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welcome to the NA LCS I'm joined by Team Liquid support Ollen. Team liquid

has fielded an entire new roster 5 veterans from a whole bunch of different

places what has it been like so far with this new team in Team Liquid oh actually

like everyone knows how to play so like we didn't need to tell them how to do it

like we just need to discuss like oh maybe we should done this and maybe on

this play will be better like we didn't really point out someone's problem like

we are kind of giving feedback each other not like blaming each other so

yeah I think our team like mood is very nice like we are like okay right Wow

even though we lost all we have we learned something then I think their

attitude is the best so I think I love that you actually came over to this team

with former teammates of yours in pobelter and xmithie in the mid and

jungle respectively what's been the biggest difference between Team Liquid

and immortals is an organization that you've seen thus far

oh actually I don't feel the most difference because like I only play

League of Legends and yeah so like I cannot I couldn't be anything different

at least I could fear that like Timmy kid has lots of that resource to post I

don't know like the YouTube video like we have one of Studio and then they took

lots of videos and then like it's very nice quality so sometimes I enjoy it

those like kind of documentary or drama so yeah I think that's most big part is

it fun being on camera do you do you like to in content like that

Oh like sometimes I say something wrong and I believe they just a bit well yeah

I think yeah I love that hey we're no stranger to doing that here

either when we have to oh wait you played against Cody Sun today someone

who you're credited with kind of helping him find his play style his confidence

from being on immortals last year how is what do you think of his growth as a

player and what do you think's changed for him on heart thieves now on his new

team actually after we lost our championship

I did talk with Cody I how like how he was and then how I want him to be so

like we kind of discuss for our future but we didn't we didn't expect we gonna

be an enemy first I didn't expect unbalanced in any again so I was giving

him like oh I think this part you were your bed so I wanted to fix those

problem and yeah he was really happy to listen to my opinion and yeah he

promised that he will solve his problem so I think he did well like he had been

really doing well and I think that's how he beat us today do you guys still keep

in touch like you guys still to talk about battling strategies or anything

like that or is it different since you guys are on different teams now Oh

actually we cannot exchange our strategy I'm plan so but we only talk about how

how is being like how are you like so like even today before mesh we talk like

for like tammini likes just some more stuff like oh your team environment is

good or are you happy now adays like yeah we just just catching up basically

yeah well that's really cool you're now in the bot lane with double

lift which people found very interesting given his lane dominant playstyle and

you've always been known for your big rooms and your big play making what's it

like playing with double lift in the bot lane so far this year um I think Peter

knows lots of stuff to communicate because I didn't my English is not

perfect in gaming so like he has been helping me like how to call how to

communicate how to tell the information to our teammates so um I have been

learning so I think like are we are we better

are we better English speaker with him yeah well your English is already pretty

good so it's really great that you're improving though in-game with your

communication Olli this is the most talented roster team liquid to put

together on paper I think that's indisputable here but

we've seen them put rosters together before and it hasn't worked out the way

the fans have wanted why is this year different last year for I am

he lost to TSM in the final so like me and Jake I'm Eugene it's just one win it

SES really seriously and w2 already got champion last year but he want to prove

himself to were championship and impact also like he D we're on our championship

but he say he didn't do well in any areas so but everyone has their goal and

then passion so that's yeah that's how we work well we certainly look forward

to seeing you guys continue to do that oleh thank you so much for the interview

is there anything you'd like to say to the TL fanbase out there um now like

Timmy kid yeah today we lost it feels bad but I believe our team we always

come back and like today we lost and yeah our conversation was like oh we

learned something and yeah we just play played next time better and would be

much better don't worry guys so yeah I think you guys don't need to be really

worried because one lose so yeah thank you

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2018 Spring Seminar #3: The Relationship Between Public Perceptions of Speed, Speed Laws, & Safety - Duration: 1:09:39.

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How To Fix A Broken Relationship - Duration: 8:50.

How to fix a broken relationship? I've brought in the relationship mechanic.

You're going to want to see this.

Okay, relationships are one of my favorite

things to talk about and especially when I have a friend on board who's an expert

in relationships. I've introduced him to you in other videos as the author of

this brilliant little book that is titled, You Can Be Right Or You Can Be Married

and I think that's brilliant. This is Brett Williams, folks. His

contact information is down in the description so if you want to connect to

him, that's where you're going to find it. The reason Brett's here today is because

