always a many-fold way in which people make use of the spiritual processes for
some people in many places spirituality and all the spiritual what will you call
them
what are those talks called in Indian religions all that provision
everything is just escaped from the mother-in-law or cooking for some it's
an intellectual entertainment for some they're seeking to learn something they
want to know something new a few people are wanting to you know bring about some
changes in their life they want to become a little more peaceful little
more loving a little more something else some change they want in their life some
people are looking for transformation do you know the difference between changing
transformation transformation means nothing of the old should remain change
means improvement self-improvement our transformation ours
some people just really wanting to get lasted to it dissolve into it so many
ways and people are approaching the same thing
it's which is the best way I wouldn't say which is the best way
because according to each person's needs that's how they seek you can't prescribe
the best way to anybody right now
generally the human nature is such that whatever they don't have that's what
they will seek they don't have health the seeking health as if it's the
ultimate thing if they don't have money they're seeking money as if it's the
ultimate thing they don't have loud they're seeking law as if it's the
ultimate thing whatever they don't have that's what they're seeking that reminds
me this happened when we were in Trichy you know to see there is two Nepali it's
so a medium-sized town in Tamil not in a high school the teacher came and asked
students 8th and 9th symmetrical children if God appears in front of you
and gives you a boon what will you ask
one boy said those days you know Maruti car
I want to martica somebody he said I want a bicycle somebody said I want you
know ten lakh rupees like this they went on then the teacher said you idiots what
will you do with all these things ask for intelligence
asked for knowledge asked for intelligence why are you asking for all
these things so one boy stood up and said everybody asks for what they don't
have
everybody's seeking what they don't have isn't it now if you go by this when a
human being goes by this process of asking for what he doesn't have then
it's an endless process because what is it that you have what you have is so
little if you go on asking for what you don't have you need a thousand years and
still you will be nowhere if you start seeking the next thing that you don't
have it's an endless process of self defeating process isn't it it seems to
be taking you somewhere but it doesn't take you anywhere so what is this about
if you don't seek if there is no seeking you don't go anywhere you know why would
you go to any place if there's nothing to seek because that's a very basis of
your activity desiring and going after it isn't the objects of desire may
change and people may think one object is better than the other but it's not so
whether you're seeking money or more intelligence or knowledge or God or this
or that desire is a desire the object of desire just changes the directions of
your destination but doesn't change the process of life as such and the essence
of life is in its process isn't it where you got in the end is not the point
really in many ways right now the essence of life is how you're
experiencing it right now so once quality of life if we are
changing or if you wanting to experience life in a little better way or in a much
better way whatever changing the objects of desire
is not going to make so much of a difference it's the way we handle the
process which is going to make them difference
but even if life becomes very pleasant and beautiful experience it has to
happen for every human being but even if it happens still you will see there is
something within you which doesn't want to settle for just joyful life either
you're very happy and after some time even that doesn't seem to be enough
because happiness is missing right now the whole life seems to be pursuit of
happiness if you joyful then you will see it's not
enough in fact if you're very happy you will do many more things than when
you're unhappy isn't it so because now you're charged and now there's nothing
pulling you back you have all the enthusiasm to go about and do lots of
things so there is something that this life is longing for it's not a desire
its its destination it is not something a desire that you created or I created
it is just longing to go towards a certain destination the only choice that
we have is either to move towards this destination consciously or unconsciously
anyway we are moving whether to go towards it's consciously or
unconsciously if we are dragged towards something unconsciously even if we are
dragged towards heaven we will suffer the dragging isn't it yes
now we grab you and we'll drag you out you don't know where you're being
dragged you will suffer this we will take you and put you on a beautiful
beach but that's later but right now all along from here to there you are going
to suffer it terribly isn't it so if you walk towards anything or if
life drags you towards a certain direction and you are unconscious about
it you will suffer the process immensely so if you look at it consciously if you
go towards it consciously then the process becomes beautiful that's all the
choice we have really and we once we are conscious we naturally haste in the
process whatever we are unconscious off and that level we suffer you must
understand this say right now you're driving on the street
you're completely unconscious of who is coming behind you who is coming in front
of you now you are going to get into one kind of physical suffering because you
are unaware of the physical reality physical suffering will come something
is going to break isn't it now you are unaware of what is happening in your
body another kind of suffering will come you are unaware of what's happening in
your mind another kind of suffering will come you are unaware of what's happening
in your family another kind of suffering will come
similarly wherever you are unaware that level of suffering will come to you is
it so this is a holiday you're getting that says
once a pilot copilot a pilot walked into the bar the bartender knew him from long
ago he's seen him just the previous year and now he has come back after the
