(gentle music)
- I think sometimes when we think about self-harm,
we think about the physical things you might do to yourself.
But a lot of times, there is the mental aspect of it.
We wake up every day and put a backpack of self-hate,
depression, on every day, you carry around it every day,
and until you acknowledge that you're wearing it,
you're gonna keep carrying that weight.
It's gonna come out one way or another.
Blessings to the failed attempt of killing myself.
To the long nights, the open roads and open scars
whose swallow I escaped.
To the hungry depression, never full, never satisfied.
The gnarled dog in the corner of my tidy home.
Blessings to my apartment I keep clean
in place of a diploma.
To the hood and its imposter syndrome.
To this brown boy joy, my mixed heritage,
my knotted hair, and ambiguous features.
Blessings to the strays.
The animals wandering for home.
The times I led the herd.
The times I was the pack, lonely and anxious.
To the misdiagnosed, the undiagnosed, broken self,
and tattered smile.
Blessings to the push.
To not giving up or in.
To the days after nearly the last.
To the days that fight to feel the sun's heat.
To the days that only know a countdown until the next.
Blessings to tomorrow.
How it arrives, how it arrives, how it arrives.
How it sits with impossible until the blessings of the now.
How it begs to be lived in.
How it never wants to pull for your attention.
But always deserves it.
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Does Death Nullify Marriage Relationship? | Javed Ahmad Ghamidi - Duration: 1:02.
Do husband and wife become na mahram after death?
It is a stupid question. It is very unfortunate that such beliefs have found a place in our society.
Let me tell you that Abu Bakr, one of the most graceful personalities, was given his funeral bath by his wife.
Such beliefs are totally baseless and stupid.
The concept of mahram and na mahram applies during the life of this world only.
A person has remained your spouse. Is there any bigger relation than that?
How can you declare it null and void on one's death?
This is merely a misconception propagated by ignorant people.
It is neither based on Quran nor hadith.
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Words of Affirmation - The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman | Relationship Advice - Duration: 9:23.
we say actions count morning words but people who speak the primary love
language of words of affirmations that is not true for them words speak always
louder than actions by the end of this video you're gonna know exactly how to
speak the love language words of affirmation fluently and if you stay
till the end I'm also gonna share with you what is especially harmful for the
people with words of affirmation as a love language hey entrepreneurs I'm Evie
welcome to adventure world my channels all about guiding you to an exceptional
relationship hit the little subscribe button if you haven't already to get
notified when ever annuity is released every Tuesday and Thursday so what are
words of affirmation all about for people who speak the love language words
of affirmation the most beautiful thing in the world is receiving compliments
and even better than just hearing I love you you look beautiful
is hearing the reason why behind so don't just tell them I love you but tell
them why you love them tell you why you are excited to see them tell you why
they are looking beautiful just add this little extra the wide and it's gonna
lift up their day make the day more beautiful and actually carry them
through the whole day or even a week words of affirmation also don't always
have to come through your lips you can send an email white a text message write
some handwritten notes and leave them wherever you can put them on the
whiteboard pin them to your fridge or just leave them in the luggage when they
traveling in the book that they are reading in the lunch or or jacket where
every day I'm gonna find it and see it later on
leave them little notes from time to time just to remind them that you
actually love them and care about them if it's hard for you to speak the love
language words of affirmation keep a journal or something they can write down
the affirmations and intentially bring these compliments and affirmations to
your loved one so did you always getting new inspiration and you know
coming always with the same I love you and then you don't really know what else
to say cuz you're not really a wordy person so just get into the habit of
practicing it and the more you practice the more fluent you gonna become a lot
of times in relationships we have to work through conflicts or
misunderstandings so for these people it's really important that you affirm
them before during and after a conflict or a discussion just tell them like I
love you I'm telling you this because I love you I need you to notice because
it's hurting you and I love because I care for you it really hurt me when just
affirm them tell me that you love them that you care for them that you're there
for them but that you need to resolve this conflict in order to lift your
relationship up grow stronger together build a deeper relationship and just
have a more beautiful relationship so there's nothing bad of having the
discussion just be really intentional in affirming and letting the person know
did you really love them all though the more specific you compliment is the
better so don't just tell them like hey you looking beautiful today tell them
your lipstick looks amazing and makes your eyes shine even more or use
sunglasses you just got looks excellent in you I really love it when you wear
