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- Ivory and Miles, how do you all feel

about what the audience results are?

- I wanna ...

- It's understandable.

There's a lot of issues.

- Ivory?

- Yah, I wanna be with Miles.

If I didn't wanna be with Miles,

'cause I do love him, we do argue a lot,

we do see different ways,

and I just feel as if, if we do, again,

get the help, I think that we'll be fine.

- Okay, Truth Team, what say you?

Judge Mary.

- Oh my god!

(audience laughs)

Are you kidding me?

(audience laughs and applauds)

Are you kidding me, lady?

I'm sorry. You love this man?

Every chance you get, you chew him up,

and you spit him out like he's garbage.

(audience agreeing and clapping)

- Okay.

- You know, that's not love. You can't change him,

and, honey, you can't change her.

You know what my advice is?

You get on that motorcycle,

and you get the hell outta town as quick as you can.

(audience clapping and cheering)

- Rosie.

- I really don't think that you understand

what the concept of love is.

There's boundaries that have been crossed.

The respect is out the door,

and you know what?

You don't have a vision for the future.

You just wanna hold on to what you have

because you don't know what's in the future.

You're so accustomed to what you've lived through

because it's your first major relationship.

Be free, number one.

Number two, be fearless in knowing

that something better will come along the way

because this is not serving any of you.

(audience clapping and cheering)

- Dr. Judy.

- You say you love each other,

but that's not what we saw today.

But, if you guys want to try to work this out,

you need to change the way

that you interact with each other.

Instead of saying all the things

that he's doing wrong, what about what he's doing right?

You gotta turn it around.

(audience clapping and cheering)

Okay?

To help you guys with this,

Dr. Matt Borer in your hometown is offering

you five couples' counseling sessions,

as well as 10 individual sessions,

and I really hope you guys

go to those individual sessions, too.

(audience applauding)

You guys need to work on yourselves.

(audience clapping)

- And, can I just say, that I think

that you guys haven't really taken the time

to get to know each other.

Moving in with each other, so quickly,

as you did, it's like you guys kinda became

forced roommates.

You know?

Instead of really dating each other.

Taking the time to get to know each other,

instead of I need this, you need to do this,

you didn't do that, you didn't ...

Y'all gotta figure out, if y'all gonna stay together,

how to date one another.

How to get to know one another

and not pick each other apart.

It's not productive for the son

to see y'all going at it all the time.

- It's not healthy.

- That environment in that house cannot be happy

for either one of you.

If you all really, really want this to work,

take the counseling.

Y'all gotta learn to talk to each other,

not at each other.

(audience murmurs)

Do you understand that?

- I understand.

- Yes, ma'am.

- Alright. Ivory and Miles, thank you so much

for having the courage to face your truth.

I know today was tough.

It was tough, alright.

But, we do, our job here is to try

to help you guys face the truth

and live better lives, okay?

So, thank you for having the courage to do that today.

For more infomation >> Can This Couple Turn Their Relationship Around? - Duration: 3:04.

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Jose Mourinho has a 'very good' relationship players, says Diogo Dalot - Duration: 2:27.

Manchester United defender Diogo Dalot has insisted that manager Jose Mourinho has a 'very good' relationship with his players

Mourinho, whose team are already 14 points adrift of Premier League leaders Manchester City, has come under plenty of criticism this season and has accused certain members of his squad of lacking heart

The Portuguese boss also had a public falling out with midfielder Paul Pogba while players such as Romelu Lukaku have admitted their frustrations with his team selections at times

  However, former Porto full-back Dalot, one of only three senior signings made in the summer, says there are no problems between Mourinho and his squad, praising the 55-year-old's man management

  'Jose was a big influence on me coming here,' Dalot told MUTV of his compatriot

'He was very important.'His history speaks for itself, the way he is coaching and the way that he has made football change

'It is the fact that is he is Portuguese too. The relationship that he has with the players is very good, and it was quite impressive to me

'He pushed me to come here and the way that he believed in me was very good. That is why I am here

He is a big reason why I came.' Dalot has not made a match day squad since September and is still recovering from an injury picked up on international duty

 The full-back has only been used in cup competitions this season with United's plan always being to ease the youngster in this season

The Red Devils are next in action away to Southampton in the Premier League on Saturday

 

For more infomation >> Jose Mourinho has a 'very good' relationship players, says Diogo Dalot - Duration: 2:27.