I got a question for you. Okay, you ready for this? Brett, how do

you fix a broken relationship? - That is awesome question. It's a little

complicated though, it's a little complicated because we got to figure out what's

broken and that's the number one thing to fixing anything. If you have a broken

car, a broken radio and what broken any. You got to figure out what's

broken - It's like the diagnosis stand before you prescribe the treatment. - Yeah, and

that's where couples actually get in the most trouble, is they can't figure out

what's broken. Alright, so let me tell you a little story because it just makes

it a little bit clearer for us. So Jill and let's call him Jim come in and they

are a cute couple, they're a good couple, good people, they come in but

they sit on opposite sides of the couch and right away that just tells you

holy moly, what's going on here, what's the story? - I think I saw them. - Yeah,

exactly. So he asked her what's going on and

Jill starts off, she says, "Oh Jim, Jim just never does anything I ask him to do. He

doesn't take out the trash, he doesn't help around the house, he leaves his

socks on the floor. Oh my gosh." She's just fried with all the shenanigans that she

feels like he's just not, he's engaged. - She knows what's broken - In the

relationship. Yeah, she knows, yeah. So then I turn to Jim, I go, "Jim..." No, I don't really

do that. - And Jim fires you. - Exactly. I go, "Jim what's going on?

What's your side of it? How do you see things?" and Jim goes, "Oh, you know she's

just never happy, she's never satisfied. No matter what I do, it's just not good

enough." Come on, really? You think I've never ever

washed dishes in my life? Of course I have. Do you think I've never take out

the trash? Yes, it's just never her time,

it's never her schedule. - It's never good enough. - It's never good

enough for her. - He knows what's broken. - Yeah, he does, he does. So I turned to both of them

and kind of my mischievious kind of look and I go, "Hmm, let me see, let me see if I

understand the problem here. Okay, Jill what you're telling me is that you think

Jim's the problem, is that right?" She goes, "Yeah" - And she knows she's right.

- Yeah, so I go, "Jim, let me see if I understand problem. You think Jill's

the problem, is that right?" "Yeah, she's the problem, she's the problem."

So then I turned to both of them, I say, "You know what? That's the problem." The

problem is they are in a right fight, that's where they're stuck. The

problem is, they can't communicate anything because everything they

communicate turns out to be good guys and bad guys. It turns out to be, I'm

right or you're wrong or you're wrong and I'm right

and it's just this battle of who's right and who's wrong and that's going to go

nowhere. - Right. You do have described that perfectly. I've been doing this for

two decades and I saw them in my office. How often is it that people come in and

they're like.. - My book is called You Can Be Right Or You Can Be Married

because there's only one fight I have seen couples for 20, 30 years,

there is only one fight that ever comes in my office and that's it, that's the

fight. They fight about kids, they fight about money, they fight about sex, they

fight about in-laws, they fight about all this stuff but it always is one

fight, it's about who's right and who's wrong.

- Instead of what's right or what's wrong. - There it is. - Wait okay, so you're

leading me right into this, okay. You started off by saying, okay the first

thing, if we're going to fix a broken relationship, we have to figure out

what's wrong. We could end the video, right? Because it's not about who's

wrong, it's about what's wrong. If you just searched for this video and found

it or somebody shared it with you, you may be in the place that Jim and Jill

were, just be open to that if that is a possibility in your mind then something

huge could change here as you shift your focus from who's wrong and you know

who's wrong to what's wrong. Walk us through that. - So let's walk through

that. So I have Jim and Jill do that exact thing so I have them actually turn

to each other because it's not valuable for them to talk to me because I'm not

in their marriage, I'm not in their relationship. It's their relationship.

I have them turned to each other and I said, "Jill here's what I want you to do. I

want you to take Jim's hand and I want you to tell Jim what's wrong.You're

hurt, you're scared, you're frustrated, you're disappointed, you feel unloved, it

doesn't matter, you are free to have any feeling you want but I want you to tell

him what's wrong not who's wrong. Jim, I want you to sit back and I want you to

listen." So she turns into him, she starts telling him, "I just feel like sometimes

I'm working harder in this relationship than you are and that makes me

feel like I love you more than you love me." and so she starts to talk about what

her real issue is. She feels this disconnect and

Jim hearing that, he goes, "Oh my gosh, that's not my intention, it's not what I

want. I'm so sorry that you feel like that." And he begins to be able to

connect with something because now he has something to connect to. - And now he's

not defensive too. You'll notice if somebody feels like they're being

attacked as being who's wrong, they're going to naturally get defensive

and if you notice some defensiveness in your spouse, wonder what that could mean.

- Yeah, and then of course I flip it around and let Jim also talk to her to talk to

Jill and say, Jim tell her what's going on.

- What's wrong not who's wrong. - "I feel like I'm never not good enough for you. I, my

number one goal is to please you. I feel like I never can. I feel like I never

can please you because I just never get it right and so after a while I just

feel like I want to quit." And so he bares his soul and start sharing with her

where he's at and she connects with that. Did I cure the marriage in one session?

No, but did I have them walk out in there feeling more connected? Absolutely. - Well

you just put them in position to solve this because now we're focused on what's

wrong right which we can come up with some technologies or some interventions

or some yeah therapies to address what's wrong. It's really changing that

focus then from from who's wrong to what's wrong and then whatever it

is, this is the beautiful thing. Thank you, Brett, because I knew he would do this.

