Main Reasons Why INFJs Tend to Chase Unhealthy Relationships
You may be wondering why there is a personality type that actually prefers suffering instead
of happiness in any relationship that person is in.
there are so many reasons why that happens, but it all comes back to the basic of INFJ.
Here is the reasons on why INFJ usually chases and is trapped in an unhealthy relationship.
#1 - The will to help everyone
The type of personality with the high rarity actually has very unique character in which
they don't want to make others suffer.
They like to help people because it is the purpose of their life.
The problem is that INFJs tend to have perfectionist target.
They want to make everyone happy.
They want to help everyone, so none will suffer.
This is unrealistic because people have their own problems with different difficulties.
Though you can assist one or two, the others probably have crumbled down before you manage
to take care of them.
It is indeed problematic to be INFJs with their attitude to help others.
Moreover, it is important to know that there are some bad guys who want to use others.
INFJs are easy target for that kind of people.
INFJs can be considered as very nice people to hang out with even though they are introverted.
They are basically aware that they are approached by bad guys.
However, they always think that those bad guys can be fixed.
They believe that they can make them feel better after some series of sessions with
them.
However, it is just extremely difficult to convince INFJs that they are actually falling
into those toxic people's trap.
#2 - They demand healthy relationship
INFJ wants a healthy relationship that lasts long or even lasts forever.
Unfortunately, it is again unrealistic goal against toxic people who don't care anything
about relationship.
INFJs will keep trying their best to get such perfect relationship no matter what, and that
also includes suffering because fixing relationship with toxic people are near impossible.
#3 - INFJs are always capable of being alone, but they want to be in a relationship.
Another thing to consider is that INFJs are basically introverts who can take care of
themselves without the help of others.
Instead of talking the problems to other people, they tend to keep it for themselves and they
are fine with it.
This actually prevents suggestions, advices, and recommendation from people who truly care
for them, in terms of stopping the unrealistic relationship with toxic people.
INFJs are pretty stubborn for this matter, and it keeps them going into one toxic relationship
to another.
Moreover, knowing the fact that it is difficult to change INFJs mind after they've made
decision, INFJs tend to chase and stuck in a toxic relationship.
However, it is basically the choice that they make, and they usually happy or at least half-happy
with it.
Those are all some reasons why INFJs tend to chase toxic relationship.
Please note that not all INFJs are actually trapped in such dramatic relationship.
Some can escape, and some even haven't experienced the worst.
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