expedition's he looked at him and said hey what happened to you you look
terrible the porter said no I'm just feeling just about fine
mmm the bartender said but what happened your leg why the wooden leg oh that we
were just having a battle with another rival group and I saw cannon ball coming
straight at me before I could move it hit my right leg and I'm doing quite
quite fine with the wooden leg I'm pretty good then the bartender said what
about the hook nice of left hand you have a hook what happened to that oh we
were just having a sword fight for fun and my left hand got chopped off but I'm
doing quite fine with this hawk in fact it's more useful than the hand then he
asked what about the eyepatch you lost one eye what happened oh that I was just
looking up at the sky and a bird poop fell into my eyes oh come on who ever
heard of anybody losing their eyes for bird poop
how would you lose your eyes for bird poop no that was the first day I had my
hawk on
whatever you are neither unaware of their you suffer this they have that
brings suffering to you so we're talking about awareness awareness awareness
awareness is not something that you do actually in fact the less you do the
more aware you become within yourself the less your activity becomes inside
what you call as me the less that becomes the more your awareness becomes
the less your personality becomes the more your presence becomes always
personality means you have to do a lot to keep it up isn't it yes most of the
activity that you're doing to keep up your person is unconscious but you're
doing enormous activity to maintain a certain personality isn't it if that
activity gets lowered suddenly awareness gets heightened because awareness is not
something that you do the very life is awareness the very basis of life is
awareness you know that you're alive only because you're aware isn't it if
all awareness disappears at least on this level we can call it depth so
spirituality is not something that you do if you stop doing all your nonsense
your spiritual unnecessary nonsense if you stop spirituality is you know it's
not something that you have to do and make it happen or create it it's not so
but still why if that is so why am i doing my pranayama in the morning Oh
even in a vest heart they made us do it
I'm sorry the result that's because there is no brakes and your activity
what you do within yourself you have no brakes on it so we are creating a
certain physical mental and energy situation where everything gets diverted
from your activity slowly the practice establishes a situation where the life
energies raised to a certain pitch and intensity that slowly the activity
becomes insignificant it's still dead it's still happening you've seen this in
shown your meditation you just said activity is still happening but it's
insignificant the same activity which was so significant has become
insignificant we have not stopped it we have not done anything to hold it down
but somehow it has become not so important you see this happening when
you just sit and meditate and shown you everything is happening but it's no more
important it's lost its significance it's lost its impact upon you it's lost
its influence upon you it doesn't matter anymore all the activity of the mind
stops molding you you are no more being molded by that activity this this whole
distortion that we have done to life in the form of creating our person see when
you create your personality because it's created mostly unconsciously it's just a
small part of it maybe conscious the rest of it is all unconscious isn't
when you create you run your personality somewhere in one way it means somewhere
you thought creator has not done a good enough job on you isn't it if it needs
improvement definitely he did not do a good enough job on you isn't it so so
why would you feel that such a grand creation is not good enough something
that so enormous and fantastic is not good enough why because in this simple
process of self-preservation you know there is a simple basic process which is
built into every cell in our body every one insect animal has this we also have
it the simple process of self-preservation we don't know where to
contain it it is just split itself into everything because it split itself into
everything you have to create a small person of yourself will defend himself
all the time as we have been looking at in the programs the only thing that
needs preservation is your physical body your personality we must mall it every
day it should be okay isn't it if every day if we can make mincemeat out of your
personality you could create another one tomorrow morning isn't it
isn't it so we've been trying to do that gently because if I go very hard at it
you run away gently step by step we're trying to make mincemeat out of your
personality so that it becomes a flexible aspect you cannot live without
a personality you need one to exist here to go about
in the world do our work manage things but if it's a flexible thing that in
different places as it is necessary for the situation you can put on the right
kind of personality then it would be fine but right now it
is like a rock it's it's on you all the time anything that doesn't fit into its
ambit it makes you suffer isn't it who drew this caricature that you call as
myself definitely yourself but influenced by so many people around you
you know you're 1516 you go and watch Amitabh Bachchan movie you come home and
try to walk like him unconsciously yes isn't it sometimes maybe consciously but
most of the time unconsciously isn't it so
this caricature came into existence because of all kinds of bits and pieces
that I gathered it happens when we were in school there was a boy I was studying
with me who had a excellent hand you know he could just sketch anybody with
whatever kind of distortion he wanted
so there was one very hated geography teacher and when he entered the class
this boy had a horrible caricature of him ready on the blackboard badly
distorted but everybody can clearly recognize her with this with all kinds
of very bad distortions on him then he walked in and as usual he walks into the
class always with the temper whether he is talking about the
grasslands in America or he talks about the deserts in Africa he's always in bad
temper he the moment he saw me just one thing he was angry another thing he was
somehow hit by the whole thing the distortions then who is responsible for
this terrible atrocity as usual you know everybody is suddenly interested in
