hi it's so good to see you today I appreciate your time if you're not
currently in a relationship but you would like to be and if you are still
looking for the love of your life stop your soulmate will be right next to
you when you start doing the things you love last week I received an email from
a man who had recently gone on a few dates but he didn't feel any connection
with those women nothing clicked at that point he began to wonder if his last
relationship was going to be his last relationship he worried that he should
have tried harder to make it work or perhaps he had missed his chance at love
he felt unsure of himself and his ability to sustain a relationship if
you're going through the same thought process I encourage you to go back to my
video on increasing confidence and watch it then do the exercises I recommend in
that video building confidence is about building a successful momentum having
one positive encounter after another will give a person the self-esteem boost
they need to keep moving toward their goal at the same time you must cut all
ties with past unsuccessful relationships that may be calling out to
you imagine that you're stranded on what seems to be a deserted island with a
small damaged boat it's hot and you're thirsty covered in sand and sunburned if
you continue to believe that little dinghy is your only hope you'll stay on
the beach and miserably try to repair it until you die that's a bad relationship
if instead you let that wreck wash away with the tide while you steadfastly
forge a path inland you may find a tropical paradise waiting for you it
takes courage to leave that broken vessel behind and wholeheartedly stride
toward the unknown to build up that courage let's go over
the six steps to go from sad and single to relationship ready number one let go
of the past this includes forgiving yourself and the
other people from all your past relationships
it also means cutting off all ties to those people no social media no calls
texts or emails no mementos videos or photos let it all drift out to sea to
become a distant memory allow those girlfriends of the past to become just
somebody that you used to know trust that they have all changed and grown
into different people now and so of you the window of time for you to be
together has closed but that's okay because when one window closes another
one opens they say every new beginning comes from
some other beginnings end number two focus on yourself healthy people have a
more positive perspective on life and they have more fun with that in mind
visit your doctor eat nutritious meals exercise everyday and get plenty of
quality sleep next I want you to make three lists the first list describes the
hobbies sports or activities you used to enjoy that you would like to enjoy again
the second list is like a bucket list things you always wanted to try or learn
the third list is your to-do list those tasks that you put off that you hope to
complete someday after you make these three lists get out your calendar and
start to schedule these activities action is the antidote to despair call
up old friends and reconnect with family members by asking them to join you to
play a physical sport go hiking or fishing and get some use out of that
equipment that's been gathering dust in your basement or garage browse the
internet for rafting or ski trips and start planning a vacation take a cooking
or martial arts class watch a few YouTube videos to learn how to fit
or replace a leaky faucet or rusty hinge a man who is active and productive is a
man who is content proud of his work and confident number 3 minimized and
organized clean out your desk cupboards shelves pantry and closets get rid of
old clothes you don't wear junk food extra dishes books knickknacks and
anything else that doesn't serve your daily needs the less stuff you have the
more time and freedom you'll discover when you get rid of the clutter in your
life you have space to breathe and visualize new possibilities organize
what you decide to keep then create simple routines to streamline your day
to free up more time for tackling those lists you just made number 4 help others
a man is hardwired to take care of others and his greatest desire is to
feel appreciated for doing so feed that need by planting a garden helping
elderly neighbors or grandparents babysitting for family or friends taking
care of pets or volunteering for your favorite cause when you help those in
need of your talents and hard work you feel good about yourself make new
friends and gain the appreciation of the community around you number 5 get out to
reduce stress improve your mood and health it's important to get outside and
connect with nature walk a dog go for a run in the park ride the bike trail hike
in the woods paddle a boat surf or snorkel the earth provides grounding
energy that can refresh and rejuvenate the weary soul number 6 set your
intention create a list of the attributes you would like to find in a
woman you choose to date focus on her personality her willingness to
communicate with you and her ability to accept you for who you are the woman in
your life should make you feel happy and is if you want to be your very best self
a good fit requires very little compromise other than trying new things
to see if you like them it's a good idea to create this list of attributes when
you're alone and focused on a long-term relationship when men come across women
throughout their day their genetic programming will take over and they will
naturally choose those women who are the most beautiful and sexually appealing
regardless of personality or compatibility so has your meeting and
enjoying the company of a woman check your list for your most important
requirements and make sure she has them before going forward I believe the most
important traits are those that last a lifetime such as a positive attitude
about life a willingness to communicate about everything honesty integrity
intelligence and flexibility partners who have these traits will have a much
easier time creating a happy and healthy long-term relationship once you've spent
a couple of months completing these six steps you should feel content
emotionally and mentally strong and positive about yourself and your life
that attitude will attract wonderful people and opportunities to you like a
magnet letting go of the past and having a clean slate will enable you to open
your heart to a new relationship without the baggage and negative patterns that
other women in your past imposed on you if you still need help releasing the
past and moving forward contact a mental health specialist who can offer you
one-on-one therapy for your specific issues let me know what opportunities
you come across when you try these six steps by leaving a comment below and
tell me what you want to learn more about in upcoming videos I'd love to
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we'll talk again soon the softer side imagine that you're stranded on what
seems to be a deserted island limit the depth let be deserted
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