It's cueing us up for success, it's putting us in position to solve anything.

This little conversation that you just demonstrated to us doesn't

solve anything but it beautifully puts you in position to solve anything. Now we

can get working on what's wrong. - Can I disagree with the boss? I'm going to screw

up. Actually it does solve something. What is the real issue? Is we're not

connecting and I just got connected. -You got the connection. - I just got connected.

That's the real issue. Are we going to disagree? Yes.

Are we going to have differences? Yes. Are we going to not see things it seems? Absolutely.

But that's not the problem, that's what's important for couples of see. The problem

isn't that we don't see eye-to-eye at times, the problem is we lose our

connection because we don't see eye-to-eye, right? Just help them

reconnect even though they have differences. - Awesome. How do you fix

a broken relationship? - You got to know what's wrong and

not who's wrong. - Yeah.

Thank You, Brett Williams. Wasn't that awesome?

We got to get focused on what's wrong, not who's wrong. Great stuff.

For more infomation >> How To Fix A Broken Relationship - Duration: 8:50.

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10 Signs You're In The Right Relationship - Duration: 3:45.

For more infomation >> 10 Signs You're In The Right Relationship - Duration: 3:45.

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Dating After an Unhealthy Relationship - Duration: 2:28.

Especially if your last relationship was a really unhealthy one, it's important that

you avoid doing the following now that you are dating again.

1.

Don't pass judgement over all men based on what your ex did.

It's not uncommon for women to say there are no good men out there.

That's a total lie so don't tell it to yourself.

2.

Don't doubt people based on your ex: Especially if your ex was a cheater and/or liar, you

may feel like you'll never be able to trust anyone again.

This is a huge mistake that people regularly make.

Are there other liars and cheaters out there? Yes, but it doesn't mean that you are going

to end up with another.

Consider that anybody new that you meet has nothing to do with your ex or any other guy

you've dated or been in a relationship with.

This leads to my next point:

3.

Do your best not to compare the new people you meet with your ex.

In the beginning you probably aren't going to help but do this but with enough awareness,

you can nip that behavior.

There are 2 reasons for not doing this:

#1.

It takes you from being there in the moment and

#2.

You slime the experience that you are having with the new person that you are hanging out

with.

4.

Don't try to find the same exact qualities that you liked in your ex.

For example, I've heard women say, "I want a guy that's as tall as my ex."

And their ex was 6 foot something and he must like skiing.

Those are two very specific qualities that would narrow your chances of meeting a great

match.

It's important that you be able to see people for who they are and know that when the right

person comes along, there will be new great qualities that you are going to be able to appreciate

and you never know, you might end up introducing this new person to things that he or she enjoys.

One of the blessings that I've received from working with so many people is that I've

seen people go from unhealthy relationships and marriages to great ones where they are

truly happy.

It is possible for you to be in a healthy relationship where you wants and needs are

met.

So stay positive while dating and just see what happens.

I will soon be launching my new coaching, hypnotherapy and more membership website that

is going to have a whole program for single people who are dating.

It will encompass the mindsets that I've just shared with you.

Be sure to go to SashaCarrion.com and sign up for my newsletter so that the moment new

membership site is up, I can let you know.

For more infomation >> Dating After an Unhealthy Relationship - Duration: 2:28.

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Top 8 Traits Most Desired by Women in a Long-Term Relationship - Duration: 10:41.

