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Lets discuss this relationship, suicide and being bullied.

People take they life when they can't take the way they feeling.

Low self esteem got teens in black trench coats cause they were beaten down but never taught

to overcome.

Currently we talk to youth and if they got a problem,

we proceed to remove it without teaching em how to solve it.

Easy but ineffective they stay weak that way.

We Need to learn to be side kicks instead of kick stands.

Little Johny overweight, other kids call him fat.

He runs home crying to mommy cuz he can't take that.

She drive him back to school demanding who clearly upset.

The red button pushed, anti-bully movement in effect.

Lets pretend we rid every form of bullying from the schools.

Past that, lets say we make the cities safe too.

States rally together the country soon follow suit.

Great, but I promise adversity still coming for you.

In the form of sickness, disease, disappointment and death.

Yes - Anti bully but building resilient people is best.

Life doesn't get easier, get stronger to past the tests,

Or the smallest setback'll place a noose on your neck.

One.

For more infomation >> 1 Luv - Misunderstood ( The Relationship Between Suicide & Being Bullied ) - Duration: 1:12.

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SHORT FILM NOKTAH : STAGES OF RELATIONSHIP - Duration: 9:07.

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Don't Allow any of these 5 types of relationship abuse in yours | animated - Duration: 10:06.

5 types of relationship abuse You should be aware of and What can you do?

welcome to lifestyle therapy channel, stay tuned.

No.1, Physical abuse.

This is the type of abuse that many people think of, when they hear the word 'abuse.'

It can include punching, hitting, slapping, kicking, strangling, or physically restraining

a partner against their will.

It can also include driving recklessly, or invading someone's physical space, and in

any other way, making someone feel physically unsafe.

No.2, Emotional abuse.

Emotional abuse is perhaps the vaguest type of abuse, to which an individual can be exposed.

Emotional pain and hurt, are not uncommon in relationships, it is human to feel negative

emotions in response to arguments, or unpleasant events in a relationship.

While it is natural to feel emotional responses, it is not healthy or natural to feel as if

your thoughts, feelings, and emotions are regularly threatened by your loved one.

Emotional abuse, is a consistent denial of your right to express your feelings.

It is a violation or ridicule of your most important values and beliefs.

Some warning signs that you may be experiencing this type of abuse are:

Withholding of approval, or support as a form of punishment,

Criticism, belittling, name calling, and yelling, Regular threats to leave or being told to

leave, Invasions of privacy, and Elimination of support,

by preventing contact with friends and family.

No.3, Mental or Psychological abuse.

Mental or psychological abuse happens when one partner, through a series of actions or

words, wears away at the other's sense of mental wellbeing and health.

It often involves making the victim doubt their own sanity.

We've heard stories of abusers deliberately moving car keys, or a purse, dimming the lights,

and flat-out denying that certain things had taken place.

The result of this, especially over a sustained period of time, and often with the isolation

that abusers also tend to use, is that the victim depends on the abuser more and more,

because they don't trust their own judgment.

They also hesitate to tell anyone about the abuse they're experiencing, for fear they

won't be believed.

No.4, Sexual Abuse.

Sexual abuse is when someone forces you, into unwanted sexual activity, especially through

threats or coercion.

In a healthy sexual relationship, you shouldn't feel threatened, pressured, or uncomfortable

with your partner.

If you feel these negative emotions, it is likely that you are being abused.

No.5, Control.

"Abusive relationships", brings to mind physical violence.

At the same time, many forms of abuse don't leave bruises.

Attempts to control a partner's behavior, friends, finances, or activities, is often

the first sign of an abusive situation, and may be a precursor to violence.

Abusers tend to isolate their victims, and chip away at their self-esteem until he or

she, becomes the only person in the victim's world.

Control may be attempted by using threats, anger, or excessive criticism.

What can you do?

If you are experiencing characteristics of unhealthy relationships, do not be afraid

to ask for help.

Be sure to have a trusted friend, or family member on whom you can rely.

