News on Youtube Feb 7 2018

Hey babes! welcome back to my channel today's video is going to be super super deep

it's going to be a whole talk about relationships it's crazy to see what

other people go through too because I've had my own past experiences with

relationships one in particular that was very serious to me they don't like to

get too much into my private life because it's very private and it's very

personal I think I just want to go a little bit more in depth because I think

that sometimes sharing your story can help other people too I'm currently

single and my most serious relationship was a four and a half year relationship

that I had a while back I kind of briefly mentioned in my last Q&A what

sort of happened I decided that I'm going to kind of open up a little bit

more to you guys but hopefully some of you can relate to it as well especially

women so none of you know but I was engaged it was my most serious

relationship that I had ever been in it was very serious to me and I think I was

I mentioned before how I was just so focused on you know having a family

having a home and doing what you're supposed to do I was in my early 20s and

I felt pressured to be in a certain lifestyle especially as a woman you feel

like next things to do is to get married and then you feel like after you got

married you have to have children that's what you just feel that you have to do

it's just something that I was definitely raised with - you don't even

you're supposed to get married and have kids but that's not everybody's life

story I can see myself obviously working from home you know being a housewife

taking care of my children in the future but it just wasn't the right time for me

so the reason why it ended was because he was in a certain career that just

wasn't going to line up with the lifestyle that I was envisioning myself

after being married it wasn't a lifestyle that he was living before it

just it really changed and it took a massive turn where I was like I can't I

can't do this he was in the music industry it just did not fit the

lifestyle that I was imagining I was not a fan of the things that we're going on

it was not a fan of the late nights I was not a fan of certain things he was

around if the person is around something

you don't like right now and you think it's going to change after you get

married it's not going to change at one point it seemed like we were on the same

page but when a couple is just not willing to meet in the middle and

compromise which is it's not gonna work it just it can't because being together

is a partnership and at the end of the day you know my grandma's always told me

when you marry someone you're no longer stuff in that person you're one you're

together do I be together if you guys are not a unit to begin with I just

never felt one with him I was definitely not the most supportive with his career

I was in the beginning then beginning there's certain stuff that wasn't went

on but afterwards there was no I'm not gonna be supportive of something that I

don't respect and I don't agree with if you asked me today if I want to be

married at this point in time no I'm good I'm just I'm fine the way I am now

one thing I definitely learned from my relationship I've learned a couple

lessons from that relationship for me family is very important when I'm with

somebody I need to be able to get along with your family I didn't get along with

his family till this day don't understand why I

think I would constantly question myself and say you know like are you okay with

that like what do you have children and you don't really get along with this

family are you gonna be okay with that you know so settling again I don't know

why they didn't really like me I would always have like family events and stuff

and he just would never show up I can't have that like as a woman I want my men

to be there by my side I have an event and I have we have pre-planned it I have

asked you to be there and you didn't show up what makes me think that you're

gonna show up for other things and I just didn't get that support you know

and at the end of the day if you don't support your relationship and you're not

there for her you can't expect the support back that's not gonna make me go

yeah I talked a little bit about settling in my last video settling is

something I definitely did took this entire that ol should be the same word

of this relationship I settled a time you know what else I did I waited I was

left there to wait for an hour two hours to be picked up all the time was

disappointed a lot get me wrong I wasn't always this non simple

girlfriend like I was super supportive I would go to events that I was not

comfortable being there see I was that like you were not comfortable in a

situation why are you even there just because of him no he needs to make you

feel comfortable about going or you just don't go I did it anyways to support him

now in relationships you definitely need to there's so much compromise you're

gonna have to go to things that you may not want to go to but you have to go to

them because you have to make that person happy but here's the thing if

that person doesn't do it back for you that's where the problem is these events

where at clubs and I'm just not comfortable in that environment what I

need you at a family event can you not show up there's a give-and-take here in

a relationship but at the end of the day I was so uncomfortable of being at these