this pants as your ass looks really sexy in it just add these little things
describe why put in more details and just get a creative of it there's really
no limit so just look at the person you love and just let it flow from your
heart okay there's no reason to tell them something that you don't really
feel it should be honest and you really should feel it and think it and even
though you have to describe it a little bit more and it's really hard for you it
should really come from your heart so don't tell them like oh you looking
beautiful anything holy shit where did you get that ugly coat from you got what
I mean right also be intentional before you say if your partner has like
insecurities with their body image and you're saying like
oh my god you look so beautiful yourself freakin slim and I love how your body
looks and they're just like mmm like I'm Way too overweight and I'm really not
feeling comfortable you can actually make them more insecure so make sure
you're really careful of this test it out I just keep doing what is already
working okay try new things but if you if you feel
like oh talking about her body weight or about her hair color or whatever he's
not really working she's in really responding to it then just leave it you
don't have to give compliments about everything just focus on the things that
make her eyes sparkle and light up if you don't always want to send the same
old text messages or emails you can also just take your phone send a voice
message or do a short little video telling them that you miss them that you
love them what do you love about them what'd you miss about them just really
expressing your feelings whenever you find an inspirational quote an article
or a documentary that reminds you of the person send it to them just the thought
of you haven't thought about them and expressing the love through that is
gonna make them light up so try to do that you can also get like a wooden box
or a jar and put some little snippets of paper with affirmations and compliments
in there so whenever you're feeling low you can just open it and read all this
beautiful little things that you feel about them to just lift them up and make
them feel better why do we say actually doesn't matter as much as how we say it
and it's most of the time Minard what do we say but who we are when we're saying
it so focus on your tonality because there's a big difference if you say I
freakin love you or I love you you get the difference right so make sure do you
be intentional with the feelings you want to transmit through your words
through your language and that the message you're sending actually gets to
your partner notice your partner's good qualities praise them enough
it's so easy to get stuck and all the negative stuff like oh your again didn't
bring out the trash again you didn't have dinner ready
again you left all your clothes on the floor oh my god you're so dirty what are
we just doing together breathe focus on the beautiful things there's a reason
why you're with your partner otherwise you wouldn't be together there's a
reason you love them there's a reason that you choose this person to be with
so finding things affirm them and let them know focus on the positive and
bright side and push this forward remember my focus goes energy flows so
focus on a bright side and you will see that your relationship is gonna get
uplifted enough level in a really short time if you want to get creative you can
even start a private car okay night at home just put a playlist together with
all the songs to really express how you feel about your loved one and just start
singing together or set a goal of giving you a spouse or partner and different
compliment or affirmation each day for at least a month because if an apple a
day keeps the doctor away probably an affirmation and a compliment
today is gonna keep the counselor away so give it a try make sure you find new
things every single day which shouldn't be a problem because you love that
person there should be a million things you're happy and excited about and you
want to share with them really focus on uplifting encouraging and kind words
that really give them life and carry them through their day beginning of the
video I told you I was gonna share with you what is especially harmful for
people who fight self-affirmation so here we go
the worst is on constructive criticism as this is really discouraging them and
really gets them down and it's really hard to lift them up out of this hole
also insults are really shattering and they're gonna stick to them for a
really long time and they're not easily gonna forget about it so whenever you're
having a discussion make sure you're not insulting someone make sure you're not
paying things you're regretting afterwards cuz these people I'm gonna
remember that for the next few weeks months and probably even years so if you
want to learn more about creating an exceptional relationship with your
partner I have a free video training in the comments below on how to improve
your communication and create an exceptional relationship if you like
this video give it a thumbs up if you didn't let me know share this video with
your friends and family so they can start speaking your and your partner's
love language as well and comment below and let me know what's your favorite
compliment and affirmation that you've received in the last few days hope you
have a beautiful day and I see you in this next video
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What Is A Narcissistic Relationship? | Harnessing Life - Duration: 13:03.
