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So extraordinary what we have the potential to discover, the potential to live.

Our next three meetings will be really centered around relationship, which is a perfect extension

of this of course, because it is...when I say relationship I'm speaking of what you perceive as yourself

and what you perceive as other.

And that of course includes the whole world, the whole internal world,

the whole external world.

So in preparation for our examining closely relationship this next month I would just

invite you to suspend all of your judgement about relationships and just be curious.

To recognize, how do you relate?

How do you relate to friends, how do you relate to enemies, how do you relate to yourself,

how do you relate to the world?

Not, how should you relate, but simply, how do you relate?

Just as a way, a vehicle for entering in the deepening of our conversation,

the deepening of this conversation, how do you live?

Because how do you relate is the essential part of how do you live?

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For more infomation >> Gangaji: Who Are You In Relationship? - Duration: 1:54.

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Reformation: Why Should I Care? A Relationship - Duration: 3:23.

500 years ago, today, a young monk

was trying to figure out if the church taught

what was true in God's Word.

He discovered these questions on his own,

and you can imagine this young man trying to figure out,

"How do I have a relationship with God?"

Maybe you've wondered the same thing.

When you've got guilt,

and you've got the weight of things you've done wrong,

how can I have a relationship with God?

And he looked through all of the Scriptures,

and he's translating original languages,

and he comes to the Book of Romans, chapter one, verse 17.

This is what it says.

Now, there's two ways you can take that

in the original Greek, and this was the challenge.

This is a possessive noun, so it's saying,

this is God's righteousness, that's possessive.

So let me give you an example.

If I say, this is my gift, that can mean one of two things.

It either means it's the gift that I'm giving to you,

or it's a gift that I've received from someone else.

And that is very difficult to understand

when you're talking about righteousness.

Is this the righteousness that God demands of us?

Is it perfection?

And Martin Luther was so frustrated

because he did everything he could,

he did everything to try and get closer to God

by doing, and doing, and doing,

and he felt farther, and farther away from God.

But, then suddenly, his eyes were opened

through the Holy Spirit. What this actually says,

God is saying, through the Gospel of Jesus Christ,

through Jesus' substitutionary life for you,

for his death for you, for Christ living for you,

I give you this gift.

I give you my righteousness.

His whole world was changed, and he looked at passages

like Romans, chapter three that says simply,

It's not through the law, and works, and doing stuff

that we become perfect before God.

It's only through Christ.

Other passages come alive.

It's by grace you have been saved through faith,

not by works so that no one can boast.

Where does this grace come from?

It comes from God's grace to you.

So what does this all mean?

It means that God loves you, not because of who you are,

God loves you in spite of who you are.

God loves you not because of who you are,

God loves you because who he is.

And he is our Savior that did everything for us,

and gave us the gift of perfection.

Let's pray.

God, we can never fully grasp what you did

through many, many reformers, and many, many people

that have taught us the Bible.

We pray as we remember the Reformation

we think of a time, but this is where your grace shines.

They didn't invent grace back then.

Instead, you were the one who showed us grace,

something totally foreign to us until we experience it

in the love of Christ. Amen.

Are you looking for guidance in God's Word

for a specific topic?

Just go to our website, www.yourtimeofgrace.org.

We have hundreds of videos just like this one.

For more infomation >> Reformation: Why Should I Care? A Relationship - Duration: 3:23.

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22 Stages of Relationship Between An Empath and A Narcissist - Duration: 10:47.

22 Stages of Relationship Between An Empath and A Narcissist

1.

The empath gets attracted to a narcissist.

Their relationship starts.

Empath loves deeply and unconditionally.

They feel emotionally fulfilled even though the narcissist plays no role to develop a stronger bond.

The empath feels satisfied and thinks their love is reciprocated just by being around the narcissist.

2.

The empath gets the false notion that they have finally met the kind of love that people don't find even once.

Narcissist affirms this by creating an illusion that leads the empath to believe that what they have is special.

The empath feels a deep bond that is almost impossible to break free.

3.

Sometimes it appears that the narcissist wants this relationship as much as the empath.

Actually, what they want is someone who invests their time, energy and love and is in their complete control.

4.

As the time will pass, the narcissist will make the empath feel weak, unconfined,

and bereft of the abilities to do even the simple things.

The narcissist will never launch an open attack, but use statements like "don't want to hurt you but…" to point out

some shortcoming.

They will try to take over anything which symbolizes control such as handling bills or making decisions about purchases.

The empathy will be looked down upon for their interests and many such things that form their identity.

Gradually, the empath starts to believe that they are less capable and they "need" someone like the person in their

life.

They get the notion no one would want them.

5.

For an empath, this relationship will be everything as they are the ones who are in love.

Out of love, they would always want to soothe and cheer the narcissist, talk to them,

help them and do whatever it makes them feel good.

The narcissists project themselves as the victim of their past, their relationships, and the circumstances.

The empaths are givers; they try to make up for all the unfortunate things that have ever happened to the narcissist.

6.