geography very studious and then he repeated again who is responsible for
this atrocity he thinks it's an atrocity we thought it was appropriate then
somebody made up their mind and stood up and said we really don't know but
it should be his parents so for this atrocity that you call as myself it's
not your parents this is you only you can commit this atrocity of distorting
yourself into such a tiny possibility when an unbounded possibility was what
you were offered with life you were offered an unbounded possibility
you made a such a bad distortion and made yourself into such a tiny
possibility if you stopped creating this caricature because this caricature
cannot exist one day without your support you need to support it all the
time what meditation means means in one way you just withdrawing the support for
your personality that's how suddenly it collapses only
the presence is there the person is no more this if you could walk on the
street like this if you could operate with people like this all the time that
you have no personality but looking at this person at this moment how she is
accordingly you put up a personality as it is necessary with this person now you
go to that person you put up a personality that is necessary for that
person then it would be so much fun drawing you know caricatures every day
but once you get stuck to a particular distortion that becomes a problem every
day if you have a new distortion it's called art
if you're stuck with one distortion then it's called your call a freak isn't it
isn't it so every day if you're able to create a new distortion that is artwork
isn't it if you stuck with one distortion you're a cripple so that's
the big difference Satguru when you're talking about personality we have to
have different personalities as a parent as a husband and a work in normal living
it becomes very difficult to change the personality you mean to say people
around you won't let you change it not wrong see right now let's say you are
going to your work Ennis will take the work situation because it's a less
personal favor you're going to work with a certain
attitude and a certain certain person is going to work which is you right now
let's say he goes briskly like this everything good
don't mean it good morning to anybody
the way people say good morning is very clear they intend to give you a bad
morning so suppose you are going like this tomorrow morning if you go really
say good morning to people and smile at them and maybe of all they're in and ask
a personal question talk to them and going maybe you'll waste five ten
minutes going into your office but if people around you are happy you'll have
a lot of extra time on your hands because they run around and do things
better isn't it if you have people who are sitting there with a grouse then you
know they will make your life miserable in so many ways not one way you have to
live with them but these people have the grouse against you they are going to
make your life so bad isn't it now can I change my personality every day what
confuse people not at all they would enjoy you most isn't it some and will it
bring down your efficiency of work definitely not it is not because of the
compulsion of the situation you've gotten stuck with my personality it is
just that the whole construction of the personality has happened in an awareness
that's why you're stuck with one personality
now you said we have one kind of personality at home why another the
children another with you no work and outside if you look at it it may not be
true you may be functioning in different capacities the requirement of how you
function may be different but still the basic personality may be same everywhere
the underlying personality is still the same you can change that also and it
will be so much fun for you to change that it will be absolute fun for you to
change that because you can experience a whole new person all the time after all
it's your creation so why should it be limited to just one way if God had fixed
a personality for you that's all there is but when you have built it like you
change your clothes every day in different ways isn't it but most people
cannot even change that isn't it they've gotten used to certain thing and that's
all it is isn't it so I think we should have done something today everybody
should dress in a completely different way income not your usual kind of
clothes you're wearing pants all the time today you wear a sari income just
loosen yourself up a little bit you know it's important the reason why what is
the very essence of life is missing in people's life is because it becomes
stiff and spiritual people are stiffer than anybody else
isn't there so stiff still doesn't answer your question there can be
changes in the behavior but your personality remains the same it remains
the same that's what I'm saying you have stuck to one personality just
the actions are different because the situations are different but the person
is same isn't it so the person is same because what your personality is has
become you you are completely identified with it there is no distinction between
you and your personality isn't it you have become that the mask has gotten
stuck to your face now you can't take away the mask if this mask has to come
off we need something to loosen the glue which is gotten stuck to this it is
identity so now we are creating various situations where your identity dissolves
in a certain way meditation or any kind of yoga practice whatever it is just to
loosen the identities so that there's a little more flexibility about it maybe
the whole of it has not come off but at least you can adjust it a little bit
it's a mask being totally stuck at least licky you are able to take a breather
that much break it is giving you but if you work a little more with this you can
take it and keep it off now people when they come to advanced programs three
days or seven days there in samyama our boss banana the person that you are
you'll just simply forget who you are you don't know who you are it will
become like that because the situation created is so intense and so different
everything that you know as normal is broken after some time you don't know
who is here after the program is over and you come back you just wonder is it
me who went through all that most people
can't believe that they actually went through samyama and came simply because
it's created like that the whole situation not only the meditation