hi I'm so glad you're here I'm excited to tell you about the number one most

attractive trait that a woman looks for in a man and how you can cultivate that

trait in yourself

in a previous video I explained how the most attractive

quality in a man is confidence then I outlined some of the ways you could

improve your confidence level go back and watch that video if you've forgotten

the exercises I suggested this number one trait I'm talking about today isn't

confidence but it does lead to becoming more confident let's go over the top

eight most attractive traits in a long-term mate and for dramatic effect

I'll list them in reverse order of importance they are number eight

dependability number seven communication skills number six

moral values number five physical attractiveness number four kindness

number three honesty number two humor and the number one most attractive trait

is intelligence besides confidence I've also talked

about a couple of the traits on this list I focused on number three honesty

and how you can be more honest with yourself and others I've given you

methods to improve number seven communication skills when I introduced

the attune method and the venus talk and then covered a little about number

six moral values in my video on integrity let's talk about number one

intelligence when attracting a woman intelligence refers mainly to practical

intelligence that means you like James Bond or MacGyver

demonstrate that you are effective at dealing with whatever comes your way

throughout day-to-day life as well as during an unusual or urgent situation

practical intelligence includes how to read people and situations how to gain

trust and status in a group and how to solve problems

these actions demonstrate social intelligence emotional intelligence

verbal intelligence and academic intelligence practical intelligence

combines these skills in a successful way that causes a man to be liked by

everyone who knows him so if a man excels in practical intelligence it

stands to reason that he will also be confident but how can you increase this

desired trait in yourself there are four specific and simple things that you can

do to increase your intelligence number one start with getting plenty of quality

sleep good nutrition and exercise a healthy man is at his best physically

mentally and emotionally number two be curious and interested in learning

become an expert and at least one subject that you care about for example

if you really understand plumbing electrical or HVAC systems you will be

able to understand other abstract processes based on a metaphorical

connection you could say that the ductwork in a building is like arteries

in the body or traffic that flows into a marketing funnel when you master one

subject you can more easily learn about others and relate to them number three

seek out jobs or situations where you can learn and stretch your abilities

choose opportunities that can help you overcome your personal weaknesses

amplify your strengths and broaden your outlook if you need to improve in people

skills and persuasion try working in sales for a while number four spend

time with intelligent people and read books listen to podcasts and watch

television that inspires thought expands your vocabulary and gives you a new

perspective we tend to become like the average of the five people we spend the

most time with also if you read great books or watch intelligent television

that's something you can talk about with friends or potential dates personally I

would be more interested and impressed in a synopsis of a fascinating

documentary or political news story than with a recounting of swamp people once

you've begun to expand your intelligence how do you show others that you're a

smart guy without being annoying or seeming arrogant when a woman evaluates

a man as a potential mate she notices what he does the ways he copes with

mental challenges and situations the language he uses and how he interacts

with others she watches how he moves is he graceful or clumsy she listens to him

hoping he can speak with interest on a variety of topics and use a professional

vocabulary and she checks that he will maintain eye contact and behave with

empathy toward others beyond that the five best indicators of intelligence

that a woman looks for include number one a sense of humor knowing how to

lighten the mood with a joke and how to make a woman laugh not only shows your

social intelligence but more people will be attracted to you because everyone

enjoys smiling and laughing be sure to use empathy and avoid racist

misogynistic or truly offensive jokes if you wouldn't say it to your mother or

father keep it to yourself number two conversation and storytelling

practice introducing yourself with a clear funny engaging short story about

where you're from who you are and where you're going have a few stories you can

tell from your life that highlight exciting experiences or

times when you learned a great lesson stories that are sure to engage people

include a beginning middle and end with an objective of revealing the character

of the storyteller when speaking with others match your level of vocabulary to

your audience when writing texts emails or social media posts edit for clarity

spelling and grammar nothing ruins a good story like several misspelled or

grammatically incorrect words and that's why God gave us spellcheck number three

creativity intelligence and creativity are highly linked in the human brain

so having creative skills like playing an instrument producing art crafting

jewelry or decorative objects or creative writing is a signal of

intelligence and attracts women a creative hobby like painting weaving or

playing the guitar is a wonderful way to reduce stress and show off your

intelligence number four teaching explaining the historical significance

of something how to do a particularly difficult task or how something works

can make you an authority figure to others and women find this attractive

however before you make the mistake of mansplaining ask your audience how much

they already know about the topic and then fill in the blanks it can be

offensive to a woman and embarrassing for you if you act the expert in a

subject where she already knows more than you do that leads us to number five

keep it simple then shut up one of my favorite quotes is better to remain

silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt when the

brightest people hear an unfamiliar word or concept in conversation they usually

have the confidence to ask what it means their attitude is I don't know what that

is but I'd love to learn please tell me more in other words they listen more

than they talk humility and curiosity are more

attractive than a know-it-all who won't listen with an open mind and learn from

others remember to show don't tell just as those people who are busy creating an

amazing life don't have time to criticize and troll others who are doing

their best smart people are too busy being smart to talk about how smart they

are there are all types of intelligence but I believe the most important thing

you can do is be a lifelong learner when my husband and I were first married I

came to appreciate how much he knew about a variety of topics and that he

could repair things around the house because he grew up on a family farm and

took part in FFA in high school he was well practiced in taking care of animals

driving large tractors and repairing vehicles as well as leadership skills

and knowing Robert's Rules of Order for running meetings he continues to search

YouTube videos to learn how to repair or put things together like my desktop

editing computer and he loves to read in his spare time this tells me that I can

depend on him to find answers and solve problems throughout our lives and that

is an attractive trait in a man take a moment now and tell me what you want to

learn more about in the comments below I'd love to hear from you if you'd like

to do something to show your practical intelligence please visit my patreon

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receive bonus perks and support my work and please take a moment now and

subscribe I'll be uploading a new video every Thursday as well as occasional

bonus videos thanks for meeting with me we'll talk again soon

Joe can we freshen this up

the softer side

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Ep. 3 Sneak Peek: Rapper Fabolous Confesses About Relationship With Public Toilets | BET's Mancave - Duration: 2:19.

(upbeat hip hop music)

- [Jeff] Alright, so what we gonna do is

we gonna shift gears a little bit.

- Okay.

