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and it's I feel there's so much compassion when I see people how they

how important things are to them how what importance they give not only to

physical things how much importance they gave to situations and what happens or

doesn't happen or a circumstance or how much power they place their in in the

world of form and it always they expect something from it that only the formulas

can give they expect to find themselves somewhere in there they expect happiness

through the world of form it can give you happiness briefly and then it takes

it away so you become dependent on what happens or doesn't happen and sometimes

it's the littlest tiniest things that make people unhappy and they I asked why

are you unhappy well this this has just happened so it's the the impossible

expectation that people place on the world they fulfill me make me happy the

world means places people situations circumstances doesn't matter all that

means the world so they make peace they have these expectations and demands and

no place no person no situation no circumstance can meet those demands for

long and this is why life is experienced by

most humans as very frustrating almost designed by some D some devious God to

frustrate you and many people experience their life as it's designed to frustrate

me continuously I've tried so hard and always something happens to frustrate

frustrate me of course there is an impossible demand being placed upon the

phenomenal universe and that demand is not only make me happy because true

happiness in the deepest sense is simply knowing yourself who you are beyond the

forms it's true and lasting joy and happiness but they are looking for

happiness through some imagined configuration of forms when my life when

those forms in my life those circumstances people places are in a

right configuration then it will be fine and it could even happen that for a

brief moment they are in the right configuration you just move to a

beautiful new home you just fell in love and the stock market has just gone up

and you're short the doctor says the other most healthy you have the host

healthy body I've ever seen everything is just right and then probably you

would claim the ego would claim some merit or achievement it would say I did

that

and because the world of form or the forms look solid this is the illusion

when you walk around especially in a city the the solid structures in manmade

the solidity of everything form look so solid and that's an illusion we don't

realize that the world of form is very much like vapour or mist

hey this is know that too they know that there's nothing solid here even the most

solid building can collapse in a moment the most grandest edifice whether it be

an office building or a temple you can collapse at any moment and sometimes

they do so they appear the apparent or solidity of form is an illusion to

anybody who hasn't been to India I recommend at least going there once to

experience that the physical universe the solidity of the physical universe is

an illusion in India it's much easier to know that because things are not that

solid in the physical realm things could go wrong at any moment and they

and it's beautiful and this may be the reason why India has produced the

greatest changes from the very very first spiritual awakening of humanity

happened there perhaps because the physical realm is less solid or the

illusion is less the illusion of solidity is less there than here so

because of the illusion of solidity that's you believe that there can be

something permanent in the phenomenal realm but very quickly here two things

saved change leave you or make you unhappy today it makes you happy

tomorrow it makes you unhappy that beautiful position that you've got the

hospital wife makes you happy then makes you unhappy anybody who has been through

more than one marriage and even those who still in one marriage know that the

person who makes you happy is also the person who makes you unhappy so the

demands that people place upon the manifested world are impossible make me

happy and when that the only way when that demand is dropped and sometimes

this dropping this letting go of that demand can happen when the world has

totally frustrated you totally so much has gone wrong so to speak which means

not really wrong but against the expectations against what I wanted and

needed that you let go of any further expectations not in a negative sense

because if you let go of any further expectations in a negative sense that

means then you are saying who cares I don't want to know any more I'm I'm done

with the world you're not there's still a lot of attachment but but a true

letting go when perhaps you even smile or laugh come it's all crumbled one once

again it's and no further expectations are placed from the manifest state then

suddenly you sense this enormous peace

what is that everything has gone wrong and yet there's this deep sense of

rightness so that can happen in cases where people become totally frustrated

it can also happen in a spiritual teaching to see when you are ready to

see that readiness is there because the frustrations have already been there you

wouldn't have come otherwise that's already been there and then suddenly you

see the demands and part of the demands very essential part of this demand that

is placed upon the phenomenal world is the demand

that the future should make you happy because that is very the next moment the

need for the next moment and it is a great act of letting go when the

psychological need for the next moment is relinquished that's always an

essential part of coming to an end of placing expectations because every

expectation that you place from the world to some extent implies future and

so it's a wonderful thing that demands that are made upon places people or

situations or circumstances are not there and then you are comfortable with

places as they are because no matter what place you go to it could be ideal

in your imagination when you actually get there something will be there that

is not ideal any whatever place you go to and person and circumstance and

that's the thing that frustrates you and that demand is not made anymore it could

be a simple thing even a demands you place upon people understand me

he doesn't understand me my parents don't understand me

my children don't understand me so is that so bad

they understand what they can understand their stage of evolution they understand

just enough for them to understand they are okay with not understanding you

don't realize that nothing is added to you by having somebody understand you

accepts a psychological thought form that see then say oh it's confirmation

that I exist he's confirmed that I exist what is that existence that needs

confirmation that you exist or confirmation of the world some people

think they need fame fame is totally overrated there's nothing in it that's

why some famous actors are interested in this teaching they realized how empty

that thing is called Fame if Fame fulfilled them would they come to this

teaching what for they're fulfilled by Fame by recognition

everybody recognizes how beautiful or great they are source isn't that

fulfilling know you think it's fulfilling when you don't have it and

when you have it it's fulfilling for a little moment and then it's no longer

fulfilling and you see it's another way of finding this dimension one way is

being totally frustrated in getting nothing

another way is getting everything and being totally frustrated

and some famous actors go to drugs they don't they try to deaden the frustration

that they feel which ultimately is a form of pain they tried to deaden it

that way famous people many have been very unhappy committed suicide but some

others see that so it doesn't really matter whether it's through achieving

everything or achieving nothing you find it for most of you it's kind of a

mixture you have experienced success to some extent and failure to some extent

and you have experienced success turning into its opposite