Hello. I'm back!
Okay.
Actually, I recently came across this article
about business, and there were some statistics about the chances of failure
and success in every startup. So what it really said was like, most of, like 90% of
the startup will eventually fail in the first five years,
and among those 10% that survived half of them will fail in the next ten years,
right. And those who are able to pass those 10 years; they're the one who will
be successful, and out of those successful people there
gonna be businesses that makes like millions in revenues, some making
thousands in revenues, right. But there are still gonna be successful and that
got me thinking about a very interesting topic. Mmmmm....
Something smells mmm, right? Okay.
And business itself is nothing more than a relationship between the seller and
the buyer, or the consumer and the maker or the developer.
Okay, now let's talk
about relationships.
Especially I think the relationship issue has become
pretty relevant in in the past few years, many people are expecting too much,
you know what I mean?
You look at Hollywood, with all the moral values being
challenged by the media right. Okay, I'll put it very simple; when was the last
time you watched music in top 40 billboard without women in lingerie?
Like she's ready to strip off?
That's very hard because everywhere you look,
everywhere you look, there are women in lingerie.
You take Ariana Grande or you know, Rihana, Beyonce...
Whatever the name is
don't really give a damn. Okay, and then, and on the other hand you look at the
mainstream movies like the one thing common is, well we've all watched Game of
Thrones so you know what I really mean, right?
And keeping that aside, and you look at the romanticism expectation of
some love story hits like maybe, for example,
The Notebook, Titanic and when you are
under the influence of all this exposure it tends to somehow wired into our brain
that love is supposed to be like this, love is supposed to be like that.
And I think that is very toxic and I'll tell you here's why; you look at the
American divorce rate and it's really high and I'm not joking. It's like if
this is high, if this is super high, the divorce rate in America is this much.
It even exceeds high and I don't know the word for that. And me, I'm an Indian, I'm
from North Eastern region of India, so when I look at the North Eastern states of India,
I don't know about the future but so far the divorce rate has
been quite low, like there are some exception few, but the divorce
rate has been quite low, regardless of which religion you follow, right, whether
you're a Christian, a Muslim, a Hindu, or you know, whatever religion you follow.
The divorce rate has been quite low, and when you look at the parents,
the current generation of parents in the northeastern region, and I'm not gonna
emphasize too much on the other part of the world because I don't really know
much about it, so I'm just gonna make this
case mainly regarding the North Eastern part of India.
And you look at the
parents and you know it's really rare, like you'll never find a parent showing
romantic love or anything in front of their children.
It's not that they don't love each other, but they really love each other, that's
why they didn't divorce, right. But those are the relationships that lasts we we
are we think that relationship is all about all those touchy touchy, kissy
Kissy, and texty texty stuff, but those are not real, you know what I mean, those
are just like the side dish. Not the main flavor of any
relationship or any marriage relationship that you go on with someone.
I think true relationships would be more about this trust; having a trust for
the other person, trusting that they are the one, and they are gonna be there for
you when you need them... Just trusting the other person, and that's how relationship
is built, and that's how a relationship lasts. And those Hollywood movies I'm
telling you, those Hollywood movies they only, they end the movie, when the hero
and the heroine or whatever, when they have that last big
kiss that's the end of the story. That's their happy ending, but in reality that kiss
itself is just a start. After that there's gonna be all these financial problems,
family problems, if you don't have money, you won't get money
by kissing each other the whole day! You have to work, right. Kissing doesn't
always work in reality, or all those romantic stuffs, you have to be practical.
So that's the whole point of relationships, that's my viewpoint, right. a lasting
relationship is not about the attraction, the chemistry, and all that. But it's more
or lessly about the trust, and from trust, the commitment is no longer a
prison sentence. When you have that strong trust in the other person
commitment won't be a prison sentence. That's what I really believe in. But commitment
will become something so beautiful in life, that it is going to be something
that makes you look forward to wake up on Monday, to go to the work, and that is
going to propel your life to a place you can never ever imagine.
