Hello. I'm back!
Okay.
Actually, I recently came across this article
about business, and there were some statistics about the chances of failure
and success in every startup. So what it really said was like, most of, like 90% of
the startup will eventually fail in the first five years,
and among those 10% that survived half of them will fail in the next ten years,
right. And those who are able to pass those 10 years; they're the one who will
be successful, and out of those successful people there
gonna be businesses that makes like millions in revenues, some making
thousands in revenues, right. But there are still gonna be successful and that
got me thinking about a very interesting topic. Mmmmm....
Something smells mmm, right? Okay.
And business itself is nothing more than a relationship between the seller and
the buyer, or the consumer and the maker or the developer.
Okay, now let's talk
about relationships.
Especially I think the relationship issue has become
pretty relevant in in the past few years, many people are expecting too much,
you know what I mean?
You look at Hollywood, with all the moral values being
challenged by the media right. Okay, I'll put it very simple; when was the last
time you watched music in top 40 billboard without women in lingerie?
Like she's ready to strip off?
That's very hard because everywhere you look,
everywhere you look, there are women in lingerie.
You take Ariana Grande or you know, Rihana, Beyonce...
Whatever the name is
don't really give a damn. Okay, and then, and on the other hand you look at the
mainstream movies like the one thing common is, well we've all watched Game of
Thrones so you know what I really mean, right?
And keeping that aside, and you look at the romanticism expectation of
some love story hits like maybe, for example,
The Notebook, Titanic and when you are
under the influence of all this exposure it tends to somehow wired into our brain
that love is supposed to be like this, love is supposed to be like that.
And I think that is very toxic and I'll tell you here's why; you look at the
American divorce rate and it's really high and I'm not joking. It's like if
this is high, if this is super high, the divorce rate in America is this much.
It even exceeds high and I don't know the word for that. And me, I'm an Indian, I'm
from North Eastern region of India, so when I look at the North Eastern states of India,
I don't know about the future but so far the divorce rate has
been quite low, like there are some exception few, but the divorce
rate has been quite low, regardless of which religion you follow, right, whether
you're a Christian, a Muslim, a Hindu, or you know, whatever religion you follow.
The divorce rate has been quite low, and when you look at the parents,
the current generation of parents in the northeastern region, and I'm not gonna
emphasize too much on the other part of the world because I don't really know
much about it, so I'm just gonna make this
case mainly regarding the North Eastern part of India.
And you look at the
parents and you know it's really rare, like you'll never find a parent showing
romantic love or anything in front of their children.
It's not that they don't love each other, but they really love each other, that's
why they didn't divorce, right. But those are the relationships that lasts we we
are we think that relationship is all about all those touchy touchy, kissy
Kissy, and texty texty stuff, but those are not real, you know what I mean, those
are just like the side dish. Not the main flavor of any
relationship or any marriage relationship that you go on with someone.
I think true relationships would be more about this trust; having a trust for
the other person, trusting that they are the one, and they are gonna be there for
you when you need them... Just trusting the other person, and that's how relationship
is built, and that's how a relationship lasts. And those Hollywood movies I'm
telling you, those Hollywood movies they only, they end the movie, when the hero
and the heroine or whatever, when they have that last big
kiss that's the end of the story. That's their happy ending, but in reality that kiss
itself is just a start. After that there's gonna be all these financial problems,
family problems, if you don't have money, you won't get money
by kissing each other the whole day! You have to work, right. Kissing doesn't
always work in reality, or all those romantic stuffs, you have to be practical.
So that's the whole point of relationships, that's my viewpoint, right. a lasting
relationship is not about the attraction, the chemistry, and all that. But it's more
or lessly about the trust, and from trust, the commitment is no longer a
prison sentence. When you have that strong trust in the other person
commitment won't be a prison sentence. That's what I really believe in. But commitment
will become something so beautiful in life, that it is going to be something
that makes you look forward to wake up on Monday, to go to the work, and that is
going to propel your life to a place you can never ever imagine.
And thank you very much, for watching the video and I'm gonna make a
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Anthony. Bye-Bye, signing off... Love you.
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Parents and teachers really need to work together to ensure that
students have the best outcomes that they can have in life.