things that it's just it's not right you have to eventually question yourself

okay if I'm in this uncomfortable but he's completely fine here and this is

what I gotta do like you have to kind of think if this is what you really wanted

it was constantly late and I think that that's just so it's so disrespectful

it just shows your woman she's not a priority she's not important

I was definitely blind at the time like every time it came to picking me up it

was like waiting waiting waiting make your woman feel important

I will say at the end of the day he's a good person which is not the person for

me you're probably wondering that like what

what did you guys enjoy this is another important thing I really want to talk

about because this happens to me when I get into relationships being a Pisces

were so like we put our heart and soul into everything especially relationships

and relationships we feel like we've got a literally with her and just hand it to

you don't do that ladies big mistake I felt like I had to take care of he

didn't ask me to do any of these things but I felt like I had to take care of

him feed him you know make sure he was clothed but that was me that was me

wanting to do it or at the end of the relationship I'd say like the last year

or so I don't know if it's because I started to really feel like I was almost

going to give up at some point or I was ignoring so many things that were

telling me this is not gonna work out this is not

gonna work out like I hope you know I had that voice in my mind but I kept

pushing through you know what I still got engaged I was still trying to slowly

plan for a wedding the funny thing about that actually you guys know me super

corny right yeah I would get super excited about having a wedding I'm

matching if I was engaged right now I would be planning my wedding to the tee

I would be going this going over there shopping for this shoppi for that I

wasn't doing that that's how I knew that's how I knew that this was wrong I

probably bought maybe two or three things that when I first got engaged and

like okay that's it like here's the planning because you're excited right

like you have that you have that hi you know so you're so excited and then as

the week's went on you're still supposed to get very very excited I was no longer

excited I was like okay like what am i doing like something is not right here

coming to terms with the fact that it was going to be over soon was too much

for me to swallow that's the truth you had to swallow that a

four-and-a-half-year was a she ship was going down and nowhere that was scary

nobody wants to be alone that was my fear I can tell you guys right now that

was my honest fear of being alone but I said to myself okay so you have two

options so option a was saying to me you're not in a situation where you're

happy you're in a situation where you're settling you're in a situation where

you're both taking engaged to someone where you know it's not right that was

option a so I could have stayed for that it would have been a fun chelebi's I am

option B you can live your life you can stop settling you can do what makes you

happy and you can finally find somebody who actually makes you happy what have

you reached out to me and you ask me your question but you also told me about

your story that's what really made me feel like okay I think I should just

kind of talk about my story a little bit because I knew it would sort of help

this person she shared with me that she was engaged to and that she was in a

very serious relationship and she didn't know how she was gonna get over it and

for her it was very fresh so it kind of brought me back to that time where it

was very fresh for me too a lot of you are probably one

capable you were in a 4 and a 4 relationship you were engaged to split

up where do you go from there you know like how did you deal with I'm not gonna

sit here and be like it was easy because it was not like I said I'm very

passionate about Pisces were very loving we're very emotional so it was generally

very emotional for me funny enough what got me through to be honest with you was

constantly reminding myself of why I think that with anything in life when it

gets hard you have to remind yourself of that number one step that you took and

why you took it for me what got me through this was reminding myself of day

one of the break-up why did I make that decision I made the decision because I

was settling I made the decision because I was unhappy this person was not the

person for me it was like stuff you just gotta push there this like I know it's

painful I know you were with this person for four and a half years and believe me

you go through a stage where you're like yeah but what if you know like you know

like maybe I could have worked it out and then you start to blame yourself at

the end of the day the fact is you and him don't work and if I knew that in my

heart I had to keep reminding my mind but whether it was in my car I was at

home I was in my bedroom if I had you know that feeling of hurt and I would

think about my breakup I would say to myself but stuff you are unhappy you

were unhappy and you have to just remind yourself of that the hurt from the

breakup is you just missing having someone you just miss not being alone

you just miss not being in a relationship you miss all the good

memories because nobody wants to forget the good stuff right everybody wants to

remember oh but there was that time yeah but you remember all the other twenty

thousand times where you were like crying and you were very unhappy and you

have to think of your breakup as a positive thing as hard as it may be you

have to make it positive for me my positivity was number one you can focus

on yourself because I completely lost myself you guys you know being a Pisces

we completely lose ourselves in relationships we just give her entire

selves to you guys and we just let go of our entire self I was so excited to just

