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Hi I'm Heather with Energy Muse and today's video is about Keeping the love alive, and

this is a perfect video if you want to reconnect with a current partner, if you've been having

maybe some miscommunication, it's a great ritual to do if you are having a long distance

relationship and it's something you could do via Facetime and it's also something that's

really good to do even if you're not having any problems with your partner and you just

want to reconnect.

The two crystals that I'm going to talk about today are kambaba jasper and rhodonite, the

thing I really really like about kambaba jasper is it really shows you by just looking at

the stone what it's going to do, kambaba is an amazing jasper and usually most jaspers

help you to eliminate stress and help you to get rid of fear and anxiety and I love

that the black is a reminder for us to let go of what no longer serves us and the green

reminds me of the nurturing energy of Mother Nature.

Rhodonite is an amazing crystal because it helps you to ignite the energy of the heart

it helps to bring that kind of fire and love and stoke the flame but it also is great when

you're like "hey" pause I want to know what I'm feeling, but I have to process it myself

before I may be say something or communicate something to my partner and say words that

I really don't mean.

Both of these stones help you to feel safe in the element of love.

Relationships are an interesting dance and it's the time and opportunity where we learn

how to grow and we learn with our partners because sometimes our partners are our mirrors

in many ways.

So today we're going to be talking about a love ritual I like to do with my husband when

we're not getting along and so basically when I bring these two crystals out he's like "uhoh,

time to talk" so it's one of those things like I don't even need to say anything I'm

like "bam!"

So what you want to do is, have one partner hold the rhodonite in their hand, and have

the other partner hold the kambaba jasper in their hand.

Find a comfortable seat on the floor where you both can face each other.

Hold the crystal over your heart and take 3 deep breaths.

Then set the intention of this crystal to hold the energy of "honesty, respect, and

appreciation".

The first person will hold their crystal over their heart and share their thoughts and feelings

while the other person sits listening with their palms facing up.

Make sure to take ownership of your feelings by using "I feel".

Then when the first person is finished, the listener will say "I hear you" and will

then hold their crystal over their heart and speak their thoughts and feelings while the

other listens.

When the second person has finished, the listener will say "I hear you".

Once you both have shared your truth, the first person will place their crystal back

over their heart and say 3 things that they appreciate about their partner.

Then when the first person is finished, the second person will then place their crystal

over their heart and say at least 3 things they appreciate about their partner.

Once this is done, you want to sage your crystals and your environment to cleanse the energy

of the room.

Then each partner will exchange their crystal with the other person to hold on to and place

on their nightstand.

What you want to remember while doing this ritual, is that everything your partner is

sharing, is how they feel.

When you and your partner wake up in the morning, place your crystal out in the sun for at least

four hours to recharge them.

Try this ritual for 10 days straight.

Each time switching the stone back and forth with your partner.

So I hope this ritual helps to open the communication between you and your partner, opening your

heart feeling safe and taking your relationship to a much deeper and happier and expanded

level.

Remember to go to www.energymuse.com and sign up for our newsletter, filled with tips, secrets

and rituals to help you supercharge your life with crystals.

And don't forget to pick up our new book Crystal Muse to learn more ways to Keep the Love Alive.

Namaste

For more infomation >> Crystals for Relationships: A Crystal Ritual to Keep the Love Alive - Duration: 4:52.

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From Sad and Single to Relationship Ready in Six Steps - Duration: 9:05.

hi it's so good to see you today I appreciate your time if you're not

currently in a relationship but you would like to be and if you are still

looking for the love of your life stop your soulmate will be right next to

you when you start doing the things you love last week I received an email from

a man who had recently gone on a few dates but he didn't feel any connection

with those women nothing clicked at that point he began to wonder if his last

relationship was going to be his last relationship he worried that he should

have tried harder to make it work or perhaps he had missed his chance at love

he felt unsure of himself and his ability to sustain a relationship if

you're going through the same thought process I encourage you to go back to my

video on increasing confidence and watch it then do the exercises I recommend in

that video building confidence is about building a successful momentum having

one positive encounter after another will give a person the self-esteem boost

they need to keep moving toward their goal at the same time you must cut all

ties with past unsuccessful relationships that may be calling out to

you imagine that you're stranded on what seems to be a deserted island with a

small damaged boat it's hot and you're thirsty covered in sand and sunburned if

you continue to believe that little dinghy is your only hope you'll stay on

the beach and miserably try to repair it until you die that's a bad relationship

if instead you let that wreck wash away with the tide while you steadfastly

forge a path inland you may find a tropical paradise waiting for you it

takes courage to leave that broken vessel behind and wholeheartedly stride

toward the unknown to build up that courage let's go over

the six steps to go from sad and single to relationship ready number one let go

of the past this includes forgiving yourself and the

other people from all your past relationships

it also means cutting off all ties to those people no social media no calls

texts or emails no mementos videos or photos let it all drift out to sea to

become a distant memory allow those girlfriends of the past to become just

somebody that you used to know trust that they have all changed and grown

into different people now and so of you the window of time for you to be

together has closed but that's okay because when one window closes another

one opens they say every new beginning comes from

some other beginnings end number two focus on yourself healthy people have a

more positive perspective on life and they have more fun with that in mind

visit your doctor eat nutritious meals exercise everyday and get plenty of

quality sleep next I want you to make three lists the first list describes the

hobbies sports or activities you used to enjoy that you would like to enjoy again

