a date.

On our first date we sat and talked for six hours and closed out the bar and put

everything out on the table, which is something I never really thought

that I could do. I told him basically the short story of what had happened to me,

everything that I could say at that point, and what I felt about myself and

how messed up I was. And he told me his stuff, too, who told me where he was

coming from and what you know his damage was, and we kind of just laid it out all

there on the table. And long story short it's five years later and we are very

happily married. We got married about two years ago. It took us a while to work

through a lot of the issues that came because of what happened to me and

because of issues that we both had but we worked through them together. The

reason I'm telling you this story is because I know I was convinced that no

one would ever, ever, ever, ever love me. Really, truly, from bottom of my heart knew for

a fact no one would ever love me for me. And I think I think a lot of us feel

that way. And I just I want you to know how that's not true. I want you to know

that you don't have to settle for people who do not respect you, for people who do

not love you, for people who do not see you as who you are. There are really good

people out there. There are really good men out there. There are really good

women out there. And you don't have to settle for less because you are not less.

You are not anything less because what's happened to you. I felt like that for the

longest time like I was "damaged goods" because someone else had done something

horrible to me and now I was this wreck of a person who could barely function

but there are people who actually don't care, who actually love you anyway, and by

being vulnerable and expressing that to someone who I felt like was a safe

person, and no to anyone but by expressing that to

someone who I did feel like was a someone who I could talk to about that,

incredible things came out of that. You are not worth any less because of what's

happened. I don't think I could say that enough. You are not worth any less

because it would happen to you. Please don't allow yourself to buy in to that

lie. I know that's hard to do but the fact of the matter is that you are

incredible. Horrible things have happened to you but you are working through them

and wherever you are in your journey please know that you do not have to

settle for less. And if what you're looking for is eventually to be in a

loving, committed relationship, if that's what you're looking for, know that that

can happen. Know that that's out there. Know that that is not off the table

because of who you are, because of what's happened to you.

That is absolutely still on the table for you. I'm Jo Beckwith, please hit

subscribe if you'd like to see more videos like this. I would really love to

hear your thoughts, or stories, or comments, your reactions to this, and I

really look forward to seeing you next time.