start a new chapter of figuring out myself I was so excited to just focus on

me and what I need to do and what makes me

happy and I felt like being in that relationship it just sucked the life out

of me and I completely lost myself I don't think that there's any

relationship in the world that you should ever come to lose yourself you

can't you just cannot and I did I lost my entire self I had nothing going on

for me like nothing at all and I'll never forget one time you said that you

just don't understand because you don't have anything that's yours

and what he meant by that is you don't really have anything going on for you

like I do I think I was talking about how if he was never there and stuff like

that and he's like well you don't understand because you don't have

something going on for you even if I had something going on for me I would be

there when he needed me you should always be there no matter what it got

I've heard so many excuses when he said that I was like I don't like I don't

have anything going on for me and why why don't I have anything because I'm so

focused on you like I'm so focused on this partnership in this relationship I

do not give up when it comes to a relationship and I definitely think that

it just came to a point where I'm like okay stuff like I know you don't like to

give up but there's nothing else here for you there's just nothing else

towards the end it was just it was just bad he had fully clocked out and I don't

clock out in a relationship I just don't because like I said I don't give up I

want to fix things but he was just very absent

he was very drifted there was this massive gap between us this massive gap

and I would look down at my engagement ring and I would just be like no I I'm

so glad that I made sense of everything instead of being so gullible and in

denial and just going along with it like I had had enough I just I couldn't do it

anymore overall I don't wish anything bad upon

anybody nor do I wish anything bad upon him at all it was definitely a rocky

road but let me tell you there was so many things where I should have just

said no like all the times that he made me wait I should have been like then I

can't go like see you later I'm going somewhere else you know I should have

as a woman for myself and I didn't I didn't over and over and over and over

again nobody comes to my doorstep late anymore nobody ever will ever again I

mean everything is in the past I learned so much from it so yeah that's just my

long story short I mean I made it through I'm very very proud of myself I

got a ton of support when it ended I'm very proud of myself and I think you

have to pat yourself on the back every once in a while and tell yourself you

made it through this you know like you were tough I can't really say that I

don't have something going on for me now I have 12km

Instagram I almost have 10k on YouTube and I have you beautiful people

supporting me don't ever let someone especially the person that you're with

ever tell you that you were less of what you are okay so now we're going to get

started with the questions I'm super excited I read some of the questions but

I didn't want to read the whole thing they wanted to kind of be a surprise I

love answering questions you guys okay so this first question says what's your

biggest deal-breaker in a relationship thoughts on interracial dating in

today's society and would you rather friend someone from online dating or in

person first biggest deal breaker definitely think someone who's just not

gonna be there is someone that's not dependable like if you say you're going

to do something and you don't do it I have a big problem with that it just

doesn't make me feel like you're committed to us and it also makes me

feel like kind of a liar in a way I've been in a relationship with different

races before my experience with it I've got a lot of people staring at us that

relationships should not have color let me read the date to you February 2018

it's an interracial couple to over I hate that there is even a word called

interracial dating do we say interracial friendships this is nothing like towards

you the person who's asking this question like nothing negative at all

it's a good question I've tried the online dating thing just to set the

record straight I've tried it what I got from it was like there we're all a bunch

of talk and just that's about it I didn't know it no it's not good I'm just

gonna leave the internet for me watching Netflix doing YouTube and doing my stuff

but I think there won't be any dating online for me

so shy you guys not a normal shy and painfully shy definitely think in person

is just better cuz you just kind of feel what that person's like you get a feel

for their personality and I'm very good with feeling off people's energy like

I've just always had that so I definitely would prefer to meeting

someone in person rather than the internet what was the longest

relationship you've been in and why did it end so it was the four and a half

year relationship that I just spoke about have you ever gotten catfished

No thank God I've never gotten catfished I think that stuff is so creepy like I

watch that show catfish and oh my god it just it gets me every single time

what zodiac signs are you most compatible with I love this question

because I love zodiac signs first one it is cancer very very compatible were both

