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how Fighting Can Help Improve Relationships ?!! | animated video - Duration: 3:14.

When we're young, we think of the perfect relationship.

Everyone is always smiling and things are going well.

Your partner knows exactly what to say and do to make you feel good, and vice versa.

Those of us who have been in relationships know better.

Couples can and will fight for just about anything.

The key is to understand that fighting can help improve relationships.

Here's how.

stay tuned.

No.1, You will feel better.

Letting off steam and expressing your feelings releases tension, anxiety and fear.

Not only does this feel better, it is a healthier state when anxiety and stress, with accompanying

harmful hormones, are dissipated, this does not mean venting or dumping toxic shit on

your partner.

Keeping emotions bottled up all the time, leads to rigidity of the mind, body and soul.

No.2, You will be more comfortable around one another

The classic sign that a couple is comfortable with each other, is when the "embarrassing"

bodily functions fly, even when the other person is in the room.

Believe it or not, fighting can actually do the same thing.

Couples who fight are not only working out their issues, but also showing each other

how they deal with problems.

It forces you to talk about yourselves and what you think.

By the end of it, you'll know the other person way better than you did before, and

vice versa, because both of you will be expressing yourselves, often for the first time.

No.3, You and your partner will restore your sanity.

Anger means that you care.

Unfortunately, being angry can also drive you insane if you don't express it.

Bottling up those kinds of emotions can be dangerous.

It can cause you to have irrational thoughts, and eventually you start thinking things that

aren't true.

Letting out that anger, can help reset your insanity button, and get those negative thoughts

out of your head.

Not fighting and letting those feelings get bottled up is never good.

Ever.

No.4, you can stop trying to be perfect.

Fighting demonstrates that you are human and not some perfect angelic being, or that you

have the perfect relationship, or that you are above it all.

It shows that sometimes you are in a bad mood, are stressed out, or just plain tired.

No.5, Intimacy increases.

Fighting tells us what is important for our partner, what they don't like, what they

want, where their boundaries are, how flexible they are, what hurts them, and what they need

to feel better.

Discovering these aspects breeds a deeper intimacy, and appreciation of the other.

Fighting can be a growth process in which your self-understanding, and understanding

of your partner increases.

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MICHAEL JACKSON and JAMES BROWN - A Relationship Like No Other ft PRINCE - Duration: 13:05.

MICHAEL JACKSON and JAMES BROWN - A Relationship Like No Other ft PRINCE

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thank you very much ladies and gentlemen thank you thank you thank you right now