And thank you very much, for watching the video and I'm gonna make a
lot more of this video, so please make sure to hit the Subscribe Button and
don't forget to HIT that NOTIFICATION BELL and thank you very much, and this is
Anthony. Bye-Bye, signing off... Love you.
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Archetypes in Kink: Concepts for Relationships - BDSM Basics #36 - Duration: 10:30.
so I recently sat down and read the big book of submission of volume 2 and one
of the themes within the book is that there are so many different ways to
submit so of course I got me thinking about all the different ways that one
can be dominant or submissive or a switch and so then of course I thought
of all of the different archetypes available within BDSM so today that's
what we're going to talk about
hi guys it's Morgan with BDSM relationships and education thank you
very much for checking out this video if you haven't done so already please don't
forget to subscribe to my channel you just have to click the button below and
don't forget to turn on the notification Bell and that way you'll know every time
I post a video I'm doing one video per week but I'm also trying to sneak in a
few little bonus videos so if you want to be able to catch those make sure that
you are subscribed and have your notifications turned on so like I said I
was reading this book and it really inspired this you know thinking about
archetypes know archetypes are something that I teach when I teach a class called
discovering dominance and so I wanted to share a little bit of that with you guys
now obviously in a classroom situation I have a lot more time and I can go into a
lot more detail but this is just to kind of get you thinking so I will throw it
out there that if you do want to check out any of my workshops you can check
out my website to see what my schedule is and if you want to read either any of
my books or the big book of submission then you can check out on my website I
have a little section books I love or books I recommend so you can check those
out and you'll find both my books and some of my favorite books by different
BDSM authors there so I want to talk about archetypes but first we have to
decide what is an archetype now there's a couple of different definitions for
the word and that really depends on the context in which it's used the context
that I'm using it is that it is a like an ideal a cultural ideal that can be
used within literature or art or even relationships and it is one of those
things that is so embarrassed that it becomes a symbol of those qualities so
an example of this is one of my personal favorite relationship styles which would
be the queen or a lady of lourdes and they're Knights so I had like this
particular relationship style because I like to obviously be in control in my
own early chips I am sort of the leader
I prefer that role it's more comfortable for me so within my relationship I lead
but I don't want somebody that is just going to blindly follow me and be
useless otherwise I want somebody who is you know powerful in their own right I
get a lot of joy out of knowing that I have power over somebody who is so
powerful themselves you will notice this for those of you who actually know me
and they probably would have noticed that I tend to date a lot of people that
are physically quite powerful I am partial to you know people that you know
are into weightlifting and powerlifting and all that kind of stuff
I'm also partial to people who play full-contact sports like rugby or MMA
all kinds of stuff like that so I do like the physically powerful and often
quite large folks for what I decide to date somebody I also try to make sure
that my partners all have skills and knowledge that I don't have because I
want to be able to get their input I want to be able to their feedback on
things and then I can make a decision so I don't want someone again who's just
going to blindly follow and I know that there are dominants out there who do
want someone who will simply be obedient and that's that and that's totally fine
you just have a different style of relationship you apply you subscribe to
a different archetype with in BDSM we can use these archetypes to express the
type of relationship we're looking for I think that they can also help people who
are struggling with in their own goals and who have a very sort of
stereotypical view of what BDSM is so I've seen this so many times with both
guys and and women who think that submissive men fit all fit a certain
mold where they are the sort of worthless worm type so they need to
enjoy humiliation they need to be less than they need
if you women as superior or you know whatever it is they need to you know be
I guess short and slight and have small penises and there's this whole list of
things that a man has to be in order to be submissive now I'm sure there's
people out there who would like all of those things but I you know that's not
what I'm into as you have seen when I shot videos with my boy he's he's way
bigger than me like seriously he's a foot taller and quite a bit heavier than
I am and you know he's quite powerful he works out at the gym all the time you
know like it's it's what I prefer but he certainly does not fit into that sort of
worthless worm stereotype of male submission so by talking about these