- We're gonna play a game called On My Momma.

- On My Momma?

- So, the rule is, we're gonna take something

out of the bowl, we're gonna read it.

If it's true, take a drink.

- Okay.

Make sense.

- [Jeff] So, check this out. I'm a go first.

- Kick it off.

- Never have I slept with a groupie.

- Salud. - [Slink] This is crazy.

- Is there something in my drink?

- [Kosine] Tank thinking about it.

- [Jeff] I mean, Slink ain't have nothing to think about.

Look at him.

(group laughs)

- [Jeff] Fab trying to drink that shit on the low.

(laughs loudly)

- [Tank] Pull the paper man.

- Alright, look.

On my momma, never have I ever pretended to put

money in the collection plate.

- [Kosine] Oh, that's dirty.

- [Tank] I didn't have nothing, man. And I was working--

- [Kosine] Tank!

- I was the-- - [Kosine] Tank!

- I was the minister in music

- What I look like not putting nothing in the plate?

- [Fabulous] So you faked like you did?

- [Jeff] You lied? - [Kosine] In church?

- I just passed it and dipped my hand, like,

(Slink laughs)

- [Tank] To say, I was just saying that if I

had something, this is what I would be doing.

- [Kosine] Wow! As the minister of music?

- [Tank] I didn't take nothing out!

- Eh, look Tank.

The Lord says come as you are.

Look, I'm broke as fuck and He knew that,

so aint no pretending with me.

- [Kosine] Slink, this is crazy!

- [Jeff] How the fuck are you a

lying-ass minister of music, man?

- I wasn't lying.

- [Fabolous] I like to take from the bottom.

- [Jeff] There it is.

- Bring it to the top.

On my momma, never have I sat down

raw dog on a public toilet seat.

(laughs hysterically)

- [Kosine] How you put (laughs)--

- [Fabolous] It's something in my drink again, man.'

- Took all my clothes off.

(group laughs hysterically)

- [Fabolous] What is this in my drink?

- [Kosine] You put your bare ass on the seat!

- [ Jeff] Come on, Fab. Last one.

- Last one.

On my momma, never have I ever lied

about my whereabouts to a significant other.

(group groans)

- {Fabolous] I'm about to just drink this whole--

[group laughs]

(upbeat hip hop music)

For more infomation >> Ep. 3 Sneak Peek: Rapper Fabolous Confesses About Relationship With Public Toilets | BET's Mancave - Duration: 2:19.

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Top 5 Things You Should Never Do In A Relationship - Duration: 3:34.

Being in a relationship is great- yet sometimes it can be tricky.

There are many differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships.

There are also a lot of things you should and shouldn't do while in one and that's

what were going to be talking about today.

Hey youtube im court mcginley and welcome back to the most amazing top 5.

Before we get started I want to know- what are the top 3 things you look for in a partner?

Let me know your answers down in the comments.

And before we get started I just want to remind all of you to please subscribe to this awesome

channel if you havnt already- we bring you guys awesome videos 6 days a week.

And show us some love by giving this video a big thumbs up and let me know down in the

comments what other top 5 lists you like to see me do.

Alright without further a due lets get started on our list of the top 5 Things You Should

Never Do In A Relationship Stating off at our number 5 spot--Stop putting

in effort- ive said it once and ill say it again.

Once you stop putting effort into a relationship its going to die.

Might not be today- might not be tomorrow – but its going to happen pretty soon after.

Once you get comfortable with someone and settle into a routine its easy to put in less

effort.

Before you know it instead of talking on the phone your shooting each other a quick text-

you no longer go out on dates- you no longer ask each other about your day- no flowers-

no little momentos to show youre thinking of each other.

Once these things start to go its not looking good my friend.

Its super important you continue to enjoy communicating with one another-complement

one another- go on dates- get each other little gifts here and there.

No matter how long youre with someone you should never stop trying to impress them or

making them feel loved.

In at number 4--Bringing up the past- obviously no relationship is perfect.

Your going to have problems at one point or another.

But bringing up past issues- or holding onto past arguments is a huge mistake that's

just going to result in the 2 of you arguing.

Now I have to admit at the beginning of my relationship I was guilty of this.

I think its something we all do at one point in a relationship.

It's a hard thing not to do.

But after its been done once or twice you start to realise bringing it up gets you no

where and you need to stop referencing back to it.

Personally im a very stubborn person so that was hard for me to do.

But how many times can you bring up the same little thing over and over again?

It gets old really fast.

At number 3--Lose yourself- its all too easy when you fall in love to lose yourself.

You just become so consumed in this other persons life and just want to be with them

24/7.

And while yes- you should want to be around them you need to remember its important you

still do the things you love as well.

Its natural when your constantly around someone that you pick up their hobbies and interests-

but that doesn't mean your original hobbies and interest before them just disappear.

