All right everybody, it's BobbieD from the B to the D BobbieD back on live with you on Youtube.
And we're from life in the Philippines a black person's a viewpoint and today
We're gonna be taking a look at how to spot
a Gold digger.
In the Philippines. how to spot a gold digger in the Philippines ...Yahhhhh!
Now when we talk about the Philippines
you understand this is a country where many many people come every day and
The majority a lot of those people come looking
For love
Mm-hmm romance
Yeah, they come to find a lover
They come to find someone to be with someone that they can share their lives experiences with
They don't necessarily come here, but they look online as well
And so today I'm gonna take a look at some things
We're gonna take a look at some things that you can determine if
that person that you're talking to if that person that you're
Chatting with online or either in person is a gold digger. Yeah
see
there's a lot of women out there that
are
Pretenders pretenders. Yeah, they pretend that they love you
Just for the purpose of getting in your pocket, yeah
They want your money honey. Suddenly won't
Now don't get me wrong. There's some women out there as well
But it's gonna take you where to find the good women and you have to be very diligent about it
You have to be like a surgeon precision. You have to know what you want
And go after it find it
So
Malcolm
Philippines bound
Ian Malcolm, okay. I'll get to you questions. Let me get through with this. I'll get into all your questions and
In just a few minutes, I'm gonna go over to some things with you that you should know about
when you're searching for a
Friendship romance wife girlfriend here in the Philippines because a lot of people
Get hooked up and they get messed up on this
First thing you want to know if you're if you're talking to a Filipina
She's always asking for money. Okay?
That's one red flag right there
She just met you and she wants you to send her five hundred pesos ha ha ha
Now to me I'm an experienced person I've been around that's a joke to me
You know, I'll be like what five hundred pesos I just met you lady. What's wrong with you?
that's that's my response. But believe it or not guys
There's people out there. That would be okay. When do you want it how fast can I get it to you?
Where do you want me to send it to you my dear? Yeah, there's a lot of gullible people out there suckers
I call them, you know, I mean people people are some people are just that just they'll fall for anything, you know
So I want you to know that
If a person you're dating or you're talking to on line, is always asking for money
always talking about money
That's a red flag that that person may not be so much interested in you
But more interested interested in your pocketbook. Mm-hm how many US dollars that you can take and bring in that you could send them?
Another thing you wanna look out for guys
talking to a Filipina
Alright online offline doesn't matter
They're always complimenting you
now you just met this lady. You've been talking to her a couple of days
Every for the fifth sentence comes out her. Oh, I just love the way you look, you're so handsome
And you talk so well, and your hair is so nice looking and I like the way your eyes are. Yeah right
You just met the lady and she's so full of compliments
Red flag, uh-huh. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah red flag. Mm-hmm that's called
emotional
Manipulation say with me emotional what?
Manipulation. Mm-hmm. Yeah, they feed you. They stroke you and they give you all kind of emotional
Positives and making you feel real good inside. You're like, oh, yeah this gal, right? Yeah. Yeah. She's like me
I didn't know it was a handsome girl. Yeah, I know. I thought I was a but i,,
You know, I like the way you say it to me. Yeah right
Try to get in your pocket
It's called emotional stroking
Stroke your ego. every man wants to feel like they're good-looking
Every man wants to feel like they sexy
Every man, wants them to say - that oh, he look like Denzel
Yeah, everything was here that kind of stuff and they know that and they use that against you to get in your what?
pocket
How many US dollars can I get out of this sucker today? Uh-huh?
watch out for that guy's then one of the red flag is if you meet a filipina you
And you for the first time you want to make sure
If she tells you she's not working
red flag
Yeah, red flag
because
the fact of the matter is
if a Filipina is not working they have no what income and
If they have no income
Then you're looking for you to be a sugar daddy
Yeah, sugar daddy
They want your money honey. They want every US dollar you can send them
Immediately and put in their pockets. Mm-hmm
Filipinas are some of the most beautiful women in the world. They have some of the most beautiful
Personalities in the world. They're very charming. Very ladylike. Very feminine
But they know how to stroke your ego
they know how to tell you the things that you want to hear so that you can
fall in love with them feel good about them so that you can start loosening up your grip on your dollars and
putting it in Western Union or however you send it to them.
Be careful about that guys
Not every Filipina is about you
Some of them are about the dollars they all about the Benjamins some of them some of them
There's some good ones out there now, don't get me wrong
But I'm talking about the ones that are gold diggers how you can spot them
She's not working she
Want to get you back she wants you to be her finance manager. Yeah
That's a red flag
Now
How do you tell if a person's a gold digger or not?