the second list is like a bucket list things you always wanted to try or learn

the third list is your to-do list those tasks that you put off that you hope to

complete someday after you make these three lists get out your calendar and

start to schedule these activities action is the antidote to despair call

up old friends and reconnect with family members by asking them to join you to

play a physical sport go hiking or fishing and get some use out of that

equipment that's been gathering dust in your basement or garage browse the

internet for rafting or ski trips and start planning a vacation take a cooking

or martial arts class watch a few YouTube videos to learn how to fit

or replace a leaky faucet or rusty hinge a man who is active and productive is a

man who is content proud of his work and confident number 3 minimized and

organized clean out your desk cupboards shelves pantry and closets get rid of

old clothes you don't wear junk food extra dishes books knickknacks and

anything else that doesn't serve your daily needs the less stuff you have the

more time and freedom you'll discover when you get rid of the clutter in your

life you have space to breathe and visualize new possibilities organize

what you decide to keep then create simple routines to streamline your day

to free up more time for tackling those lists you just made number 4 help others

a man is hardwired to take care of others and his greatest desire is to

feel appreciated for doing so feed that need by planting a garden helping

elderly neighbors or grandparents babysitting for family or friends taking

care of pets or volunteering for your favorite cause when you help those in

need of your talents and hard work you feel good about yourself make new

friends and gain the appreciation of the community around you number 5 get out to

reduce stress improve your mood and health it's important to get outside and

connect with nature walk a dog go for a run in the park ride the bike trail hike

in the woods paddle a boat surf or snorkel the earth provides grounding

energy that can refresh and rejuvenate the weary soul number 6 set your

intention create a list of the attributes you would like to find in a

woman you choose to date focus on her personality her willingness to

communicate with you and her ability to accept you for who you are the woman in

your life should make you feel happy and is if you want to be your very best self

a good fit requires very little compromise other than trying new things

to see if you like them it's a good idea to create this list of attributes when

you're alone and focused on a long-term relationship when men come across women

throughout their day their genetic programming will take over and they will

naturally choose those women who are the most beautiful and sexually appealing

regardless of personality or compatibility so has your meeting and

enjoying the company of a woman check your list for your most important

requirements and make sure she has them before going forward I believe the most

important traits are those that last a lifetime such as a positive attitude

about life a willingness to communicate about everything honesty integrity

intelligence and flexibility partners who have these traits will have a much

easier time creating a happy and healthy long-term relationship once you've spent

a couple of months completing these six steps you should feel content

emotionally and mentally strong and positive about yourself and your life

that attitude will attract wonderful people and opportunities to you like a

magnet letting go of the past and having a clean slate will enable you to open

your heart to a new relationship without the baggage and negative patterns that

other women in your past imposed on you if you still need help releasing the

past and moving forward contact a mental health specialist who can offer you

one-on-one therapy for your specific issues let me know what opportunities

you come across when you try these six steps by leaving a comment below and

tell me what you want to learn more about in upcoming videos I'd love to

hear from you if you'd like to share your appreciation with me please visit

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community receive bonus perks and support my word and please take a moment

now and I'll be uploading a new video every

Thursday as well as occasional bonus videos thanks for meeting with me

we'll talk again soon the softer side imagine that you're stranded on what

seems to be a deserted island limit the depth let be deserted

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The Therapeutic Relationship - Duration: 9:46.

Hello, my name is Sarah Deitz and I'm a registered dietitian nutritionist and today I am going

to be talking about the therapeutic relationship between the provider and client.

This is part of my masters program in applied nutrition.

Today you are going to hear me say maybe us or we during the conversation and that is

referring back to the provider or the educator.

Creating a supportive environment needs to be as unique as the individual coming for

counseling.

Learning how to adapt is essential for a supportive environment or creating behavior change.

One of the more essential pieces is learning how to become an active listener.

We must be present to learn about the client and to find ways to facilitate behavior change.

Often we are guilty of thinking about nearly a hundred other things when we need to be

simply listening to the client's experiences and journey.

Once we develop the skill of listening, then we will be able to see the client's ambivalence

and bring about their intrinsic desires to change.