Its so important that you still have your own lives that are separate from one another

too.

Take time to hang out with your friends and family- and do your own thing- keep perusing

your interests- youre not attached at the hip.

Coming in at number 2--Support- when youre in a relationship with someone- youre in a

partnership.

And you should always have your partners back.

Now don't get me wrong- of course youre going to have different opinion and ideas

and that's fine.

But when it comes to their dreams and goals in life its important you have their back.

And sometimes they may fail but you should never say I told you so or mock them for being

wrong.

They don't need to feel worse about failing.

You need to be each others rock and feel comfortable to lean on one another and open up completely.

And in at number 1--Cheating- now this is a super obvious one.

If youre no longer into your partner and don't think its going to work out then break up

with them.

Its never under any circumstance ok to cheat.

Its just that simple.

Once someone cheats the trust is gone and its never fully going to be able to be gained

back.

I know that sometimes some people cheat and their partner stays with them.

And that's their choice and that's fine.

Personally this is something I would never be able to do.

I believe that trust is the foundation of any relationship and once that's ruined

you can try and fix it but once its gone its never going to be what it once was.

So its simple- don't cheat.

And there you have it that's our list of the top 5 Things You Should Never Do In A

Relationship.

Hopefully this helped some of you- or it just confirmed youre doing all the right things.

I just want to thank you all for watching.

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Is U.S.-Turkey relationship weakened over Kurdish conflict? - Duration: 10:31.

JUDY WOODRUFF: A new front in the nearly seven-year Syrian war is opening in the country's northwest.

Turkish troops and allied fighters are waging an air and ground campaign against U.S.-backed

Syrian Kurdish forces in Afrin, an area Kurds have controlled for much of the conflict.

Turkey officials say Operation Olive Branch isn't an invasion, but an effort to protect

Turkey's borders from the U.S.-backed Kurdish militia in Northwest Syria.

They say some 20 villages have been cleared of those Kurdish fighters, known as the YPG.

They are linked to Kurdish separatists inside Turkey.

Prime Minister Binali Yildirim:

BINALI YILDIRIM, Turkish Prime Minister (through translator): Firstly, the Afrin operation

is a national security issue for Turkey.

Secondly, it is to end the cruelty of the terror groups over the Arabs, Kurds and Turkmens

living in peace there.

JUDY WOODRUFF: It comes after Turkey's President Recep Tayyip Erdogan last month accused the

U.S. of building an army of terror along its border made up of those Kurdish fighters.

But the U.S. insists that the Kurdish YPG are a valuable partner in the fight against

ISIS in Syria.

They helped liberate the former ISIS capital, Raqqa.

But in Syria's northeast, Kurdish-controlled territory, here in yellow, borders Turkey.

Erdogan has also vowed to push the Afrin operation east, to Manbij.

That's where U.S. Special Forces are operating with the Syrian Kurds.

In response, General Joseph Votel, commander of U.S. forces in the Middle East, told CNN

earlier this week that pulling U.S. troops from Manbij wasn't -- quote -- "something

we are looking into."

Pentagon spokeswoman Dana White today:

DANA WHITE, Spokesperson, Department of Defense: Turkey has, is a NATO ally, and we don't always

see everything the same, but the common threat is ISIS.

And anything that takes away from that fight is a distraction, so that's why we have asked

them to restrain themselves and to limit this offensive.

JUDY WOODRUFF: Caught in the middle, several hundred thousand Kurdish civilians in the

Afrin region.

At least 240 Syrians have been killed, according to the Syrian Observatory for Human Rights.

Roughly 90 are said to be YPG fighters.

The Turks say at least five of their soldiers have been killed.

And now, for the official Turkish perspective on the fight in Syria, and relations with

the U.S., I am joined by Serdar Kilic, Turkey's ambassador to the United States.

Mr. Ambassador, thank you for being here.

SERDAR KILIC, Turkish Ambassador to the United States: Thank you, Judy, for having me and

providing me with the opportunity to enlighten your views with regard to the ongoing operation

in Northwest Syria.

JUDY WOODRUFF: Why is your government so concerned, so worried, so against these YPG fighters

who have helped the United States defeat ISIS in Syria?

SERDAR KILIC: Well, if you can bear with me a moment, first of all, I would like to set

the perspective in that regard.

You have suffered the result of terrorist attacks.

I know how vivid the bitter memories of 9/11 in the hearts and minds of the American people.

I mean, we do not suffer as many on a single attack on a single day, 3,000 or so.

But, during the last three decades, we have lost 40,000 Turkish citizens as a result of

attacks conducted by PKK.

And how could they sustain those attacks during the last three decades Because there was a

lack of authority and lack of security in Northern Iraq.

And they used that enclave as a safe haven to conduct their attacks on Turkish territory.

And they killed 40,000 innocent Turkish citizens, men, women and children, and including some

Turkish security officers.

