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What INTJs Want In a Relationship?

Look at hese 11 things

INTJs are generally introverted (they prefer to be alone most of the time), intuiting (they

tend to focus on thoughts and ideas rather than facts and experiences), thinking (they

tend to be more logical rather than emotional), and judging (they tend to be organized and

goal oriented)

Being in a relationship with an INTJ can be a challenging puzzle everyone want to solve.

At first, it is really interesting as people want to discover more and more about INTJs,

but as time goes, the understanding between both personalities will be the key to determine

where the relationship is going to.

For that reasons, here are some serious things you should know if you are close or even dating

an INFJ personality type.

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#1 - INTJs need a lot of encouragement to make the first move

INTJs often get stucks on their own heads, often times they don't have enough courage

to tell you their feelings.

So, if you want to convey that you like an INTJ, you may have to just come out and say

it

#2 - They are planning something obsessively

In most cases, INTJs are planning everything obsessively.

When you invite them to hang out Saturday, you may not realize that they are busy planning

up their Monday through Friday just to reserve Saturday for you.

If you then suddenly decide on Wednesday night that Friday is actually better, then you are

out of luck and make things complicated.

#3 - They hate if you are illogical

INTJs are a logical creature, so if you suddenly become illogical, they tend to be viscerally

angry to you.

It doesn't make something right even if you feel something, they'd rather you say something

hurtful but true than something that makes no sense whatsoever.

#4 - INTJs are Fiercely Loyal.

To INTJs, honesty is practical not just ethical so they really put their best efforts to be

a faithful person when it comes to relationship.

They certainly don't honor dishonesty and it can lead to cannot being trusted or predicted.

#5 - INTJs Want You To Be More Blunt

For some people, honesty that INTJs personality type have can sometimes rub others the wrong

way.

But to make your relationship work with INTJs, you shouldn't be offended by it.

Instead, you should learn doing the same thing by being more blunt.

#6 - INTJs Want You To Succeed

When INTJs are in relationship, they care and support their partners.

They even practically help their partners to reach the goals.

So, it is actually something to be proud of when you actually are in relationship with

any of them.

#7 - INTJs feel far more than they express.

INTJs are not the type that will express everything outside, they may unintentionally make you

think that you're not so important to them, but whenever you start to doubt about their

interest, open up about your own feelings, have a nice conversation and you will find

them more caring than you realize.

#8 - INTJs Need Time Alone, A Lot

Compared to other personality types, INTJs are unique when it comes to needing a time

alone because they need a lot of it.

They love being alone without any distractions.

And don't worry, while being away from you, they never think of cheating you.

#9 - INTJs Are Hard to Shop For

INTJs are not people who like random gifts.

They prefer receiving something they really want even though it is cheaper when it comes

to price.

So, always ask before buying them a gift.

#10 - INTJs Think about Their Feelings

You're wrong if you think INTJs as robots because they do have powerful and deep emotions

they think of.

Only, INTJs prefer to not showing their feelings and keeping it private instead.

So, it's only normal if sometimes they look like introverts.

#11 - INTJs Only Argue Not Upset

What INTJs actually do when arguing is testing the ideas not expressing anger or making a

point.

So, every time they argue, they never do it with lack of respect.

Instead, they actually want to help constructing ideas.

Well, those are the things intjs wish their friends and loved ones knew about them.

So, Really cool information isn't it?

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How To Build Good Relationships At Work - Duration: 8:29.

Okay, welcome back to the Six Figure Mastermind. Marianne DeNovellis here

with you today. I am excited to have this conversation with you. We're going to talk

relationships but not just customer versus employee or client. This is at

work relationships. We're going to dive deep into it and see why they're so important

so stay tuned.

So I've got seven tips for you today on how to build better relationships at

work. Whether you're building relationships

with your clients, whether you're building relationships with your

employees or whether you're really in relationship with your colleagues and

co-workers. These are tips that are going to work in every single arena. Number one -

"communication is absolutely key to everything" And gosh let's be honest. This

expands beyond the workplace, right? This expands into your home life, your

personal life, your hobbies, everything. Communication is absolutely key to be

concise, to be clear and to be accurate in your communication. Let people know

where you're going to be. Let people know when you're going to be back, let memos go

out ahead of time. Advance communication. You know, I could do a whole

separate video on just communication skills alone. But communication skills

with your employees are vital and it's important that they know that the

communication is a two-way street. It's affirm that you be approachable in

your communication. Let them know that it's okay to talk to you. It's okay to

send you an email. Respond to those emails. Respond to your texts. Answer when

people call you. This is a huge fundamental, very simple but very not

well understood aspect in building relationships. Number two really relates

to number one and it's to be a reflective listener. And again, take this

one home. Try this at home. Being a reflective listener sounds like this.