very like mushy gushy and emotional and loyalty is very important to them both

very much home bodies and we just like cancers just love having someone they

love having someone to just cuddle with and be their best friends the others

find that they say that I'm very compatible with but I've never dated

this sign before it is a Capricorn capricoins very down to earth learners

sign everything has to be perfect and they have to have the best the buzz very

particular people they like there are nice things the applicants are a little

bit like too cool for school you know they have this like swagger about them

you know but I think that's what kind of attracts women to them the other sign

that I'm very compatible with is a Taurus I personally I love Taurus guys I

don't know what it is I'm extremely attracted to them I really mature

towards god it's just so sure of himself it's just so attractive to me it also

were thanks they're very down to earth a or stream homebodies horses are the most

loyal sign their family men like they love their family and now that I've

talked to five minutes about Tauruses you guys know my favorite guys I know if

a guy you've been talking to on and off for a year has been wanting to get

serious with you but didn't really want to at the time and now he has a

full-time job and he tells you he's busy all the time

it doesn't really make time for you but says let's be friends in the mean time

and then I'll come for you I'll come for you when I'm ready whoa am I in the

twilight zone what should I do do you think it's genuine it can't be

that busy right you've got a girl he can't be that busy when a guy usually

likes you he's not gonna be busy for you he will make time for you there's never

too busy like please I've heard this so many times in my relationship I think

it's the most washed out excuse I've ever heard in my entire life the fact

that he said I will come for you when I'm ready

oh no no no no no no you do not want someone like this in your life telling

you that they're gonna come for you when they're ready for you does that even

mean no Weddell I can't believe this guy or him to say that he has a full-time

job and he's too busy all of us have jobs you don't need to be enough for

somebody like this so when he calls for you you tell him a story or Kupala

you're nothing looking amplified okay I'm sorry that was Spanish tell him that

you don't have time for him and that you're too busy for him did you have to

deal with running into your ex my ex actually lives very very close to me

I'll know if he's still there if he's not I really don't care it's not that we

will never run into each other just always the chance that we can run into

each other for sure I have not run into him once if so how did you deal with it

just be like but I wouldn't feel like hey how's it going

I actually only have one ex that I still talk to him you still might have a

chance I don't know if that was a good wink or not but I tried at some point in

the future I'm going to run into my ex-fiance my cousin married his cousin

years ago and have kids so of course our families are connected any advice on how

you would deal with that I was in that position where I knew I was going to run

into him to be honest with you the best thing you can do is be civil but I also

would keep your distance like don't make him think and don't give him signs that

like something's gonna come out from this again if you see him just like oh

hey you know if you guys are on good turns if you guys are not

I still don't recommend being rude because it's never gonna get you

anywhere being civil because your families are connected it's probably the

best route a wedding and you walk in he's like right there I'd be like hey

and I would walk away like that's exactly I'm being honest this is exactly

what I'm - what is the okay I like you you know wish you have this still I've

been in a situation with someone I've known for five or six years and every

time we try to make things work it never does I feel like we both try so hard to

make it work but we're on two completely different ways of thinking and I don't

know if I see us making it in the long run that being said I really wish it

could work but I think it might be time to just come to terms with the situation

and stop holding on to something that isn't good for us he's a great person

but we're just so different how do you have this conversation with someone

since you guys have been around each other for five or six years it sounds

like you guys are the two best friends I don't know if you guys should like make

a relationship out of it when you're friends and you're very different I

think it can still work because you you guys still have your separate lives but

when you are trying to come as one in a relationship and you're so different if

the person's not willing to come meet you in the middle and you as well both

of you have to meet in the middle if you guys are just not willing to do that

then I do think that you have to give up on the idea of having a relationship you

don't want to also lose this person you clearly you really enjoy having this

person around you because you did say that you really wish it could work you

do love this person but maybe this person just has to be something else in

your life and not really a boyfriend that's a very very long time and if

something were supposed to happen I think it would have already happened

already I would honestly sit that person down and be like listen we've known each

other for five or six years you know I've been trying to I don't know if

you've been trying but I've been trying to see if we can make this work and I

feel like it's just not lining up because of this and this isn't it I feel

like we're just too different ask the other person how they feel I think that

if you do not speak and you don't use your words and communicate with the

person then you're gonna end up going like seven eight years wondering why I

think you need to just chat it out with and just really get it all out and he

needs to give back to you and tell you how he feels about the situation and I'm

pretty sure you guys will be able to figure it out because it sounds like you

guys care about each other but maybe you just can't make a relationship work east