different archetypes we can help people see that there are different ways that
you can engage in a d/s relationship and I like that so another very very popular
archetype within BDSM is the Donny and baby girl archetype now this is a
completely different one than the the Queen and her Knight basically it is a
more sort of nurturing relationship where we look at okay well what is it
daddy a daddy is is nurturing and loving and he guides his submissive you know
there's there's all kinds of different qualities of a daddy that we all sort of
have in our minds and so when I say daddy baby girl you guys will get an
idea of a relationship style without me even having to explain it so that's
that's an archetype and that's why they are useful to us
the other great thing is that we can use these archetypes if we don't always have
the words to explain exactly what we want so I may have I struggle sometimes
explaining what I'm looking for in a partner but if I simply say I'm looking
for a knight because I you know that's who I'm who I'm I want I prefer to be
the the lady or the queen who is in charge and I need a knight by my side so
that gets a message across if I preferred a more nurturing relationship
I might express that that I met the John I'm just coming to join us
hey so the dog has come to join me I don't know if you can actually see him
in the bottom of the frame he's he's pretty tall and I'm not sure if it's
getting caught within this frame anyways if I was looking for a more nurturing
style of relationship that I could say I prefer to be a caregiver or mommy and
I'm looking for somebody that fits that role that complements mine so I'm going
to stop a couple of the different archetypes within VDS mmm relationships
and I'm curious to know which one is your favorite and what style of
relationship do you prefer so I've already mentioned the lady or the Queen
and her knight and of course that can work as a lord and his knight as well
the daddy and baby girl and of course we can swap the genders there and simply
have like a parental figure and a baby figure or a young figure you can also
have the lady or the Lord and the servant or Butler the handmaiden because
that is a different style from the lady and Knight archetype but it's somewhat
similar in that both of the dominant roles are similar but the submissive
roles are different there's of course the captain and first mate
the teacher and the students you know a jailer and their prisoner a
disciplinarian and the miscreants the priest and the priestess and the
Pentiums the god or the goddess and their
worshiper so of course you can pick you don't have to pick just one you can pick
multiple if there's different styles that sort of combine or you can create
your own like I said these are just a few of the common ones that I've found
so what are your preferred archetypes for relationships please leave me
you know answers in the comments if you'd like to join in on the
conversation oh I also wanted to throw in for those
of you who are big philosophy geeks like me another way of looking at these
archetypes is by thinking of Plato's allegory
I'm sorry not the allegory of the gate the cave but the idea of the forms and I
mean those two things are linked but think about the theory of the forms and
that is the idea that we have these pure forms if I say table we all have
something in our mind that says table that is the form of a table it is the
purest version of a table and it's something that exists in our minds I'm
not in the real world and so we are kind of going like the same type of thing
with these archetypes it is that ideal of a relationship that is universal that
we all understand they're also quite popular with certain branches of
psychology Jung really liked the idea of personality archetypes so that's another
thing that you can you know take a look at if it's something that interests you
anyways guys I'm gonna leave it there I just kind of wanted to get you thinking
a little bit about the styles of relationships that you are interested in
anyways thank you so much for checking out this video I'm gonna try not to trip
over the dog getting back to the camera and have a good one
I'll see you in the next video
you
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Many of the couples that come to me for help describe the same situation.
Often they describe fighting over one or two of the same hot topics repeatedly,
never being able to resolve the issue. No matter what they've tried, whether it's
counselling, reading self-help books, or improving their communication skills,
it seems like nothing really helps them get to the root of the problem and fix it.
What I've noticed is that unresolved emotional pain from our past is really
the culprit. Oftentimes our spouse, through their behaviours, you know the
things they say and do, will often trigger our pain and whenever we're
triggered, it makes communicating effectively almost impossible. My name is
Joyce Schafers and I am a Life Skills Coach and I specialize in relationship
counselling. I work with couples here in my coaching practice in st. Albert,
Alberta and in six sessions I help them understand why their relationship has
broken down and I teach them how to fix it. I'm also super proud to offer my new
self-study course called Getting to the Root of the Problem in your Relationship.
