My question is complexities of any
relationship why do they beyond a point
become complex
whether it's so between girlfriend's
whether it's between boyfriend
especially relationship between a
girlfriend a boyfriend and husband wife
namaskaram money so you are beginning to
taste the sourness of relationships of
course everybody knows the sweetness of
relationships too but there is also a
lot of sourness unfortunately today we
have imbibed this from the west again
that if you are to the word relationship
people are generally thinking of body
based relationships or in some way it
has to be between a man and a woman or
whatever else but essentially body based
relationship no relationships can be of
many kinds if their body based
relationships usually the excitement
about each of this body will die after
sometime what you thought was ultimately
is not ultimate after some time it is
natural that you begin to grow out of it
then when the main draw which brought
people together is kind of melting away
without knowing why they start being
unpleasant to each other because
essentially such a relationship is
towards extracting sweetness from
another person extracting happiness from
another person so if you tries to
squeeze joy out of somebody after some
time you find when it doesn't
EAL the same results as it used to build
in the beginning some bitterness will
begin it is important when you are young
certain things may happen as you
start growing older when I say older
from yesterday to today you're older I'm
not saying your old money I'm just
saying from yesterday to today you're
little older so today you must be
thinking in terms of that relationships
that you hold in your life not
necessarily in terms of biological
relationships any kind of relationship
that you hold
if relationship is based on your
expression of joy not on extraction of
joy for this you must become joyful by
your own nature first of all if you
focus on this that you are an exuberant
overflow of joy if it is so and your
relationship is only about sharing this
then you don't have to worry about the
normal circus that people go through in
terms of relationships managing
relationships means in day-to-day life a
relationship may not stay just in one
area of life once people are together
they will have to share many things
naturally you will start stepping on
each other's toes for many many small
things that happen
because of this there will be many
interactions or you can even call them
alt altercations they will happen all
this you cannot manage on a daily basis
people think they can manage after some
time you will see you cannot manage so
the best thing is to manage yourself in
such a way that you are a natural
exuberant joyful being if this is so
relationships will happen and
relationships will not be need-based
when relationships are need-based if
what you need does not come you will
start cribbing you will start
complaining and you will start feeling
bitter that what you are supposed to get
you're not getting if you element this
need within you that you are a natural
or flow of joy if this one thing you do
you can have fabulous relationship with
every kind of people irrespective of who
they are they don't have to be your kind
with all sorts of people you can hold
wonderful
chips may you have the most beautiful
relationships in your life
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Inside source gives new details on Emery's relationship with Ozil while at PSG [ESPN] - Duration: 3:49.
Football News24/7 The fallout from Mesut Ozil's absence for Arsenal in their 3-1 win over West Ham has been quite something
Prior to kick-off, it was stated that the German playmaker was missing due to illness, something which has not been uncommon during this time in north London
However, during the game, reports surfaced that Ozil's absence was actually due to a falling out between him and Emery in training on the Friday
It was claimed that the pair were shouting at each other, with Ozil then leaving the training ground and subsequently being dropped
After the win over the Hammers, Emery sought to defuse those claims, stating that it was indeed illness that kept the German out
The Spaniard even claimed Ozil was actually at the Emirates to support the team, but there was no photographic evidence to support his claim
But now, German football expert Raphael Honigstein has backed up Emery's story
Writing for ESPN, he says that Ozil was sent home by doctors due to a case of laryngitis, but did return as a spectator for the West Ham game
He's now back in training and in contention for the Cardiff game on Sunday. And Honigstein revealed a very interesting piece of information at the end of his report, one which adds new perspective on Emery and Ozil's relationship
He claims that halfway through last season - before Ozil signed a new contract - Emery had a face-to-face meeting with him to try and convince him to join Paris Saint-Germain
Honigstein wrote: "Half-way through last season, before the playmaker renewed his contract with Arsenal, Emery personally tried to convince Ozil to sign for his former club Paris Saint-Germain by outlining his exact tactical plans to him in a face-to-face meeting
" It certainly suggests that Emery is a big fan of the German midfielder. Ozil has struggled to find form so far this season, but after reading Honigstein's report, it's safe to assume that he's still firmly in the manager's future plans
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5 Unrealistic Relationship Expectations We Learned From Romantic Comedy - Duration: 4:31.
I love a good romantic comedy.
The unforgettable meat cutes,
public declarations of love,
and of course,
the happily ever afters.
But where are these people?
Rom-coms are notorious for
promoting unrealistic relationship expectations
because real-life relationships just can't compete.
Sure, real relationships have their fair share of romantic moments–
just not nearly as just not nearly as many perfectly timed ones
like we see on the big screen.
In short, It's totally possible to love romantic comedies
without it influencing your real relationships,
and I'm gonna tell you how to do it.
The first rom-com-inspired expectation we've got to debunk is:
love at first sight.
We've seen it a thousand times
and I get it.