I felt going through something with my boyfriend and there with him for two

years and overall unheard of how he's been

treating me he gets annoyed and upset with me easily I'm extremely sensitive

and a crier I don't know what to do and if I should talk to him about how I feel

I feel like he's being distant and not acting like my best friend anymore I'm

scared to talk to him and make things turn bad I cared for him while he was on

chemo but I don't want to be with someone just because they know I'll be

there for them always I love you stuff oh thank you I know the whole distance

field is the worst it makes women feel so insecure because we're just like why

are you being distant you know I love me anymore do not care anymore

if he's getting very annoyed with you and he's being distant to be honest with

you the best thing to do is talk to him guys are different than us you know

women were very passionate and we think you just come out with like yellow but

you can't do that I would tell him we need to set a time to talk about this

and he needs to make the time if he if you were important to him he would make

the time to talk about him and I think you need to come at him just very calmly

he may be going through something maybe that's why he's being distant I find

with men when they're going through something with their mind is on

something they can be extremely distant he could be going through something else

that hasn't opened up to you about but I think that communication is always the

answer to everything when you're especially when you're having a problem

in a relationship tell them you know I feel like you've been too strong I feel

like you've been acting like this and this is how it makes me feel and just

try to say very calmly because with guys you really need to like spell it out for

them and really give it to them and if you just like keep acting sensitive and

upset and stuff like that it's not gonna help the situation tell him that you

feel like that you guys are not best friends anymore and ask him if there's

something that you can help him with if there's something that he's going

through but I think that without communicating you're always gonna be

left in the dark mountain wooden what's going on I was best friends with this

girl for four years but throughout that time she was really mean to me and

manipulated me so much so I finally decided to

longer be friends with her it was a true hard breakup three years later we

obviously still don't talk but I still think about her and all the good

memories we have had together but then I remind myself of what a bad person she

was to me it's like I just can't forget about her as much as I am trying to any

advice on how to get closure with someone mentally you are so inspiring

and motivating love you so much oh thank you I think just like what I

went through I think you need to again remind yourself of all the things I mean

you might just also be feeling lonely and you might like subconsciously just

want to have that person around your legislator you're not alone anymore and

of course it's comforting but you have to remind yourself all the things that

she's put you through you said she was very manipulative you said she was very

rude to you very mean to you and no friend should ever be that and if you

feel like you can't after so many years forget about her I think that that was

just your way of not being able to let go because you might have really really

liked her but you just didn't like how she was to you it's unfortunate

sometimes you want something but that person doesn't want it back I think

mentally the best thing you can do is just to remind yourself of why you ended

the friendship in the beginning it sounds like you're a very very dedicated

friend you need to remind yourself that you deserve a better friend that's not

gonna do what you did you I've been having a lot of issues with my son in

school he's nine going on 20 oh I love kids last week he was suspended for a

day and today again for doing dumb things and not controlling himself I am

at a loss for words and don't know what to do I'm looking into books and trying

to read and see I'm really struggling sorry that this is not a relationship

question but I needed to talk to someone I feel like I'm failing as a mom this

video was about relationships in general so I know that but it wasn't Mia I think

what you have to do and I'm sure you've already done this is you probably have

sat him down and asked him like why are you doing this I can only imagine like

if that was my son and he was getting in trouble at school I would have to wonder