What's really interesting is that if you step back and think about it,
parents and teachers both want the same thing.
We want all students to be as successful as they can,
and when parents can advocate for systems that allow teachers
to really personalize learning and give students options,
and when teachers can be receptive to parents to learn about kids,
what drives them, what their passions are,
then i think we're going to be in a much better place as a society.
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The Five Love Languages | Improving Communication in Relationships - Duration: 7:25.
Hey, friends. Are you and your spouse speaking the same love language?
Today on the video, I want to talk about the five love languages and how you can
use these languages to make your love life with your partner better.
The five love languages comes from a book that I have actually read a few times, and
it is The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. Gary Chapman explains that
there are five love languages that we can use. One is words of affirmation,
the other is quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service,
and physical touch. So, let me break this down just a little bit
for those of you who have never heard of the book. Gary Chapman talks about our
love languages, and what he means by love language is, as an example,
my primary love language is words of affirmation. Now, that's how I best
receive love. So when someone affirms me verbally, that really makes me feel good.
But that might not necessarily be the way that my husband receives love the most.
So, as an example, let's say that my husband's primary love language is gifts.
So he feels really, really loved when I get him a little gift, a big gift.
So, for him, if he gives me a gift, he's thinking that, "She's going
to love this. This is going to be great," because, again, that's his primary
love language. If he gives me a gift, I'm going to appreciate it, of course,
but he's not necessarily, "Speaking my language." He's not giving me the words
of affirmation, which is what really gets to my core. The whole premise of the book
that Gary Chapman is explaining what the love languages are and why they're
important. Because if we're not communicating in the same way,
then we're kind of misfiring. It's nice, but it's not as wonderful and amazing
as it could be. So, let's look into the first one, it's words of affirmation.
That's probably pretty obvious, but it would be along the lines of like,
"Hey, the house looks really great. You did a really great job cleaning up,"
or "Hey, you look amazing for our date tonight. Gosh, you look really
pretty," or, "You look really nice today." Just little things where you're affirming
the person for who they are. So, that's mine, and it can be affirming
for big things that I've done or just something as simple as,
"Thanks for throwing my laundry in the dryer." Number two is quality time.
Quality time, again, probably pretty obvious,
but you're feeling loved the most when your special person sets aside time just
for you, no phone, no TV, no computer, nothing. You're just having quality
one-on-one time, you know, eye contact, the whole bit, with your partner.
And the no phone thing, that's a big one. I don't think that we realize how much
we're on our phones. So, quality time is number two.
So, number three is receiving gifts. Again, pretty obvious.
It doesn't have to be extravagant. It can be something as simple as a rose
from the gas station, or your favorite gum, or, "Hey,
I picked you up the kind of tea that you like." Or it could be extravagant,
it doesn't really matter. The point is that this person was thinking
about you while they were out doing their thing and they saw this and they thought,
"Oh, she would really like that." And it's just that I was being thought
of while you were out living your life and then you brought me this thing. Okay, so,
number four, acts of service. I'm thinking there's probably a lot
of moms out there that are like, "Oh, me. This is mine. Acts of service.
Clean the house." No, but for real, though, acts of service are for those
people who the way that they receive love best is when their partner makes a
sacrifice and does something for them. So, as an example, I hate taking
out the trash. If my primary love language was acts of service,
if my husband were to commit himself to taking out the trash all the time, every
single day or whatever, and I never had to touch the trash, that would be a sacrifice
for him because I don't really know anybody that likes taking the trash out.
But for me, this is an act of service that he's doing for me that makes me feel
really loved because he's taking care of this thing that I hate.
So, acts of service is number four. And the last one, number five,
physical touch. So, meanwhile, all the husbands are like, "Me, me."
And that is true. Physical touch is a really important part of any marriage.
But the one thing that Gary Chapman talks about in this book is a lot of husbands
might mistake physical intimacy for, you know...that's their primary love
language because they really like the intimate part of the marriage.
That's true, not to negate that. However, the physical touch thing is more than just
the intimacy. It's, like, when my husband comes up behind me and
pats my back, or rubs my shoulder, or pats my bum, just something non-sexual.
When he holds my hand when we're out, or when we're watching a movie, if he,
instead of sitting on his comfy chair, if he comes over and sits next to me.
