HEY GUYS! TODAY WE'RE GONNA DO Q&A VIDEO.
I'VE BEEN ASKING YOU GUYS IF YOU HAVE ANY Qs ON IG AND YOUTUBE.
AND I'M GONNA ANSWER SOME OF THEM TODAY.
BECAUSE I THINK IT TAKES SOME MINUTES TO ANSWER SOME OF THESE..
SO YAH WE'RE GONNA DO IT LIKE THAT.
Q1: HOW DO YOU SPEAK ENGLISH WELL?
AND WHEN DID YOU START LEARNING IT?
THANKS FOR YOUR QUESTION!
I HAVE MADE VIDEO CALLED "HOW I LEARNT ENGLISH" BEFORE,
IS IT THIS SIDE?
NO, MAYBE THIS SIDE!
HERE I LEAVE LINK TO THAT VIDEO,
CLICK "i" SIGN AND CHECK IT OUT IF INTERESTED.
IN THAT VIDEO, I'M EXPLAINING HOW I LEARNED ENGLISH.
I KNOW MY ENGLISH IS STILL FAR FROM PERFECT BUT... YEAH.
BASICALLY,
I'VE STUDIED 1 YEAR IN THE UNI IN THE US
AS AN EXCHANGE STUDENT WHEN I WAS IN UNI IN JAPAN.
OTHER THAN THAT, I'VE JUST ALWAYS LISTENED TO ENGLISH (I MEANT LANGUAGE) MUSIC,
OR TRIED TO TALK TO MAKE FOREIGN FRIENDS AND PRACTICE MY ENGLISH,
ALSO MY MOM OWNS ENGLISH SCHOOL, SO
I USED TO SNEAK IN TO TAKE CLASSES WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL.
I JUST TRIED TO HAVE OPPORTUNITIES TO USE ENGLISH AMAP.
THIS IS BASICALLY HOW I LEARNED IT.
BUT THERE ARE STILL WHOLE BUNCH OF THINGS TO LEARN.
BUT YAH, IT'S LIKE THAT.
IF YOU WANNA KNOW MORE IN DETAILS ,CHECK THE VIDEO OUT.
Q2: YOU HAVE SUCH A NICE SKIN.
I ALWAYS HAVE SOME PIMPLES ESPECIALLY ON MY CHIN SO I ENVY YOU.
WHAT DO YOU DO FOR YOUR DAIL$%&)
..DAILY SKIN CARE? ANYTHING YOU'RE AWARE OF ON YOUR DIET?
THANKS FOR QUESTION.
HONESTLY MY SKIN IS NOT SO GREAT ALL THE TIME,
I HAVE SOME BAD SKIN TIMES ONCE IN A WHILE.
YOU KNOW THAT IF YOU'RE WATCHING MY MAKEUP VIDEOS!
WHAT DO I DO....
FOR SKIN CARE, WELL I THINK I'M GONNA MAKE "SKIN CARE" VIDEO,
BUT I JUST REMOVE MY MAKEUP AT NIGHT,
THEN CLEANSE MY FACE, PUT SOME TONER,
..WELL IT SOUNDS SO NORMAL LOL, BUT
AFTER TONER, I APPLY SOME CREAM,
MOISTURIZER, OR GEL. (DEPENDS ON WHAT I HAVE AT THE MOMENT)
THAT'S IT.
I DON'T HAVE ANY BRAND THAT I ALWAYS STICK WITH.
I'M NOT SO FAMILIAR TO BRANDS EITHER.
SO THAT'S ALL I DO.
HERE IN CANADA, I'VE TRIED VARIOUS BRANDS SO FAR,
AND I HAVEN'T MET ANY BRANDS/ PRODUCTS THAT I GOT HOOKED ON.
WHEN I WAS IN JAPAN, I LOVED PRODUCTS FROM MUJI. I STILL HAVE SOME OF THEM IN HERE
I BROUGHT SOME HERE AND I STILL HAVE SOME OF THEM;
I'M STILL USING THEIR MOISTURIZING GEL.
BUT IT'S FINISHING SOON.. SAD. IDK WHAT I'M GONNA DO.
SO I LOVE MUJI PRODUCTS.
I'M MAKING SKIN CARE VIDEO SOON. FOR THE DIET,
I'VE MADE THIS VIDEO BEFORE, (LINK'S HERE)
I'M ON GLUTEN-FREE DIET.
I'M GLUTEN INTOLERANT, GLUTEN DOES SOME BAD FOR
MY STOMACH AND SUCH,
I TRY NOT TO HAVE THEM ON THE DAILY BASIS.
IF YOU CUT GLUTEN, IT MEANS YOU CUT NORMAL CAKE, COOKIES, BREAD,
PASTRIES IN GENERAL.
THAT REALLY STOPS YOU FROM TAKING "UNHEALTHY" FOOD, I THINK.