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How to ensure your relationship survives the business | Chris Tistrand - Duration: 2:38.

For us the unique challenge of a family business is obvious in that

my wife and I work in the same work place every day.

If we have a fight during breakfast we better fix it because we're going to sit across the

desk from each other an hour later.

Hi I'm Chris Tistrand, Managing Director and co-founder of Dinner Twist.

Myself and my wife founded Dinner Twist six years ago with the desire to help people change

their eating habits for a healthy and sustainable future.

From the very day we met my wife and I knew we would start a business together.

For the first two years we had a product and the passion but no real business understanding.

The Curtin Ignition program put us in a room with experienced and knowledgable entrepreneurs

and coaches who helped us go from a family hobby to

a proper business that we could grow and make profitable and scale.

Starting any business can be challenging and even stressful and in a family business you

can't just walk away from issues so if you're thinking of diving into a family business

here are my tips for making sure the relationships survives the business.

Separate your areas of responsibility early.

Make sure that you have very clear lines of who looks after what and then you can actually

support eachother rather than nit pick on who did what wrong.

Thinking we could just figure it out as we went showed to be very optimistic.

Throw in late hours, young kids, financial stress and you have a recipe for divorce.

Look after your spouses and your mental health because running

a business can be amazing but also very draining.

Find an outlet be it exercise, a yoga session, meditation or a walk on the beach, whatever

allows you to escape from constantly being switched on.

Now most importantly, make your mental fix part of your weekly schedule and don't budge.

How can you possibly be a good partner or a team leader if your batteries are flat.

Besides wasn't it the ability to control your calendar one of those reasons

that made you get into business anyway.

Take some time away from the business together.

Make sure you get away from everything and just be with eachother because it can't just

be all work and no play.

My wife and I both love to travel and we do so frequently for weeks at a time, therefore,

we had to build an organisation that can operate without us always being present.

Those trips are our reward and gives us time to reconnect.

Have a think about where you want your business to take you and

then make a plan so you can actually get there.

As challenging as it can be, there is a big upside to running a family business, you are

both equally passionate and committed which is a critical componant to succeeding in business.

The ability to make quick decisions is another factor.

If we have a crazy idea tonight be can actually go out and implement that tomorrow.

For more infomation >> How to ensure your relationship survives the business | Chris Tistrand - Duration: 2:38.

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usa today : Is Drake Hoping For A Serious Relationship With Stefflon Don? Why Rihanna's A Factor - Duration: 2:39.

Drake's in his feelings over British rapper Stefflon Don! First, came an Instagram flirt session

Then, he followed up with a romantic dinner. But is he ready to get serious with her? Here's what we know!    Drake, 32, has not been shy about expressing his appreciation for UK rapper Stefflon Don, 26

They got to know each other when she recorded background vocals for his song "Peak"

Then, Drake took their flirtation public on Nov. 2 when he chimed in on her Instagram Live video begging for a date

Drizzy got his wish and took Stefflon Don out for a romantic dinner in Miami. The "6 God" rapper was smiling from ear to ear in the pictures captured on their night out — but don't expect him to get serious with Stefflon Don

A source close to Drake tells HollywoodLife EXCLUSIVELY that there's still only one woman that could make him want to lock it down

  "Drake is not looking for a serious relationship, especially not with Stefflon Don

He is out to have fun, share some wine and some good times, but not much more. Drake likes Steff, thinks she is sexy, hot and they have great chemistry together

But he is not looking to make her his wife or anything crazy like that. It would take someone Drake really loves, someone like Rihanna, to come back into his life to make Drake change his mind about being in a serious relationship

" Considering Rihanna has admitted that things are so bad between them that they "don't have a friendship" anymore we're guessing he'll be waiting a while for her to come back into his life

Still, when it comes to making amends no one does it quite like Drake. Case in point? His recent reunion with Meek Mill, 31

The two rappers shocked everyone when they squashed their longtime beef earlier this year and united on stage for a surprise performance

And now there's buzz that Drake might even feature on Meek's forthcoming album, Championships set to drop on Nov

30.   

For more infomation >> usa today : Is Drake Hoping For A Serious Relationship With Stefflon Don? Why Rihanna's A Factor - Duration: 2:39.

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Essential Relationships: Honesty Starts, Dishonesty Ends – When Trust Issues Arise - Duration: 7:10.

There are many right and wrong things to do when you go on a date.

