- Okay Judge Mary let's start with you what say you?
- You got a man here that loves you
that man he'd throw himself down
in front of a train for you
and you're just not seeing it.
And all he's asking is for a little love
maybe for a little bit of a change in your lifestyle
I don't know but you two need to communicate
about that or it's all gonna fall apart.
And we'd hate to see that happen.
(audience applauding)
- Areva?
- So I just hope that you guys make
some decision about this relationship
either get it together and work on it for your kids
or work on it separate, but do it for your kids
they deserve better from both of you.
(audience applauding)
- Dr. Judy?
- Walter I see that you do really love Lala
and you don't express it in the best ways always
I think sometimes it's frustrating.
But obviously you shouldn't be calling her names
even if you're emotional and Lala
I'm not totally sure if he is your priority
you do need to decide that.
I understand that you're trying to build a business
but there's building a business and there's
the possibility of possibly a social media addiction.
Signs of social media addiction
are that you use it too much,
that you have an urge to use it, that you use it sometimes
when you're having negative feelings or thoughts.
Like send them away to distract yourself
from things you don't want to think about
and then that your other relationships are suffering.
So just think about that and try to find a balance.
And we want to help you with that,
Ana Popa from Simply Counseling
is providing Lala six individual counseling sessions
so that she can work on,
possible social media addiction or any other
underlying things that you're dealing with.
Plus they're gonna provide the two of you
with six couples counseling sessions
and that's gonna be provided
with you from Aysha Hagene.
(audience applauding)
- It just hit me, you know what,
he always keeps saying she wants the check mark,
what's the thing you do on instagram?
- [All] The likes.
- Oh my God girl turn around and look at this guy
that's the only like you need in life.
(audience applauding)
- Rosie.
- Lala you're a smart girl you know
what you need to do redirect that talent.
You really want to become a model,
pay your dues go take a decent portfolio
and take pictures of yourself do creative work
take different kinds of images not that are sexualized.
And you want to go look for an agency
start putting yourself out there in a different way,
if modeling is what you really want to do
but with respect and dignity
and with pride that you can teach your kids
you know what I worked hard for what I have.
- Can I ask you how do you feel about
what you're hearing the truth team say?
- My perspective on everything is long
as I know where she's at and what she's doing
and I'm being introduced to the photographers
or any guys that she's being worked with
I'm fine, stop letting me be a secret
because I'm a attractive guy you should not ashamed of me.
(audience applauding)
Like that's how I feel.
- I'm ashamed of getting disrespected.
I'm ashamed of getting disrespected.
- Like she's ashamed of me or something I'm a tool.
- Okay well I want y'all to start making those baby steps
okay he's saying he feels likes you're ashamed
of being with him, she says.
- [Lala] I am ashamed of getting disrespected.
- You gotta stop disrespecting her so much
try it one step at a time, all right.
For the sake of your two sons that if you all really
do love each other, 'cause I can hear that he loves you.
All right, I do hear that so you know
just try to take the steps, get the counseling
and just try to communicate better
together all right your sons deserve that.
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