hello beautiful people welcome to today's video I have some cool people
today this is Brandon this is Vinny they have
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That would get so many supporters they jump right on that yeah great let's start there sometimes like
right out line through my videos and I didn't really that's why they're a mess
I kind of love that though sometimes it's like for collapse especially I like
just like a free-for-all like just chill out have fun you know it's a great
memory for you editing it back and not only that but like they know the
chemistry is right anyway yeah can you say that line again so I I
really had trouble coming up with ideas this collaboration but we're gonna talk
about relationships I've been in a lot of different types of relationships both
monogamous and non-monogamous I don't Lee talked about my love life at all
online and people ask me about it sometimes and are like are you saying or
not just don't talk about it okay but y'all do talk about it yes let's start
with monogamous versus Mahna Mahna how do you guys feel about that also like
within the quick to me and outside of the quick meeting because there's
starett there's lots of stereotypes around it in the cream yeah but it's not
obviously part of our community because lots of straight people yeah but you
don't ever hear about that as often that's very true yeah I think like I
mean it's up to the couple or the individual or individuals like coral who
are actually in the relationship but yeah they're they're are successful
really whatever makes you happy yeah man my support is on page subscribe only fan
I think that people have a lot of assumptions about different types of
relationships and in all categories there's people that are in
non-monogamous relationships who say that everybody monogamous relationship
doesn't succeed and then there's people in monogamous relationships who'd feel
like all open relationships are just like let's get massive like yes let you
see yeah communication right any successful relationship yeah so if I can
communicate like efficiently and effectively whatever your situation is
you can just make it through yeah and like for open relationships it's like
how many like friends do you have like not in a relationship but like how many
like relationships with like friends do you have you can won't have more than
one friend true like in an open relationship why can't you have more
friendships are a type of relationship yeah exactly yeah for sure yeah a street
to that I think that friendship relationships are really
underappreciated as well oh yeah like also and I would say my viewers are
gonna hate me for this but I do feel like there is a cultural thing about
that as well and the UK people are very reserved and I feel like a lot of times
there's like that kind of intimacy boundary is like really far in the like
not intimate in terms of all relationships the pressures like outside
of the relationship especially with like non-monogamy I think is perhaps a
precursor of why it doesn't work because there's a lot of judgment that comes
with yeah definitely I don't with any type of relationship you're allowed to
negotiate what works for the individuals involved right and you know people from
the outside they feel like they are privy to judge and kind of
- and it's relationships are hard as it is let alone like you know something
that is different than perhaps you're used to or you're trying something out
that's very true I've had a lot of drama with that in my experiences and open
relationships where like somebody will you know oh well you're cheating you
know and getting those accusations which is so frustrating and like painful and
then it's just like I just hate that that's kind of like someone's first
assumption and then oftentimes they won't be honest with me like they'll go
to a partner and be like you know so and so is gene on you my partner would be
like well no because we're open I know that it's like people just are very very
quick to kind of like just jump to the first judgment and like create a storm
over it because I also think that people like to be involved in other people's
relationships I'm sure you guys have some experience it's almost like you
have to like come out in being an open relationship yeah yeah LGBTQ I like
coming out as an open relationship yeah I a hundred percent agree to friends to
perhaps other people that you may or may not be interested in and their reaction
to parents if it gets to that point which are games but I also think that
there's something this almost like a weird kind of like control or
fetishization of other people's relationships and I don't know it's very
bizarre but people just have this thing of kind of wanting to have a say in
someone else's relationship yeah I like I remember a breakup I went to went
through once where like everybody jumped on like everybody that was like my best
friend that I had met through this relationship immediately jumped on this
train of completely hating me and like going around saying stuff about me and
then in this particular relationship I ended up resolving things and then all
of a sudden I was still in this group and they all had to like it was so
awkward for the family because yeah then they were literally forced to it some of
them were family members so they couldn't like just not we had to
suddenly have a relationship again and they were like oh you know I didn't mean
that stuff but it's just like I think that people yeah people just are so
quick to get really involved in somebody else's relationship and I think the
important thing is always letting somebody else love and kind of let have