When someone offers you some information, you're going to respond to them in a way

that sounds like, "so what I hear you saying is" and you're going to filter

back to them everything that you just heard. I was talking to a friend of mine

earlier this week and we were having this really interesting communication

where you know, we haven't known each other very long. And we've known each

other about two or three weeks. And so we're studying and trying to figure out

how to communicate with each other and we were hitting some bumps in the road

along the way. And well I was so impressed with this person that was

talking to me because every time I would say something to them, they would respond

as, "so what I hear you saying is and then they would regurgitate back to me with

what I had said to them using their interpretation of it. Because here's

what's happened, okay? You've got a message something that you need to

deliver to another person. But behind your message you've got this

whole window of your belief system, right? And I call it a window because we see

everything with that filter on it. So if I have this this window that says, "I'm

difficult to understand" then everything that gets pushed through that window is

going to be clouded with that. I've also got my window of understanding of the

world. All of these beliefs and these ideas. Everything that you communicate is

going to be passed through that filter. Now, your message is immediately

diluted because it's got your filter on it, right? And then you've got someone

else, who has their own filters, their own ideas, their own beliefs, their own

perceptions and that message has now passed through one filter of you and now

it's got to be delivered to another person through their own filters. So by

the time your message gets from your mouth to their ears,it's already been

put through two different filtration systems. Pretty complex right? It's as if

you need a translator or a decoding machine that can decode the message from

the first person, encrypt it and break down the encryption and put it into the

coding translation system of the other person. It can get really complicated

really fast. And the way to break through all of those barriers is to do this

reflective listening and say, "what I hear you saying or if I understand you

correctly or now this is what I understand from what you just said."

If you do that reflective listening, it will not only improve relationships

because you're telling them what you heard. It'll also improve your

effectiveness at work, it'll improve your productivity because you'll be on the

same page with that special decoder phrase. So use those decoder phrase when

you're being a reflective listener. Another way to improve your relationship

does work is "be punctual". Okay, this is super, super, super, like super important

and believe me, I have learned this from experience. There was a time in my life

where i stunk at this. I was awful. I was consistently five to ten minutes late

and it was to the point where people could rely on me to be two five ten ten

minutes late and it just felt awful. You know I was always the last one in the

room. It's spelled disaster

because it really can't hampered my reliability and eroded the trust that

other people had in me. So be punctual not only be punctual but be early. I

actually in my car to combat this. I set my cars clock to an unknown number of

minutes fast. So I don't know how many minutes fast. But the clock is in my car

because if I do, then I'll subtract that time and be late to everything again

right? So I set my car fast. I set my clocks at home fast. I set my phone a

little bit fast so that I can be ahead of the game. Be punctual, be on time. One

of the most key factors that will enhance your relationship at work is

getting rid of gossip. Drama is such a production killer. Drama is going to

erode anything. It could even kill your business if you had enough of it. This

this backbiting and this drama and eroding and tearing people down or even

if it's not intentionally tearing people down, just spreading things around that

aren't true and maybe aren't even relevant to your business. I like to be

the gossip shut down person. So when the gossip gets to me I shut it down. I don't

respond to it. I don't feed it and I don't spread it. So when I hear someone

saying something about somebody else that's not relevant to business or

that's not relevant to what I'm building in my work, I won't acknowledge it at all.

I won't respond to it. Even if they ask me a direct question. I say, "that doesn't

sound like what we're working on today. Let's refocus." So refocus your

perspective and your energy onto something that's not gossip. You just

have to let it go in order to have a successful business period. Last but not

least, treat people fairly. I know it sounds redundant. I know it sounds cliche.