JUDY WOODRUFF: But, if I may interrupt, that is inside Turkey.

SERDAR KILIC: Yes.

JUDY WOODRUFF: I'm asked about the YPG, who are across the border in Syria.

SERDAR KILIC: Yes.

Well, actually, PKK was in Syrian -- in Iraqi territories in Northern Iraq.

And they were using that area to stage their attacks, cross the border, and conduct the

attacks in Turkish territory.

The same thing was happening in Northern Syria.

In 2012, the Syrian regime, without putting up a fight, they left the area to YPG/PYD.

And they controlled the area, Afrin region since then.

And they have changed the demographics.

They have expelled Sunni Arabs, Turkmens, and anyone that was against the ideology of

the YPG/PYD.

And they started conducting attacks against Turkish territory, Turkish civilians.

They targeted Turkish civilians.

The last year alone, they have conducted 700 attacks.

Scores of people died, not only to Turkey.

They also attacked the operation in the Operation Euphrates Shield area within Syria itself.

So, I mean, we look at that kind of eventuality that we have faced for three decades in Northern

Iraq to take place in Northern Syria as well.

And it was an absolute requirement for us to take action in that regard.

JUDY WOODRUFF: I hear what you're saying.

At the same time, the U.S. is saying, these are fighters who have helped us defeat ISIS.

You understand why defeating ISIS is such a priority for the United States.

SERDAR KILIC: Well, Judy, that's the problem.

Da'esh, or ISIS, is the symptom.

The United States is not dealing with the illness itself.

It's just fighting with the symptom.

And as long as we use appropriate measures, tactics and strategies, we are going to be

faced with a similar threat in the future in Syria.

I mean, the YPG/PYD is a direct offshoot of PKK.

Even U.S. authorities...

(CROSSTALK)

JUDY WOODRUFF: You're saying connected to the Kurdish extremists?

SERDAR KILIC: Not connected.

Not connected.

They are under direct control of PKK.

Their commanders are coming from Qandil Mountains, the bases of PKK in Northern Iraq.

And even during the Senate hearing in April 2016, you will recall that Senator Graham

asked a question, a direct question, to then Secretary of Defense Ashton Carter whether

they knew there was a direct linkage between YPG/PYD.

And he acknowledged that.

JUDY WOODRUFF: Your government has made all of these arguments, your president has made

these arguments to the U.S. government.

SERDAR KILIC: Time and again.

Time and again, yes.

JUDY WOODRUFF: It has chosen to disagree for the time being.

It is saying, we need to continue this fight in Northwest Syria.

We're not going to let remove -- we're not going to let you remove the YPG.

We're going to do everything we can.

Is your government prepared to pursue this fight even if it means American troops may

be killed in the process?

SERDAR KILIC: Well, Judy first of all, if we are going to conduct a successful fight

against terrorists, and if, at the end of today, we would like to prevail, then we should

use correct strategies.

We should be very careful in terms of choosing our partners on the ground.

You cannot fight successfully with a terrorist organization by making use of another terrorist

organization.

This is the mistake that the American administration is doing for the time being in Syria.

YPG/PYD is a terrorist organization.

So, in fact, they that Raqqa is liberated by YPG/PYD, right?

Actually, the terrorist organization in Raqqa have been substituted.

Now Da'esh is out of Raqqa, but YPG/PYD is in.

And these are not our wars.

Just look at the reports of humanitarian organizations, Human Rights Watch, Amnesty International.

They're enumerating all the efforts of ethnic cleansing, forceful recruitment of children,

and so on and so forth.

They're running counter to each and every principle that the United States stands for.

But yet the United States opts for working with YPG/PYD, and even in your intro, you

have stated them as a partner of the United States.

JUDY WOODRUFF: With such a fundamental disagreement here, how much damage has been done?

How much is the U.S.-Turkey relationship weakened by this?

SERDAR KILIC: Well, I mean, I believe that the U.S. public opinion is among the best

to understand how the Turkish public opinion feels after they lost -- we have lost 40,000

people.

So, you should understand us.

Of course it has a tremendous effect on the feelings of the Turkish public opinion.

We want to fight against terrorism.

We have been part and parcel of the international coalition since its inception.

But we would like to fight terrorists with the appropriate strategies.

You have a NATO -- you have an ally that has the second largest army in NATO.

The United States could have...

JUDY WOODRUFF: Turkey.

Right.

Right.

SERDAR KILIC: Of course, United States could have opted for working with Turkey to conduct

a successful fight against Da'esh.

JUDY WOODRUFF: Many Americans are looking at this and looking at what the U.S., the

Trump administration position is, and they are still asking, is Turkey prepared to see

U.S. soldiers die in this fight where your government is going after the YPG?

SERDAR KILIC: Well, Judy, I mean, we are long-term allies.

And I am confident that we are not going to come to that point.

But in order to ensure that, I think the United States should take certain actions.