A movie is roughly 2 hours,
so writers only have so much time to tell a full of story.
Having the protagonists fall in love at first sight helps get straight to the action.
But as anyone who's been on a dating app can tell you,
that's not really love, but lust at first sight.
Here's what you should do instead.
Recognize these sudden feelings
for what they are and nothing more.
Real love takes time to grow and develop.
Give it that time.
Number two: Real love must be proven through grand romantic gestures.
Grand gestures are what make these movies so exciting.
I mean, who doesn't swoon when 'The Notebook's Noah builds a dream home for Allie
or when Lloyd blasts 'In Your Eyes' at the end of 'Say Anything'?
But in real life, a grand romantic gesture can fail miserably
or even come off as creepy.
Instead, celebrate the little things.
Every day is filled with small opportunities to show
your partner you love them.
Something as simple as breakfast in bed
or even just a sweet text goes a long way.
Number three: When someone says they're not interested,
they just need to be won over.
"Can't Buy Me Love,"
"10 Things I Hate About You",
"Superbad"
the list is unending.
This classic nerdy guy gets the popular girl trope
encourages viewers to root for the underdog.
But in real life — pressuring someone to fall for you just doesn't fly.
Instead, take them at their word, and move on.
Wouldn't you rather date someone who's just as into you as you are into them anyway?
That person is out there, so it's best to put your romantic energy into finding them.
Number four: You'll find someone who "completes you."
Holy "Jerry Maguire" does this one come up a lot.
Rom-coms promote the idea that after you find "The One",
nothing else really matters.
Movie characters will totally uproot
their lives if it means they can be with their person.
After all, who needs a fulfilling and satisfying career when you have love?
Answer: everyone.
Instead, be with someone who complements you,
not completes you.
It's important to maintain individual interest and personal relationships
outside of your romance.
And finally, once you're in a relationship,
everything is perfect.
Romantic comedies traditionally
end at the beginning of the protagonists relationship
because viewers want to see them live happily ever after.
But life goes on after you finally get the girl or the guy.
Instead, go into a new relationship knowing you're gonna have fights
because your partner's not a mind reader
and surprise, surprise, neither are you.
There will be days where you and your partner might not like each other,
but that doesn't mean you won't still love each other.
Ultimately, entering a relationship with fewer expectations
can create more opportunities to be grateful
for the small, everyday moments that make up
your love story.
That's all I have for you this week.
Tune in next time.
Love, Lindsay.
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Perfectionism is the enemy of progress (relationship) 2018 - Duration: 3:53.
perfection is the enemy of progress
now you may ask
what does this have to do with your relationship well
it has a lot to do with your relationship
say for example you want to get married to the lady
want to get married to the guy
but you're waiting on everything to be perfect you're waiting
on everything to be perfect first or
you're waiting to have everything in
place before you take the step now I've
spoken about this in another video where
I spoke about being prepared before
entering into marriage because you don't
want to get into a marriage or get married
to the guy and he doesn't have a job he
doesn't have any income that's gonna be
a big problem I'm not talking about that
but in terms of many people are waiting
on the perfect timing or that perfect
opportunity and they stop themselves
from progressing forward it is by taking
the step forward and chartering your
course that you'll be able to accomplish
what you will and even after you get
married you know if you're waiting on
the perfect timing or the perfect
opportunity to start that business
venture with your husband or with your
wife I'm telling you chances are you
will never do it you will never do it so
you have to just take action okay move
forward step forward and do what you
have to do in committing yourself to
your partner because if you wait on the
perfect opportunity it will never happen
there are people out there who are
probably frying better chicken than KFC
okay or they can make a better burger
than Burger King right
but KFC and Burger King what they have
done is that they have made a product
that is acceptable that is of a certain
standard that people will buy and they
continue to make millions if not
billions of dollars per year so I'm just
painting that picture in terms of a
business there are many people who want
to write a book okay they want
launch their blog they want to launch
a YouTube channel or they want to get
into some business but they're waiting
on the perfect opportunity or they they
try to perfect the craft so much before
sharing it with the world that it never
gets shared they go to their graves and
all it was was an idea that they kept
working on over and over and over and
over and over come on you don't want to
be dating forever you don't want to be
in courtship forever
you definitely does not want to be in an
engaged relationship for several years
and not taking the big step of saying I do
so don't let perfectionism or being a
perfectionist that everything needs to be
in place every single detail or else
you'll never do it you'll never do it
it's just like having children there are
certain things you can put in place but
there comes a point in time when you
just have to step into the water and get
your feet wet do what you have to do so
perfectionism is the enemy of progress
and if you're a perfectionist and if you
are waiting just on that very perfect
opportunity before you say I do
you may be in for a long ride and I have
several more tips to share about your
relationship so if you have not yet
subscribed to my youtube channel
I suggest that you leave a comment below
click the like button and subscribe to
my youtube channel come on what are you
waiting on subscribe to my youtube
channel right now
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