So, it's the physical touch in a non-sexual way that reminds me that,
you know, "I'm thinking of you, I love you." Play with my hair massage my
shoulders, whatever. Physical touch that is non-sexual.
And that's the fifth one. Those are the five love languages that
Gary Chapman teaches about. So, if you haven't read the book or if you
haven't heard of it, I would strongly encourage you
to check it out because it really does make a difference when you and your
partner can get on the same page as far as speaking each other's love languages or
even just learning your partner's love language. So, for those of you who
are readers, you can get Dr. Chapman's book on Amazon.
You can do hardcover, you can also do Kindle.
And for those of you who are not readers or you don't really have time to read
a book, mothers with kids, you can actually go to his website and
it's a free resource. You can just take a little quiz on your
phone or on your computer that will tell you what your primary love language is.
And then, sometimes, you'll notice that there is a secondary
love language that comes in just right on the tail, which is kind of also nice
to know. Anyway, you can go to his website and check that out, and you can have your
partner do the same. It will give you a nice little blurb
about your love language and what that means, and then you and your partner can
email each other your results. I would just encourage you to check it
out because once you and your partner are able to get on the same track as far
as each other's love languages, it's a lot easier to really fill up that,
"Love tank," as Gary Chapman would say, and make them feel really loved and
really special. And it's actually not really that hard once you understand the
way they receive love best. I hope you enjoyed the video today.
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The Broken Picker Relationship Series - Duration: 4:15.
do you or someone you know keep getting into bad relationship after bad
relationship after bad relationship well this might be the cause of a broken
picker what's a broken picker stay tuned and
find out all right everybody we're on the hunt for the elusive toxic
relationship and we find one out in the wild oh oh level 200 let's see if we can
get it come on come on all right let's try this all right we failed okay let's
try to catch up come on toxic relationship I pick you okay all right
let's give this alright one more try one more try
what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and this is a video I've been waiting so so
so long to do alright but anyways you might have a friend or you might be that
friend who keeps getting into all these bad relationships like it's not easier
for us to kind of judge other people what they're doing it's a lot harder to
look at ourselves or what we're doing so let's pretend we're talking about your
friend right that friend who keeps dating the same type of guy over and
over and over again and her heart keeps getting broken or your boy who keeps
meeting women at the club or at the bar and then he's like I don't get why she
cheated on me well I used to be that guy I used to
date just terrible women just terrible over and over and over again and every
single time they would just take my heart out of my chest and just dance on
top of it and every single time this happened I would curl up into a ball and
I would just have the biggest pity party and I would just go why me a good girl
to date me right and I just kept doing this same pattern over and over and over
again so it wasn't made clear to me until I
started working on my mental health and I was trying to become a better person I
was trying to eliminate as much stress and anxiety and depression out of my
life when somebody told me they liked Chris I think you got a broken picker
I'm like what the heck are you talking about and the way I pick people okay the
way I choose people is inherently flawed I pick the wrong people over and over
and over again it's the same candy it's just a different wrapper and until I
could realize that I was destined to be in terrible relationships for the rest
of my life but once I was able to take a step back and realize that my type
wasn't exactly the best type for me and I was gonna
keep running into these same situations I was gonna live a terrible life with
terrible relationships so this is a brand new series that I'm starting
called the broken picker because I am here to help you or maybe somebody you
know who might have a broken picker the more you can start being mindful of the
different things that you keep doing and the different relationships that you get
into then you can step back and start having a choice of which relationships
you decide to pursue and which ones you don't alright so this is a brand new
series I'm excited to get it started so what I want all of you to do okay first
off share with your friends all of your friends who get into terrible
relationships explain to them what a broken picker is alright and the second
thing I need you to do is start to fill up the comment section down below with
different relationship problems okay I have a ton of stuff planned out alright
but I need more topics from you I can only help you if I know what you're
struggling with with what you're going through okay so help me help you
alright and we'll get that broken picker fixed right up okay but anyways if you
like this video please give it a thumbs up and if you are new here make sure you
click the little brown subscribe button I'm always making videos to help you out
with your mental and emotional health and over to the left of me you can click
the attack on one of those thumbnails right there check out some other videos
on this channel thanks for watching I'll see you next time
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