Number one good test
If you've been providing funds you've been sending the money gifts, whatever
Start withholding that stuff. Oh
Say let's say for example, you've been sending her $100 a month
And she talking to you regular and you making youfeel all good inside. You just love talking to my boo
I can't wait to get home chat with my boot Yeah, right
But as long as you send in hundred dollars, she's your boo
Miss one payment and see what happens to you. Boo.Mm-hmm. Yeah miss a payment and
You try to get online with her. I'm busy. I talk to you later She'll talk to you two or three minutes and out
Yeah, miss a payment stop sending those gifts see what will happen that's how you determine
If a Filipina is a gold digger
Or not you have to ask questions to and
Questions, you actually read the questions that will determine are they interested in me?
Or are they interested in the money?
Attracted me you attracted the way when you ask questions you
Want to keep that in mind now person that is attracted to you
Will not always talk about money very very seldom and the reason why is because they're not interested in your money
there interested in you
a Person that interested in you won't be talking about money
They'll be talking about you and they'll be talking about them to you about each other sharing their experiences
What a person really loves you and likes you just being with you is enough
Yeah, just being with you
Holding your hand if you're together
Talking online seeing you smiling those things
Are more than adequate when a person really loves you. Yep
So that's how you spot a gold-digger guys
Keep those things in mind
Because Filipinas
Are beautiful women I mentioned before but there's some woman out there
Just won you money then what your money honey? That's it
So, alright so we'll take look at the questions comments here see who's online with me today
We're gonna go through a roll call ready for the roll call. Ahh
so we got here first first we got is uh
Ian Malcolm, what's up Ian?
How long can I stay there as a visitor on my first trip Ian
very good question
basic question
How long you want to stay if you want to stay there?
You can stay up to 29 days at on your tourist. Visa, okay?
up to 29 days
However, if you go beyond the 29 a period you will have to apply for a visa extension, okay?
It's not a big deal. Just go down to the BI. I forgot how had it haven't had a tourist visa Oh
Almost any two years now
but you go down there you pay them some pesos
Fill out some paperwork and you can stay another 29 days now keep in mind Ian
You can do that for up to 36 months Yeah up to three years. You can do that
but after the 36 months you have to leave the country for
At least 24 hours and then you have to come right you can come right back if you choose to do so, okay
So yeah, so you can stay up to 29 days
As tourists on a tourist visa. Alright good question. Good question. Let's give Ian a round of applause
All right Ian thank you for that wonderful question, alright, let's go on down the list hear see who else we got
and we have
Philippines bound what's going on Philippines Bound?
You doing all right today, buddy?
Good good good good, so I don't see you have any questions. So we'll go on to the next person you LisaD Lisa Benaro is my wife Lisa,, Benaro is her maiden name. she always likes to log on. Whatss Up sweetheart> Love you girl, can't get enough of you.
Oh, all right, so who else we got here
Philippines bound asking for money is a huge red flagYeah. Yeah, Philippine
anytime people asking for money, uh
Then you need to back up you need to back up
From them and tell them to back up off from you. All right. Now if you've known this person for a long time
Maybe six to seven months you talk to them
I can see maybe and they say that emergency and you can find a way to prove that emergency
Yeah, maybe 50 bucks means 25 something like that. Well, you just met this person ain't begging you. Um
No anyway
I'm not being a harsh. I'm just a meal
We when people you just met try to beg you for money
It's not about you. It's about the money
All right. Let's see. What else could be out here
Yeah, that's right. Get rid of them right away because
It's taking up space and time in your life for somebody who is legitimate to
Come in and get and don't take up that space away from somebody that's legitimate. So give it up
You don't need to heart it. You don't need the hassle
All right, so we got our eye on you news what's going on?
He said that she get one of the jobs at the cost of it yeah, they can easy something what I met needs to be
Lisad is a beautiful person y'all I'm serious. She's beautiful inside and she's beautiful outside. I'm serious
When I met LisaD, LisaD never asked me for a centavo. She never asked me for a peso
I talked to I talked about six months never asked me for anything at LisaD was working straight up
She's working in a factory
and
We chitchat
Two three times a day every chance we get especially on the weekends, and she never asked me for one cent to me
that meant the that this girl
Had some feelings for me
I started getting feeling for her because it's the first time that I've ever dealt with someone and never ask me for any
funds
Philippine because eventually you could talk to him a day to three days or we add a week so next thing you know
oh my mama see
My papa see, you know, can you save me some money please? Nah
But again
if you've been talking to for a while six months or more so like that you can prove that there's an issue and you
Have a good relationship with them. I don't see a problem
Just I wouldn't say I'm a lot but I don't see a problem with that
but if you just met them no, no, no, you know I
So who else we got here?
