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Hi guys welcome back today's video is going to be about relationships, marriage

and whether or not opposites attract or more similar couples are the ones who

stay together the longest and obviously I don't have the answer to that I think

the answer is whatever works for you works but I'm really interested in

knowing what works for you guys whether you're more of the camp that opposites

attract or whether you think that similar couples are more suitable and I

think what brought this thought to my mind is that I was watching love Island

which I'm so addicted to and I was looking at all the couples and trying to

gauge which couples will were more likely to stay together and it made me

think about like real life couples and how drilled it is in our brains that

opposites attract I think from a very young age this was a statement that I

knew like you know people that are different attract and I just wanted to

discuss this with you guys and please leave comments below telling

me what you think and you know how you see this whole opposites or more similar

debate and in my opinion opposites do attract at that very first

stage when you're getting to know someone and it's really interesting to

have that back and forth and you're more likely to have a back and forth

conversation or like banter with someone that has a different opinion to you or

who does something differently and I think it's more to do with

interesting rather than opposite so if someone does something different or

opposite to you that will be interesting to you because it's new as if you meet

someone who's exactly the same as you it might not be as interesting in that

first moment but then I think it gets more interesting when you have more in

common with someone I've always been attracted to people who are similar to

me I've never fallen into the category of opposites attract and I it's always

amused me how you know people that people that are really really different

really get on and you know feel a connection and things like that so in my

opinion and according to like my relationships and the way I feel I've

always felt that similar couples who are similar and I don't want to generalize

because obviously I don't know all the couples but for me specifically the more

similar I am to someone the more I have a chance of like having a longer lasting

relationship with that person and yeah I just feel like whenever I'm very

different to someone else there are lots of things that we

disagree on and that can cause lots of issues later on but I do feel like

Matthew and I are different in a lot of things but very similar in the

fundamental things of our relationship which is what I think is important so

for me I don't mind that he likes classical music and they like pop music

I don't mind that he prefers to watch car shows and I like to watch reality TV

but the fundamental things that we have in life our values our goals and

everything like that we are very similar so what do you think so do you and your

partner or however you know like your friends close friends are you very

different or very similar I feel like a friendship might survive longer if

you're very different just because I don't know you don't have to live with

each other you don't have to put up with the things that you don't agree with but

for a relationship for me specifically I think I have to be very similar to a

person that I am in a relationship with and because of that a friend of mine

showed me a quiz like it's a personality quiz and I asked Matthew to do that

personality quiz to see what he would score and I'm gonna do mine now so we

can see what kinds of personalities we have in it will match I know very well

that a personality quiz will not tell me if I'm compatible with someone but I

just think it's a little bit of fun I'll leave the links of the personality quiz

in the description box below if you do and it would be so interesting if you

did it and you told me in the comments below your score or you know the letters

I think there's like a symbol that describes your personality I just want

to see how many of you that watches my videos are more similar to me or what

kinds of personalities you have so I'm gonna do the quiz now it is quite long

so I will only include a few bits of my answers in this video but if you want to

do the full quiz check the description box below so I'm gonna start there are

64 questions first question are you almost never late for your appointment I

am a very very punctual person you enjoy having a wide circle of acquaintances I

would say no I quite like having a very small group of friends you feel involved

when watching TV soaps I would say you have an emphatic yes you think that

everything in the world is relative now that's a big statement I think that

everything is relative to a certain extent but there's bound to be something

that is not relative and that's certain when making a decision you rely more on

your feelings than on analysis of the situation now that's a tricky one

because I'm a very analytical person but in certain aspects of my life I'm highly

emotional like with my children I'm very emotional my decisions are very

emotional so I would say that I mostly rely on analysis so I put yes there you

believe the best decision is one which can be easily changed no I think the

best decision is one that feels right to you and when it feels right you probably

won't want to change you are inclined to rely more on improvisation than on prior

