hey this is Rajiv Kumar Luv the life skills coach welcoming you to this video
in this video I want to give you a mini lesson in relationships, during my school
days when I would go and watch these hindi movies I found one thing very very
funny in some of the movies there were these characters who would say a
dialogue something like hum tum ek resham ki door se bandhe hain
hum tum ek kacche dhage se bandhe hain, jab ek khichta hai to doosra khicha chala aata hai
well I found this absolutely nonsense
I would think during those times that
how can one be you know connected with a resham ki door and this weak thread
and by the way where is this thread we can't even see this thread so I found it
really ridiculous but now when I think about it I think it makes sense what
they were actually talking about is you know this resham ki door is the bonding
between two people it is the connection between two people and it is the
relationship between the two people right, so if you have a connection you
know if you feel there is a resham ki door between you and the other person it
means your relationship is very good but if you get the feeling that our
relationship is bad then let me tell you your resham ki door is
disconnected or broken and many times we have this resham ki door well connected
with people who are miles away and we have this door you know broken with
people who are very close to us so think of all the people you are in
relationship with and close your eyes and think with whom you have the door
still connected and with whom the door is broken, now how can we reconnect this
resham ki door right so I wish there were some method to, you know, go to the bazaar
and buy a new resham ki door and get connected or I hope technology comes up
with some ideas to reconnect this resham ki door but what I'm seeing at present
is technology is actually breaking of the resham ki door, you know which is
already there and it is disconnecting more people than ever before, so I was
thinking how we can have a new resham ki door and get connected to the people
with whom our resham ki door is broken so I came up with some ideas #1
I feel is we need to become more authentic you know people are not
authentic by, you know, they have they use fake words they have a fake tone of
voice they have a fake body language so we need to become authentic we are just
trying to be a goody-goody person we are not, you know, the person we are, we put up
a mask and then we hide behind this mask so I think if you become authentic the
door will get connected #2 I think when you know your intentions are
good for everybody concerned when you have ulterior motives or when you have a
secret agenda then it is not possible to reconnect
this door #3 when you you know communicate with the other person
without any melodrama without blaming others or blaming yourself or being
superficial and #4 very important is when you do what you say
you will do. So I hope you found the video useful yes then please share it
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this is Rajiv Kumar Luv your friend your personal coach and guide I'll be
back with yet another video because I love making videos for you so see you
again in my next video until then be happy
keep smiling and take care
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