When you are in a healthy relationship, both of you depend on each other equally for love,
emotional support and encouragement.
But if it is a codependent relationship, it is one-sided.
Codependent relationship is obvious a dysfunctional dynamic.
Here something happens which should not be.
Think, you are in a codependent relationship with someone, these signs might be in your
relationship.
1.
You're Ready to Say "Yes" to Your Partner Though you have the right to say 'no'
or 'I'm not sure' to your partner, you are always ready to say `yes' to him or
her.
This happens because you are suspected if you could continue your relationship further
or you are too much dependent on your partner.
2.
You're Agreed to Compensate for Your Partner's Behavior.
You are so affectionate or devoted to your partner that you cannot but compensate for
your partner's bad behavior.
Suppose he or she made a misdeed for their own way but you're ready to agree the responsibility
of it and pay for it.
Your behavior inspires your partner doing the same in the future.
3.
You Emphasis on Your Partner's Happiness The people who are codependent on their partners
can't help but continue to try to please the person they're enabling.
On the other hand, your relationship is with someone that takes advantage of your love
and empathic, helpful nature so they can avoid adult responsibilities and or taking responsibility
for their own life.
This is because of their most priority on the happiness of their partner's side.
Such kind of relationship is truly toxic to the individual's development, and ultimately
their happiness.
4.
Codependent Allows Partner's Decision to Affect Him or Her
When you allow another person's says or emotions affect you, this is obviously not
a healthy relationship.
We can call it `martyr role.'
It's clearly a sign of codependency if you experience anger, worry, anxiety or guilt
from another person's choices as well as worry about another person's feelings or
emotions.
You try to take on your partner's pain and struggles for them in a codependent relationship.
5.
No Problem Whatsoever to Lose Your Own Identity!
Each person must have their individual sense of self.
But when you are a codependent person, you have no objection to lose your own friends,
own interests even own identity.
This can help you to develop yourself what kind of person you are.
This should not be happened as the trend makes people personalityless.
6.
You Feel Incomplete Yourself without Relationship A healthy relationship is that which permits
the couples to be happy in their own way.
But when you are in a codependent relationship, you can feel yourself incomplete without your
relationship.
It is often confused with "true love" if you feel like you cannot function without
your partner or that your life would be over if the relationship ended.
7.
Feel Your Partner Cannot Function without You
As you feel you are incomplete without your relationship, you can also think that your
partner can be malfunctioned without you.
This is another nature of codependency.
8.
You Always Give Way More to Your Partner What you are getting in return, this should
not be concerned when you are in a codependent relationship.
Codependents may do so to help 'secure' the attachment and so, reduce their anxiety
about being rejected.
How funny!
Isn't it?
9.
Your Self Worth Is Wrapped Up
When you will start to live life for another's emotions, angers, likes and dislikes, your
codependency can slowly grow and cause an unhealthy balance in the relationship.
And if the process is continued, your self worth must be wrapped up in no time.
10.
You Feel Responsible to "Fix" Everything for Them
When you are in deeply codependent relationship with someone, you have no objection to fix
your partner's guilt or fault.
This is how, you are making a person superior and making yourself subservient to other.
What do you actually want?
If you are already get involved in such kind of relationship, try to get rid of it.
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