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5 Common Relationship Killers - Duration: 8:01.
Relationships are great, there's no denying that.
One thing I hear from women often though, is that they don't understand what they've
done wrong once their love life runs dry and they find themselves single again.
Well, believe it or not, there are some very common mistakes women make that kill relationships,
and in this video I'm going to share with you the five biggest ones.
Before I do, I want to take a moment to introduce myself.
My name is Amy North, I'm a relationship expert and woman's dating coach.
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Now, let's talk relationship killers.
1.
Being Clingy
If your entire day revolves around your man, whether it's texting him insistently, checking
up on his social media, or calling to share what you ate for lunch, then we have a problem.
Expecting your man to communicate with you constantly, to always be by your side, or
to rearrange his life to suit your needs are clear signs of clinginess.
That said, sometimes clingy behaviour isn't as obvious, and instead takes the form of
being emotionally needy.
When this happens, women find themselves upset when their guy doesn't involve them in all
of their plans, or they need daily reassurance and he still likes her or finds her attractive.
This kind of desperation is far from attractive, and it doesn't take long for men to grow
sick and tired of it.
The number one reason why men fear commitment and getting into relationships is because
they don't want to lose their freedom.
This is why when you act clingy, it doesn't take long for him to find the door.
Often times this sort of behaviour starts off as mildly and can easily be overlooked.
Like wildfire though, it can quickly evolve into something much bigger and when that happens,
more often than not the relationship goes up in flames.
Instead of letting your emotions get the best of you it's important that you learn how
to be your own person.
This means having your own interests and activities outside of the relationship.
To do so, keep busy with your friends, pick up a new hobby, or take a class you've always
been interested in.
Focusing on other areas of your life will not only keep your head clear and attitude
positive, but it will also give your guy a chance to miss you when you're not around
– this is one of the best ways to keep the spark alive between the two of you, but it's
not possible when you act clingy.
2.
Acting Insecure
Hand in hand with being clingy, is acting insecurely.
Allow me to explain how this happens, and why it's so unattractive.
Think for a moment about the early days of a relationship.
You probably feel like a million bucks around your man, and the buzz you shared was infectious.
Over time though, you may start to feel those initial butterflies fade, and when they do,
it's not uncommon for feelings of doubt to come creeping in.
If this happens you might find yourself over analyzing or looking for small changes or
reasons why you think your man is losing interest in you and the relationship.
Unfortunately, this is a vicious circle situation, because if you're bugging him about these
things, then he's bound to get bored of your insecurities and leave.
Overcoming insecure feelings can be tough, but the first step to doing so is recognizing
these tendencies in yourself.
In fact, you may even think the questions you ask about his female co-workers or comments
you make about his dating history are justified, but to him, they're much heavier and scream
insecure.
Of course you'll have days when you feel less than awesome, we all do, but when those
insecure feelings come creeping in it's important that you keep them under wraps and
don't unleash them on your man.
A good tip for getting into a positive, confident headspace is to make a point to stop focusing
on the past or the future, and instead learn to enjoy the moment.
And instead of looking for reasons why you man wouldn't want to be with you, tell yourself
that ANY guy would be lucky to have you.
For some awesome tips that will help boost your confidence and keep you radiating with
positivity check out the free video on my site.
The URL is www.coachnorth.com, and I'll post it in the description below, too.
3.
Acting Abusively
Some people believe that it's okay to take out their daily frustrations on their partner,
but that couldn't be farther from the truth.
Sure, you might get upset with your guy from time to time, but there is never a good reason
or excuse to verbally, emotionally, or physically abuse him.
This kind of behaviour is a guaranteed relationship killer.
Now you may be thinking, "I'd never do that!" and believe me, that's what most
women say.
What so many of them fail to realize though is that their words do more damage than they
think, so what to them is simply venting, is actually belittling and harmful to their
man.
To complicate the situation even further, most times guys won't show that what you've
said has upset him, and instead they choose to bottle it up.
Since we all like being around people who make us feel good, if you're doing the opposite
and constantly putting your man down, calling him names or criticising him then you're
going to be the last woman on earth he's going to want to be with.
To prevent this from happening think before you speak and keep your words kind.
4.
Control Issues
If you're constantly calling the shots, telling your man how to act, or trying to
"fix him," then he's going to make a run for it.
If he feels he has to compete to get his voice heard or like he has no control over the relationship,
it's only a matter of time until he calls it quits.
Since relationships are about two different people coming together to create something
special together, if only one of you is laying down the law then the relationship will become
a ticking time bomb.
The scary thing with control issues is that they aren't always obvious.
In fact, you may be controlling without even realizing it, or mistaken these tendencies
as "winning because he cares about you."
It sounds dumb, but something as simple as being the one who chooses what shows you watch,
or what you eat for dinner on a regular basis all stems back to control issues.
To avoid this be sure that you're asking for his input and taking his preferences into
consideration.
Even if the two of you barely agree on anything, relationships are about give and take, so
be sure you're playing a role in both parts of that.
It can be tough to change a behaviour that's become such a strong part of your personality,
so if you notice a controlling tendency in yourself then talk to your guy about it.
Openly admit that you realize you have a habit of being power hungry and tell him that you
want to work on it.
