Establishing a relationship with someone is commonplace.
Many people are willing to sacrifice anything for the sake of their lover.
Meanwhile, finding a partner who can accept just who we are is a perfect dream.
But it seems difficult to come about because many people are suing their partners to suit
their will.
Actually this is fine; however, you need to know that there are some things you should
never sacrifice for your relationship.
This is the matter, obviously you don't want to be dating someone that makes unreasonable
wishes about how you should change yourself to suit the relationship.
Although, some of them might be a reasonable requests, such as, Please think about me when
you're making decisions, or Please don't call me names when we're fighting (well, those
kind of requests doesn't matter).
But remember that there are some unreasonable requests too, and some might considered foolish
or egoistic, so you need to be able to distinguish them from each other.
And one more thing, take a note that changing yourself isn't always a request from your
partner; it can be something you do because you think it will make you more desirable,
or you may try adjusting their behaviours to fit yours, while it's true that you need
to adapt with each other, changing yourself is quite dangerous.
Which is why it's important to know that your partner is dating you specifically because
you are YOU.
So here are the things you should never change about yourself in a relationship.
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10 Things to Never Change About Yourself in a Relationship.
#1 - Values and Beliefs.
Each person must have values and beliefs; either it is ideological, spiritual, or political
views.
It can help you to stand on your own thoughts and ideas.
If you have different values and beliefs, try to learn about respecting the difference.
The difference is not a reason for the end of your relationship and vice versa.
#2 - Honor.
Self-honor is something that needs to be upheld in the community order.
You certainly don't want your partner to smear your reputation in the society perspective
do you?
#3 - Relationship with Family.
Family is the most important thing in our life.
Everyone knows that your family is the one who raised you from the cradle.
Well, a good partner should never ask you to abandon your family for the sake of him
or herself.
#4 - Friendships.
Having a lover does not mean you have to spend your time only with your partner.
You also need to establish a good communication with your best friends.
Do not let your friendships become tenuous due to your partner's behavior.
#5 - Passion.
Passion is something that defines you.
With passion, you can find your identity and develop yourself.
You should never lose your identity just because your partner forbids you to do things you
passionate about.
#6 - Life Goals.
Your dreams and goals that you have built for a long time are the guideline of your
life to happiness.
Do not let your partner hinder you to achieve your goals and dreams.
Otherwise, a good partner will always support all the dreams and goals in your life.
#7 - Privacy.
One thing that sometimes is often forgotten when a relationship is privacy.
Everyone is basically entitled to their own privacy.
However, many people often ignore their privacy to make their partner happy.
They always spend every moment together, whereas every person needs 'me time'.
#8 - Career.
Just let's say you are building a career as a photographer.
You love photography and enjoy taking photographs.
However, your girlfriend gets jealous when you take photographs of pretty models, and
ask you to quit the job.
When you find this situation, you better look for a new girlfriend rather than look for
a new job.
#9 - Self-Expression.
Sometimes you must get upset of something, you sad of losing something, or anything.
If your partner can't appreciate the way you express your emotion, there will be a
big question mark.
Is he or she the right one for you?
#10 - Imperfection.
Everyone must have flaws in their selves, even your partner has too.
Rather than criticizing your own imperfection, it is better to understand and complete to
each other.
If your partner can't accept your imperfection, maybe you should find another one who can.
Well, those are the 10 things to never change about yourself in a relationship.
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