planning no 107 know I'm such a planner you spent your leisure time actively

socializing with a group of people attending parties shopping no after

prolonged socializing you feel you need to get away and be

alone yes do like my own company you frequently and easily express your

feelings and emotions yes you find it difficult to speak loudly yes not to my

children that had two other people with my kids I can speak loudly to them you

get bored if you have read theoretical books no not at all you value justice

higher than mercy hmm I'm big on justice I injustice is one of my biggest pet

peeves and turn offs but I think mercy is just as important so I would say

uncertain that probably one is no actually oh I don't know that one I

don't know the more I think about the more confused I am because I do have I

think because I'm a lawyer as well and having been taught that you know the

whole justice thing and feel justice is so important but mercy is one of the

human values that puts things right when justice is not right

so I'll keep it and certain because I'm not sure when with a group of people you

enjoy being directly involved and being the center of attention

absolutely not I hate being the center of attention it makes me feel very

uncomfortable for you no surprises it's better than surprises

bad or good ones a hundred percent yes if there was a sentence that could

summarize me that would be it I hate surprises

you can easily understand new theoretical principles I would say yes

not easily but I suppose yeah I suppose easily yes certain things don't come

easily to me like spatial awareness and things like that burst understanding for

your ethical principles and books and things like that can't quite easily to

me you usually place yourself nearer to the side then in the center of the room

I suppose yes I've never talked about it before I don't think I

understand in the middle of a room how interesting

you find it difficult to talk about your feelings no quite easily as you probably

will watching these videos as a rule current preoccupations worry you more

than future plans I think I fret more and I panic more about the current

things and then the future things I feel like I have a clearer head to plan I

don't stress to the point of panicking about future worries but I do about

current things so I probably say yes right so I've got my 64 questions and

I'm gonna put my school-ready score so my type is i n f j i am 47 %

introvert 38% intuitive 28% feeling and 62% judging what does that mean I am NOT

a judgement person they are generally doers as well as dreamers this rare

combination of vision and practicality often results in INFJs taking a

disproportionate amount of responsibility in various cases - -

which so many of them seem to be drawn gosh this if this is in the description

of Who I am I don't know what it is I just I'm reading about myself here

they are in fact sometimes mistaken for extroverts because they appear so

outgoing and are so genuinely interested in people this is giving me goosebumps

honestly on the contrary INFJs are true

introverts who can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with the chosen

few from among the among their long long-term friends family of obvious soul

mates gosh this is me this is my description of who I think I am

enormous and I can't read it all to you because you'll get so bored but all I

can say is that this is so accurate or Matthew just sent me here and he's an

ENTJ just analyzing the percentage he is 59% extrovert and I'm 47% introverts or

we're different there I'm thirty percent intuitive and he's 50% intuitive so

quite similar he's sixty percent six percent thinking

and I'm 28 percent of feeling which is very true to us I go a lot more on

feelings than he does and I'm 50 percent judging and he is 62 percent judging so

I think we are quite similar in the things that matter which is what this

whole video was about in terms of how I feel about opposites attracting and

people that are most similar but yeah if you do this test then please leave a

comment below and tell me what - personality type you are and if you

think was it was true to who you are and I'd love to know whether you think

opposites attract or whether the most similar people attract and yeah I hope

you enjoyed this video was a little bit unusual but it was something that was on

my mind and I wanted to share with you guys I hope you enjoyed it if you did

give it a thumbs up and don't forget to subscribe if you're new and check out

the description box for some videos of mine that you may not have watched and

that you might like and I will see you all in my next video bye

For more infomation >> DO OPPOSITES ATTRACT IN A RELATIONSHIP? | + Personality Test Results! | Ysis Lorenna - Duration: 12:13.

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How to Prove Bona Fide Relationship: Fiance or Spouse Visa - Duration: 15:08.

This is Fred Wahl the VisaCoach

Today's topic is: How to Prove Bona Fide Relationship for fiance or spouse visa approval

Visa Coach

Fast, Easy and Personal

I am Fred Wahl, the VisaCoach, I am known for the

personal one-on-one relationship that WE share, (that's you, me and your partner), as WE work

together, as a TEAM, to overcome the many challenges

of immigration,

Don't risk your happiness, Don't go this course alone.

Alone, it's far too easy to make mistakes that cause tears,

delays and expensive denials.

Do Pick up the Phone and speak with me directly, so that,

you and I, can get to know each other.

This is the complimentary case evaluation I talk about

later.

If we are compatible, that's the beginning of our beautiful

relationship to get you the immigration approvals you need.

