My question is complexities of any
relationship why do they beyond a point
become complex
whether it's so between girlfriend's
whether it's between boyfriend
especially relationship between a
girlfriend a boyfriend and husband wife
namaskaram money so you are beginning to
taste the sourness of relationships of
course everybody knows the sweetness of
relationships too but there is also a
lot of sourness unfortunately today we
have imbibed this from the west again
that if you are to the word relationship
people are generally thinking of body
based relationships or in some way it
has to be between a man and a woman or
whatever else but essentially body based
relationship no relationships can be of
many kinds if their body based
relationships usually the excitement
about each of this body will die after
sometime what you thought was ultimately
is not ultimate after some time it is
natural that you begin to grow out of it
then when the main draw which brought
people together is kind of melting away
without knowing why they start being
unpleasant to each other because
essentially such a relationship is
towards extracting sweetness from
another person extracting happiness from
another person so if you tries to
squeeze joy out of somebody after some
time you find when it doesn't
EAL the same results as it used to build
in the beginning some bitterness will
begin it is important when you are young
certain things may happen as you
start growing older when I say older
from yesterday to today you're older I'm
not saying your old money I'm just
saying from yesterday to today you're
little older so today you must be
thinking in terms of that relationships
that you hold in your life not
necessarily in terms of biological
relationships any kind of relationship
that you hold
if relationship is based on your
expression of joy not on extraction of
joy for this you must become joyful by
your own nature first of all if you
focus on this that you are an exuberant
overflow of joy if it is so and your
relationship is only about sharing this
then you don't have to worry about the
normal circus that people go through in
terms of relationships managing
relationships means in day-to-day life a
relationship may not stay just in one
area of life once people are together
they will have to share many things
naturally you will start stepping on
each other's toes for many many small
things that happen
because of this there will be many
interactions or you can even call them
alt altercations they will happen all
this you cannot manage on a daily basis
people think they can manage after some
time you will see you cannot manage so
the best thing is to manage yourself in
such a way that you are a natural
exuberant joyful being if this is so
relationships will happen and
relationships will not be need-based
when relationships are need-based if
what you need does not come you will
start cribbing you will start
complaining and you will start feeling
bitter that what you are supposed to get
you're not getting if you element this
need within you that you are a natural
or flow of joy if this one thing you do
you can have fabulous relationship with
every kind of people irrespective of who
they are they don't have to be your kind
with all sorts of people you can hold
wonderful
chips may you have the most beautiful
relationships in your life
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