their thing and not involve yourself and you're not yeah literally yeah yeah yeah
exactly yeah yeah just like like the Queen of England like everyone like the
Kardashians like me so if any of their oh yeah I was like what does the Queen
of England like everyone knows everything about like the Queen of
England her family and her elation is so true well I don't know if she's but does
she date outside of that ooh gossip rumors that was what I man with
my past relationships but I didn't want to talk about it publicly people are so
quick to like judge you yeah like I mean some things are like facts and like
clear as day and then you can kind of quickly come to a judgment but say oh
it's like they're these are actual people and yeah it's hard enough you
show for that was it kind of be hurt by a relationship ending so on that note on
the TV show note how do you guys feel about complete strangers opinions on
your relationship which is online so there are some people and who likes a
really nice things and it's like oh that's really nice like that's sweet but
you can't really like take it to heart because they can turn around the next
like the next video you say like you post and then it's like the complete
opposite like the same exact person yeah oh I don't like what Vinnie said to
Brendan here like you should like go to hell yeah we just we just got a comment
on one of your photos that you posted on Instagram and someone was like you know
like where are you guys like you haven't seen a video on the 5x5 or partners in
crime though yeah what are you guys doing I was like yeah and people I think
with internet a couple was a lot of times people would be like if you miss
one video they'd be like oh they broke up and yeah oh my god like Trent Luke's
video yeah yeah it's just I don't know I always say this like one having
relationships difficult having a relationship the 21st century is also
difficult to like different elements of like social media answers thing and then
being a public figure with all of those other factors it's a beast right and
I kind of feel like if people actually cared about your well-being then they
should just watch and kind of like take whatever they need from it rather than
like inserting their opinion that could be potentially harmful yeah yeah I don't
know I like because I'm a viewer to like I wrote YouTube to write and I've
watched couples go through breakup and stuff and I feel sad for them but I
don't ever feel like it's my place to be like I like but you with seven so being
this and that she's yeah I don't know it's a very interesting dynamic but I
feel like also the people who like comment that kind of stuff they don't
think they're talking to us yeah like we don't like putting it in like a diary
online ah I feel like also on this channel I do like respond to a lot of
comments and it is kind of very two-way so a lot of my regular commentators they
would say like Bradley you know this and this and this and address it to me which
I love because I do read them and it feels like I'm having a connection or a
communication but I always find it strange when someone writes something
like like oh this guy is such a twat or something I'm like you can address it to
me like I really it's about me I think you know yeah I think they do they don't
address it to you directly cuz they're looking for validation up there yeah
yeah they want people to join the bandwagon yes we can dislike comments
too
I do sometimes especially when it's like if I feel like it could be harmful to
somebody else reading it so like I heart every single comment like I tried it so
hard and there'll be that like one like mean person and I'll be like I'm not
speaking of hearts how do you guys feel about polyamory asking for a friend
yeah yeah it works it works when it works and I mean you could try it but if
it doesn't work for you then yeah I don't think you should force it yeah
there's lots of different types of polyamory as well okay I think that
people do you guys know it's a polyamory can be sort of separate or together so
it could be one relationship or it could be somebody for instance let's say
there's one person relationship they could have say two partners but that
other person maybe it only has kind of one partner like they're both share that
partner but that part more than one partner because it could mean multiple
partners basically right or it could mean one together relationship you know
like 15 people and they're all each other at once like that sounds like a
great like television show okay yeah that's I mean it's fascinating I don't
know like this is my thing right like we are all lgbtq+
and yeah people don't understand it and they may hate it but it's like at the
end of day it's love it's love right and so people who are in polyamorous
relationships I they have more love to give and yeah can you receive and all
that it's like why am I going to judge someone for wanting to love more yeah
exactly and that's how they feel is best suiting for you know the capacity of
able to use right like just yeah don't judge like D even though he said
something that was really really nice and he was on like a panel what
and it was regarding like how do you handle like negative comments it's like
the same way that I handle positive comments like they are no
methamphetamine yeah and it's like that that is I'm not there by any means but
that is like my goal where you can just kind of appreciate what you're you're
able to give in any capacity whether it's love or a creativity and the job
wise and that's great advice no I feel like that's I think that's a good note
to end on honestly that's a great idea bye well thanks for coming and chatting
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