People always suggest you to avoid narcissistic, but how do you know if you're actually having
a relationship with narcissist?
Or, how do you sure that you are not the narcissist?
Indeed, narcissists are the biggest problem of human kind, especially when it comes to
relationship.
One you enter a deep relationship with a narcissist, you'll definitely face the most difficult
things to understand in life, it's hard to understand how someone who professes to love
you can then go on to abuse you.
In case of narcissist, it's pretty common actually.
There are several reminders that you should note if you ever have a relationship with
a narcissist.
At least, this will help you from being trapped in the narcissistic world.
And remember, if you get these 4 signs in your relationship, it's possible that you
actually experiencing a narcissistic abuse instead of love.
#1 - True relationship
A true relationship is actually between your mind and your reality.
However, narcissistic are frequently confused between both aspects.
Narcissists often miss a relationship with "self" and a higher power.
They're fragile on the inside, so they look for a cure on the outside and flit aimlessly
about from one to another gathering up attention and approval.
They use this opportunity to create an image of themselves as worthy as possible and ultimately
to receive applause, approval and validation from other people.
Thus, they actually cannot have a connection which leads to blurred reality.
If there is even no relationship between them, it is practically difficult to engage with
other people.
That is why narcissists usually generate hate.
In a short notice, you cannot have a relationship with someone who is wearing a mask, which
is the more reason you can't have a true relationship with them.
#2 - Opportunistic
It is fine to take opportunity for the better.
However, it is not fine when it means taking over someone's pride by humiliating and
degrading it.
Narcissists use some tactics to take advantage of other people.
Indeed, they will be using other people as their object for their leap.
It is absolutely bad habit, and it usually makes you feel guilty, wrong, and desperate
at the same time.
So, the idea of narcissists entering into some relationships is not the same with our
ideas about Love, which is all about one's readiness or preparedness, level of responsibility
sharing, equality, suitability, fairness, partnership, and more, at least that is a
neuro-typical people think about love.
Instead, narcissists are very underhanded, myopic and opportunistic.
For them, you are either a possible source of positive supply (which they favored and
pursued), or you are a negative supply (which they regarded as incapable and will be passed
over).
#3 - Impossible to compromise
The narcissists are always trying to put you in a defenseless state, and they always get
their way.
In any kind of conflict, they only seek winning the argument.
Thus, it ensures them to own the power within the relationship.
Moreover, the partner will not get what they should.
Love becomes a struggle that is rare to obtain.
It is like everything you do is useless and connection or love will never be established
with this kind of person.
By having a relationship with narcissist, you don't get the mutual feelings that come
from team work, compromise and reciprocal love.
In any case, love shouldn't be such a struggle, but because the narcissist's always about
me and me, the love becomes one sided and one power struggle, they lack of compromise
after another.
#4 - No honesty
The delusional world that narcissists create is somewhat well-established.
It is due to the fact that they are struggling to create a world with them as central of
attention.
Moreover, they also create lies to make people look bad to others.
How can we love someone who lives with lies every time they say something?
Though they may be saying something nice, it is actually designed to create delusional
world which makes other people suffer.
Well, those are some of the signs that you're experiencing a narcissistic abuse instead
of love.
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