The empath has a good and a clear heart and cannot imagine the deep and unresolved wounds of the narcissist are not the

same as their own.

Healing those wounds is different from their own.

7.

The relationship is all about the narcissist.

The empath realizes this slowly, and a time comes when they feel afraid to talk or fight for their needs and desires.

In their attempt to please they don't want to voice their true needs.

They would rather be likable than give any reason to be disliked.

But, secretly they are not too happy.

8.

The more devotion, love, care, affection, and effort the empath puts into the relationship,

the narcissist feels completely in control over the relationship.

The empath literally dances to the tune of the narcissist.

As long as the empath continues to appease the narcissist, it's impossible to detect any problem in the relationship.

The problem occurs when the empath finally reaches the breaking point.

9.

Finally, the empath raises a voice because they can no longer keep up with the suppressing ways of the narcissist.

Day after day their emotional needs remain unfulfilled.

This happens because from the beginning of the relationship they have believed their partner's emotional needs are all

that matters.

When they finally understand their well-being also matters, and speak out, they seem selfish.

The narcissist does not like it.

10.

The narcissist is an attention seeker.

They get satisfaction when people fuss around them.

Their needs can never be met, they can never be satisfied.

They may move to other partners, open a new business, travel around the world, get involved in new creative pursuits,

and so on and so forth, but they will never be happy.

The empath isn't aware of this fact.

11.

When the empath finally bursts out something like "My feelings also matter",

the narcissist is quick to call the empath "crazy".

They call them over-dramatic and their concerns unfounded.

This kind of dismissive behavior is the tactics used by them to gain control over the empath's mind.

12.

The empath gets confused.

Why they have meted out such behavior, is beyond their understanding.

They start blaming themselves and wonder if they are at all worthy of being loved by anyone at all.

13.

At this point, the empath is not able to understand that they are just being manipulated.

Their partner has bent everything around them to create a twisted view of the circumstances.

There can be anything around them to let them know the truth that they are the one who is "right" and it's their

partner who is tremendously "wrong" and wicked.

14.

The empath will try to communicate with the narcissist in all truthfulness.

The narcissist will, however, justify their behavior and pass the blame.

15.

It is normal to feel lost, confused and hurt.

But despite all the heart-break, the empath will need to be calm and do some self-evaluation to figure out how they

became so defenseless.

This is how they will start transforming.

16.

The empath will know that they are by nature healers.

They have the inner strength to help others in the right ways, sometimes as a duty and sometimes when life brings them

to such situations.

17.

The empath has to realize the bitter truth that not everyone deserves their love, care, and affection.

Not everyone who seems distressed and unhappy is revealing their true self.

There are some people who have sinister motives and have a very different outlook towards relationships and people than

they do.

Not everyone they fall in love with can be trusted so quickly.

18.

In this situation, the empath must realize that they too are in a very bad situation something of which the narcissist

in their life always spoke of.

But, in their case, it would be different.

They would make positive efforts and heal themselves.

The narcissist will not.

19.

For empath this will be a painful awakening.

They will learn from the experience to move ahead.

20.

The narcissist will continue as if nothing happened and they are completely innocent.

They won't remember for a moment that someone loved them so deeply and intensely.

They won't remember the powerful bond they once had with someone and just move on to find it somewhere else.

A time will come when they will know they can neither connect with themselves nor with other people.

21.

The narcissist will move on.

In time they will find another victim.

22.

The empath will be stronger, wiser and be more cautious about who they time, affection and love.

For more infomation >> 22 Stages of Relationship Between An Empath and A Narcissist - Duration: 10:47.

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Domestic Violence Left Lodi Woman Fearful To Leave Relationship - Duration: 2:24.

For more infomation >> Domestic Violence Left Lodi Woman Fearful To Leave Relationship - Duration: 2:24.

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Selena Gomez and The Weeknd Split: Looking Back on Their Relationship Timeline - Duration: 1:20.

Selena Gomez and The Weeknd Split: Looking Back on Their Relationship Timeline

As youve likely already heard, Selena Gomez and The Weeknd have called it quits after dating for 10 months. A source told us its been a longtime coming as they started having discussions about their future in the summer.

Its been hard for them to come to the realization that this is the direction things were heading, but its been hard for months, the insider told us.

They have been open and honest about it and where they were going. Distance definitely played a factor.. The source added, They are still talking and will remain friends.

They have been very grown-up about it. The split doesnt necessarily come as a surprise as SelGo has been spotted hanging out with her ex, Justin Bieber, lately—though sources tell us he had nothing to do with Gomezs breakup.

But before the Sorry singer walked back into her life, things with The Weeknd appeared just fine. In fact, they seemed to be getting stronger as a couple after getting together in January.

Theyve vacationed all over the world together, rang in birthdays together, walked the red carpet together and even spent the summer together. Most recently, they were spotted kissing at an event in September.

So as we continue wondering what might have led to their demise, we decided to look back at how their love unraveled over the last 10 months. Check out their relationship timeline by launching the video above.

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