BUT OTHER THAN THAT,
I EAT SUGAR, FAT, EVERTYHING.
SO WHEN I CRAVE CHOCOLATES, I'D BE BINGING ON THEM.
SO YAH, I REALLY DO HAVE PIMPLES AND STUFF.
IN MY CASE, I TEND TO HAVE PIMPLES ON MY CHIN,
SIDE JAW LINE, LIKE RIGHT BY THE EARS.
SO...
THE THING IS, I DON'T REALLY WORRY ABOUT IT.
WHEN I FIND THAT I'M HAVING PIMPLES THESE DAYS, THEN I'LL BE LIKE
"OK I'M GONNA CUT CHOCOLATES FOR A WHILE"
THAT'S HOW I DO!
NEXT QUESTION IS WHAT I THINK
IT'S GONNA TAKE SOME TIME TO ANSWER-
Q3: I ADORE WHAT YOUR LIFE IS.
THANKS!
I LOVE YOUR POSITIVE ENERGY.
MY Q IS: I'VE HEARD THAT FOREIGNERS DON'T DO "KOKUHAKU" BEFORE BEING COUPLE/ PARTNERS,
*KOKUHAKU = CONFESSING; TO SAY "I LIKE YOU" TO PERSON WHO YOU LIKE, BEFORE START DATING
I WANNA LIVE IN FOREIGN COUNTRY IN THE FUTURE.
HOW CAN I MAKE SURE THAT IF THAT PERSON LIKES ME IN A SERIOUS WAY?
I GUESS YOU WANNA KNOW ABOUT THE FLOW OF
RELATIONSHIP WITH FOREIGNERS IN GENERAL?
THANKS FOR YOUR QUESTION!
YEAH YOU'RE RIGHT,
JUMPING TO THE ANSWERS, FOREIGNERS DON'T HAVE "KOKUHAKU" CULTURE.
I GUESS IT'S JUST US JAPANESE HAVING A "KOKUHAKU" CULTURE.
WAIT, IDK ABOUT KOREANS... MAYBE THEY DO.
BUT I GUESS,
THERE'S ALMOST NO OTHER PEOPLE WHO ALWAYS SAYS "I LIKE YOU, LET'S DATE" BEFORE DATING.
"HOW DO YOU KNOW IF HE LIKES YOU IN A SERIOUS WAY"......
THIS IS HARD,
IN MY OPINION, WITH MY EXPERIENCE OF DATING
WITH LATINOS, AMERICAN AND JAPANESE,
OH LATINOS ARE FROM VARIOUS COUNTRIES BUT
HERE I JUST TIE THEM UP AS "LATINOS",
NONE OF NON-JAPANESE STARTED RELATIONSHIP WITH SAYING "I LIKE YOU, LET'S DATE".
IT MEANS,
IT STARTS NATURALLY. LIKE YOU MEET HIM/ HER FIRST,
LIKE "OH HI I'M AZUSA, NICE TO MEET YOU",
AND YOU START CHATTING, GETTING KNOW EACH OTHER,
AND BE FRIENDS-LIKE,
AND THEN IF HE'S INTERESTED IN YOU, HE MIGHT ASK YOU TO GO OUT.
IF YOU'RE INTERESTED IN HIM TOO, THEN YOU TAKE HIS INVITATION-
YOU KNOW, HANGING OUT. OR DATE.
AND...I THINK IT VARIES DEPENDING ON HIS OWN CULTURE OR NATIONALITY BUT
I GUESS IN ENGLISH SPEAKING COUNTRIES LIKE THE US OR CANADA ETC,
AMERICAN GUYS,
EVEN IF THEY DATE WITH YOU, THEY DON'T CALL YOU GIRLFRIEND; THEY CALL YOU "DATE".
AND,
AMERICANS- ESPECIALLY GUYS,
THEY TAKE SOME TIME TO REALLY SEE IF HE REALLY WANNA INVEST
IN THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU, OR NOT.
HE REALLY WANNA TAKE TIME TO FIGURE IT OUT AND BE CAREFUL.
WHAT'S DIFFERENT FROM JAPAN IS THAT,
IN JAPAN, IT'S KINDA NORMAL FOR GUYS TO TELL A GIRL THAT HE LIKES HER,
EVEN IF THEY'RE JUST FRIENDS AND NEVER ACTUALLY WENT OUT BY THEMSELVES ALONE.
YOU KNOW IT CAN BE SOMETHING LIKE, SUDDENLY A GUY COMES UP TO YOU AND
HANDS YOU A LETTER (TOO OLD FASHIONED?LOL) OR TELL YOU HE LIKES YOU.
IT ALMOST NEVER HAPPENS IN OTHER COUNTRIES.
AHMED: SORRY FOR INTERRTUPTING.
IT'S OK.