Hi! I'm Heidi Lynn.
Welcome to Harnessing Life.
Are you in a narcissistic relationship?
Well, today in this video I'm going to help you understand: what a narcissistic relationship
looks like.
In fact today, we're going to talk about 10 red flags to help you understand if your relationship
and what you are experiencing is a narcissistic one.
Stick around till the end of this video so you can grab my free guide on what is a narcissistic
relationship.
Before we get started, please click the bell icon so you can get notified when I upload
new videos every Monday.
So, what is a narcissistic relationship? Well, it looks like: lies, bullying, betrayal, deceit,
love bombing, arrogance, gaslighting, projection, ghosting, and they even put on smear campaigns.
And I'm going to go over every single one of those so that you understand what they
mean.
Red flag #1 is lies.
With narcissists they'll lie about anything.
They'll lie because whatever is convenient for them they want.
So if it means to lie about something else? they'll do it.
They won't even question it, and they'll feel very little remorse.
IF it hurts somebody in their family, maybe they'll feel a little guilty, but they don't
really care.
Because they don't see the future, they don't look at consequences.
All they see is right here right now and "I need this lie to get me through whatever I
want to get to", so they'll do it.
Red flag #2: betrayal.
Very similar to lies, however narcissists don't really care if they have to hurt somebody
in order to get what they want.
If you're in a relationship and you are feeling hurt because of something that your narcissist
lied to you about, or did, or said they did, or said they didn't do, or any of the above,
or all of the above, they're not there with you for your welfare.
They're only there for their own welfare.
Red flag #3 is bullying.
Narcissists bully and are experts at it.
They will bully emotionally, they'll bully mentally, and they'll bully physically sometimes.
Depending on what type of narcissist you are with, sometimes your life may be at risk,
and your safety may be at risk, if you have children their safety may be at risk.
So this is definitely something to take into consideration when thinking about whether
or not you're in a narcissistic relationship, even if you don't think it's narcissistic,
if you are not safe you need to contact the appropriate authorities in order to establish
your safety first.
Red flag # 4 is deceit.
I decided to talk about deceit as separate from lies.
Yes, lies play a factor in deceit, but deceit is not just lies, because you can be telling
half truths, or telling something that's true, but telling it in a way that is......deceitful.
Telling it in a way that makes you think that they're right.
But they're not.
They're just trying to manipulate you, and bully you.
And they're really good at it.
Red flag # 5 is love bombing.
This is a term that's thrown around in the narcissistic relationship community that means
that they will shower you with love.
They will be perfect for you.
They will be everything you want them to be.
They will show up on time, and they'll give you gifts, and they will "think of you often"
through texts, for...sometimes a very long time.
Some of these relationships, that love bombing phase can go anywhere from a week to a year.
But they do it just to get you on their little hook and then they string you along to break
your heart even more.
It's a terrible malicious thing, but they do it, and they're good at it.
Don't fall for it!
It's not worth your time and it's NOT worth your emotional energy.
Red flag #6 is arrogance.
MAN, are they arrogant!
They think that they are right, and they can do whatever they want, and whatever they please,
they're entitled, and the world owes them anything and everything they want.
As if to say "The world needs me, and so I'm special, and I deserve special treatment.
I get whatever I want."
Of course they're wrong, but they'll never believe it.
It's just arrogance.
Red flag #7 is gaslighting.
What that means is that they will kind of twist your reality and make you question or
second guess what you are thinking, and they'll make you think that YOU are the one that's
at fault, and that YOU are the one that's crazy, and that you are the one that's the
problem.
