Look at this hair.
I spent so much time trying to make them look ok
but obviously I failed.
But you know what? It doesn't matter.
I'm not like one of the makeup or hair gurus
so no one cares!
Apparently I'm feeling like talking about the break ups.
It's all because of u Shawn Mendes and your cool song that I love!
"There's nothing holding me back"
I need to stop doing things like that.
And today I want to talk to you about the things
about the actions of your boyfriend
that are actually leading to a red sign
which says: Break up with him!
Reason number one.
In your relationships you're not talking about you.
You're not talking about how you feel.
You're not talking about your day, about your life your interests and problems
Basically what you do is just disusing him.
His problems, his life, his interest, his friends
Everything that's him related.
Feels like a monologue of one hero in the theater or in the movies.
I don't get this stuff some people like that
These guys are simply not interested in something
aside of themselves.
Their ego is the size or our mother earth.
2. He decides everything for you.
You never do the stuff that you like.
You never go to see movies that you like.
You never go to the places that you like.
You're doing everything that he wants
You are seen exclusively his friends.
You're going only in the places that he loves.
And when it gets to the point when ask him
to go on a compromise and maybe do smth that u want
He's saying things like:
"I don't want to go there you can go by your own"
or : "You can do this with your girlfriends
I don't want to do that".
Of course you need to say bye-bye to your life
and start to live his.
Cuz apparently who wants to do stuff that they like.
Mmm. No one.
Reason number 3.
He doesn't have any goal in this life.
He doesn't want to achieve something.
He's working on a low paid job or he
doesn't have job at all.
And he has no problem with that.
They're just chilling
Apparently that's what adult boys are doing nowadays.
You know what boy?
U can't be loved for just being cute and fluffy
that what dogs are for.
This place is taken.
4th reason.
He doesn't pay your a compliment.
He doesn't say how smart and cool you are
and how lucky he is to have you he's life.
No. He's just criticizing you.
He's calling you ugly, he is calling you fat,
he says that you're disgusting and then
and then how lucky you are that he looked at you
and that he let you to get into his life.
F!!k you!
You know what you should do with your opinion
Right it down on the list then swallow it
and the thing that will come out of you in a while
is what you're.
These guys have such a low self-esteem that it's below zero.
And to make themselves feel better
they want to get a nice girl
who looks great and you who's smart
and actually awesome!
apparently not to feel themselves lonely they're trying hard
to push yourself esteem at the same level.
He's dumb. He is ugly. He is disgusting.
And not you!
It's him who has problems!
You don't!
Please stop listen to such things.
And please go away from such guys.
I just.. I feel disgust even talking about them.
Reason number 5.
He's lying to you.
Lying about the small things. Lying about big things.
Lying about what he did, where he was.
He's just making up stories from nowhere.
And this is a great quality for movie writer or a book writer
but in real life no.
When you are in relationships you want to have someone
who will have your back. Who if he promises to do something
you definitely know that he will do that.
And if you want to hear a made-up story
you can get yourself a book or go and watch a movie!
Reason number six.
He doesn't talk to you about the future
and your relationships are not moving anywhere.
If you're a teenager then this is not about you.
you can go and enjoy your life kid.
But if you are an adult person you need growth
not only in a professional life but also in a personal life.
and if it's not moving, if you stuck in one place
then maybe it's a sign that u need to change something or someone.
Reason number seven.
He is manipulating you.
He is playing on your feelings.
U know the situations when you are trying to talk with the guy
about the things that are bothering you,
about your feelings, about the problems and something.
And he is saying stuff like:
"Am I not doing enough for you?
I'm working so hard for you to have this!
And you are such an ungrateful person.
You don't appreciate that!
None of the guys will be patient to all this stuff that you're saying."
This is awful! Don't listen to this stuff!
Please don't listen!
Try to stop him right there and say that
this conversation is not about how much he does for you.
This is the conversation about the stuff that's bothering you
And you know this is normal.
All people have their own issues and the relationships.
None of the relationships are perfect!
And saying things like am I not doing enough for you
am I'm not trying hard to make you happy.
Yeah you're. but it doesn't mean that we are not having any problems.
Cuz you know it's not it's not related to the stuff that you are doing.
It's related to the stuff that are going on between us.
And you should feel free to speak about this thing.
And the last reason. Reason number 8.
He hits you.
No it's not okay.
No it's not your fault.
No it's not like that in every relationships.
Yes it means that you have problems and you need to go
and see a psychologist if you think that this is fine.
How would you feel if someone will suddenly punch you in the face on the street
just because you were standing too close to them?
Will you think that they're right?
Probably not. You will think that they are crazy.
You know what? Your boyfriend is crazy.
He's not okay and the problem is not in you.
And if you are not listening to me right now
then please listen to this thing.
You need to get help a professional help.
You need to talk to some who will be able to explain to you
that you shouldn't be in such type of relationships.
You shouldn't stoically and patiently wait for this to be over.
Because it shouldn't even started.
And on this note I want to finish this video.
Thank you guys for sharing with me another awesome awesome day!
I hope you like this video I hope that you are in a good healthy relationships.
I hope that you're not going through all this nightmare
and if you are stuck in such type of relationships and
you feel that you are drowning and it's just like a nightmare for you.
I hope that you can find forces and get away from it.
And if you do and if this video could help you even just a little bit
or if you feel yourself kind of generous today
then please show it to me
by giving it a big thumbs up.
Leave your comments and tell me what other things
you think are not okay in the relationships
and tell me about other red signals that you think
are pointing to the fact that you need to
run away from this guy as fast as you can!
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