Marquel what's going on marquel marquel
Marquel's man. He looks enough. We said yeah. No, you told me last time it's not
It's not the Dominican Republic. It's time told to mingle. Correct mark. Yeah
Now mark he a lot and I've been knowing he do the profile online marquel is from the USA
He is an
Traveler who's a globe-trotting goes all over the world?
and
He he likes to travel and he likes the experiences the finer things in life. Good meaning I
Said we got our newest
Say that we I did that I got lucky. Oh
Good all right. He said I wanna do this says he he did the test. Yeah, he withheld the money
That he was helping out his his lady with for three months and he got lucky. Guess what she stayed with
So that was a good thing he put he put the test on put her to the test
You'd be surprised how many people will leave you if you quit sending them that money cuz I love the Filipinos
It's a racket
You you send their money. They're your best buddy. Yeah, they'll be there every time you spoil the chat. They'll be there right on time
You've missed a payment
You have to go looking for them for the FBI I try to find out what's going on boy. Yeah girl
Because
Money talks and if when money's not there
They do people started walking. So yeah. Yeah, I'm glad you I'm glad you put up their test
beer I
What's going on, Rob?
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Give him
A like on his videos and join his channel. He is from Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Just moved here his wife is having a baby the first child. He's married to the Filipino and
They are out on the province right now
Fuck think they fuck. You're ready to have the child pretty soon
I think it's a matter of weeks right robber or days. Which one is it Rob?
So, let's knock it's gonna be shortly, I'm sure that
That's it the beer. Let me know. Can y'all hear me out there? Do I need to adjust my mic?
Give me some give me some feedback
Can you hear me out there somebody
Okay, good, thanks Wayne, all right
Just wanting to check with Mike every now they're not that's been these
typhoons coming but for you guys that well you guys that are
Going to move to the Philippines. I
Would suggest that you do your homework as far as location?
Manila it's okay
But personally I prefer a place that very seldom plugs and that's a movie
Cebu we get rainfall, we get it and always get the tail end of everything but nil in the Luzon area
They get the I've storm
Yeah, they get doused with everything I mean anything happen out here as far as the weather look forward to happen
It was almost time. Okay, so I'm gonna bhasayate you see where none of the middle of the part of the country and
The environment here is as friendly as good. It's peaceful
It's not this big assume the no. No, that's like I don't know if you guys ever been in Manila
But it looks like the new york city of facilities is huge
Sometimes can be to ingest as well
It also depends on the suburban area of Manila that you live in like some people live in Korea's on city
Some people live in Makati. Those are small areas, but I lived in Makati would be for mikake
It's very old area and a lot of rich people's about there
All right. Let's keep going down the list here. See
Alright so one other question you guys have for me
You don't have the question for me I got questions for you number one
Give me a reason give me some reasons or ways you could that you determine that?
the
Person you're dating or talking to is
Out for you or for money. What do you do to determine that?
And I'm going down a list
Yeah
Malcolm what would you do to determine if someone you were speaking to?
Was for you or for your money ear mouth but you are spot
Waiting for his response
And
the reason why I ask these questions is because
When we're together like this we learn from each other you learn from me. I learn from you and we all learn together
It's an environment
All right, so let me see here we got I
Want to insist let's not get the werster's done because the weather seems to be yeah. Yeah, it goes northeast most of the time
Most of the time. All right Ian
Ian must even must have went to sleep y'all. He's an ass to question. All right, so let's go down to Philippine bound
Philippine value with me
What would you do to determine what do you normally do to determine if someone is for you or not?
I remember the things you would do
Philippine battle
You must want to see all right, but yeah
The weather here is
decent in Cebu area in a massage area and
That's why I live here
We were when we first when I first moved to I wrote there in December of 2014. Yeah, I don't like New York City
I mean, it's just too congested
so when I found that about that about Manila, I like now and then I also found out them another has a lot of
pollution
and
when I found those things out, I
Knew not for me now Cebu
Don't get me wrong Cebu ass pollution too, but it's not as bad as Manila anywhere in the Philippines has pollution
But it's not as bad as Manila
Because up until it's very very congested. Ah
Wait Johnson never ask money
Okay. Yeah, that's it. Always a good thing
Never asking for money until I offer it
that's what
You should look for when you find someone that never asked you for money
That's a positive trait because most Filipinas if you guys have been online
Eventually will come up with some kind of story some kind of gimmick
to pull your heartstrings
So you can go in your pocket and send some money. So when you find someone that doesn't ask you for money
That sounds almost like a keeper at least least you want to investigate you wouldn't hang with that one personal
Awhile, because that might be a good person for you
now dumaguete or lapu-lapu
Um
They're pretty much like the same
Dumaguete he's a small town and lapu-lapu is not far from me. That's a small town as well
They
Dumaguete has no taxis at all. That's how small you have to have a bike
Motorcycle a trike you have to get around or you have to use your feet and dumaguete
There's no taxis out there though lapu-lapu. They do have some taxis
That's the only difference but they're very small town
Now what I want to do my getting man you tell them what people were staring me down. I mean you
See some white folks out there, but I ain't seen nobody black and that's it. Please do why do people stare?
