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Being in a relationship is great- yet sometimes it can be tricky.

There are many differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships.

There are also a lot of things you should and shouldn't do while in one and that's

what were going to be talking about today.

Hey youtube im court mcginley and welcome back to the most amazing top 5.

Before we get started I want to know- what are the top 3 things you look for in a partner?

Let me know your answers down in the comments.

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Alright without further a due lets get started on our list of the top 5 Things You Should

Never Do In A Relationship Stating off at our number 5 spot--Stop putting

in effort- ive said it once and ill say it again.

Once you stop putting effort into a relationship its going to die.

Might not be today- might not be tomorrow – but its going to happen pretty soon after.

Once you get comfortable with someone and settle into a routine its easy to put in less

effort.

Before you know it instead of talking on the phone your shooting each other a quick text-

you no longer go out on dates- you no longer ask each other about your day- no flowers-

no little momentos to show youre thinking of each other.

Once these things start to go its not looking good my friend.

Its super important you continue to enjoy communicating with one another-complement

one another- go on dates- get each other little gifts here and there.

No matter how long youre with someone you should never stop trying to impress them or

making them feel loved.

In at number 4--Bringing up the past- obviously no relationship is perfect.

Your going to have problems at one point or another.

But bringing up past issues- or holding onto past arguments is a huge mistake that's

just going to result in the 2 of you arguing.

Now I have to admit at the beginning of my relationship I was guilty of this.

I think its something we all do at one point in a relationship.

It's a hard thing not to do.

But after its been done once or twice you start to realise bringing it up gets you no

where and you need to stop referencing back to it.

Personally im a very stubborn person so that was hard for me to do.

But how many times can you bring up the same little thing over and over again?

It gets old really fast.

At number 3--Lose yourself- its all too easy when you fall in love to lose yourself.

You just become so consumed in this other persons life and just want to be with them

24/7.

And while yes- you should want to be around them you need to remember its important you

still do the things you love as well.

Its natural when your constantly around someone that you pick up their hobbies and interests-

but that doesn't mean your original hobbies and interest before them just disappear.

Its so important that you still have your own lives that are separate from one another

too.

Take time to hang out with your friends and family- and do your own thing- keep perusing

your interests- youre not attached at the hip.

Coming in at number 2--Support- when youre in a relationship with someone- youre in a

partnership.

And you should always have your partners back.

Now don't get me wrong- of course youre going to have different opinion and ideas

and that's fine.

But when it comes to their dreams and goals in life its important you have their back.

And sometimes they may fail but you should never say I told you so or mock them for being

wrong.

They don't need to feel worse about failing.

You need to be each others rock and feel comfortable to lean on one another and open up completely.

And in at number 1--Cheating- now this is a super obvious one.

If youre no longer into your partner and don't think its going to work out then break up

with them.

Its never under any circumstance ok to cheat.

Its just that simple.

Once someone cheats the trust is gone and its never fully going to be able to be gained

back.

I know that sometimes some people cheat and their partner stays with them.

And that's their choice and that's fine.

Personally this is something I would never be able to do.

I believe that trust is the foundation of any relationship and once that's ruined

you can try and fix it but once its gone its never going to be what it once was.

So its simple- don't cheat.

And there you have it that's our list of the top 5 Things You Should Never Do In A

Relationship.

Hopefully this helped some of you- or it just confirmed youre doing all the right things.

I just want to thank you all for watching.

and I will catch you in the next one.

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Dating After an Unhealthy Relationship - Duration: 2:28.

Especially if your last relationship was a really unhealthy one, it's important that

you avoid doing the following now that you are dating again.

1.

Don't pass judgement over all men based on what your ex did.

It's not uncommon for women to say there are no good men out there.

That's a total lie so don't tell it to yourself.

2.

Don't doubt people based on your ex: Especially if your ex was a cheater and/or liar, you

may feel like you'll never be able to trust anyone again.

This is a huge mistake that people regularly make.

Are there other liars and cheaters out there? Yes, but it doesn't mean that you are going

to end up with another.

Consider that anybody new that you meet has nothing to do with your ex or any other guy

you've dated or been in a relationship with.

This leads to my next point:

3.

Do your best not to compare the new people you meet with your ex.

In the beginning you probably aren't going to help but do this but with enough awareness,

you can nip that behavior.

There are 2 reasons for not doing this:

#1.

It takes you from being there in the moment and

#2.

You slime the experience that you are having with the new person that you are hanging out

with.

4.

Don't try to find the same exact qualities that you liked in your ex.

For example, I've heard women say, "I want a guy that's as tall as my ex."

And their ex was 6 foot something and he must like skiing.

Those are two very specific qualities that would narrow your chances of meeting a great

match.

It's important that you be able to see people for who they are and know that when the right

person comes along, there will be new great qualities that you are going to be able to appreciate

and you never know, you might end up introducing this new person to things that he or she enjoys.

One of the blessings that I've received from working with so many people is that I've

seen people go from unhealthy relationships and marriages to great ones where they are

truly happy.

It is possible for you to be in a healthy relationship where you wants and needs are

met.

So stay positive while dating and just see what happens.

I will soon be launching my new coaching, hypnotherapy and more membership website that

is going to have a whole program for single people who are dating.

It will encompass the mindsets that I've just shared with you.

Be sure to go to SashaCarrion.com and sign up for my newsletter so that the moment new

membership site is up, I can let you know.