When really it IS them, but they're so good at this that they convince you, and everyone
else, your friends, your family, anyone that they have contact for, and sometimes even
your own children, they will convince everyone you know that you're the problem.
But the most important one to convince is you.
When you start questioning your own reality is when they have more power in your relationship.
Red flag #8 is projection.
Now what this means is that whatever negative thing that they're doing they're going to
project it onto you, so as if you are the problem.
So let's say they lied to you about something, and you caught them in their lie, and you
say "um...you lied to me about this" and they will say "no I didn't, you lied to ME".
You obviously know you didn't lie to them, you know that they lied to you but they are
so convincing that sometimes you start to question yourself, question your reality,
question what really happened, they will project, anything that happens to them they will project
it onto you.
And then they'll tell your friends that you did it, or your family that you did it.
They want to go steal money?
They'll tell your friends and family that YOU'RE the one that stole it.
They called the cops on you for a bogus reason?
They'll tell your friends and family that you did that.
That's projection.
Red flag #9 is ghosting.
Now ghosting is where they give you the silent treatment.
So you picked on them, or you caught them in a lie, or you called them out on something
nasty they did, they don't like that!
What are they gonna do?
Break off all communication.
As if that's helpful!
But of course they're not helpful human beings, so what can we expect.
Don't fall for their tactics of ghosting you!
You know what, you're better off without them anyways, frankly.
And red flag #10 is smear campaign.
You don't even have to do anything, you don't even have to say anything, and they're gonna
spread nasty gossip and lies and rumors about you just to cover their butt.
Because they're constantly doing nasty things so with all this deceit, and these lies, and
projection, and gaslighting, and ghosting, you're not gonna really understand what's
going on in your reality.
So the best option is to not get in it in the first place.
If you're in the very beginning and you notice these red flags in your relationship, don't
even let it go any further.
Leave, no contact, block 'em, and move on with your life.
Because you don't deserve all the emotional trauma that they're gonna put you through.
They don't change, and it's not gonna get any better.
You get what you see.
You see these red flags, they're gonna continue.
It doesn't get better.
Don't hope that your situation is the one out of a million that is the good one.
It's not gonna happen.
So find someone who actually appreciates you for being you.
Find someone who can love you, because a narcissist is not going to be able to.
They love themselves too much to be able to have room to love you.
Now that is what narcissists do, that's what it looks like.
When you have a relationship with them, that's what it's gonna look like.
Now, what it feels like on your end, it could feel like lots of things, but just some examples,
it could feel like being stabbed in the back, of course it could feel like being betrayed
by someone close to you because that's exactly what's happening, they're betraying you.
You might have a lack of ability to trust other people, because when you're being constantly
let down by a narcissist it's really hard to trust other people again.
You may experience a los off self-esteem, or self confidence, you might have extreme
self-doubt, when you're making decisions and just not sure what to do; they have put
you down so much that you are starting to second guess yourself.
Your confidence is low, your self-esteem is low.
And as a result, most likely you'll have a negative self-image as well.
It's really hard to love yourself on the outside if you're having a really hard time loving
yourself on the inside, because the narcissist beats you down so much emotionally and mentally.
You also may experience confusion for what is reality, are you really feeling the way
you're feeling?
Or is what the narcissist saying what you're feeling is really what you're feeling?
Does that make sense?
It's kinda confusing.
Because THEY are confusing!
They twist the world around and it's NOT COOL!
You'll probably feel anxiety for the future, maybe fear, and stress.
Maybe you'll even feel like you're spinning out of control, that your life is spinning
out of control, your future is spinning out of control.
Depending on your situation you can feel any or all of these, and it is NOT a healthy relationship.
If you want you life to be happy, you need a healthy relationship, and a narcissist is
not gonna provide that.
So, what can you do about it?
That's really the big question, right?
Everyone wants to know that.
So, let's talk about it.
There's only one thing that you need to remember, and that is that YOU CONTROL YOU.