This is what two of my clients Kenneth + Shelamite, had to say:

Shelamite comes from the Philippines and I helped her get her Fiance visa,

and after the wedding her Green Card.

Prior to us being called up to the window, we were watching others

doing their interview.

I guess they are being more strict with the whole process, because some of them were taking

15 or 20 minutes.

And some walked away declined, others were asked to return with

missing paperwork.

But when Shelamite and I got to the window, we were confident.

According to her watch, our interview took about 4 minutes

from start to finish.

I'm sure it went quick because of the excellent package you put together at the start,

and also important was the continued relationship package I put together,

following your lead.

You are most welcome: Kenneth + Shelamite

Now, lets talk about How to Prove Bona Fide Relationship for fiance or spouse visa approval

The hardest part for any couple who is embarking on applying for a fiance or spouse visa

to understand, is that at the end of the day the decision made by the consular officer

reviewing the case, by the interviewer who has the absolute power to approve or deny,

is that he or she is making a SUBJECTIVE decision bases on the APPEARANCES

of your situation.

Does the officer FEEL that in his or her OPINION, you APPEAR to

be a bona fide couple?.

Does he or she feel you appear to have followed a similar path

that other couples in your partner's country have traveled before?.

Does your courtship APPEAR to follow normal and reasonable

practices, timing, and so on?

Sad but true, What is expected by the officer, may not match what YOU want to do.

Problem is, the officer has all the power, he is the boss.

To be successful, to reliably get permission to come to the USA, you are

best served to comply with HIS ideas, not only yours.

I recently got a call.

The first thing the caller said was "I want to get married

in Dominica next month, Can I do that?".

She them spoke about how beautiful the country was, how she would have a wedding

on a beach, how nice the wedding photos would be, and so on and so

on.

I certainly am all in favor of getting married in a romantic, tropical, fun location.

It's all good.

However, my job is to guide couples through immigration, by viewing the

big picture, how best to get a couple their happy ever after in the USA.

Not just to compliment wedding party arrangements.

I started by asking "Where does your Dominica fiance want to marry?.

The surprising answer was, "he is not from Dominica.

He is from Morocco, We have never met.

We have been corresponding on facebook for almost 3 months.

He is significantly younger.

I want to marry right away.

We don't have any friends or family in Dominica I just think its a beautiful

place to marry "

Instead of asking me to warn her about the many red flags she had and advise

how to reduce them, she only wanted my approval on the wedding venue.

She was not very happy with the practical suggestions I made.

When any application for a romance type of visa (I view both fiancee and spouse visa

in that single category), the consular officer, regardless of where he is posted worldwide,

when reviewing the case, always asks himself "Does the timeline and progression

of the romance and relationship sound reasonable in general, and specifically

reasonable in light of local culture and common local practice?

Certainly, he has heard of whirlwind romance.

He has heard of "love at first sight".

He has heard it all.

But in his real life, the majority of bona fide cases he and

his fellow officers have experienced, basically match the following scenario.

A couple has found each other.

These days most first meet online at a dating or social website.

The couple get to know each other, corresponding and sending messages

back-and-forth, via text, video, voice

Eventually they meet in-person

They continue corresponding and maybe meet in-person more times

Having developed affection for each other, marriage is proposed and accepted

They announce their plans for marriage to family and friends

Celebrations are held, such as engagement parties and/or wedding ceremonies

FINALLY the couple applies for a Visa to allow them to live together in the USA

In addition to expecting the above general progression of events just described,

the consular officer will ALSO expect the local culture and traditions of the

foreign fiancee's country and family to have been followed.

For example in Vietnam the US consulate regularly denies visa requests, if the

couple planning marriage did not wait an appropriate time (about 6 months,

from the time of the marriage proposal, before having an elaborate engagement

celebration called "Dinh Hon".

And the consulate expects that both the waiting period and "Dinh Hon" occurred before

any application is originally submitted at USCIS.

The US consulate In India regularly denies if there

is not proof that the Indian fiance's family were knowledgeable and

materially involved in the wedding preparations.

Normally, the expected natural development of a relationship and the expected

"touching of all bases" sometimes takes years.

Rarely less than one.

Skipping steps, jumping ahead, speeding things up, often occurs.