They should terminate their support to a terrorist organization, which an ally time and again

claims that that terrorist organization constitutes an existential threat for our security and

stability.

So, they should put an end to their support.

They should cease providing them weapons and ammunition.

JUDY WOODRUFF: Have you asked them to do this?

SERDAR KILIC: Of course.

Of course.

And they should collect weapons that they have even already -- I mean, as of yesterday,

there have been rockets sent to Turkey, a hospital, a restaurant, a house.

And they have killed and wounded scores of people.

And most of those weapons, I'm confident, were that were provided by the United States.

How can you make sure that the weapons that you have given to YPG/PYD fighting Da'esh

are not going to be -- to end up used against Turkish assets, Turkish civilians and Turkish

security forces?

We have made those points time and again.

And they are cognizant that they shouldn't -- there's no difference between YPG/PYD and

PKK.

So, I mean...

JUDY WOODRUFF: It...

SERDAR KILIC: Yes.

JUDY WOODRUFF: I was just going to say, it is an enormously important subject for the

United States, for your country.

SERDAR KILIC: Yes.

JUDY WOODRUFF: And I know we're going to continue to watch it very closely, Ambassador.

SERDAR KILIC: Well, I mean, yes.

We are strong allies.

We need each other.

And then I hope that we are going to prevail at the end of the day.

JUDY WOODRUFF: Ambassador Kilic, thank you very much for joining us.

SERDAR KILIC: Thank you for having me.

Thank you, Judy.

JUDY WOODRUFF: We appreciate it.

SERDAR KILIC: Thank you.

Thank you.

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How To Avoid Drama In Open Relationships & Polyamory - Duration: 4:30.

Hello, everybody.

My name is Laurie Ellington, poly-coach.com.

That's poly-coach.com.

Today, I wanted to give you a little secret, share with you a little tool that I learned,

and that I use all the time that helps me.

I think, can help anybody get through any challenging situation in their polyamorous

relationship or their open relationships or just life in general.

Here it is.

It's very simple.

Every situation has a beginning, a middle, and an end.

It's that simple.

What does that mean?

That means that, let's see, I'll offer a scenario.

My partner is getting ready to go out on a date, and I'm having some feelings.

That's the beginning.

My partner goes on this date.

He's out all night long.

I'm having my experience of my emotions intensifying.

That's the middle.

My partner comes home.

Life goes on.

He shares with me his story about being with this other person.

End.

Beginning, I have this first feeling.

My partner's going out.

I'm aware that that's happening.

Middle, my experience escalates.

I see what's coming.

Oh, my gosh, I know my partner is going to have a good time.

I may or may not have plans that night.

My feelings intensify, and it just gets worse and worse, or better and better depending

on my mood.

It's like a climax, and then, boom.

It's over.

He comes home.

We have a conversation.

We connect.

It's like, "Oh, that actually happened?"

There was a beginning, there was a middle, and there's an end.

Now, why do I say this?

Because when I am working with people, and they're about ready to have a new experience,

it's really easy to get wrapped up in the fear of what they don't know.

The fear of, "Oh, my gosh, my partner's going on a date.

I don't know what's going to happen.

Oh, my gosh, that means all these terrible things might happen to our relationship,"

or "oh, my gosh, I'm feeling insecure, or jealous," or whatever and "ah, these feelings

are too much, I can't handle it."

Okay.

That's one way of working through, or processing, or living out, or playing out that scenario.

However, when we consider framing it differently using, "Oh, beginning, my partner is going

to go out."

Middle, "Wow, that's going to be a really intense experience for me.

Maybe there are a few things I can do to prepare myself, or just set myself up for success

so that I have a good time while my partner's out."

End, "Oh, my partner comes home.

Hey, did you have a good time?

Great.

I had a good time too.

Well, kind of, I don't know, but I had a time."

Again, it's super simple.

Try it out.

You may be surprised.

I do this all the time with myself.

I use it with my clients.

My clients come back and say, "Wow, that beginning, that middle, and that end, that super simple

exercise really made me feel like I was empowered by my situation, or I was empowered in the

situation that a month or two before, I just would have been caught up or wrapped up in

this emotional turmoil, my partner and I would have argued for, I don't know, a couple hours

or something like that."

Again, beginning, middle, end.

Super simple, try it out.

If you have any questions, please contact me.

My name is Laurie Ellington, poly-coach.com.

That's poly-coach.com.

I work with individuals and couples in all kinds of relationships.

I specialize in open relationships and non-monogamy, and polyamory because I've experienced in

the lifestyle.

Please fill out a contact form, or send me an e-mail: polycoaching@gmail.com.

I would love to offer you a 30-minute coaching session that will give you an idea of where

you're at, how I can help you with where you want to go, and just see if we're a good match

for working together.

Laurie Ellington, poly-coach.com.

Thanks a lot, bye bye.

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