Okay, they see they see you they see Caucasian farmers, but they don't see African American farmers
Out there that much adieu again now in the end the major cities like the bow
See will another courses they don't they're not gonna stare down black many much cuz they see a lot of them but in a smaller
province smaller cities and provinces
Get ready, buddy
Cuz they're your your you stick out we stand out
Christopher it's going all guy
Waiting Johnson you like the bow tell me bout. What's so good about Wow. I mean, I've got some neighbors
They talk about the vowel a lot. Is that fruit out there? I think it's called jackfruit and
They talk about that a lot and
The city is some work like Cebu. I think the vows the third city third largest city
the first largest of Manila second largest is
The bow bow bow and now second largest is subbu the third largest is dev. Oh, I think that's where it is
Okay our eye on you new says mine asked for money because I have kids there she takes care of my kids monkey, okay
My my kids are not her kid. I don't understand. He says mom you
Have kids there. She takes care of my kids. Okay, so she takes care of your kids there, right?
All right
so
That's why you send her money. She takes care of your kids
He's saying my kids are neither kid tell me some more about that I own I own you
What do you mean your kids are not her kids if she stays scare your kids. I've assume that's your kids
Yeah, the weather hey Terry, hey Terry Terry Edwards, what's up
The weather being safe and very polite into dumaguete is nice place to be
Weather's nice there Cebu is nice and dumaguete but dumaguete is very small very small
I like a bigger city Sabu's about the biggest city. I want to be in I don't want I don't like Manila
I don't my visit in Manila, but I don't want to live there
Terry arias, what's going on, man? Oh
Okay, I want you
Says his kids are from another woman
Well his girl his wife tastes care or his girlfriend takes care. Okay, that's the unusual situation
Very unusual situation why let me ask you this
Why didn't why does not the original mother take care of her children?
I did enough to get someone else to take care of you your children I on you
Tara you just went you just you just left Cebu a few weeks ago hard yet. You have a good time
You should have gave me a shout out to everyone could have got together. Oh
I'm sorry to hear that. I on you he says this kid's mother is kids mother's in prison
Or dead or they're dead so you don't know. Okay, so you don't know where your kids mother?
You kids mother is okay. I got it. So you had to find someone else to take care of them
Well, that's very very very commendable
Commendable of you
You found someone else to take care of your kids because your kids mother's somewhat. It's disappeared. I understand very good thing
That's a noble thing to do. I own you very noble thing to do
It shows you're responsible in the vehicle. And you want to make sure your kids grew up properly. I understand that that's very important
Ter you had some fun, huh? Alright, that's cool
What's going on with the screen here my screens messing up y'all
Now Terry was this first time in Cebu
Wayne Johnson you thought stimulator? Give me a shout out when you get wow
That's that's very sad
How long when the tapping me how long has this been going on? Which when did she leave them? First time here was very
very scary
I'm serious. I
Of the people that I before I came here
I look on YouTube and the person that I had two people two V loggers that I looked at. I
Don't know if you guys remember this guy. His name was pop Z
He's I think he's still on. I'm not on
oh, well, I looked at him and then the other guy I was looking at is uh
RiRi k3k every K Y
And uh, they gave me some pointers
But when I got here, I'm like scared. Yeah, cuz I didn't see anybody like me and it takes a while to adjust
To a new surrounding new situation when you see people look like you
Okay, so it took me a while, but I got used to it
It takes a while I said what was like words I okay. So, uh
Okay, okay I on you you're not in the Philippines
You're doing best trying to make it in the Philippines they're there with my kids
Baco Baco, I don't think I've heard of that. Ah, go buddy ba ba ba ba city
Okay, it's near dumaguete. Okay. Okay, so well, that's good. I'm glad to hear that you are
responsible a
Man, you're taking care of your children. You found somebody to take care of them and you're helping them every month
That's awesome. That's awesome. You're doing everything you can do and
Eventually you will get back there to be you if you choose children and I'm sure that your children appreciate that
Your children appreciate you greatly
Because children the one thing children need in this world is love and and someone to provide roof shelter and food
That's it. And when you do there you mean the world of children they look up to you. So that's awesome
You see I on you you hear what you're did you hear what Christopher said
Did you read what he said? He says story sound too
I'm not doubting them
but
It is it is what it is
you know things happen all the time and as they happen you have to adjust and
If you you have your head on straight you do the right things. He's you know, he's I don't doubt him
He's got his head on straight. He's done the right thing
he's done that he took the bad situation and made the best that he could out of it and
That's that's that's all you can expect
Make the best of the bad situation
Yeah, Terry, it's it's it's quite an adjustment
When you come to the Philippines if you haven't been here ever and you start seeing anybody