Knowing what you should be focusing on and what you need to avoid on a first date can

mean the difference between a second date and having someone that never calls you again.

If you know what makes a perfect date, you can then go into a first date with confidence

and self-assurance.

You will know what you are doing and what to expect.

This limits the surprises that sometimes come up and can ruin a date.

One very important thing that you should do when you are going on a first date is to make

sure that you are on time.

The fastest way to make a bad impression is to show up late.

If you are late, your date will think that you do not care about them or that they are

not important enough for you to be on time.

Another potential result is that your date may decide that they do not want to wait for

you and will leave before you arrive.

They say that the first impression is the lasting impression.

Being on time for a date makes a great impression.

Do your best to make your date feel as comfortable as possible.

Everyone gets very nervous when they go on a first date with someone.

If you are making your date feel comfortable, you will also find that you are more relaxed

and enjoy yourself much more during the date.

Laughing at your date's jokes is one great way to make them feel that you are interested

in them and it will also make them more comfortable.

Be interesting and keep the conversation alive.

You do not what to show up for a date and then have nothing to say and nothing to ask

all night.

You should prepare yourself ahead of time and think of interesting topics and things

that make good conversation.

Show a valid interest in what your date has to say.

Pay attention when they are talking to you.

Let them know that you care what they are saying.

Practice your conversation skills ahead of time.

This will help you prepare for the date.

You do not want to talk about yourself all night.

This is a turn-off and is also rude.

You do not want to come off as being conceited or stuck on yourself.

Ask questions about your date.

Give them a chance to talk.

It is not all about you.

If you do all the talking and do not let them get a word in, chances are it will be your

only date with them.

Do not talk about your past relationships.

No one really wants to hear about your ex.

They do not want to know what the good points and bad points were.

This is a huge turn off and a guaranteed way to drastically reduce the chances for a second

date.

This is a new person and a new start.

Focus on the date that you are with and start finding out about them.

There are some things in a relationship that almost always end any relationship very quickly.

In rare circumstances, a relationship may be able to survive these hardships, but more

often than not, they will end.

If you know what to look for and what to avoid in your relationship, you can avoid these

things that will destroy everything that you have worked to build with your partner.

One of the biggest reasons for a relationship ending is dishonesty and trust issues.

It is essential to be able to trust your partner in a relationship.

If you are not able to have complete trust and honesty, it leads to a relationship where

you are questioning every little thing that happens.

You begin to find reasons to fight with your partner.

You look for little subtle signs of a problem and you blow this way out of proportion.

Granted, none of this would happen if your partner was just being open and honest with

you.

However, you are taking this to a whole new level and compounding the problem.

Another huge problem within relationships is infidelity and cheating.

It does not matter if you are just dating or if you are married to someone.

The impact of an unfaithful partner is the same in any situation.

This can lead to a lot of questioning and self-esteem issues.

You begin to wonder why you cannot make them happy.

You wonder why they had to find someone else to be with you.

Then, the anger sets in.

You are hurt and betrayed.

You seek revenge.

You want to get back at your partner for being unfaithful to you.

In some cases, you blame the person that they cheated with and not your partner.

This is not the right answer at all.

Your partner is the one that is in a relationship with you.

Therefore, it was their decision to be with someone else.

The other person may not have even known that they were in a relationship.

Make sure that the right people are getting the blame.

But, most often if someone is unfaithful once, it is going to happen again.

For this reason, many people choose to just end the relationship after finding out about

an episode of being unfaithful.

Another way to ruin a relationship is to avoid your partner.

You make excuses and find reasons to not spend time with your partner.

When you are together, you are doing your own thing and not spending any quality time

with them.

You may be in another room.

You may be on the computer.

You will find anything that you possibly can to avoid having to spend any time with them.

Perhaps you are no longer interested in them and are just not sure how to tell them.

It could also be that you are tired of the relationship or that you want something new

and different in the relationship and are afraid to ask for it.

Whatever the case may be, it is much easier and less harmful to just end a relationship

than to go on pretending that everything is fine.

In the end, the effects are a lot more devastating if there are major issues thrown into the

mix.

If you no longer want to be with someone, the best way to address this with the least

amount of hurt possible is to be upfront and honest.

Losing a love is always painful, but losing a love due to lying, cheating, or any other

major issue is a lot worse than having someone tell you that they are no longer interested.

The emotional toll is much worse.