But listen to what I'm talking about here. You know I'm going to go back to a

story and if you're a Bible reader like I am, you're going to be

familiar with this story, right? So there's this story of of this queen who

treated everyone fairly because she came from the lower class and got put into

the upper class. So she treated people from the lower class the same way that

she would treat the King and all the people in the court, right?

And that set this person apart and gave her such political leverage that she was

able to change the fate of an entire nation. Okay, so that's take that

story and translate it into the workplace. You know if you see the person

that's cleaning up your office maybe you work in an office building and there is

a hired team to come in and change out the garbage can, to clean the carpets and

to do all you know all the maintenance for you. Treat them as if they were your

boss. Treat them with the utmost respect. Treat the person on the street and they

practice this in every aspect of your life. The person that's holding up the

cardboard sign gets treated the same as the President of the United States. Treat

people fairly and equally because that's how people want to be treated and that's

going to build effective, amazing relationships. It's really easy when

maybe you have the big dog of your company or big dog of a joint-venture

that you're doing to to really put them above you or above somebody else. Don't

let that happen. Treat everyone with the same respect. The

most popular people I knew in high school, were the people that treated

everyone the same way and show the same kindness and respect to no matter who

they were. So those are your top tips. Build those amazing, good relationships

at work by doing and following these ideas. Okay, cool. So biggest name of the

game is to stop the gossip train on this one. You guys you know that's what you

need to do. It's going to make your workplace better for everybody. Hit the

subscribe button. I'll see you tomorrow

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Khloé Kardashian and Tristan Thompson Are 'Still Figuring Out Their Relationship,' Source Says - Duration: 4:13.

Khloé Kardashian and Tristan Thompson Are 'Still Figuring Out Their Relationship,' Source Says

Khloé Kardashian may be "so thankful" to be a mom, but she's trying to see where her relationship stands with Tristan Thompson.

A source close to the Keeping Up with the Kardashians star, 33, tells PEOPLE that Kardashian and Thompson are "still figuring out their relationship.

The update comes nearly two months after news of Thompson's alleged infidelity broke (Kardashian welcomed their daughter True just two days later).

"She's not dumb — she knows being in a relationship with an NBA player means she will have to deal with drama like this, but she has to figure out what she's cool and not cool with," the insider says.

"He's well-known for being a serial cheater.". As for tabloid reports that Kardashian and Thompson, 27, have been having "screaming fights," the source says that's "not true.

"That's just not who she is," the source explains. "She wants a very calm environment for her baby and is trying her best to provide that.".

News of Thompson's alleged infidelity has many wondering whether Kardashian would ever leave her boyfriend of nearly two years.

But despite sources telling PEOPLE that her initial plan was to fly to Los Angeles as soon as possible after giving birth, Kardashian opted to remain in Cleveland, Ohio, where Thompson plays for the Cavaliers, with her baby girl.

Earlier this month, a source confirmed to PEOPLE that the basketball player was officially back home with Kardashian and their newborn.

The couple has also started stepping out publicly together again. On May 4, they were spotted out for lunch in Cleveland. The following night, Kardashian cheered on the NBA star at the Cavaliers' playoff game against the Toronto Raptors.

While neither Kardashian nor Thompson has addressed his alleged infidelity publicly, she has been hinting to her Instagram followers lately that there may be trouble in paradise through a series of cryptic quotes.

One, posted on Saturday, read, "You can be a good person, with a beautiful spirit, and still possess the authority to tell someone: 'You got me f—ed up.

"Something you've been praying for is about to happen for you," she wrote on May 24. "You've had enough lessons. You've been patient long enough. You've remained strong through many trials and challenges.

You're still here standing strong. Now is the time for you to start receiving.". Before those, she shared this message: "Your mind will always believe everything you tell it. Feed it with love.".

Previously, a Kardashian source told PEOPLE that the scandal altered the couple's relationship.

"She has good days and bad days with Tristan," the insider said. "They had a very calm relationship before those videos and pictures were released. Now their relationship has changed.".

For more infomation >> Khloé Kardashian and Tristan Thompson Are 'Still Figuring Out Their Relationship,' Source Says - Duration: 4:13.

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Royal Wedding: The biggest milestone moments in Harry and Meghan's relationship - Duration: 5:26.