we're gonna get it hot before we call them so it's not revin he's dead dude

but I can't do it I gotta say it anyway we got another fantastic people put if

you're meant to be a place and just the people we got he's so beautiful

the brand

a young man I was throwing throws I got better no it was so beautiful

the effect of now that you found a blessing and thank God he said every day

I got a new inspiration a new motivation because not just just let things happen

to you make you feel good if you will ever do

spare twine is bear humming and fancy can just feel the bullet elephant is

running out of here here the whole town if you will

let's give another that innovations for young man this behind you they have no

idea

you

I love you

yeah

I'd say

what is the genius what is a genius one whose inspiration demands change a

genius I love you more

I couldn't I couldn't refuse to give this award tonight because nobody has

influenced me more than this man right

I'm happy

from the bottom of my heart since I was a child at six years old he was the one

that I looked up to more than any other entertainer and I still do today so like

to say ladies and gentlemen I am deeply honored I love you I'm deeply honored to

present to James Brown this year's a Lifetime Achievement Award and nobody

deserves it more than this man

you know years ago little my kid I remember you don't have to change bounce

steps but you're late on he's got his own steps and that's what it's about God

best Charlie got his own I love it but not too much he loved him I love you

more you told me everything we're not Michael we all noticed you

went on and did a lot of things you talked to Michael I said no I think he's

out the country he said well I love Michael he said tell him don't worry

about coming home they always scandalized those that had

the talent but tell them we need this clean up the music and I want Michael

and all of them that imitated me to come back and lift the music back to where

children and the Grandmama's can sit and listen to the music together

I didn't know that would be our last conversation but mr. Brown all through

the 35 years I knew you you used to tell me if you died first you wanted to go

out with dignity when I got the call from mr. Bobbitt I got with Yama

Dianna flew in who's my new boss now

nice Larry tear it down all the brown sugar we took you to New York where they

lightened around the pile of one more time we brought you home to the church

well now we brought you to the James Brown Arena we tried to do what you

asked us to do Reb Jackson's here mr. Brown and even though many stars you

helped and even though he knows they're gonna criticize them Michael say you

don't care what they say Michael came for you today mr. brown

come on up Michael come up here

I don't care what the media says tonight James Brown wanted Michael Jackson with

him here today

brothers and sisters as I bring the family and then mr. Bob it and then we

will conclude the eulogy I think it is only appropriate based on my last

conversation we hear some words of expression from Michael Jackson

Oh what I'm gonna say is brief but to the point James Brown is my greatest

inspiration ever since I was a small child no more than like six years old my

mother would wake me no matter what time it was I was sleeping no matter what I

was doing to watch the television to see the master at work and when I saw him

move I was mesmerised I've never seen a performer perform like James Brown and

right then and there I knew that that that was exactly what I wanted to do for

the rest of my life because of James Brown I I love you but James Brown I

shall miss you and I love you so much and thank you for everything

god bless you and I love you

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Great News - Chuck Offers Relationship Guidance (Episode Highlight) - Duration: 2:07.

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How to avoid a toxic relationship based on your star sign - Duration: 6:10.

Is YOUR relationship doomed to fail? Astrologist reveals the star signs that should never mix in the bedroom

An astrologer has revealed the star signs that she says should never become involved in a relationship because of contrasting personality traits which make them totally incompatible.

Rachel Lang, a professional astrologer based in California, says she has devised a way to maximize compatibility in relationships by pinpointing the star signs that just don't mix - noting that if people know which signs to avoid altogether, they can better protect themselves against heartbreak.

Speaking to Bustle she explained: 'Certain signs mirror back shadow sides of others, which can trigger conflicts or stir unhealthy behavioral patterns.

After exploring every sign in detail, Lang has concluded that impulsive (March 20-April 19) doesn't mix well with (August 22-September 22), as Virgos are highly organized and like to stick to a routine.

She also found that (April 19-May 20) and (October 23-November 21) have lots of chemistry as they are on the opposite ends of the Zodiac signs but in a relationship, this lack of balance can be too intense, leading to a toxic relationship.

Free-spirited (May 20-June 20) also struggle in relationships with as Lang explains Gemini 'likes to play and needs a lot of freedom.

' Since Scorpios can be a bit more controlling, fireworks are inevitable, however Lang also suggests that Geminis aren't too deep for Scorpios and their carefree nature can cause trust issues.

And when it comes to (February 18-March 20), initially love their fun-loving and carefree connection but this can lead to misunderstandings over time.

'Pisces needs to feel emotionally connected, heard, and understood.

Gemini doesn't always want to take the time to process emotions.

Theirs is a more cerebral sign, which can make them seem emotionally distant or detached.

This could lead to trouble, as Pisces could feel under-appreciated or unseen,' Lang shared.

(June 20-July 22) craves emotional security so free-spirited (November 21-December 22) is more likely to hurt their feelings.

Attention loving (July 22-August 22) struggle to get along with (December 21-January 19) who are skilled in compartmentalizing parts of their lives, especially when it comes to career, leaving Leo feeling left out.

also need to be careful in relationships with (January 19-February 18) although drawn to each other, attention seeking Leos can cause a lot of drama if they don't feel they are getting enough attention.

When it comes to sexual chemistry, (August 22-September 22) is a good match with but this could become toxic overtime as Pisces tend to 'have their head in the clouds' while Virgo is more 'practical'.

Lang says that if Virgo ends up 'cleaning up after Pisces (metaphorically and literally)' they could feel more like 'a worker than a partner'.

(September 22-October 23) are characterized as being kind and invested in their relationships but Lang says this isn't good news if a Libra aligns itself with an.

'Aries does not always like to compromise, and they can be fiercely independent, she explains.

Because of this, Libra may have to make sacrifices to keep the peace.

This pattern could result in a relationship that's way out of balance, one in which Libra doesn't have a voice.'.

