Hi I am Emi
Hi I am Chad and Ballball
Ball ball why are you sitting in my seat?
juju?
whee hello!
it's time for another Q&A
this is our first Q&A after we got engaged
because all the Q&As we did were before the proposal
every time the questions from you guys were
when are you getting engaged? getting married?! x 2
and it finally happend
let's get straight into it
first question!
when and where will be our wedding?
which location and which date?
you guys wanna come?
so when will the wedding be
we think roughly 2020
because 2019 is really too soon
for now we have decided to be end of 2020
because we want part of the wedding to be outdoor
summer time is too hot and rainy
for the location, it should be in Hong Kong
because we want...
aiyo she's so cute
cannot see her on the camera can't see ballball?
let me move her
to me, the most important thing is to have ballball at our wedding
that's why it has to be in Hong Kong, don't want her to take plane
we saw on the news before that dogs died on planes
we don't want anything happen to ballball, right juju?
2nd question
Do you have a theme for your wedding? what's your dream wedding?
How much will it be? Expensive? How big?
our dream wedding is puppy-theme
most important to us is to have ballball there
all the guests can bring their dogs
all the dogs will be dressed in suits and dresses
dressed up in gowns
because ballball is my dog, she will also wear a wedding dress like me
ball ju you are also getting married?
she will be the flower girl and ring bearer
but because of our budget limitation
it won't be a crazy luxurious wedding
to answer your question, it's super expensive to have a wedding in Hong Kong
especially the venues
because Hong Kong is so small, and many people are willing to spend a lot on weddings [average wedding spending: USD46,000)
to have to take out so much money for a wedding is quite tough for me at the moment
how big will be the wedding?
at first we wanted it to be really small
but as we do the calculations, seems to be too small
i.e. 50 guests, we can only each invite 20
most of our friends will be angry
yeah, can only invite relatives and best friends, that's it
we also asked a few venues, some require a minimum of 100 guests
so I think our wedding would be around 100 guests
that's okay
those who are not invited can watch our wedding video on YouTube
I will send to them
Ball ju excited to be in a wedding dress?
so excited!
cannot be prettier than me okay?
she must be prettier than you
you said my dog will be prettier than me on my wedding day?
ball ju is the most beautiful one right?
then you get married with her
we need to find a husband for you, juju
she will feel left out
you be the husband
I don't want to, you are mine
never heard people saying the dog is prettier than the bride
it's joking juju
okay, 3rd question
i recently posted on my IG that we got insurance
they want to know why Chad thinks it is so important to buy insurance
i think it's really important because when it comes to family
you must try to protect everyone as much as you can
this is my philosophy
but I myself really don't...
She really doesn't like insurance
I don't really have this concept
she finds it very troublesome
so I kept delaying it, but recently I found a place called Blue
they are the first online insurance in Hong Kong
no need to find agent / pay commissions
they have a $1 promotion so she thinks it's so good
and their website interface is very clear and simple
their critical illness plan is quite special
because in the future if we have kids, they will automatically have free coverage
we think it's good deal
automatic, and free
just hearing it already sounds good
they have critical illness and life insurance
only cost $2 in total
more information will be in the description box below
instruction box
what instruction box
he is creating his whole version of chinese
aiyo ball ju good girl, eating food by yourself
question 4
it's about money
do we normally split half or Chad pays for most?
this is quite interesting, we always discuss it
Chad pays for everything!
no way!
okay, so let's talk about it from the beginning of our relationship
when he first asked me out (dating), he paid for dinners
of course! need to seduce and woo the girlfriend
must pay, can't say "hey you pay!"
ahh! ball ju!
he was trying to date me then
yeah
to be honest, when we both work in our jobs, his salary was much higher than mine
therefore he used to pay more and I paid less
but recently Emi's career is doing very well
so her contribution is increasing now
thank you everyone
thank you for your support
we discussed before that once we got married,
each person should pay a certain percentage of his / her income
and then put that into a joint bank account
so all household expenses will be paid from that account
it's more fair this way
joint account, very fair
it's actually very fair before as well, because her salary was less
so as a proportion, it's right, I should pay more
but now she's very rich, so she needs to take care of me
yeah, sugar mama
shut up
who pays for the wedding, this is very interesting
we only found out after we got engaged that in western culture, the bride pays for the whole wedding
crazy
I don't do the Western way
i also don't know if the Chinese way is our parents pay for all
our parents will not pay for sure
we won't let them pay
everyone does it differently
sure
to us, it's our own wedding, we don't want our parents to take their money out for us
we will pay ourselves
we will pay according to how much we each earn
but it's really quite expensive, so our wedding cannot happen so soon
if we still don't want to take the money out by 2020, then we will postpone our wedding forever
get married when we are 40
question 5
this is very funny
it said, will you invite your exes to your wedding
i saw that question (we discussed this before)
we won't because we don't keep in touch with them
but
oh! i will invite one!
huh?! that's not your ex boyfriend
he considers himself as an ex
he considers himself? ridiculous
he's my "first" boyfriend, it was when we were really young
we have never even held hands
we are really good friends so I will invite him
but other ones, we don't even have any contact
even if I invite them, they won't come
no, I don't even talk to her
we don't have any "still be friends after break up" examples
6th question
living arrangements
a lot of questions asked where would we live
Hong Kong or overseas
will we live with our parents? will we buy a flat?
is it expensive to buy a flat in Hong Kong?