It was built on years and years of research and all of the powerful
strategies, concepts and exercises that I use in person when I'm working
with my couples have been implemented into this course. Unless you're actively
addressing that emotional pain, the chances of those hot topics getting
resolved are pretty slim. If you'd like to learn more about me and why my
approach is so effective or maybe you want to check out my self-study course,
just visit my site. You can read more about all of that there. Also if you have
any questions please don't hesitate to send them. I'd love to hear from you and
answer whatever questions you may have. Thanks for listening
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Hey, friends. Are you and your spouse speaking the same love language?
Today on the video, I want to talk about the five love languages and how you can
use these languages to make your love life with your partner better.
The five love languages comes from a book that I have actually read a few times, and
it is The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. Gary Chapman explains that
there are five love languages that we can use. One is words of affirmation,
the other is quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service,
and physical touch. So, let me break this down just a little bit
for those of you who have never heard of the book. Gary Chapman talks about our
love languages, and what he means by love language is, as an example,
my primary love language is words of affirmation. Now, that's how I best
receive love. So when someone affirms me verbally, that really makes me feel good.
But that might not necessarily be the way that my husband receives love the most.
So, as an example, let's say that my husband's primary love language is gifts.
So he feels really, really loved when I get him a little gift, a big gift.
So, for him, if he gives me a gift, he's thinking that, "She's going
to love this. This is going to be great," because, again, that's his primary
love language. If he gives me a gift, I'm going to appreciate it, of course,
but he's not necessarily, "Speaking my language." He's not giving me the words
of affirmation, which is what really gets to my core. The whole premise of the book
that Gary Chapman is explaining what the love languages are and why they're
important. Because if we're not communicating in the same way,
then we're kind of misfiring. It's nice, but it's not as wonderful and amazing
as it could be. So, let's look into the first one, it's words of affirmation.
That's probably pretty obvious, but it would be along the lines of like,
"Hey, the house looks really great. You did a really great job cleaning up,"
or "Hey, you look amazing for our date tonight. Gosh, you look really
pretty," or, "You look really nice today." Just little things where you're affirming
the person for who they are. So, that's mine, and it can be affirming
for big things that I've done or just something as simple as,
"Thanks for throwing my laundry in the dryer." Number two is quality time.
Quality time, again, probably pretty obvious,
but you're feeling loved the most when your special person sets aside time just
for you, no phone, no TV, no computer, nothing. You're just having quality
one-on-one time, you know, eye contact, the whole bit, with your partner.
And the no phone thing, that's a big one. I don't think that we realize how much
we're on our phones. So, quality time is number two.
So, number three is receiving gifts. Again, pretty obvious.
It doesn't have to be extravagant. It can be something as simple as a rose
from the gas station, or your favorite gum, or, "Hey,
I picked you up the kind of tea that you like." Or it could be extravagant,
it doesn't really matter. The point is that this person was thinking
about you while they were out doing their thing and they saw this and they thought,
"Oh, she would really like that." And it's just that I was being thought
of while you were out living your life and then you brought me this thing. Okay, so,
number four, acts of service. I'm thinking there's probably a lot
of moms out there that are like, "Oh, me. This is mine. Acts of service.
Clean the house." No, but for real, though, acts of service are for those
people who the way that they receive love best is when their partner makes a
sacrifice and does something for them. So, as an example, I hate taking
out the trash. If my primary love language was acts of service,
if my husband were to commit himself to taking out the trash all the time, every
single day or whatever, and I never had to touch the trash, that would be a sacrifice
for him because I don't really know anybody that likes taking the trash out.
But for me, this is an act of service that he's doing for me that makes me feel
really loved because he's taking care of this thing that I hate.
So, acts of service is number four. And the last one, number five,
physical touch. So, meanwhile, all the husbands are like, "Me, me."
And that is true. Physical touch is a really important part of any marriage.
But the one thing that Gary Chapman talks about in this book is a lot of husbands
might mistake physical intimacy for, you know...that's their primary love
language because they really like the intimate part of the marriage.
That's true, not to negate that. However, the physical touch thing is more than just
the intimacy. It's, like, when my husband comes up behind me and
pats my back, or rubs my shoulder, or pats my bum, just something non-sexual.