Freedom-loving(November 21-December 22) tends to feel repressed by sensible but Lang says they can learn to get along.

'The challenges could smooth out over time if Virgo relaxes and allows Sagittarius to surprise them, and Sagittarius learns not to take criticism personally,' she adds.

And when it comes to workplace relations, (December 21-January 19) is seen as an ambitious and determined sign which can spell disaster with.

For more infomation >> How to avoid a toxic relationship based on your star sign - Duration: 6:10.

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Yung Pueblo: The Power of Truth for Good Relationships - Duration: 0:29.

If you really want to have a good relationship with someone, don't lie. I

think it's so, so important. I think, you know, you think to yourself, like, oh I

want to lie because I want to save them the misery. No, absolutely not.

Lies always create long-term problems, you know, even if it doesn't happen right

now, in the future it's, you know, it's going to create, it's going to

continue popping up until you tell the truth. So, if you want to be very close to

someone, stop lying, tell the truth.

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Listening to Hear: Relationship Skills #1 - Duration: 7:08.

When it comes to relationships if I could only help my clients learn one skill it would be this: listening to hear

Whether you're a parent child spouse co-worker or friend the ability to listen,

Understand and show that you care is an essential building block to any relationship now

I'll be the first to tell you

I'm not a naturally good listener my family and friends probably wouldn't describe me as a great listener

But it is a skill that I've worked on and developed

Over time. and this episode of therapy in a nutshell is going to teach you some of the ways you can improve your listening skills

Empathic listening helps people be more open and less

Defensive and creates a space where people are able to understand their emotions better and resolve them. It improves collaborative problem-solving

It builds trust and helps people feel connected

and it facilitates the

Building of emotional intelligence; that is the ability to understand and express what it is you're feeling.

In order to become a better listener

There's a few skills you can actively practice while you're listening to other people

The first one is simply paying attention try to focus your mind and thoughts on what they're talking about

The second skill is what one of my professors called "shuttupping"

I mean just stop talking. Talking a lot obviously gets in the way of your ability to be a good listener

I once heard this described as using the "hairy eyeball" so when someone says something you kind of lift your eye, okay?

I'm terrible with this, but you you just look interested in what they're saying and they're gonna keep talking

You don't have to say a lot of things another important step is providing a positive atmosphere using your body language, so

Opening yourself up. You're not crossing your arms or looking down at the ground. You know you look at them

you know you just open yourself up to people you can give nonverbal encouragement like head nodding and kind of matching the speaker if

they're pacing back and forth you you watch them, and you you move with them and

You can also invite people to say more by saying things like Oh

Tell me more or oh I'd like to hear more about that or what happened another really essential skill of good listening is

Listening for the deeper meaning of what they're talking about and when you can reflect that back to them it helps them feel understood

So a child comes home from school and had a rough rough experience with homework

And if you just engage about the homework, you know they say oh, I'm no good at math

Then you getting you know a discussion about the homework. "No you can do math" "here

Let me show you here's how to do this problem"

"Let me fix this" then you're completely ignoring what the child is feeling which is maybe you know a little bit down or discouraged

So stopping to acknowledge and say "okay, I can see that you're feeling discouraged"

"This is hard" can help them feel like you're on the same page with them and like you understand them

Now you might not be a good listener if you're doing the following things

And I think a lot of us don't realize it when we're doing these things that

They interfere with our ability to listen or to help the other person feel like we understand them, so good listening is not

Agreeing or disagreeing. You don't have to agree with

Someone to listen to them, and I think a lot of people get caught up in that. Remember our goal is to start with just

Understanding them. Good listening is not giving advice or teaching. It's not

Problem-solving, it's not saying "Well look. It's gonna get better tomorrow." Or "Don't worry. It's all gonna be okay." Don't ask a lot of questions

That's you directing the conversation and sometimes makes the the person who's speaking feel like they're being grilled or

interrogated. Problem solving for the other person can often feel like discounting their feelings if you say things like

"It's not that bad" or "If you only did this that would fix it it" interferes with their ability to feel understood