Oh my my skin tone it took me that long because I like yeah
It's hard
But I just you learn to adjust as time goes on and my first six months here Terrell. I
Wanted to go home every day I miss
America so much I miss my family so much. I hate it here. I'm serious hated it
But I be more you could be in the Marriott you gonna hear roosters
They gonna wake you up but roosters and then another thing that got to new hair was like every time time took a shower
cold water
It took me a long time I thought about a long time till I got used to cold take a shower cold water
I'm serious. I
Still have some trouble with it today. Okay. I usually wait till the waters warm up to you. I take my shower
Let me go back to what's going on here. I'm sorry. I got got sidetracked
Okay, oh
It to be that you away I on you says three of the three of the five children in his
The other two of their sisters, okay. You don't know who that
Fathers are there. So why not? Take care of them?
While I leave them out. Okay, right. It's not it's a good thing man. Keep doing what you're doing
I want you keep doing you're doing a good thing
You're helping the children your children and you helping their siblings
And I'm sure they will appreciate it
And you know when you when you send in US dollars, it doesn't take a lot to help a family here in a Philippines
I mean you can send
$100 a month two hundred that's a lot especially if they're in the province
That's a lot that two hundred dollars will go a long way in the province. So
Yeah, do what you can and it's not gonna hurt
$220 a mother's not gonna hurt your pocket
You can anybody could spear if you got a job if you got a decent job
That's not gonna hurt you. So yeah, you're doing a good thing
Yeah, Christopher says I applaud you supporting them I do as well as my grandmother said Mama's, baby
Daddies, maybe we DNA test all the kids
Right about that nowadays
Everybody needs to be tested. Nobody don't accept well
You remember either um now no that's nice. Where's the DNA off?
Let's go down to the office first cuz uh, there's too many things going on too many things and these women nowadays
I don't mean you can't trust none o
Most of them a lot up not most oh, but a lot I'm half two and three boyfriend's at the same time, you know
So you gotta you gotta protect yourself
Yeah, man. I love the Philippines to Wayne. I
Love the Philippines I enjoy being here in December. I will have been here for years and
I'm enjoying it to this day
And I I'm a join Lisa D as well these D is a reason
my hair
and she
Helps me in every way. I don't know if I would have been I would have stayed here if it was not for Lisa D
cuz plenty times I want to leave but she told me you gotta stay you gotta tough it out and
That's what I did
And she helped me a lot. She's helped me to this day
Yeah way let's get together
Would you get out of here?
Coach hours are a bad man, but you know what?
I found out one thing about cold showers. If you take them they they help your body invigorate
They help you fight a metabolites better. I looked that up at Google
So for that reason, I still don't like I'm gonna do it. I can put I can deal with it now
All right, who is this?
Ma
My MA. Oh, yeah my for you one the same way. Nineteen. This is my
Fiancee for the first time never saw another. Oh, yeah. Yeah
Yeah
it's hard man when you're
African-american and you come to a country with its very few african-americans
It's it's a culture shock and it takes time to adjust
Thing about it is
The reason why most of us come here is to experience a
Different way of life. So if you keep that in mind, you'll be all right, and that's where I kept my
That's why I came here to see the other side of life
And that's what got me through it in addition to Lisa D telling me stick it out. It's okay
When you have something that's another thing if you move out here and you have somebody here already
Your life is going to be much much more easier and your adjustment period will be very very
short
But if you don't have anybody out here and you have to come out here and start making friends and learning how to do this
It's gonna be hard. It's gonna be hard
So when I moved here prior to moving here
I actually visited for about six years
Off and on and Lisa D. I didn't know these D when I first came out here
she was the last person I dated I did it a whole lot of women online and then came out here started meeting them and
That's why I know about this online dating stuff is you got to be diligent. You have to know
the tricks that they pull on you and you have to be able
Strong enough because a lot of people even they know this tricks that they pull on them. They're not strong enough to resist it and
they'll just put up with it because they've developed an
emotional attachment to the person they get used to that person chatting with them every day and
Sometimes sometimes a lot of you guys they know
That they're being scammed they keep giving them money. Anyway, that's just
how some people are you're weak, but
You know, I was never like I'm not like that if I find out you're not who you say you are
Guess what you out you out, you know you out of my life. I'm done with you, but you know
everybody's got their own way of dealing with thing and that's my way and
Letting it go on. It's all other people's way and it's not to say this, right or wrong
It's just different way of dealing with things
Let's go back to you. See what's going on. Uh
Yeah, Wayne yeah, man
Philippines
Was the first place he says the Philippines were the first country I visited where I felt like a human me a man
How much y'all net when I came out here?