After all "the heart knows what it wants" . But to skip

the basics and to rush to apply for visa incurs a risk.

It makes a couples case APPEAR weaker than what is normally expected for approval.

Back to my caller who wanted her Dominica dream wedding.

I pointed out that the red flags in her case, are as follows;

The couple only knew each other under 3 months but were already engaged

They had never met in-person but were already engaged

They had a significant age difference

Reverse chauvinism still occurs, when an older woman applies for a much younger man

The Foreign fiancee is from a country considered Hi-risk for visa fraud

They are of different religions

Their only plan to meet is in a third country, where no family, no friends,

no colleagues can witness their relationship nor vouch for the foreign fiance.

The American has never experienced the foreign fiance 's home, lifestyle, family, friends.

Some things can't be changed.

They will always have age and religion difference.

They will always have agreed to marriage, sight unseen.

He will always be from Morocco.

The rising tide that overcomes such fixed red flags, is a demonstration of

a couples bona fides and proof that the American (who the US consular officer

is somewhat inclined to trust) can prove that she or he, REALLY, TRULY knows

the foreign partner, and in essence can vouch for the foreign partner.

I suggest that they take action to strengthen their case by putting the wedding plans

on hold, while spending much more time to get to know each other.

She should travel to Morocco and do "due diligence" to

learn about her partner.

See where he lives, and who he lives with.

Meet his family and friends.

Talk to his neighbors.

The more time they actually spend together in-person, the more the appearance

of their bona fide relationship improves.

Their application should not be submitted before first putting in more time.

She should prepare a solid case with many months

of correspondence, and one or more in-person trips.

Then after that, she can have a dream wedding in a third country,

and still have the strongest case to obtain her partners visa..

This is in a nutshell what I do for my clients.

I advise what they should to make their case best match the consular officers

expectations.

I suggest what evidences should be obtained.

And finally I comb through their evidences to prepare the

best presentation to be included in the "front loaded" application we submit to

US immigration.

Regardless of best advance planning and guidance, a couple's

real life story might still be wide the best appearance for success.

In such a case, all is not necessarily lost.

Because while the consular officer understands that the majority

of bona fide cases follow a certain pattern, there will

alway be some cases that do not follow the pattern but are

still bona fide and still deserving of their visa approval.

Such a case is tricky and needs extra attention.

What I do is help the couple write a detailed letter

addressed to the officer.

We first identify what he might feel seems odd or suspicious and then we explain why

the couple did what they did.

We provide reasons for why, given the circumstances, that what

the couple chose to do was legitimate and understandable.

And should not stand in the way of their visa approval.

This was Fred Wahl, The VisaCoach

Please "like" or add your comments to this video.

Then go to VisaCoach.com and sign up for the VisaCoach

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Each month it is full of tips and advice on marriage based immigration.

And its free of charge.

And when you sign up you get two free ebooks I have written

"120 K1 Visa Interview Practice Questions, and "5 Things your must know before starting

your visa"

Finally, when you are ready to get started, call for

your complimentary case evaluation and speak with me directly,

Before starting on your immigration adventure, before

entering an arcane maze of rules, regulations and procedures,

before committing yourself to a risky path that could

mean an end to your happiness, speak with the VisaCoach

and ask for his Free Case Evaluation.

He listens to you to learn the red flags and strengths

of your case, your eligibility and goals.

He will suggest which visa is right for you, the best strategy

to get it, and how soon your love could join you.

VisaCoach's friendly advice and support might make

the difference between approval and denial, and

could save you months, or years, of loneliness and separation.

What have you got to lose?

Book your free evaluation today.

For more infomation >> How to Prove Bona Fide Relationship: Fiance or Spouse Visa - Duration: 15:08.

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10 Differences between a Relationship Partner and a Life Mate - Duration: 4:49.

10 Differences between a Relationship Partner and a Life Mate.

Everyone in life wants to have a best relationship with someone else.

Who doesn't want to have someone who understand almost everything in your life?

However, there are differences in making a relationship with someone, like between a

relationship partner and a life mate.

Here are the 10 differences.

Please subscribe, click the bell and watch this video until the end to know the complete

information.

#1 - A relationship partner cannot live without you, a life partner knows it impossible to

live without you.