AHMED: I'M GONNA TAKE A SHOWER.
ARE YOU?
SO....
WHAT WAS I TALKING ABOUT?
FORGOT WHAT I WAS SAYING...
AHMED: *IMITATING ME*
AHMED: SORRY.
WHAT WAS I SAYING.....
AHMED: OH MY GOD.
BUT YEAH, FOREIGNERS TAKE MORE TIME TO SEE
IF HE REALLY WANNA BET ON YOU OR NOT, THEN
HE WOULD TELL YOU SOMETHING LIKE "YOU WANNA BE MY GIRLFRIEND?".
(SOMETIMES NOT THOUGH)
YEAH, I GUESS.
I THINK AMERICANS ARE REALLY CAREFUL
WHEN IT COMES TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP OFFICIAL.
ON THE OTHER HAND, LATINOS ARE
NOT LIKE THAT.
WHEN THEY LIKE SOME GIRL, THEY CAN BE REALLY PASSIONATE
JUST AS THEIR PASSION LEAD THEM,
AND CAN END UP WHAT EXACTLY THE COUPLE IS LIKE
WITHOUT ANY VERBAL AGREEMENT IN A SHORT TERM.
AND IN MY OPINION,
LATINOS; SPANISH, ITALIANS, LATIN-AMERICANS ARE
LESS TRICKIER THAN AMERICANS.
THEIR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS ARE SO OBVIOUS.
IF HE LIKES YOU, YOU WILL TELL.
IT'S SO OBVIOUS AND CLEAR.
WARNING: IT ALWAYS DEPENDS ON THE CASE; THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE JUST SO GOOD AT ACTING LIKE
THEY'RE CRAZY ABOUT YOU, SO WAIT AND SEE WELL HIS PERSONALITY ETC BEFORE BELIEVING THAT HE'S SERIOUS WITH YOU OR NOT!
- I WARNED THIS BECAUSE I KNOW MANY JAPANESE WOMEN GET FOOLED BY FOREIGNERS WHO JUST WANNA GET LAID.
SO LATINOS, BASICALLY THEIR NATURE IS VERY PASSIONATE
AND THEY COME AT YOU LIKE THEY ARE SERIOUSLY CRAZY ABOUT YOU.
SO IT'S SO EASY FOR YOU TO JUST GET ON THAT WAVE AND GO
AND YOU GUYS WILL BE TECHNICALLY JUST LIKE A COUPLE,
SPENDING SOME TIME,
AND IF YOU GUYS ARE HAVING FUN AND HAVING A GOOD CHEMISTRY, THEN
HE MIGHT ASK YOU IF YOU CAN BE HIS GIRLFRIEND,
OR NOT.. THERE MAY BE A CASE THAT EVEN IF HE DOESN'T SAY THAT TO YOU
BUT HE ACTUALLY THINKS THAT YOU'RE HIS GIRLFRIEND.
CANADIANS CAN BE LIKE...
I THINK THEY ARE MORE RELAXED THAN AMERICANS
BUT VISUALLY LESS PASSIONATE THAN LATINOS, IN GENERAL
BUT IT REALLY DEPENDS ON EACH CANADIANS
BECAUSE THERE'RE LATINO-CANADIANS, ASIAN-CANADIANS ETC...
SO IT'S TOTALLY DIFFERENT FOR EACH ONE OF THEM.
BUT OVERALL,
WHAT'S MOST DIFFERENT IS THAT...
FOREIGNERS DO CATEGORIZE WOMEN AND THEY ALREADY HAVE ANSWERS IN THEM ON US;
IF HE'S SURE THAT HE WANTS TO INVEST IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU,
OR NOT, OR HE'S DECIDING YET.
THEY KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING AND WHAT THEY WANT, THAT YOU CAN'T REALLY CHANGE THAT.
SO MY ADVICE FOR YOU (JAPANESE WOMEN) WOULD BE; DON'T JUST LET YOU FOLLOW HOW
HE WANTS THINGS TO GO WITHOUT YOUR OWN OBSERVATION ON WHAT HE IS/ WHAT HE CAN BE.
DON'T TRIP OUT.
STAY DOWN-TO-EARTH.
(*I'M SAYING THIS BECAUSE I KNOW MANY JAPANESE WOMEN HAVE ABSOLUTE CRUSH ON FOREIGN MEN)
DON'T GO TOO FAR FROM WHAT HE ACTUALLY IS/ WHAT HE CAN BE.
IF YOU HAVE NO IDEA, YOU CAN JUST ASK HIM WHAT HE'S THINKING/ FEELING;
IT'S BETTER THAN JUST BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF HIM.
JUST ASK HIM....
WELL...
BUT SOMETIMES YOU JUST DON'T WANNA ASK THAT RIGHT?