When he holds my hand when we're out, or when we're watching a movie, if he,
instead of sitting on his comfy chair, if he comes over and sits next to me.
So, it's the physical touch in a non-sexual way that reminds me that,
you know, "I'm thinking of you, I love you." Play with my hair massage my
shoulders, whatever. Physical touch that is non-sexual.
And that's the fifth one. Those are the five love languages that
Gary Chapman teaches about. So, if you haven't read the book or if you
haven't heard of it, I would strongly encourage you
to check it out because it really does make a difference when you and your
partner can get on the same page as far as speaking each other's love languages or
even just learning your partner's love language. So, for those of you who
are readers, you can get Dr. Chapman's book on Amazon.
You can do hardcover, you can also do Kindle.
And for those of you who are not readers or you don't really have time to read
a book, mothers with kids, you can actually go to his website and
it's a free resource. You can just take a little quiz on your
phone or on your computer that will tell you what your primary love language is.
And then, sometimes, you'll notice that there is a secondary
love language that comes in just right on the tail, which is kind of also nice
to know. Anyway, you can go to his website and check that out, and you can have your
partner do the same. It will give you a nice little blurb
about your love language and what that means, and then you and your partner can
email each other your results. I would just encourage you to check it
out because once you and your partner are able to get on the same track as far
as each other's love languages, it's a lot easier to really fill up that,
"Love tank," as Gary Chapman would say, and make them feel really loved and
really special. And it's actually not really that hard once you understand the
way they receive love best. I hope you enjoyed the video today.
If you do, I would love it if you would click Like. Or if you have a friend that
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do you or someone you know keep getting into bad relationship after bad
relationship after bad relationship well this might be the cause of a broken
picker what's a broken picker stay tuned and
find out all right everybody we're on the hunt for the elusive toxic
relationship and we find one out in the wild oh oh level 200 let's see if we can
get it come on come on all right let's try this all right we failed okay let's
try to catch up come on toxic relationship I pick you okay all right
let's give this alright one more try one more try
what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and this is a video I've been waiting so so
so long to do alright but anyways you might have a friend or you might be that
friend who keeps getting into all these bad relationships like it's not easier
for us to kind of judge other people what they're doing it's a lot harder to
look at ourselves or what we're doing so let's pretend we're talking about your
friend right that friend who keeps dating the same type of guy over and
over and over again and her heart keeps getting broken or your boy who keeps
meeting women at the club or at the bar and then he's like I don't get why she
cheated on me well I used to be that guy I used to
date just terrible women just terrible over and over and over again and every
single time they would just take my heart out of my chest and just dance on
top of it and every single time this happened I would curl up into a ball and
I would just have the biggest pity party and I would just go why me a good girl
to date me right and I just kept doing this same pattern over and over and over
again so it wasn't made clear to me until I
started working on my mental health and I was trying to become a better person I
was trying to eliminate as much stress and anxiety and depression out of my
life when somebody told me they liked Chris I think you got a broken picker
I'm like what the heck are you talking about and the way I pick people okay the
way I choose people is inherently flawed I pick the wrong people over and over
and over again it's the same candy it's just a different wrapper and until I
could realize that I was destined to be in terrible relationships for the rest
of my life but once I was able to take a step back and realize that my type
wasn't exactly the best type for me and I was gonna
keep running into these same situations I was gonna live a terrible life with
terrible relationships so this is a brand new series that I'm starting
called the broken picker because I am here to help you or maybe somebody you
know who might have a broken picker the more you can start being mindful of the
different things that you keep doing and the different relationships that you get
into then you can step back and start having a choice of which relationships
you decide to pursue and which ones you don't alright so this is a brand new
series I'm excited to get it started so what I want all of you to do okay first
off share with your friends all of your friends who get into terrible
relationships explain to them what a broken picker is alright and the second
thing I need you to do is start to fill up the comment section down below with
different relationship problems okay I have a ton of stuff planned out alright
but I need more topics from you I can only help you if I know what you're
struggling with with what you're going through okay so help me help you
alright and we'll get that broken picker fixed right up okay but anyways if you
like this video please give it a thumbs up and if you are new here make sure you
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