A relationship partner will say that he or she can't live without you, in which he

or she wants you to be in his or her life.

Otherwise, a life partner just knows that living without you is something he or she

can do.

He will try everything whatever it takes to live with you.

#2 - A relationship partner tries to understand your feelings, a life partner feels it.

A relationship partner will be good at listening to understand your feeling, but a life partner

doesn't need you to talk.

They already knew it.

If you are hurt, they will be hurt and if you are happy, they are happy too.

#3 - A relationship partner comes if you need, a life partner is always by your side.

If you need someone at your difficult time for example, you maybe ask your relationship

partner to help you and to be with you, but a life partner will always be by your side

no matter what.

#4 - A relationship partner wants to know your thought, a life partner already know

it.

A relationship partner maybe ask you to hear what you think about something like music,

food or so on, but a life partner doesn't need to hear that.

They know which is you like the most and they feel it as you do.

#5 - A relationship partner encourage you to reach your goal, a life partner will not

let anything distract you to reach it.

A relationship partner wants to see you to be happy by reaching your goal in life, so

that they will support and encourage you as long as they can.

In other hand, a life partner doesn't only support you, they will do whatever it takes

to help you reaching the goal and makes sure you are on the right path.

#6 - A relationship partner hides some of their personality, a life partner shows everything.

A relationship partner sometimes doesn't want you to know their past or personality,

but a life partner will show you everything about them whether the past and the real personality

honestly.

#7 - A relationship partner supports your struggle, a life partner struggles with you.

When you are struggling something, a relationship partner will support you very much.

But on the other side, a life partner will join to struggle together.

#8 - A relationship partner gives you what you want, a life partner gives you what you

need.

When you ask something to your partner, they probably will accept what you asked whatever

it is.

But a life partner will give you what you need for your good, because they know what

you want doesn't mean it is good.

#9 - A relationship partner criticizes you, a life partner guides you.

When you are in a wrong path, a life partner will tell you are wrong, yet they guide you

to return to the good one.

#10 - A relationship partner finds you are special, a life partner finds you are everything.

From their point of view you're the special one, so they want you to be a partner.

But a life partner finds that you're everything to them.

Well, those are the 10 differences between a relationship partner and a life mate.

So really cool information isn't it?

I hope you enjoy this short video, if you have something on your mind, please share

your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

Don't forget to subscribe to our channel and watch all our other amazing videos!

Thanks for watching!

For more infomation >> 10 Differences between a Relationship Partner and a Life Mate - Duration: 4:49.

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Relationships That Last Often Do These 15 Things - Duration: 5:23.

Relationships That Last Often Do These 15 Things.

Everyone wants to have a long-last relationship with their own partner.

Many of us cannot maintain a relationship and end up halfway.

It depends on what effort done by each couple who really desires to maintain the relationship

and regards their partner being very special by doing some things.

Well, here you can do these 15 things to make your relationship last.

Please subscribe, click the bell and watch this video until the end to know the complete

information.

#1 - Being honest and avoiding lie.

If you face a severe problem, then honesty will make the truth seem to be bright.

Saying all your feelings to your partner will be very painful.

However, if you can be honest to your partner, you will be spared from other problems.

#2 - Forgiving each other.

If one of you or your partner did a mistake, then as much as possible you should be able

to forgive each other.

Forgiveness will strengthen the foundation of your relationship.

#3 - Respecting the partner.

Never judge your partner from your own point of view.

Open the communication if both of you are facing a problem.

Don't ever solve the problem on the one hand.

#4 - Celebrating small things.

Try to change the way of view that what you face daily is actually something to be grateful

for and to be enjoyed.

This is the wonderful thing that should be celebrated every day.

#5 - Being a good listener for your partner.

Your partner will probably need more hearing ear than advising mouth.

He or she may just want you to understand the problems he or she faces instead of an

answer.

#6 - Giving a little surprise.

Give some little surprises to your partner that might not have expected.

This will make your partner very touched by the surprise you give.

#7 - Treat His or her Family Like Your Family.

When you treat your partner's family like your own, here your partner will think that

you are very concerned with his or her family.

#8 - Creating a Convenient Communication Pattern.