You can't control anybody else out there, you can't even control someone who isn't a
narcissist, so don't try to control the narcissist because it's totally gonna backfire.
They'll control you, or try to control you any and every day that you are together.
So, you control you, your choices, your actions, your reactions, your thoughts, all of those
you have control over.
So if you really want to have love, have trust, happiness, peace, you want those in your life?
Then you need to make choices that will lead towards those things.
Staying with a narcissist with the hope that they're gonna change will not lead you there
period.
Don't think that you're the special one, because...not to say that you're not special, but your relationship
with the narcissist most likely is not gonna get anywhere.
They're not gonna change, they're not gonna have a desire to all of a sudden love you
because really they most likely never did, and that has nothing to do with you.
You could be a totally awesome person, in fact you probably are totally awesome, and
the narcissist will beat you down and drag you down because they can't stand it when
they feel like people are better than them because they want to be better than everyone
around them.
So, if you're with a narcissist and you're wondering if you should get out?
Or if you are leaving your narcissist, remember that three things are paramount!
These last three points that I want to make, I know I've made a lot of points in this video,
but these last three points are paramount.
These are your top personal strengths, are you ready?
They are: respect for yourself, accept the things you can't control, and have patience
with yourself.
If you can master those three things, maybe you don't even have to master them, if you
can do those three things sixty percent of the time you're a LOT better off than you
are right now, you will be a lot better off than you are right now.
I hope you liked this video, and I hope you found value in it, and share this video with
your family and friends.
Thank you for watching!
And until next time, bye.
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My love hate relationship with social - Duration: 5:11.
- I don't know about you, but I have
a love/hate relationship with social.
I would think most people do.
But recently, I had some experiences
that I'm that everyone has had.
On social, I've spent 5,000 plus hours
and so much time dedicated to learning about social,
and Facebook, LinkedIn, Pinterest,
Twitter, Instagram, all of it,
and there's so many emerging networks
that take so much time from us.
And I love it because of what it allows us to do
to be able to connect with people, to interact, to engage,
to network beyond our physical boundaries.
But I hate it because of what it does to us in being able to
communicate with one another with other people.
And sometimes, guys, just put
the phone down and pay attention.
Not long ago, my daughter, I'm layin' in bed,
she comes out, I'm layin' in bed and she just crawls
onto bed and just stares at me
with the sweetest most adorable look.
And my heart just melted, I love my daughter.
And I thought to myself, if I had been glued to my phone,
I totally would have missed out on this very sweet 60 second
opportunity to spend time with my daughter.
And I thought, how many people out there
miss those kind of opportunities
because they're so glued to their phone?
And this is comin' from a guy that my entire business
and job is making it so you're glued to your phone.
But sometimes you gotta put the phone down
because then there's other times where
I will be talking to people, and I don't know
how many times this has happened,
I guarantee this has happened to you,
where you will be in the middle of a conversation,
and I'm guilty of this too and I try really hard
not to do this, but you are in the middle of a conversation
and next thing you know, someone picks up their phone
and you totally disappear.
You stop talking and they don't even notice.
And I find that so frustrating,
I find it very disrespectful.
And I know I'm guilty of it, and I'm trying to work on it.
And that's my love/hate relationship with social
because of what it can do and how it expands our ability
to connect with people, but at the same time,
if we don't use it wisely, it destroys
our ability to connect with people.
Recently I listened to a...
talk by a gentleman by the name of Collin Kartchner,
which if you have children or you just use social
and you feel like you use it too much,
go check him out please, but he talked about what social
is doing to us and equated social, particularly with kids,
let's give em a rattlesnake and expect him not to bite,
except em not to get bit by a rattlesnake.
And as adults, we have these devices that connect us
to the world and we forget how to connect with the world.
And it's my little rant and I love social, I really do.
But don't forget how to connect with people,
don't forget to look people in the eye,
shake their hand, smile, laugh with people.
When you're with a group eating dinner,
don't pull out your phone.