Saying things like "Oh, I understand" or "You think that's bad. Let me tell you about something that happened to me"

can really get in the way of helping another person feel understood. Anytime

You're trying to change them or convince them of something or sway their opinion

That's an indication that you're not doing a good job listening. Now

This is where a lot of people get their undies all in a bundle about listening skills. They get really frustrated

They say to me "Well what you're saying

I can never give advice or I can't help someone?" and that's not the case of course. There's a time for advice giving

There's a time for empathizing by saying. "Oh, you know what that happened to me once." There's a time to

Encourage someone or to teach them math, but that's just it's not listening

What I'm saying is you start with listening you start with understanding

You start with acknowledging them and checking to see if you acknowledge them, and you're understanding them, so you might say things like

"So what you're saying is you feel like your teacher doesn't get you?" or

"You're having a hard time listening to your teacher?" and you clarify and then they maybe say "Yeah

that's it" or they say "No. No that's not the problem, the problem

Is ..." and by doing that step you get to a place where you're both on the same page,

and they know that you understand them and after that if there is a need to give advice or

Try to share your opinion or change their mind there might be room for that after but it always works better

After that firm foundation of understanding that they know you understand them. Good listening is hard

But it's hardest what the people were closest to that's because when they share something that makes them feel sad or hurt or upset

We feel that same pain and those same emotions

So we often are quick to jump in and try and fix things for them, or if they're expressing something about us

We tend to be more defensive because we have a stronger emotional

Reaction to them. So when we're jumping in to fix something

Or we're jumping in with advice it might not be because we're trying to help them feel better

But because we're trying to relieve our own discomfort that means in those times

we have to work twice as hard to use our good listening skills and

Not immediately try to fix the problem

Even if you have a really good conversation with someone and you're able to share your points of view

But they don't agree with you at the end at the very least they'll feel like you understand them

And that's a valuable step forward. Now if you'd like to practice this go out there and try and have a five-minute conversation with someone

Without asking questions, giving advice or talking about yourself. This can be quite challenging, but it's a skill that can be developed.

Now one last caveat: if

all you're doing is using these listening skills as a way to try and convince or change someone else so you think "Well if I'm

A better listener I can convince that person to change."

Then this is all going to backfire you people can feel our intentions

They can tell if we actually care

Or if we're just acting like we're listening or if we're just using some skill on them especially

Teenagers are really good at sniffing out when we're using some new skill so make sure when you go in to listen to someone you

Get your heart in the right place and you try to focus your energy on caring about them, and what they have to say

So thanks for watching. Hope this is helpful take care

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Love Island's Camilla Thurlow and Jamie Jewitt tease big relationship news - Duration: 5:43.

Love Island's Camilla Thurlow and Jamie Jewitt tease big relationship news

Despite the series coming to an end in July, it seems we cant get enough of the Love Island finalists.

From Chris Hughes feuding with Katie Price, Jessica Shears getting married to Dom Lever and Kem Cetinay releasing a hit single, the stars from the ITV2 summer smash are now bona-fide celebs in their own right.

But one couple that have refused to play the fame game are second-place runners up Camilla Thurlow and Jamie Jewitt, who have shied away from cashing in on numerous personal appearences and taking part on Dancing On Ice.

Instead, the pair both have thrown themselves into numerous charity projects, keeping more tight-lipped about their relationship.

But now Jamie, who stars in action film Rise of the Foot Soldier 3, has teased that the loved-up pair will be taking their relationship to the next level.

Speaking exclusively to the Daily Star Online, the former Calvin Klein model said: Things are really good between us.

Weve been going out for two months two and a half months, and we're taking things slow.

Even now we're out of the Love Island villa, things are not as natural as going out and meeting someone.

Although were out there in the real world its not really the real world to us.

"There will be news soon, dont worry!" Jamie Jewitt Were not really thinking too much about it.

Were staying busy.

But therell be some news, dont worry." Camilla, 28, recently echoed Jamie's sentiments in an exclusive interview with the Huffington Post: We dont feel any pressure, as long as we're happy, she told MailOnline.

We are just taking things at our own pace.

I think the trick is to enjoy things as they are now, and that builds a strong foundation for the future.

To give Jamie his due – he is very good at making me feel good. It is little wonder Camilla feels good about herself with Jamie on her arm, with the 27-year-old being hailed on Twitter during their time in the villa for being 'the perfect man' thanks to his classic good looks, intelligent conversation and multiplicity of skills.