the people treated me very very
Decent and very very well and I was happy about that because in the USA
You like nothing
And you come out here and they treat you like a rock star, you know, it's a good thing man
it boosts your it boosts your
self-esteem
it boosts your self-confidence and
You feel good if it makes you feel good about yourself. And so yeah, that's one of the things I liked about the Philippines and
When I went back and told my family about that
Thought I was kidding
Are you serious? Yeah, I said people treat you like a good person a human being, you know, they don't they're not that racist
I mean there's some out here but I mean they treat you like you're a decent person
Versus in the USA. They were thought I was lying
Okay, so who else we got
All right, Christopher he says two weeks too short to visit that the pet that actually depends Christopher it
Depends on where you're going and it depends on are you going to be visiting your girlfriend or you just come to sightsee?
it just depends, you know, I
Have I have when I was traveling back and forth from the USA to the Philippines? I?
Normally would do 7 to 10 days
that's what I was 7 to 10 days and
Now I found that for me that was adequate enough for what I had to do and I visited girlfriends I
traveled around - from one city to another
And that was more than enough time for me
But you know, it depends on what you got scheduler what you got to do Christopher. I don't know, you know
Two weeks. She be I think - we should be enough for you. It just depends on what you got going on
Yeah, wait, I got a good one man. Lisa D
These these one the best women I have ever met on the face of this earth
And that's saying a lot but yeah, she we have a good match up. We have a good chemistry together
and it's not about the age thing because I'm Way older and she is
But it's about the personality how we blend in together and I found that out a lot of people
When you go to the United States, they got just think about age. Are you - over? Oh, it's the matter
It's not about age. It's about your personality. That's what you should look at age. Doesn't mean nothing
it's how you relate to each other that counts but
The USA is has this thing about age you have you have an older person with the younger person?
They think it's a hang-up but in the Philippines
It's except that an older person whether you're man a woman can go with a younger person a long stare, you know
I've aged pretty like that
But USA is totally different
Okay, this is this, uh
when you say money to the Philippines ended by
World we met where we make gave
56 pesos for every one dollar everyone else 50. Okay. I used to send room I did where we met
I want you for a while
They were they were okay. Okay. I did soom. I know y'all heard his own
The world we went. I know you heard Western Union
Western Union my opinion rocks
Cookies. Hey rockers, don't say anything
if you got any sense don't send any money Western you and you can unless you have to
They just do hi. I did where we met. I did remit Lee
zoom
Wilson
There's one other camping. But yeah, I did after tomorrow, but the one I'm doing now
I do transferwise and then I do that for me cuz it goes straight to my bank and
Also, why not one thing I want to tell you guys if you're coming to live here
Or even if you're coming to visit you should use a foreign bank that has foreign
Accounts that's national international accounts worth so that when you to you go to get money from the ATM
That would be very easy for you one bank that I deal with is called fidelity
Investments, they have a bank their investment company, but they have a bank as well
I've got a checking account with them whenever I pull money on my account. They
Reimburse me for any type of ATM charge
Allocate it all back
So it's like just right being in the state's pulling money out so that I'll encourage you there's another company that does that as well
reimburse it use call swab and
I think Capital One
those three
companies
You may want to get a checking account with them be?