where will we live
Hong Kong
he loves Hong Kong so much
because he has his family and friends here
I am so relieved, she used to say she wanted to move to some random countries
to start a new life. oh god this one
i used to be very (adventurous)
caused me a lot of stress
i would be like sure sure, but inside I knew
no we are not going anywhere
is it expensive to buy flats in Hong Kong
yes, very expensive, super expensive
most expensive in the world
is Hong Kong
buying a flat would not be possible in the next few years
maybe when we are 40 we can try
actually we plan to live apart after we get married
it might sound very weird to many of you
but because our parents are getting older
we want to spend as much time with them as possible
the 2 of us we still have our whole lives together
but not with our parents
and also living with ballball
and Chad will live with his parents
of course our dream is to buy a space
where me and him, ball ball and both of our parents can live together
many people together
but it's too expensive in Hong Kong, we are not able to do this just yet
eh? ballball left
[hug]
[kiss]
7th question
is about honeymoon
a lot of them want to know where we plan to spend our honeymoon
will we film a honeymoon video
for sure!
we film everything now
where will we go?
where you want to go?
[let me think]
i really want to go Safari
south africa
yeah, need to see which country is safer and the safari is of good value
most of them are really expensive
yeah super expensive
because he really likes animals, so he really wants to go there
yeah, how about you?
She really likes Europe
I think part of the honeymoon will be in Europe
the honeymoon should consist a few different places
depends on how many days he can get leave from work
i think can get 2-3 weeks
actually already really good
i want to bring her to Hawaii
now that I grew up, I'm less adventurous
because i am influenced by him, he thinks everywhere is dangerous
there will be people attacking us
it makes me more paranoid and scared after being with him for so many years
so a lot of the places that i really wanted to go before
I don't really want to go as much now
maybe we just go to Shenzhen (one train ride away from Hong Kong)
Honeymoon in Shenzhen?
otherwise Taiwan, I love Taiwan
Taiwan is great
8th question
babies, kids
you guys asked us in all our previous Q&As before if we want kids
before we always said no, we don't want kids for sure
but in the last one we already said maybe not but might change our minds
there's a possibility
so they want to know if we changed our minds
when do we want to have kids, boy or girl, what names
first, do we want to have kids now
you answer
you, you, you
i don't mind
what you mean by "i dont mind", what if it's entirely up to you
wow this is really
at this moment, our age right now, I think we still don't want kids
but I'm pretty sure later on, when we reach 30 years old, we will...
holy sh*t
a super big bee
ahhhhh close it close it!
so big! crazy!
this big!
since i knew you all these years, you always said you don't really want kids
because they are very expensive
everyone says, yeah now you say don't want
but later you will say you want
the first few years we were together, I also said I don't want kids
I'm scared my baby is not cute
okay, not just cute or not, health is super important
there are so many things you will have to worry about
we are already so paranoid, even when we go travel ourselves
so we will be super scared that something would happen to the baby
but very likely we will end up having kids
when we are older, we would want to have kids
another thing that i am super scared
is how painful giving birth is, so scary
i watched those giving birth videos, wow
why would you watch these videos
on youtube! suggested videos!
i won't click in
and then her friend told her the whole process of giving birth
so scary, need to cut this and that, oh my god
need to cut this, cut that, cut everything
super scary
i hope that in a few years there will be new technology to reduce the pain
can come out of the mouth
ew so disgusting, you crazy
your whole face will explode
even if you have C-section, it will be painful for a few months
because you need to cut through multiple layers of the belly
freaking scary
Maybe i wont have kids because i don't want to go through this
no problem, i support you, this is your choice
or there might be new technology of men giving birth
that will be amazing
nonononono
come out of my butt
but if we have kids, i want the first one to be a girl
because i can dress her up, wear matching clothes with her
if its a boy, she will also dress him up
paint his nails
wear a dress!
but if I have a daughter I will be more worried
cannot date until you are 34
end up dating bad guy like me, wow cannot
yeah! poor me!
that's what my poor dad thinks
boys I don't mind
do whatever, just don't kill people
don't kill people
okay
also cannot burn peoples houses down
cannot do drugs (cannot smoke)
drinking alcohol is okay
no no, also not good
how many kids?
1 is enough
if you are having one already, might as well having one more
2 is okay, 1 boy 1 girl
wow, 2 babies, you need to give birth twice
give birth to one then same same to do one more
need to cut twice
already cut the first time no need to cut the 2nd time
what are the babies names, I already have some ideas
i want to call it Bobo, because it sounds so cute
and it sounds like ballball, which i like
but his last name is Dai (sounds like Big in Chinese)
Big Bobo (sounds like big boobies)
a bit weird
will think later on
will we teach them English or Chinese first?
I will teach English, and she will teach Chinese
simultaneously
I will teach Mandarin Chinese
I will teach Mandarin Chinese, your pronunciation is so bad
when the kid goes to school no one understands him / her
eat eat rice!
9th question - it's about ball ball
oh she left
you want to know if we will get another dog
of course we want, but we don't even live together
our dream is to have 3-4 dogs
i want all of them to be poodles, all different colors
1 black, 1 grey, 1 white, 1 brown
ballball will be the queen
because she is the OG
last question is about changes
did we change after getting engaged? our lives, our attitudes
any changes?
no changes, same
yeah, only that I must protect this one, my fiancé
and we discussed our future plans more
some questions are about how we met,
our first impressions of each other
how you asked me out on a date
we answered these questions in our previous Q&AS
so you can watch them here, yeah!
okay then, we will see you next time!
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poor juju needs to give birth
then you give birth!
I cannot, how to give birth
didn't you say there were cases of men giving birth already?
I don't know
we investigate
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