Letting him know that you recognize this behaviour is the first step to overcoming it, plus who
knows, talking about it sooner than later may be the saving grace that prevents him
from leaving you.
5.
Cheating
Everyone has a different idea for what constitutes as cheating, so right from the beginning of
your relationship – or now if you haven't already done so – it's important that
the two of you set some boundaries and establish what constitutes as cheating.
This may sound unnecessary, but you'd be surprised by what some people consider it
to be, and to prevent this kind of heartache, you have to first know.
Since cheating is the ultimate betrayal it can be hard to bounce back once a partner
has been unfaithful.
To avoid this situation completely, make a point to be completely transparent with your
man, and let him know about the uncomfortable situations you may find yourself in.
for instance, let's say you were out with the girls and a handsome stranger tried to
put the moves on you.
As much as your man may not want to hear about other guys coming onto you, hearing it from
you is so much better than hearing it from someone else he knows who may have witnessed
it go down.
Lastly, remember that double standards don't exist in a healthy relationship, so if you're
behaving one way and have different expectations for your man then the relationship is going
to crumble.
Instead make a point to be fair and treat him and the relationship the same way as you'd
like him to.
At the end of the day men want to be with the kind of woman who brings something positive
to his life, not one who sucks the life out of him.
If you're acting like a leech, putting him down, trying to call all the shots, or sneaking
around behind his back then you're going to lose him.
To prevent this, and for a complete guide on how to be any man's dream woman, grab
a copy of my latest free PDF.
You can find it at www.coachnorth.com/free!
Well, that's all for this video, thanks so much for watching.
I really hope that you found this one helpful, and that you keep these pointers in mind with
your own relationship.
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Until next time, good luck and take care!
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4 Proven Ways to Strengthen Relationships - Duration: 4:49.
or proven ways to strengthen relationships when it comes to
relationships no one is really an expert everyone has lacking points which often
starts so little and with time could cost much more than just the separation
it can lead to a complete loss of the relationship siblings may end up
fighting with each other families torn apart co-workers against each other and
even elderly couples ending up in divorce or worse here are four ways to
strengthen relationships before take care of yourself first relationships are
not easy and anyone who has tasted one can tell whatever happens in
relationships is a mirror of everything about us have you imagined anytime will
have bad and stressful days our relationships seem to be more difficult
our relationships suffer when we are not happy with ourselves and we can feel it
we feel the lacking the difficulties but the one thing we really do not take into
consideration is that we are the cause of the relationships shortcomings have
you ever seen yourself in a fight only to wonder later what you really were up
against have you sometimes felt disappointed of your expectations when
they were not met by people you expected I really hope this post helps you
overcome all that everyone has needs and your instincts should be your perfect
guide whatever needs to be done for someone else and if your instincts tell
you to make yourself happy first please do so everyone has needs and everyone
can make sacrifices but our happiness should be first this does not mean you
do not make some sacrifices but sometimes it's best to make yourself
happy first before you can make others happy 3 distance should not be a barrier
if the vehicle cannot take the messenger it could at least take the message this
beautifully aged proverb implies that the message is more important than the
sender the greatest relationship mistakes made
time is the belief that only showers of gifts and being together I what sustains
relationships well this has been proven wrong a beautiful message to a loved one
like inspiring love message on that profile can break any distance barrier
little things matters and this is one thing people often neglect however the
distance people feel special knowing they are remembered knowing someone
somewhere is thinking about them to remember seasonal celebrations many
seasons of a year bring holidays periods for families friends and loved ones to
come together and have a wonderful time keeping these moments memorable must be
your focus birthdays weddings marriage anniversaries and all a great feast
among the numerous feasts celebrated every year Christmas is a perfect time
to reach out to families and friends to have a Merry filled moments that make up
for the times of separation to exchange gifts and inspiring messages with those
we sincerely care about if we cannot be together with those we love in these
special seasons Christmas messages should not be beyond I reached to if
keeping our relationships with people especially those we hold most dear
matters much to us these seasons should be kept in our minds remembering seasons
and sharing happy moments is one of the proven ways to keep our relationships
with loved ones one take the responsibility most times it is very
easy to find something wrong with a relationship when we are unhappy blaming
other people for our own feelings we expect them to come up with solutions
for the problems and we give them total control over the relationship well
expecting a solution from this kind of situation is simply expecting something
that will never come because you have not actually found the cause of the
problem before blaming someone else for what do you feel or for something you or
they should have done earlier the best solution is to look deeper into the
problem to see if there is something you could have done to salvage the situation
so that could have prevented the problem
taking responsibilities for problems gives us the creative power for their
solutions but if we blame someone else we should not be surprised if they do
not do anything to find a solution and the problem becomes even worse thanks
for watching subscribe for more videos
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Jonghyun's relationship with a beautiful actress - AMAZING NEWS - Duration: 1:50.
In October 2010, Jonghyun's dating photos with actress Shin Se Kyung were published by the media.
Right after this piece of news appeared, it was strongly objected by a lot of people.
Especially, a majority of Jonghyun's fans left negative comments on Shin Se Kyung's mini hompy and asked her to break up with him.
This relationship finally came to an end due to their busy schedules.
Since then, Jonghyun had no more love scandals.
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