BUT IF YOU REALLY WANNA FIGURE IT OUT
AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT, THEN
I RECOMMEND YOU TO ASK HIM!
(OR ASK THOUGHTS/ OPINIONS FROM YOUR FRIENDS; GUYS AND GIRLS!)
BE CAREFUL NOT TO LOSE YOUR HEAD FROM THE BEGINNING.
JAPANESE WOMEN TEND TO BE REALLY INNOCENT AND NAIVE.
WE DON'T REALLY GET USED TO DOUBT PEOPLE,
BECAUSE WE JAPANESE ARE PRETTY SINCERE AND TRUSTABLE PEOPLE, IN GENERAL.
LIKE, WE DON'T REALLY MEET TERRIBLE PEOPLE ON A DAILY BASIS.
BETRAYING PEOPLE DOESN'T HAPPEN A LOT.
SO IN JAPAN, IF YOU GET LAID WITH HIM BEFORE "KOKUHAKU",
WHAT AM I TALKING LOW FOR??
IF YOU GET LAID WITH HIM (JAPANESE GUY) BEFORE "KOKUHAKU",
THEN YOU NATURALLY THINK THAT YOU GUYS ARE GONNA BE OFFICIAL.
THAT'S TYPICALLY HOW THE THINGS NATURALLY GO,
FOR "STANDARD" JAPANESE PEOPLE.
IT'S OFTEN LIKE THAT.
BUT STEPPING OUT OF JAPAN, IT'S NOT LIKE THAT.
NON-JAPANESE MEN DO "HIT&RUN", LIKE, WITH NO HESITATION. (NOT EVERYONE OF COURRRSE!)
THAT'S WHAT YOU REALLY SHOULD BE AWARE OF.
AND,
IT'S MY VERY PERSONAL OPINION, BUT
IF I WERE IN A GOOD CHEMISTRY WITH A FOREIGNER AND
WE'RE KIND OF DECIDING IF WE MOVE ON OR NOT,
IF I WERE HER,
I DEFINITELY WON'T GIVE EVERYTHING TO HIM FROM THE BEGINNING.
WELL IT'S FOR THE CASE YOU WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.
IF YOU DON'T,
THEN FORGET IT, YOU JUST HAVE FUN.
IF YOU WANT HIM TO BE SERIOUS WITH YOU AND
YOU WANT HIM TO THINK OF YOU AS A "GIRLFRIEND" (NOT DATE),
AND TO TREAT YOU IN A SERIOUS WAY,
THEN YOU SHOULDN'T GIVE
EVERYTHING (KISSING, SEX, ETC) TO HIM AS HE WANTS.
YOU SHOULDN'T ALLOW IT RIGHT AWAY.
IF YOU DID, THEN HE DEFINITELY WILL THINK YOU'RE EASY.
SURE HE GOES LIKE, "THIS JAPANESE CHICK GOT A LOOSE PU&&Y" (LOL)
(*I'M SAYING THIS BECAUSE I KNOW JAPANESE WOMEN HAVE THIS REPUTATION AMONG NON-JAPANESE MEN)
SO I KNOW THAT YOU LIKE HIM A LOT AND YOU'RE SUPER EXCITED THAT HE SEEMS HE WANTS YOU,
BUT YOU SHOULDN'T JUST GO WITH IT, BUT STOP IT.
TELL HIM NO, YOU'RE NOT THAT CHEAP.
I THINK IT'S IMPORTANT; IT HELPS YOU.
EVEN IF YOU REALLY LIKE HIM.
TILL YOU'RE CONVINCED THAT HE DOESN'T WANNA JUST GET LAID,
YOU CAN TELL HIM "HMM NOT TODAY" OR "AHH..NOT YET" OR SOME LIKE THAT
I WOULD DODGE HIM AT THE BEGINNING.
AND IF HE JUST FADES AWAY FROM YOU SAYING NO FEW TIMES,
THAT'S IT FROM HIM.
IN THAT CASE, HE WAS JUST LOOKING FOR SOME EASY F&CK. (SORRY)
BECAUSE IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU,
HE WON'T STOP REACHING OUT TO YOU SAYING NO FEW TIMES,
THINK HE'S GONNA WORK HARDER IF HE LIKES YOU.
SO,
IF YOU WANNA FIND NON-JAPANESE MEN WHO'D
BE SERIOUS WITH YOU, THIS WOULD BE A WAY TO TELL IF HE LIKES YOU IN A SERIOUSLY OR NOT
THAT YOU DON'T ACCEPT HIS OFFER AND SEE HOW HE'S GONNA ACT.
I GUESS THAT'S IT.
IF ANY QUESTIONS, ASK ME.
I'VE BEEN TALKING FOREVER, SO
THAT'S IT FOR THIS VIDEO.
I'LL SEE YOU IN THE NEXT ONE!
IT'S AZU, AND SEE YOU GUYS SOON!
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