Don't even put it down on the table
because that distraction is still there.
Leave it your purse, leave it in your pocket,
connect with people, and then use social
as a means to enhance that.
But don't make it the basis of how you engage
and build meaningful conversations
and relationships with people.
Because what happens if you don't have your phone?
What happens if you actually have
to communicate with people?
What are you gonna do?
Anyway, I'd be interested to know
if you've had similar experiences.
Let me know or...
if nothin' else, just...
from a digital marketer, from a father,
from just one human being to the next,
don't forget how to connect with people,
and treat people with human kindness and respect.
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Caroline Wozniacki gives details of her relationship with Maria Sharapova after Australian Open exit - Duration: 3:06.
Sharapova beat Wozniacki (Picture: Anadolu Agency/Getty) Caroline Wozniacki may not have faced off with Maria Sharapova for nearly four years ahead of her defeat to the Russian on Friday afternoon, but the pair have certainly clashed in other regards
Wozniacki was a vocal critic of the favourable treatment Sharapova had enjoyed upon her return from the sport, hitting out at her being handed a wildcard in Stuttgart while questioning the US Open scheduling the Russian above her during the 2017 event
The pair had avoided each other on court since the 31-year-old's comeback from her drugs ban until Friday's third-round meeting at Melbourne Park and it was largely a civilised affair, with no obvious show of emotion from either when shaking hands at the net after Sharapova knocked out the defending champion
Sharapova came out on top (Picture: AFP/Getty Images) After the match, Wozniacki was quizzed on her relationship with the 30th seed and she insisted little had changed since the explosive comments off the court
Advertisement Advertisement 'I mean, I think our terms are the same as they have always been,' Wozniacki said
'I think she doesn't really talk to anybody and just, you know, has her team and has her own thing
And that's that. 'I do my own thing. I have my friends, and that's that. I just, we are just playing, we are on tour
We are competitors. We both try our hardest when we're out there on court and fight our hardest
' Asked if a win over Wozniacki given her comments in the past made the win more satisfying, the Russian – who faces Ash Barty in the next round – replied: 'I just really like winning
Wozniacki came up short (Picture: AFP/Getty Images) 'I'm just really happy and proud of the way I competed today and I'm into the fourth round
So that's all that matters.' Wozniacki also suggested she would head to the Miami Open after all despite considering boycotting the event last year
The Dane's family were allegedly subjected to death threats during her defeat to Puerto Rico's Monica Puig and while she is yet to make a decision on participation, she admitted she was leaning towards a return
'To be honest, I haven't thought about it yet,' she said. 'I have been focused on this tournament
But I haven't really thought about the future planning. 'But I would lean more towards I'm playing than not playing
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Courteney Cox's Relationship Is Stronger After Ending Engagement - Duration: 5:20.
Hi Courteney.
Hi, how are you?
I'm good.
I'm good.
So you haven't been here in four years.
Four?
I know.
Although, we see each other often in different scenarios.
I saw you-- I went to your house to watch, oh my god, the most
incredible comedy special, which you've all seen, I'm sure.
Yes, Relatable, on Netflix, everybody.
They haven't seen it.
It's all good.
That was really fun.
Yes.
And then we were on an island together vacationing.
Right.
We were at a place called Brando Island, which is incredible.
And one of my favorite memories was really
just seeing who all you were gonna scare that day.
So you think that she just scares on the show.
Uh-uh.
You scare on the the most-- we're all there to relax.
It's the most expensive vacation.
All you want to do is just chill and nothing was sacred.
There was not a moment.
No.
I mean, she would hide behind the curtains in your place
where you're staying.
Poor Cameron.
Yeah.
[INAUDIBLE]
You scared me in the pool with Amanda.
Yes.
And I would hide behind a bush for as long as I can to--
There was not a palm tree that she wasn't--
anything was-- nothing.
Anything [INAUDIBLE].
It's fun.
I don't do it just for the show.
I do it because it's fun all the time.