why and I feel like sometimes kids don't like to talk about certain things maybe

there's something bothering him and I think that because kids don't know how

to press themselves the proper way because

they're not adults yet then they're gonna express themselves in my different

way a way that kids know right so they lash out just like you said they do

stupid things and it just doesn't make sense why he's doing it it makes sense

to him because in that moment he decided to lash out by doing whatever he did

it's important for you to just tell him you know I'm here to support you I'm

here on your side but I'm not on your side when you do these things at school

and you get suspended I'm raising a boy to be respectful be responsible smart

making good decisions but you can't you can't be acting like this if they think

even though he's a kid you have to remind him of what it's going to be like

as an adult you need to teach him responsibility now like if he's

suspended I think there should be a consequence but he needs to know that

you can't act this way and absolutely nothing happens that's he he had a kid

at school you need to understand what made him hit that kid did that kid say

something that triggered something because that can be an issue too like

maybe that kid you know made fun of something on him or something like that

that may have triggered something and he doesn't like getting made fun of so boom

he just lashed out and instead of talking he showed his anger by

physically doing something so I think it's important to really to talk to him

and really find out but I think when you're talking to him you have to be

very logical and very straight with him and be like I need to know why you're

doing this stuff you know what I'm saying I think that you can't come

across this too soft because then he's going to take advantage of you

and I think you can't come across as but extremely angry mom they think it might

help you to understand why he might be acting like this what are your thoughts

on long-distance relationships have you ever had a long-distance women I

understand know of someone who had one but I've never had a long-distance

relationship for me personally I don't think that would work out because I get

very you know attached to that person and I like to do a lot of different

things with that person don't think for me personally it would be enough

think at some point you need to find a way to come together whether you're

going to him he's coming to you or you're seeing each other every once in a

while because if you're thinking of settling down with this person I mean

the end of the day you kind of have to be okay with compromising and figuring

out a way to be together the one that I know of is it's worked out it's worked

out very well he came down to her you know you have to at some point like

someone has to come down on her are you guys have to meet in the middle because

the end of the day like you can only if for me personally my opinion is you can

only have a relationship long distance for at least so long I've showed me that

it is possible to have long-distance relationships but at the end of the day

there has to be some sort of an agreement as to how you guys are gonna

come together in the end you talked a bit in the last video about settling and

a lot more in this video can you talk a bit more than why you felt you'd be

suddenly if you had stayed in your last relationship I just broke up with my

boyfriend of four years so I can relate although it was my decision it was not

easy you love your videos girl thank you if he was constantly late like that's

just sad like after a couple times it's like seriously I would be so upset but

the thing is is every time I would still go like if that was me today I'd be like

oh you're an hour late like again since last time okay I'm not going out and you

don't have any explanation like any real explanation while you're late okay cool

I've made new plans on the video two different right now that's what you need

to do because clearly that person doesn't respect your time enough to be

on time for you you need to show them how much you respect yourself you teach

people how much you care about yourself and how you train yourself shows other

people how they need to treat you at some point you need to open your eyes

and be like okay this is really going on like this is not right

familywize I feel like you didn't have my back when it came to him as family I

definitely got the vibe they just did not like me I wish that you would just

stand up and be like this is my woman get over it the other thing I think I

definitely settled for was him not being there and I wanted him to come to a

family function he said he would and then on the day of you don't hear from

him it's like this is just unacceptable I can't settle for bad communication

like you're with that person you need to deal with the talk I was constantly

there for him but he wasn't there for me so I was suddenly with that as well what