After we display genuine concern and interest, the client may feel more apt to open up.

We should position them as the leader in their own health decisions.

Behavior change can be facilitated when the client learns they have the control over the

nature, the timing, and direction of the learning process.

Giving this type of control back to the client helps them to feel respected and valued.

As educators we can help the client define even more strongly as the leader of their

own healthcare by using motivational interviewing or MI.

MI is a client-centered approach.

Looking at the slide you can see that we have tried to emphasis this by placing the person

in the middle.

We can get an idea of what motivational interviewing is, but it needs to be remembered that the

person is the center.

You will start to see some key phrases and key words that help to define it.

Even though you can't learn motivational interviewing in one slide.

Motivational interviewing is a client centered approach that we, as educators, may use to

help our patients break through the ambivalence they are experiencing about particular health

behavior changes.

We can facilitate that through open-ended questions, reflective and active listening,

change talk, affirmations, and summarizations.

Ways to show that we are really listening.

In creating an atmosphere that adopts an empathetic, nonjudgemental, and encouraging tone helps

to further establish the supportive client-provider relationships.

As this supportive relationship is built, we want our clients to feel that they are

safe to express their honest feelings.

We also want our clients to feel appreciated and understood.

Changing health behaviors really isn't easy, especially when it is something so defined,

like food.

We all have our specific connections to food.

Using these characteristics will help the educators create a caring atmosphere that

will allow the client to feel safe while expressing their thoughts and opinions.

The client will be more likely to disclose personal information and past successes when

they are in a supportive relationship.

The previous slide help to define MI, but I wanted to discuss something that I feel

is more of the core.

And that something is empathy.

Empathy is an emotion, but it can also be learned.

Even though it can be learned, it must be practiced in the most genuine manner.

So if we come off as fake or insincere, then our clients will dismiss the rest of our attempts

at eliciting behavior change.

The initial meeting is critical as our clients may be apprehensive or anxious about meeting

a new provider.

I encounter this frequently, no one is ready to change as soon as they walk through our

doors.

Practicing empathy will allow us to put our clients at ease and keep them coming back.

The most common definition of empathy is that it is a true understanding of another's unique

perspective and experience without judging, criticizing, or blaming.

The reason that I chose this picture is that it helps us to further define empathy.

As an educator, we must shift our focus from ourselves to our patients.

The old saying of putting ourselves in another's shoes is almost correct, but we have to adopt

the patient's identity when we are in their shoes.

We have to try and see the problem from their perspective, with their world experiences.

However, we honestly can't lose sense of self at the same time.

Empathy can be tricky while we are learning it, but it is so beneficial when it is understood.

The spirit of motivational interviewing is elusive and ever-evolving.

It has been said that MI has changed over the years, because it was never really controlled.

It has been used wide spread and it has been subject to influence.

This freedom is good because it is what has made MI such an effective approach as it has

become enhanced with use.

The original 1983 definition of MI was a patient communication style that utilizes guidance

and goal directing in order to elicit and emphasize individual motivation for change.

This original definition has really never been lost, but it has evolved to become the

spirit of motivational interviewing.

That spirit is made up by the four characteristics you see.

Collaboration, acceptance, compassion, and evocation.

The first piece is collaboration.

It focuses on building a supportive relationship, while empowering the client to accept their

responsibility of change.

We do not leave the client alone to change, we help give them the tools and confidence

to change.

The provider should also work to avoid creating an expert/recipient role, as this will really

slow progression.

The expertise of both parties needs to be respected; the provider with the nutrition

knowledge and the client with their own life experiences.

The second piece of MI is acceptance.

This includes accepting the autonomy and perspective of the client.

As we convey acceptance to the client, through reflective listening and affirmation, we should

be helping them to improve their self-efficacy.

Improving self-efficacy while accepting autonomy and perspective will help to reduce barriers

while attempting to elicit an individual's motivation for change.

Compassion is the third piece of the spirit of MI.

It focuses on conveying concern for your client's personal health interests.

It is similar to empathy and should be used regularly.

Demonstrating genuine compassion while allow a more solid client-provider relationship

to be built and respect to be gained.

The fourth and final piece is evocation.

This is an idea that focuses on the development of interventions based on the clients own

thoughts.

As the client-provider relationship becomes more solid, the provider should work to elicit

internal motivators to change.

Open-ended questions should be used to develop rich discussions to develop what is truly

important to the client themselves.

A technique that may help strengthen MI is the transtheoretical or stages of change model.

This model helps the educator to see where their client is currently at.

The stages include precontemplation (which is no intention to change/resistance to change),

contemplation (the need to change is recognized, but they are stuck in ambivalence), preparation

(pros outweigh the cons, committed to taking steps to change), action (behavior change

has occurred and it includes day 1 to 6 months), and maintenance (where you have engaged in

behaviors for 6 months and you are starting to benefit).