Why would--
It's almost like you're 10 afterwards.
You get so-- you're like--
Yeah.
You're so excited.
Well, do you like to scare people?
Do you do it?
Well, I actually, I'm so afraid that I'll be scared afterwards,
that I don't want to do it.
I can't stand being scared.
Although, I do love it.
I mean, it's so weird.
It's a love hate thing.
But anyway, yes, it's fun.
All right, and I understand you're
spending a lot of time in London now
because your boyfriend, fiance slash--
he's your fiancee, right?
He's not my fiancee.
We were engaged to be married, but now
we're just together and--
But you broke off your engagement?
We did.
Why?
But you're still together.
Yeah.
I know.
Isn't that strange?
We broke off our engagement and he moved to England.
Then we got back together.
And it's actually better than it was before.
It's just, everything's better.
Because he's in London?
Oh, there he is.
Not because he's in London.
Although, I think the distance-- after that breakup,
we were apart for six months.
That really showed us a lot.
And it's just better.
It's expensive.
I mean, that's an expensive relationship.
Yeah, to go back and--
I'm going Thursday.
Yeah.
We go back and forth a lot.
But you take turns?
He comes to see you or do you--
He does.
He's in a band called Snow Patrol
and right now he's touring.
Oh.
But, yeah, he's incredibly.
He's also an incredible writer.
He writes tons of music and--
The one thing I learned about you on vacation
is you know music very well.
You know lots of songs and every single word to them.
That was one of my favorite nights, by the way.
When we were dancing?
Yeah.
There was-- Cameron--
I'm saying it like everybody knows who Cameron is.
You know, Cameron, my friend.
He's just a guy.
Anyway, a friend of hers made a Spotify playlist called FM Gold
and it's so good.
And that night, we just danced forever.
I had the best time.
I have to-- so there was a bar.
It's an island.
It's not a private island.
There was other people there.
And so there was a couple honeymooning.
And they're sitting at the bar.
And Portia and I show up.
And they're kind of all of a sudden,
like, just staring at their drinks
and trying to act like there's nothing happening.
And then all of a sudden, Jen Aniston shows up
and they're, like, freaking out.
And then Courteney shows up.
And then Jason Bateman shows up.
And they're like, oh my god, what's happening.
It just kept growing and growing.
And Jimmy Kimmel shows up.
And it was, like, a whole bunch of us.
It was a fun group.
They stayed as long as they could
before their heads exploded.
And then they-- and Coco was there, your daughter.
Oh, yeah.
How old is she now?
Coco's 14 and she just started high school.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
I mean, it's a whole new world.
Everything about it.
I don't understand a word that Coco says and vise versa.
She doesn't get me.
I don't get her.
I mean, Johnny's from Ireland.
So I don't really get him either.
And Coco will say, like, hey mom, what's the tea?
I have no idea what that means.
It means, like, what's happening?
What's the latest?
Johnny will say, what's the crack?
That's not-- you know, that's the way people talk.
What's the tea is like, what's the tea?
I want to see tea bag.
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Funniest story.
The other day, she calls me up and she's--
I was driving on Sunset and, you know, Sunset's pretty crazy.
And Coco called me up and said, mom, I'm freaking out.
I said, Coco, I'm freaking out.
I just got hit from behind.
And she's like, what?
Gross.
I mean-- what?
I got rammed.
And she's like, what?
And she [INAUDIBLE].
I'm like, how am I supposed to say I got rear-ended?
Well, not like that.
Like, nothing worked.
I can't talk.
But I did.
I got hit from-- you know, in the back of my car.
Yeah.
But it really scares me.
Is that a term--
I got hit from behind?
It is when you're from Alabama.
I mean, what else am I going to say?
What do you say?
Yeah, I would have said-- well, I
would've said I got rear-ended instead of hit from behind.
That doesn't sound that much better.
No.
Now nothing sounds OK.
All right.
People are just turning on right now.
All right, we'll take a break.