When quizzed about just why he was so perfect, he laughed.

"Nobodys perfect!" he added.

"Its a good feeling.

Everyone has their flaws, I just manage to hide mine well.

Jamie, who filmed his part in the film before entering the Love Island villa, also teased that we may be seeing him in more acting roles soon.

It was really fun and Im looking forward to seeing it.

When you shoot films it takes ages to come out and Id forgotten Id even done it but it was really fun.

I still do acting Ive done acting for a few years, its a natural progression from modelling - you get invited into acting parties, but Im definitely interested in it.

Well see what sort of job I done in this film and well take it from there. Rise of the Footsoldier 3: The Pat Tate Story is in cinemas now.

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Are you letting Facebook ruin your relationship - Duration: 9:57.

Ready now? Ready now. Welcome to Zippy Vibe! Are you ready to talk about Face Book some more?

When you think about Facebook the platform and how it's relatively new especially

compared to another technology like the telephone that's been around seems like

forever. Forever to us. For sure. On the telephone there's kind of some unwritten

rules with married couples like I wouldn't just call up a ex-girlfriend out

of the blue but for whatever reason on Facebook it's such a new platform and

the possibilities are endless that people end up reaching out to an ex

girlfriend or boyfriend on Facebook and it and it's just inviting... Just to see them I guess. We don't do Facebook so not sure.

I'm not exactly sure how it all works for whatever reason I guess it's

easier than making a phone call it's not as you know quite as.... Oh it's fishing.

yeah. Yeah, it's easier because it's just fishing. Sure. We are just friends on Facebook. But maybe over time as Facebook continues to evolve and

become more and more part of our lives then maybe a majority of husbands and

wives will say hey we're protecting our relationship from Facebook and we're not

going we're gonna have a Facebook account say but we're not going to have

those sorts of interactions you know there's gonna be okay boundaries. I don't

know what do you think? I think more and more married people will just get off of Facebook.

to protect their marriages and it's not about being a

jealous twit it's about just you know you go into the barbershop you're gonna

get a haircut so you know there's no point in setting yourself up for a whole

bunch of temptations and it's really interesting comment about the telephone

because an ex-boyfriend would not probably call me if they know I'm

married but they see you on Facebook and they approach you on Facebook. Right.

And you're married and they know that but it's just a trial to see well

they're married but are they happily married because you know there

are people that wait out marriages people wait out marriages. Sure.

Because they figure well you know five to seven years I'll give that one another try. Right. They circle the wagons. I will wait

this one out yeah you bring up an excellent point about the telephone

it had etiquette I guess when it was invented people had to learn to quit

just showing up at your house without calling first. Right.

We are not on Facebook because we're married and Facebook is a place where a

lot of hookups take place and I think it's now 20% of divorces could be traced

back to Facebook.

We're not cruising single bars anymore. Do they call them single bars? I don't know. What the hell.

We're not cruising the sports bars anymore.

bar hopping and doing that kind of thing meeting people out we're not on

Match.com anymore. All in all I think we made a good decision. I've never looked back

or regretted not having Facebook I was at lunch with a couple of girlfriends in

Atlanta and the first thing that came out of Mary's mouth was when are you

gonna get on Facebook? Melinda said she's not gonna get on Facebook because she

doesn't like to waste her time. That's very true.

I mean it's very true and it may be one of the best compliments I've ever received

I was really flattered that they know that and so it is also because now that

we're married I just wouldn't do that. When Facebook went public there was a

joke going around that oh now you can waste your money the same place you

waste your time. Yeah, so your marriage goes down the same drain as your

portfolio. Facebook is great for small businesses, we own and operate a small business but also I'm

talking about teeny-tiny businesses it's really small right it's it's opened up

the world for for business it really has because you can reach a marketplace so

inexpensively if you are willing to put in the work social media is a lot of work it to

market your business but it's a great platform for doing that so overall I

would give it an A++ on that and an F on Facebook for social just not not for me.

Maybe it's not just the fact that it's Facebook and what's going on but it's

the fact that we know you're missing out on so many other things.

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