I really like this model because it can move forward and backwards.

It is important for the provider to remember that they need to reassess their client at

every session to see where they are at.

If they go from preparation to contemplation, then the provider needs to adjust to help

them move forward again.

MI is actually only effective in the stages of precontemplation, contemplation, and preparation.

These are the stages that occur before actual behavior change is initiated and they are

defined by high levels of ambivalence.

That's why MI is so good, because it helps to move out of ambivalence.

The first stage we are going to look at is the precontemplation stage.

Here we should be providing information about health and while discussing health, we need

to gauge emotional awareness and develop discrepancies between where they are now and where they

want to be.

Remember to be positive to create that empathetic and supportive environment.

Listen for statements of change to maybe have the client elaborate on.

It is important to work in a fashion that avoids arguments as a client in this stage

may forgo future counseling sessions if this one is negative.

The second stage of change that can be impacted by MI is the contemplation stage.

Here the client is beginning to recognize the need for change.

It can be really frustrating for the provider as ambivalence is strong.

Discrepancies should be discussed to elicit change.

Remember to always practice compassion again.

Adopting new behaviors can be very overwhelming and frustrating for the client.

They may even strongly doubt their ability to change at all.

Always remember to respect your clients level of self-efficacy, especially if they aren't

progression like you would like them to.

The third and final stage of change that is effected by MI is the preparation stage.

During this stage the clients have decided that the benefits of change are greater than

the risks and they plan to adopt that behavior change in the next 30 days.

The providers should really work with the clients to evoke appropriate client centered

goals.

Compassion should be had here for the client's journey and their chosen goals.

During this stage, the provider may also work with the client to strengthen their self-efficacy

and their intrinsic motivation; while the individual progresses towards the action stage.

Using a combination of the transtheoretical model and MI helps strengthen the client-provider

relationship by facilitating behavior change, motivation, and intrinsic evocation.

These interventions should be intertwined to help the client reach the end goal of the

maintenance stage.

Thank you so much for listening and learning with me today; I appreciate it!

For more infomation >> The Therapeutic Relationship - Duration: 9:46.

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Josh Duhamel Hiding Jennifer Garner Relationship? - Duration: 6:41.

Josh Duhamel Hiding Jennifer Garner Relationship?

Josh Duhamel is hiding a relationship with Jennifer Garner, according to an untrue tabloid report.

As FASHION CHANEL has already reported, the Love, Simon co-stars aren't dating, so there's nothing to hide.

We can debunk this story.

In early January, OK! published a cover story alleging Garner and Duhamel were in a "secret romance." Though they filmed their upcoming movie last spring, the gossip magazine claimed the colleagues were now in a relationship.

The outlet even tried to trick readers by using a photo of the pair cuddled up in character for their movie.

FASHION CHANEL exclusively learned there was no truth to the allegations they were dating.

But then the publication decided to up the ante and step in it further with a second cover story at the end of the month.

In that one, it was alleged Duhamel had met Garner's kids because he was regularly spending time at her home.

Their purported relationship was upgraded from "secret romance" to "red hot romance." The allegations, however, were just as false as ever.

And then last week, Duhamel himself confirmed he's not dating Garner.

So what is the tabloid doing now? Rather than apologizing and taking responsibility for spreading misinformation, the magazine is accusing the actor of lying.

Its new story asserts that "despite" his denial, he and Garner are "very much an item," but it's a "hush-hush romance." Contradicting its previous story, in which it was alleged they were "moving quickly and on the verge of going public," it's now claimed "they won't be going public anytime soon.".

"Josh has told Jen he… wants to see her, but at one of their homes, not where they can be photographed," a so-called "insider" is quoted as saying.

And while the outlet maintains "they've been keeping their relationship a secret at Josh's urging," it's alleged Garner "understands." Asserts the supposed source, "They have a nice thing going, and hopefully it'll build into something more.".

Well, according to the prior cover story, the alleged relationship was already becoming quite serious.

And far from staying strictly at home, it was claimed in that article that Garner and Duhamel were regularly stepping out together for hikes.

Of course, they've never been pictured doing so, and Duhamel has never been seen with the actress' kids, which is why the publication resorted to photoshopping a picture to dupe consumers into thinking they all went out together.

OK! has been deceptive from the start with this manufactured narrative and is continuing to mislead readers.

Duhamel denied he's dating Garner because he isn't dating her.

He wasn't trying to cover up a non-existent relationship.

It's also laughable that this latest piece tries to compare the pair to Katie Holmes and Jamie Foxx.

Not only do Holmes and Foxx not consider themselves a couple, but the magazine has spent years falsely claiming they're getting married and having a baby.

It seems the outlet may have a problem with the truth.

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