process the situation also is created in such a way that it doesn't assist your
personality in any way the whole thing is to take off all the supports because
your personality cannot exist for a moment without your support if you
involve yourself in any intense activity it could loosen up a little bit but that
is Happy's art for example let's say you go and play a game those moments of
total involvement you may lose your personality but that is a happens our
way of attempting it now we are looking at how to approach it scientifically how
to dismantle then all the scaffolding that is holding it up if you have
noticed this people who are very very committed and enjoying the process of
working they always have more flexible personalities then people who are
working towards a goal is it so have you noticed this because just the
involvement with the work total involvement those moments the
personality becomes little loose but people who are working towards a goal
that they want this to happen those people have strong personalities
always the fundamental basis for your personality the building blocks for your
personalities likes and dislikes I like this I don't like this a complex system
of likes and dislikes is what your personality is isn't it
so what's the difference between you on the next person your likes and dislikes
are different isn't it now the basis of yoga is just this to help you beyond
these likes and dislikes whether we're talking responsibility or inevitability
or whatever else we are talking fundamentally it is
destroy the process of like and dislike the existing in the world with likes and
dislikes is a very foolish way to exist but unfortunately the logical mind
thinks I'll do what I like this is my freedom the very basis of your bondage
is in your likes and dislikes but your mind makes you believe doing what you
like is your freedom isn't it all the time everywhere in the world people
believe doing what I like is freedom please look at it carefully the very
fundamental basis of your bondage is in like and dislike to operate sensibly
here even in the physical realm I'm saying even to operate with your work or
family whatever likes and dislikes make you do stupid things I like this person
I don't like this person now I cannot function from what is needed in this
moment isn't it isn't it something now I don't like this person even if this
person is doing something wonderful I cannot see it anymore do you see this
happening to yourself I like this person even if they're doing terrible things I
cannot see it anymore isn't it so because the moment you get
trapped in this like and dislike you have no discretion you lost your
disposition your intelligence is forsaken your awareness is simply
impossible once you try get trapped in likes and dislikes the moment you say I
like this getting identified with it is very normal it's a natural process you
don't have to say I'm going to identify with this lightbulb if you just say I
like this lightbulb you get identified with it the process will just happen see
life is set up in such a way for you so that life happens automatically you just
have to sit here and enjoy the bounty of life but now the problem is we are
setting this forth in a wrong so it is creating suffering suppose if
it will all in your hands you have to like it
you have to get involved with it it's everything is yours it would be a
terrible effort to live isn't it now it's all set up well you know the
whole software is so well set up if you just say I like this getting involved in
it get dreaming about it this that that everything just happens by itself isn't
it everything that is necessary to take you in that direction just happens isn't
it so so this is just life assisting you but it has no discretion if you like
hell it will take you to help it happened once mm-hmm what do you call a
person who hires people in a corporation or whatever HR the HR director in a
corporation died and went to heaven the Saint Peter said see because you are the
first HR person to come to heaven we will give you a choice if you want you
can stay in heaven because you got the passport but before you go to heaven if
you want you can have a view of Hell if you wish to say that you can also stay
there this is a lady hits her purse and she says no why would I want to go to
hell I want to go to heaven he said why wouldn't you want to have a look at it
said okay she got in the elevator when dreaming down
then the elevator doors opened and it opened your beautiful garden on the
poolside very beautiful people are swimming you know sunbathing and it's a
wonderful golf course and then a nice Clubhouse the works you know this is
great hello
she had a view of that and then st. Peter said okay you have a view of
heaven then you choose then she got in the elevator apeman's
up supposed to be down and up okay
that's a direction of this you better know now we are down so there they open
the doors and then she saw lots of clouds people just floating in the
clouds playing harp and you know she said okay this is also fine
but I think I'll go to hell all my friends have there's this golf I'll go
so they put on in the elevator she just went down
and again the doors open the harsh desert everybody all dried up without
food in terrible condition everything
she said what is this last time when I came there was a garden there was a pool
there was a golf course what happened so they said that was just the first day
you know now your staff that was the interview now your staff all your life
you did this to people this is your choice your personality I don't know if
you're working in places at least if your head job is that nobody hit you
especially if you hit channel maybe you also you're supposed to size up a person
you know somebody new walks into your office
you're supposed to size them up where they will fit into this whole machine of
an organization so if you're willing to look people's personalities are always
hanging out they need not say anything they need not do anything if you just
look at them properly the very way they stand sit you don't need any great yogic
intuition simply a simple observation of a person the very way this time the way
they all their hands this the way they smile the way they do things their
personality is just hanging out of them so it's so obvious to everybody except
yourself
that's the whole thing
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