Before you come here to live if you're going to live here move here
or if you want to be visiting for a period of time extended period
You want to get one of those counts that way you won't have to use Western Union and all that kind of crazies
Just pull money straight from your 18. Oh
All right, let's see what those are good
Can you recommend a area near subbu which is cheaper than the main city your
Class Oh bother I think it smaller sure applause good to have you on the channel today
Welcome
I would recommend I
Live in a city called - lamba tal AM VA n - lombok, okay
That is a very safe area. It's about Oh
15 minutes drive from
the main city
and
It's cheaper than city. That's for sure
Another area that a lot of people I recommend whatever a guy came down here back three months ago named Ron Simmons
Ronald Simmons he wanted
an area that was small like dumaguete and
So I recommended
lapu-lapu
Or Mactan, that's near the airport
Now it's a smaller area
But they're very very cheap reasonable but like that very very inexpensive
This housing is whatever you pay in here in Cebu area
You're gonna pay like a third of that there and it's decent
I mean you can find houses near house for like 200 bucks a house. Not an apartment house
That's not cheap it is but this the area is clean. It's nice
the only problem I have with lapu-lapu Mactan area is that they're on an island and when whenever we have like
Typhoon stuff those guys get the worst of it. Okay
But there's another area that I would suggest you take a look at. It's called Bonnie lon. Ba ni la dee
That's another suburban area from the Cebu City and a lot of people
Come here move there. I sell you money want to take a look at that area as well
It's reasonable and it's not overpriced
All right. Let's see what else we get
Racism
Okay, I know I miss one. Oh
ho
Ho I want you. I'm in the nude. I've been to the whole before. It's sort of like
dumaguete
Mark down area it's it's nice. The people are friendly out there
so yeah, I wasn't my island anything about behold beaches beautiful beaches and
the people are very friendly and
So it's a good place to live, but if you if you like me
You need action
I need to be around some people and action and so I like a bigger setting than the Boyar
All right, what else you got here?
Racism yeah racism is racism it. Actually it's very sad in America, but it's actually worldwide
not only in America because you can find racism believe it or not Wayne right here in the
Mm-hmm. Yeah racism. Uh, I mean, it's not as much I
Doubt to say that is the same amount as it is in America
but there is some vestiges you can find it because when you are an
African American
you stand out from everybody else and
a
lot of us
A lot of us have a lot people have people have the ability to point fingers at the one who stands out
And so we we get to punt but you know, it's just a part of life wherever we go on this world
You're gonna apply some of that racism. So you just take it and deal with it when I find it
I don't get angry because I understand what's going on
When you have an understanding of the situation and what causes it gonna deal with it better?
Racism mating problem in my opinion. It's ignorance
ignorance
That's the whole bottom line. They don't know better
And so they can't do better a lot of times and you teach people better show them better. They need do better
and I know I'm
Oversimplifying it, but that's how I look at it
Bitcoin bitcoins get getting up there man
Rico's doing what I do Bitcoin mining
I got Genesis mine Swiss gold a lot and it's doing better. It's doing bad. It's gonna get even better
I do also have I do a lot of stocks
Mutual funds and stocks that I do and that provides the income for at least DME
Let's see what else we got here
Philippines the Philippine the Philippines I look felt loved my family here. Don't even make me Wow
Yeah, this Philippines are great people man. I'm telling you you guys just
Don't know until you actually get out here. It's dark oblivion
Philippines you get out here start living. It's a huge like another world man. I'm serious. It's like another world
I was raising the miracle all my life. I didn't know nothing about this part of the world, honey
You want to come out here, but after a gut-wrenching divorce?
I made my mind and I needed to change and that's why I started looking online
I said man. I want clothes wanted to be married cuz I'm kind of guy
I don't like playing to see I'm not playing. I'm not a player from Yuma lake now. I like to be you have a wife
settled in
someone
So I need a change and Philippines was the place that I chose
Now the other place that I was going start because I had a buddy at work
He married a woman from Thailand
And that's how I got started. You start talking to me
Get a timeline
That's no no, so I started looking online. I started dealing with the times but I
Found I found it. I don't know. It was something about to my life
So I started yelling Philippines online and I'm glad I'm so glad I did
That's what else we got here
Right, it does appear know where you go and what you're trying to accomplish that's so short. So Christmas says I
Definitely got respect for you plan on making
all right Christmas know
How are you? When are you gonna be? Are you going to be moving there permanently to the Philippines? I want your news
Theriot is Oh
The flights Terry man
I I
Used to I used to read I was carrying a book and I read until I was tired and I go sleep
That's how I do it. I carry me a book. I'm big reader. I'll I read everyday
That's how I handle it and then I would also have me up
know
little music
Look
Cassette you just played out. This is to music and this to I like positive
Things so I don't know if you guys ever heard of subliminal
hypnosis and some bits of living old recordings what I listened to those on the flight back and forth and
That helps me to build up my mind because if you keep your mind from 8
You could do anything you want to you can endure things better when you have a strong mind. So that's I dealt with it
Reading and listening to recordings and
Then every every once an hour I'd get up and just walk cuz cuz you then go to sleep and that long but yes
