I want to talk to you guys today about breaking habits. You know, breaking those
vile v or devil D ties. So stay tuned, hi I'm Ang and welcome SS101.
If you are new here welcome to the fam. I post every Tuesday so please
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give this video the thumbs up if you found it useful. Now, on to breaking these
habits, these relationship habits; the reason why they can be so difficult and
we can get caught up in these really toxic situations is because our brains
are wired to actually seek out the known rather than the unknown. It wants to
keep us safe. Now, this all made sense back in our primitive days when we were
probably going to get chased by some sort of wildebeest or lion if we went
out of our comfort zone and died; but now it's a little bit counterproductive
particularly if you're in a toxic situation and so the thing is with this
it always comes down to this horrendous quote 'the better the devil you know' Now
I don't know just throwing it out there but how about we don't date turd (poo) burgers
and we actually just be happy? So, what I'm asking you to do is ask yourself why,
this is what this is all about. So ask yourself why you have the beliefs you do,
you're with the person you're with you're hanging around with, the people
that you shag, or whatever it is but ask yourself why. Now I know you'll probably
sit there and say hey I don't have time for this but how much time have you
spent on Netflix lately? Or, alternatively how much time have you
actually spent whining about someone who doesn't make you happy? Just saying. Now the
thing with doing this whole 'why' question is it makes you look at
things completely differently. Now, I read this quote the other day that was "get
rid of anything that doesn't serve you" now calm down Mariah, I'm not talking
about literal serving here. I'm just talking about someone who doesn't bring
you happiness into your life. I'm not going to pretend that this whole why
questioning and looking at things differently is going to solve all your
problems any more than that face mask you put on or the last shot of tequila
that you had last Saturday. The thing is it is just going to make you see things
hopefully a little bit more objectively which means that you'll be
to take more control of your situation and make objective choices about whether
or not you are happy with your decisions - which hopefully you are - or you want to
continue being a victim of your circumstances or hopefully if you aren't
happy you boss up, you own up to everything, and you move on to far far
better things. So I really hope that this just helps break down things if you are
in a really toxic situation or you're in limbo land and you don't really know
where you are. I mean hey, we can all get caught up in
these situations and think that because we're putting in so much or we've
invested so much in the relationship we can't back out now I mean eventually
they'll turn around and realize that we're the one but believe me if that was
going to happen it will already would have and so this isn't about giving up
on someone this is about having respect for yourself and moving on to better
people who actually will bring you happiness. Weird. So I hope this really
helps you guys and don't forget to subscribe I will see you next Tuesday
bye
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