would you define as cheating hey you guys might think I'm a little bit extra

when it comes to this but I don't really care because

I take cheating very seriously cheating can be emotional cheating it can be

physical cheating if I was with someone and I knew that my boyfriend was talking

to someone and they were like opening up to them about certain things like deep

things I'd be like you can talk to me about those things to me that's just

emotional cheating I do consider that cheating obviously if he kisses her

it's definitely cheating if he's talking to a girl behind your back not telling

you about it cheating I love your videos and I'm so excited for this Q&A I've

been single for two years I'm still healing my ex left me for someone else

which killed my confidence I have gone back into the gym and taking better care

of myself I met a guy through a friend but I could not get the confidence to

talk to him or yet alone compliment him all we did was shake hands and that was

all he was gorgeous girl I just felt like he was very out of my league what

are some tips you could suggest to kick me into confidence think that by you

saying that he's out of your league I think you're just thinking it from a

very physical standpoint you know your self-confidence is like oh my god like

he's too good-looking for me it matters what kind of person he is I just don't

want that to become an issue where you think that you're not like good-looking

enough for him I I don't like that because I think you need to be

self-confident before you might want to get involved with someone I can try not

to start this relationship off of a shallow standpoint don't want it to be

both the physical appearance you want this to maybe be a future relationship

with someone I think that that's something that you need to fix about

yourself before I think you need to feel confident about yourself you need to

feel beautiful because a confident beautiful woman would be like oh it's a

good-looking guy well I'm a beautiful girl too you think that once you get

that feeling that's gonna give you that boost of confidence to keep talking to

him so I've been on and off with my boyfriend of four years he emotionally

cheated see see I'm mostly jaded by texting a co-worker about their feelings

when I caught him he said he never did anything with her and then I was wrong

with him to do that but we are always arguing and I feel like we're always

about to break up would you forgive and move on can you ever

someone like that girl to me that just doesn't sit well with me because I would

not like the fact that my man is confining in another woman what I would

do before giving up is I would ask him like why did you go to her and not me to

kind of understand it's wrong by no means was it right for him to do that

absolutely not I was a real man he should have come to

you and been like you know what I'm missing this I need this from you and

this is why I feel like I need to go somewhere else for it but I think that

if you can't get a straight answer from him and he's like trying to run away

from it I don't think that he's trustworthy because someone who's

trustworthy is gonna sit down and tell you the truth and be like you know what

I'm really sorry it's not gonna happen again

have you ever been in love also have you dated Latinos and what was your

experience you asked me when I was in my

relationship like when I was fresh even were like around the break-up I want to

say yeah I loved him I don't think it was true love to be honest with you I

really don't was I like in love with him you know because I think to be in love

with someone you have to you have to really love the good and the bad of

somebody and I didn't like that I can't really did not like bad how does a

person I will love your flaws and I will love the good things about you if I

really love you we all know that I'm definitely

attracted to Latinos they're definitely my type I have dated Latinos before my

personal experience with him was not the greatest experiences feel like they were

just like all talk and like no action that definitely doesn't make me linky

about funding Latinos because everybody's different no no no girl it's

so cute to you but one thing that I do like about them as I feel it they're a

little bit more emotional over you know other guys I feel like they just feel

things differently what's your best advice for meeting guys outside dating

apps here's the thing guys I'm a homebody I only go to the gym I might

step instead of Starbucks every once in a while

I might step into a movie theater every once in a while I go out to eat I don't

think I'm the best person to give advice on how to meet guys outside my like

ideal way of how I think it's gonna happen it's nice ink I'm gonna be in

Starbucks and I'm gonna be in the lineup ordering my nice coffee and I think like

a guy's gonna walk in and he's just gonna like see me it gonna happen just

like the movies I promise you he's just gonna see me and just magically be like

oh my god that is the mother of my children and that's just how it's gonna

happen it's the best advice I got think that if you are a social person I think

that it's good to be in a group of people you know go oh go to the movies

or go to dinner and stuff I thought go to events where there's a ton of people

around if you are that type of personality or ask your friends if they

know anybody but honest of you I don't want to like give you a bad answer to

this question because I don't think I'm the best person to give advice on how to

meet guys just people have always told me that in the past I need to go out

more and you need to do this I need to change my personality to meet somebody

no it's going to happen the way it happens I have heard of the most

craziest things and like all where'd you meet him I was just out one day that's

nice okay well you met on the Internet wow you didn't even need to leave your

bedside days that's basically it for this video thanks to all of you who sent

in your questions it was so much fun and it was actually pretty interesting like

just letting you guys know my story and hopefully you guys can relate to it and

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for watching and I'll see you babes in the next video well that wasn't too bad

I was debating about the engaged thing but I was like ah what the hell after

telling that story I am dehydrated I'm 27 and I'm single

all right we're gonna need some more of this video

making me break a sweat already you know one like you're just having a day where

it's just like not on your side today's just another on my side it's not on my

team who's got something going on for them now