Choose the most enjoyable communication pattern either via WhatsApp or phone conversation.

Decide what kind of communications you are most able to talk openly and casually.

#9 - Focus on positive things.

Focus on the truth and don't hesitate to praise your partner when he or she's done

a favor to you and never try to find a mistake from the small things he or she's done.

#10 - Holding hands.

Holding hands is a symbol of affection that is simple and very useful for harmony relationships.

#11 - Building trust with couple.

Building and maintaining a sense of trust is the thing a long last couple.

Even if you are not together, you will still try to respect the values that you have mutually

agreed in the relationship.

#12 - Don't share a problem on social media.

Solve the problem maturely and privately without sharing it on social media because people

don't know what really happen.

#13 - Exchanging information.

Exchanging information about activities that have been done with each other will make your

relationship more harmonious.

#14 - Saying "I love you".

Never forget to express love to your partner.

This is the most effective way to keep your relationship intact.

#15 - Being grateful to have him or her.

There is nothing better than to be grateful that you've been created together.

This can be done by showing a romantic attitude in front of him or her.

Well, those are the 15 things that make relationships last.

So Really cool information isn't it?

I hope you enjoy this short video, if you have something on your mind, please share

your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

Don't forget to subscribe to our channel and watch all our other amazing videos!

Thanks for watching!

For more infomation >> Relationships That Last Often Do These 15 Things - Duration: 5:23.

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The Queen's Relationship With Meghan Markle Compared To Kate Middleton Friendship - Duration: 2:27.

For more infomation >> The Queen's Relationship With Meghan Markle Compared To Kate Middleton Friendship - Duration: 2:27.

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Husband And Wife Relationship Tips | Reasons For Divorce | Marriage Tips - Duration: 2:38.

Husband And Wife Relationship Tips

Reasons For Divorce

Marriage Tips

For more infomation >> Husband And Wife Relationship Tips | Reasons For Divorce | Marriage Tips - Duration: 2:38.

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Relationship Violence - Duration: 3:40.

Domestic Violence, also called Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)

domestic Abuse, relationship abuse

What are those? These are a pattern of behaviors

that one partner uses to have power and control over the other

In an intimate relationship

Here are a few examples

In this video you will see these examples

Hello, I'm Daisy

I'm concerned because i've see a lot of

domestic violence situations appear

So i've decided I want to share my story.

I myself am a survivor

I kissfist you, making up all these stories

Backstabbing my name and telling lies

It's true

Is that a healthy relationship? *shakes head*

You okay?

I never thought this would happen to me but

Yeah i'll be okay, thanks.

Cool, I want to buy.

What?!

I want to buy a book.

No, why do you need that? You can't read anyways

Yes I can read and it's OUR money

I spend and spend my money on you, oh please

Yours? You mean ours.

I said NO!

Ok.

That's wrong, that's not right.

I know but it's been like that ever since.

So I just accept it, what can i do?

We've enjoyed catching up with you.

Finally, we haven't seen you in awhile.

Let's continue this. We are going to the bar tonight,

Want to join?

I would love to but my boyfriend would be pissed off if I go so...

So I think it's better off if I stay at home.

Everything okay with you two?

We just have some issues between us that we need to work out

I think you should leave him

because I see that your relationship with him

Is not healthy but that's none of my business. It's between the two of you

That last scenario, saying it's none of your business is wrong.

You should check in and listen.

In the other scenarios you notice signs of Domestic Violence

and someone checked in with them

It's important to check in with your friends, family

your loved ones and even your own relationship

You never know if if they are in a Domestic Violence relationship

and something can happen to them.

Don't stay quiet, say something

Don't suffer alone because

For more infomation >> Relationship Violence - Duration: 3:40.

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AMLO's Relationship With Trump: 5 Fast Facts | Heavy.com - Duration: 10:21.

AMLO's Relationship With Trump: 5 Fast Facts | Heavy.com

Andres Manuel Lopez Obrador, a populist leader who has compared Donald Trump to Hitler, was elected to the Mexican presidency on Sunday, after years of trying and failing to rally voters to his cause.

The leftist politician first ran for office in 2006, when he narrowly lost a hotly contested election against Felipe Calderon.