Harry and Meghan have never confirmed who brought them together but fashion designer Misha Nonoo is one suggestion, while PR Violet von Westenholz is also in the frame

The couple click immediately, arrange another date the following evening and by the time Meghan flies back to Toronto a few days later both are smitten

August 8: Harry whisks Meghan off to Botswana on a five-day safari to celebrate her birthday and give them the perfect opportunity to get to know one another

They spend hours round the camp fire talking and Harry is certain he's found the one

October 31: News of Harry and Meghan's relationship leaks out. It's reported that Harry is "happier than he has been for years"

November 8: Kensington Palace issues a statement confirming that the couple are in a relationship, appealing for them to be given space

November 15: It's noted that the besotted couple are wearing matching bracelets.December 6: Lovesick Harry reportedly takes a detour to spend precious time with Meghan in Toronto, instead of flying straight home from an official tour to the Caribbean

The Prince travels 1,700 miles out of his way to see his girlfriend.December 31: After spending Christmas apart Meghan and Harry celebrate New Year together in London, then take a trip to Norway to see the Northern Lights

2017 January 16: Meghan is introduced to her future sister-in-law, the Duchess of Cambridge, for the first time and they get on famously

March 2: Meghan accompanies Harry as his plus one to the Caribbean wedding of his friend Tom Inskip

They are spotted holding hands and it's yet another sign that the romance is the real deal

May 7: It must be love - Meghan gets her first introduction to polo as she sits in the stands cheering on Harry's team at Ascot

Meghan's attendance at the high-society affair as a royal girlfriend is interpreted as a sure sign that an engagement is imminent

June 11: Harry and Meghan arrive together at the evening wedding reception for Pippa Middleton, Kate Middleton's younger sister, who marries James Matthews

September 5: Meghan speaks publicly about Harry for the first time, telling Vanity Fair magazine: "I think it's really simple, we are two people who are really happy and in love

"September 23: The lovebirds meet the Queen for the first time as a couple at Balmoral, Her Majesty's summer residence

September 25: The pair make their first public appearance together at Harry's Invictus Games, in Toronto

Although they are seated apart to keep her out of the spotlight, they are later spotted canoodling

"They seemed at home with each other," says spectator Kylie Lawler.November 27: After weeks of speculation and a few false alarms the couple announce their engagement and pose for photographs in one of Diana's favourite spots, the Sunken Garden, at Kensington Palace

In an interview screened that evening Harry admits he fell for Meghan the moment he first saw her

A beaming Meghan flashes her engagement ring, a gold band featuring a large diamond from Botswana and two smaller outer diamonds from the personal collection of Harry's late mother

Meghan's acting career is over and she will move to the UK. The wedding is confirmed for spring 2018 and it's revealed the couple will live at Nottingham Cottage, Kensington Palace

November 28: The wedding date, May 19, is confirmed and the venue: St George's Chapel at Windsor Castle

December 1: Nottingham is given the honour of hosting Harry and Meghan's first official engagement

Day trips to Edinburgh, Belfast, Cardiff and Birmingham follow that winter as Harry proudly shows off his new fiancée and introduces her to royal duties

December 25: In a show of support by the Queen she invites the couple to join the Royal Family for Christmas celebrations at Sandringham in Norfolk, where they join the traditional walk to church

It is not normal for partners, rather than wives and husbands, to get the nod so it is a huge vote of confidence in Meghan

2018 February 28: Harry and Meghan appear in public for the first time with William and Kate, taking the stage at the Royal Foundation Forum in London to discuss their humanitarian plans

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry's wedding day in pictures Tue, May 22, 2018 Prince Harry and Meghan Markle marry at St George's Chapel in Windsor Castle - see ALL of the photos

Play slideshow REUTERS 1 of 100 Meghan Markle and Prince Harry marry in Windsor They are already being dubbed 'the Fab Four' and Harry draws laughs as he says: "Working together as a family does have its challenges

" Meghan's name will be added to the foundation's title.March 6: Meghan is baptised into the Church of England in a secret ceremony at the Chapel Royal by the Archbishop of Canterbury

It marks her commitment to the Anglican faith and her next step toward marriage.March 12: Meghan appears alongside the Queen for the first time for an official engagement at Westminster Abbey, to mark Commonwealth Day

April 21: Meghan joins Harry and other Royal Family members to celebrate the Queen's 92nd birthday at the Royal Albert Hall