We'll be back.
Hi, I'm Andy.
Ellen asked me to remind you to subscribe to her channel
so you can see more awesome videos.
Like, videos of me getting scared or saying
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Kailyn Lowry's relationship with her parents has been rocky for some time, and the 16 & Pregnant star hasn't held back on her feelings about the broken relationship with her mom and dad, and says she has no desire to pursue one with either of them in the future.
"A lot of people ask what my relationships are with my parents… I don't have a relationship with either of them," she said, according to OK! Magazine.
"I met my sperm donor [her father] for the first and last time on 16 & Pregnant.
I was 17-years-old and I never looked back.
He doesn't reach out and neither do I.
I can't remember the last time I spoke to my mom.
I'm not sure where she lives, if she works or anything.
I have no desire to have a relationship with either of them.".
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If she had the opportunity to speak with her parents, she said she "wouldn't say anything" to either of them.
"Part of me is thankful things are the way they are.
It gets lonely around holidays and I'm sad for my kids during those times…but I wouldn't be where I am today if things were different.".
Lowry confessed that her children – Isaac, Lincoln and Lux – have asked about their grandmother, Lowry's mom Suzanne Lowry (who goes by Suzi), in the past, but never about their grandfather.
"My kids have asked about my mom…never my dad.
Now that I think about it…I guess they don't know any better because they don't know any different," she said.
She added: "I can't remember Isaac ever asking about my dad.
He's asked about my mom…'When can I go back to see mommy's mommy?' And I tell him 'She's sick and I don't know if she will ever get better.'".
Lowry lost touch with her mother after finding out Suzi was drinking while babysitting her son Lincoln.
After she gave birth to her third son Lux, she claims she tried to reach out to Suzi but never received a response. "Tried to contact her about her new grandson but I got nothing," Lowry tweeted in response to a fan.
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Suzi has appeared on earlier episodes of Teen Mom in the past, when Lowry lived with her after she split from then-boyfriend Jo Rivera.
Lowry secretly moved out of her home with her son Isaac when she got into an altercation with her mother's boyfriend at the time, according to Radar Online. After she moved out, her mother blocked Lowry's number when she tried to reach her.
According to Radar Online, the two reconciled after the birth of her son Lincoln, who she shares with ex-husband Javi Marroquin, but that reunion was also short-lived.
"We don't talk," she said on a reunion special in 2014 of her mother, who she has claimed is an alcoholic.
"I took Lincoln to her house and Javi doesn't know about this so that's why I don't want to talk about it.
I came back two hours later and she was trashed.
His diaper was on backwards, she had given him formula, whole milk, yogurt, and a banana.".
Lowry claims that her mother has been an alcoholic most of her life, and used to drive drunk with Lowry in the backseat of the car. "She would get drunk and drive with me and stuff," she said.
"But she didn't do it because she wanted to hurt me, she did it because she was sick.".
Lowry said that at one point in her life she wanted a relationship with her father, and thought that he would come "rescue her" from the life she was living with her mom.
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"[Before I met him] I was like, 'My dad is going to come rescue me someday.
I'm going to have this superhero dad that's going to come in when my life is f–ked up and he's going to make everything better.
And then I met him and I was like, 'Oh f–k, no, this is not what I expected.'".
Sometimes Lowry wonders if her mother is even still breathing. "I don't even know if she's alive," Lowry said on a Coffee Convos podcast.
"It's been years.
I don't think anyone in my family has heard from her.".
Kail stated that the last time she spoke to Suzi was when her second son Lincoln was about six months old (Lincoln is now four years old).
She says that, although she is okay with having no contact with her parents anymore, she is still sad and wishes people would understand that she has very little family left in her life.
"I think people forget that I don't have a family, so I just come off very cold," she said.
"I don't know how to handle certain situations and I'm so defensive.
I'm like, 'Let's put a poker face on and call it a day' but…I cry a lot!.
What do you think about Lowry's relationships with her parents? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
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