The longest flight. Yeah, I think
The longest flight I was 24 hours
That's cuz I had a lot of lay overs and stuff like that. Those leo was kidding me
I tell you what the best best airlines for you guys are planning to come you
haven't come before the best airlines you want to deal with it is
Korean air hear me. I mean they treat you like a king man. They treat you like a king
They treat those women like Queen I mean food
Excellent. I mean I took out a flights I mean Airlines coming here. Hey Delta
I had Cebu. I had a Philippine Airlines. I had your pan airline
I mean I had a bunch of your lives, but the best one out there is Korean Air
I mean, yeah a little bit higher but it's worth it man because you got a little bit extra
change a
Courier, I mean every time every chance I get I would take Korean here once I found that I took Delta for a long time
But don't that's not the way they used to be they went down
Korean here
They give you these little hot towels and they put it on you can put the hot towel on your face
you rub your hand then when create air they give you these little
Slippers, you know, take the shoes off rest your feet. So yeah Korean here is my airline of choice. I
See what else you got here
Okay my criteria Wayne
Wayne wants to know can you list your criteria how you made to see you to marry you away? I'll tell you
my criteria we was this I
Wanted to see all sides of Lisa D. Not just the side we dealt with online
Okay, so I know my first criteria was
To test her out. Yeah, I have tester I
had to come here meet her to see who's see if she was who she said she was and
What's that? Why she made once she passed that test? Yeah, I know. I had something credible and I could
So the next thing I did I told her I said, you know, I didn't tell her when to marry her
I told her I didn't turn the lock to laughter, but I actually did I told her I liked her a lot
But I didn't wonderful once you get the love or death you trouble
So what I did was I told I liked your ally and I think that I thought that we could
Have something together we continued today and so every year after that
I would come once twice you visit each other and that goes to your mother. Yeah
Okay, I'll be right there. I was your mother and her parents
That's the one thing one thing you want to make sure whenever you're dating if it's a serious relationship
You must okay know if and you must if their parents are live you must
Visit the parents. That's just a matter of respect and decency. Okay, so I would visit her parents
Every time I came that's the first thing we did and so I told Lisa D. I said, I love you
My finally got the love word. And so we I told her that we needed to date for an extended period of time and
We dated for about five years
Five years. I know it's unheard of in the u.s. People get married in two weeks month two months three months
oh, yeah, five years because and the reason why I did that was because I
Needed time to recover
myself and to build myself back up and at the same time I needed to make sure of
Her who she's who she said
she was I need to make sure that I see her in all kinds of different lights and I got to see every part of
her personality and she got to see every part of mine once I knew that that we were compatible and
That it wouldn't be the same old same old that I was used to in the USA. That's it. Okay, that's it
Those are my those are my criteria. Make sure if you looking for somebody
Try to find somebody just working now. I'm not saying everybody is not working. It's not okay, but
If you have somebody that's working. That means they're responsible. They have income. They're not gonna be. Okay, that's one
So I try to find somebody's work
You wanna try to find somebody that has a family mother and father that they respect
If you find a Filipina that does not respect their family and that's not hang around their friend
You don't need that person because family is everything to a Filipina
And if you find a Filipino where the family is nothing, then that's not going to be a good situation for you at all
All right, what else we got here?
Master Joey
How do you know if someone's a gold digger when you know, you're what ugly
I'm not gonna repeat that
That's funny, man
That's funny master duty, I really gotta
See you what I'm not sure what that means
When Johnson
Information. Yeah, I mean I do affirmations every day
I programmed my mind every day for success you have to man cuz there's so much junk out here you
You'd be surprised the stuff that your your mind and your ear ear gates in your mind takes in without you even realizing
It so I have to get the negativity out in order to keep the positivity in
You sleep the whole time on you? Oh wow
Yeah, Jenny. I mean man every time I'm never every time I had a trip, I've always had your legs I'm with you on that
Always that yeah, it takes me it takes about
Four days three or four days for my body adjust once I come from one part of the country of the world to the other
other side
Let's see what that's
Special going on
Okay, I gotta check them out
Okay. Okay. Thanks for that
I on you I didn't know that I'm looking for I go back to the states from visit my family for a little bit
So I'll be checking him out. See what's going on with that
Your Bitcoin
Miners let's see them
I'll know what that means. But yeah, man, um
I'll check it except out. She was going all of them. All right guys
Lisa DS called me
Hey, she wants me to
Take her out to lunch
Well, yeah, it's been real. I'll be back this time. Maybe I
Might try to do two next week. I don't know but it'll be at least once once more
probably
either Wednesday or Saturday and the reason why I don't want to put down a schedule because
These come up and I don't want to say well I'm supposed to be at this time, and I can't make it
So right for right now
I'm just doing it at a kid. So I'll be coming at least once a week now probably
Saturday my time Saturday morning is probably Friday night here. I mean, yeah Friday night there in the u.s
So maybe around this time?
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