Obrador angrily refused to accept the election results and doggedly set up a "parallel government," occupying the Paseo de la Reforma with his followers for months.

In 2012, Obrador ran again and lost again, this time to Enrique Pena Nieto.

Again, Obrador charged that there was widespread voting fraud.

Specifically, he claimed that Pena Nieto had handed out gift cards to a popular chain store.

Pena Nieto always denied these accusations.

On July 1, Obrador won a decisive victory against Ricardo Anaya, of the National Action Party (PAN).

Lopez Obrador garnered at least 53 percent of the vote, while Anaya had 22 percent.

Lopez-Obrador and Trump don't have a personal relationship.

But Lopez Obrador's campaign was charged with anti-Trump rhetoric, and many observers wonder what the next step will be for the two leaders — and for the two countries they represent.

Here's what you need to know.

AMLO Has Been Called "Mexico's Trump".

During the election season, Bloomberg News ran an editorial calling AMLO "Mexico's Trump.

" Bloomberg pointed out that, although Obrador liked to attack Trump for his policies on immigration and the economy, the Mexican politician had a lot in common with the American president.

Like Trump, AMLO is a populist.

He has masses of supporters who view him as an icon and a hero.

His supporters are largely working class, members of trade and labor unions.

Just as Trump likes to attack the "coastal elites," AMLO criticizes the "rapacious minority" in his own country.

And AMLO also, like Trump, believes in economic protectionism and trade barriers.

He has called for a re-writing of NAFTA.

And he has done a lot of tough talk about punishing America is the US decides to build a wall along the US-Mexican border.

"Trump may therefore recognize a kindred spirit south of the border," notes Bloomberg News.

Politico also wrote a piece calling Lopez Obrador "Mexico's Trumpian Populist.

" Politico notes that, although Lopez Obrador's style on the campaign trail may be similar to Trump's, the two men have hugely different economic policies — something which is likely to spell trouble for Mexico-US relations.

AMLO Wrote A Best Seller Which Compared Trump to Hitler.

Shortly after Trump's inauguration, Lopez Obrador published a book called "Oye, Trump," ("Listen, Trump").

The book was a collection of Lopez Obrador's speeches.

It contained harsh critiques of the American president; for example, Obrador wrote, "Trump and his advisers speak of the Mexicans the way Hitler and the Nazis referred to the Jews, just before undertaking the infamous persecution and the abominable extermination.".

Lopez Obrador has written dozens of other books, mainly about Mexican history.

AMLO Once Filed a Complaint Against the Trump Administration with the Organization of American States.

In 2017, Lopez Obrador traveled to Washington DC to file a formal complaint against the Trump administration with the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights, in Washington, D.C.

(The Inter-American Commission on Human Rights is a part of the Organization of American States, a grouping which includes both the United States and Mexico.).

Lopez Obrador said the petition at the OAS denounced President Donald Trump's plans for a wall along the US-Mexico border and alleged that there is ongoing "persecution" of migrants in the United States.

And Lopez Obrador said that he would seek an "international injunction" against Trump's executive orders.

Lopez Obrador's lawyer, Netzaí Sandoval, traveled with Lopez Obrador to OAS headquarters.

Sandoval said, "We've requested that the massive deportation of Mexican migrants be stopped,and we have indicated the violation of human rights of Mexicans through the use of a racist and discriminatory discourse.".

In 2018, Lopez Obrador vowed that he would fight Trump all the way to the United Nations over the border wall issue.

"We won't allow this wall to be built, we'll persuade Donald Trump that it's not necessary," said Lopez Obrador during a campaign stop in February.

He added, "And if he insists and wants to impose this wall, we'll go to the United Nations and present a complaint.".

AMLO Said Mexico Is Not a "Pinata" For the United States to Hit.

At the opening of his campaign, Lopez Obrador vowed that he would be tough on Trump.

Lopez Obrador addressed a crowd of his supporters in Ciudad Juarez on April 1, 2018.

TPresident Trump had just repeated his threat to cancel NAFTA; Trump had also tweeted that Mexico was not doing anything to stop the flow of immigrants crossing from Mexico into the United States.

Lopez Obrador criticized the incumbent president, Enrique Pena Nieto for his export policies which, he said, left the majority of Mexicans in poverty.

And he vowed that Mexico will not stand for mistreatment from the United States.

"Mexico and its people will not be the pinata of any foreign government," Lopez Obrador said, and added, "It's not with walls or use of force that you resolve social problems.

Trump Says He looks Forward to Working with AMLO.

On Sunday night, President Trump tweeted congratulations to Lopez Obrador.

Trump wrote, "Congratulations to Andres Manuel Lopez Obrador on becoming the next President of Mexico.

I look very much forward to working with him.

There is much to be done that will benefit both the United States and Mexico!".

On Sunday morning, Trump's ambassador to Mexico appeared on CBS News and said that she hopes for a positive relationship between Mexico and the US during Lopez Obrador's presidency.

The ambassador, Roberta Jackson, acknowledged that it might be tough to keep up a good relationship between the two countries, but she stressed that both leaders are eager and willing to work together.

"One of the things that he [Lopez Obrador], both in my discussions with him and many of his conversations and advisers conversations ahead of these elections have emphasized is the relationship with the United States and that it be positive," Jacobson said on "Face the Nation" Sunday.

"They're going to work hard on that, which does not mean it's going to be easier than it has been with current Mexican government.

I think there a number of issues on which it's going to be difficult and maybe harder.".

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BEST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE - Admiration vs Judgment.

Hi Guys, my name is Elena Semenek and welcome to my channel "Psychology of Happiness," where

happiness is the purpose of life.

Today I'm going to talk about BEST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE, one advice that works for any relationship,

a romantic relationship, sex relationship, friendship, relationship with your family,

relationships at work, with your coworkers.

It works with any type of relationship.

I want to share my personal story.

A few weeks ago I posted the video on my personal Facebook and I received a lot of comments.

Some of them were great, but some of them made me feel diminutive.

When we want to say something nice to a person, when we want to give a compliment or want

to praise a person, we can either admire a person or give a judgment to a person.

There are two types of complements, one with a note of admiration and another with a note

of judgment.

When you say compliments, like 'Good job, Great job, Good girl, Good boy'.

This is a compliment with the note of judgment, so when you say 'good' or 'bad', it means

that you evaluate the person.

Let's talk about the situation when it's appropriate to use judgment.

When you are talking to kids.

Kids, they need judgment from parents, they need judgment from teachers.

They need judgment from grandparents.

It's not actually a judgment.

It's like an evaluation of how well they did one thing or another.

So when your child did something nice, you can say, wow, great job, good boy, good girl.

Same situation If you are a boss or a manager and you want to positively influence your

team members.

So you're the manager and you have a team members who depend on you and you are the

boss.

So in this case, yes, you can say, wow, great job guys.

If you're in a romantic relationship or if you're talking to a friend or if you're talking

to a family member, it's much better to use admiration.

So for example, your mother made an amazing dinner and you're saying, Oh wow, great job

mom.

This dinner is really good.

So it's nice, but what if you say, wow, mom, this tastes so delicious.

I admire you for cooking this dinner for our family.

I love you so much.

You're a great mother and the great cook.

So in this case you are not evaluated (is it good or bad), you're just saying 'Wow'

to the person.

You admire the person for what he or she did.

Another example, are your girlfriend did a great birthday party for you.

You can say, wow, you did such a great job.

Good girl.

Well done.

I am pleased.

Or you can say, wow, you did an incredible presence for me.

I am so happy.

You are so amazing.

That's why I'm with you.

I love you because you not only beautiful, because you're not only smart, but you can

create such a nice surprise in my life.

Wow.

Thank you very much.

So, instead of evaluating if the person did 'good' or 'bad', when you are talking to your

partner, when you're talking to a family member, when you're posting on Facebook, try to use

admiration versus judgment.

Yes, you can use a compliments like good job, great job, well done with your intonation,

and it's going to be the meaning of admiration.

Yes, it's possible, but when you are sending messages, when you're posting on Facebook,

when you're sending a text message on WhatsApp, on a phone or just writing or maybe a card

to a person, try to use admiration.

So, BEST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE is to exercise admiration, not judgment.

I have more relationship advice for you - 4 best complements for a girl, 4 best compliments

for a guy - all links below this video.

Check them out.

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