It is not weak, or embarrassing to ask for help when you need it.

And trust your instincts!

If you feel uneasy about going home, or fearful of your spouse or partner, take steps to ensure

your safety.

This could include having a friend with you upon returning home, so you are not alone,

or, in severe circumstances, going to the home of a loved one, or to a domestic violence

shelter, rather than going home.

Above all else, know you are not alone!

If you are experiencing the characteristics of abuse, there are those who can help and

support you.

While reaching out can seem like an impossible and perhaps dangerous task, know there is

help ready and waiting for you

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Six Stages of the Relationship Life Cycle - Duration: 3:36.

Six Stages of the Relationship Life Cycle.

For every committed relationship, there are six primary stages that impact partners'

experience of mutual fulfillment as

depicted in the following chart.

Let's summarize on the chart first.

Courtship.

Honeymoon.

Internal Stressors.

External Stressors.

Stagnation.

Maturation.

Rekindling.

Settling.

Termination.

Here is a more detailed explanation of each stage:

Courtship – this is the exciting "getting to know each other" stage.

This is typically experienced as an exciting adventure

often accompanied with the potential promise of a wonderful and fulfilling life together.

Honeymoon – assuming courtship leads to commitment, couples enter into the well-known

honeymoon stage.

For the vast majority

of couples, this represents the pinnacle of their mutual fulfillment and can last anywhere

from a few weeks to a couple of

years.

Internal Stressors – once the thrill of the honeymoon period wears off, routine, distraction

and gender differences start to

erode mutual fulfillment.

I call these internal stressors because they are something each partner has control over

once they

are aware of them.

External Stressors – significant further diminishment of mutual satisfaction can occur

when the relationship is impacted by

external stressors such as career, finances, health issues, and most notably, having children.

Without appropriate checks in

place, these have the potential of creating deep emotional wounding between the partners

with a subsequent and proportional

impact to their sense of mutual fulfillment.

Clearly, it is possible to experience high levels of personal fulfillment

surrounding one's children, career etc. while your committed partnership is far less

than desired.

In fact, a big trap is to

focus on external fulfillment as a distraction or replacement for the lack of fulfillment

within one's intimate relationship.

Stagnation – this is the stage where partners just keep things together as best as they

can hopefully long enough for the

external stressors to pass in example retirement, kids leave home, etc.

This is also often the most likely stage where

couple's therapy is sought to address long-brewing conflicts and the lack of intimacy and fulfillment.

Maturation – in most cases, this represents the final stage of the relationship and has

three possible outcomes:

Rekindling – this is where the partners re-ignite the love and passion they had during

earlier stages of their relationship

leading to incrementally greater levels of mutual fulfillment.

However, this rarely leads to achieving the same degree of

fulfillment as experienced during the honeymoon stage.

Settling – this is one version of relationship failure where couples stay together out of

convenience.

Either for financial

reasons or unwillingness to get out of their comfort zone that would inevitably happen

during a breakup.

Termination – this is the second version of relationship failure where a couple decides

to no longer be together primarily

due to unresolvable conflict and deep emotional wounding.

It is important to note that the Maturation stage can occur any time after the honeymoon

stage of the relationship cycle.

Also, both internal and external stressors impacting relationships are cumulative and

ongoing.

For example, just because a

couple transitions from internal stressors to external ones doesn't mean the internal

ones go away.

In fact, unless

proactively addressed, they only tend to become more deleterious over time.

Of course, all of this begs the question as to why most committed relationships seem to

follow this progression.

For more infomation >> Six Stages of the Relationship Life Cycle - Duration: 3:36.

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Why You Should Never Get Relationship Advice From Hollywood Movies (2018) - Duration: 5:07.

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Magic of Visualizing GOD | Key to Build Your Relationship With God | Patanjali Yoga Sutras | Part 28 - Duration: 10:23.

Tajjapastadarthabhavanam

Translation-

One should chant the name

with divine sentiments

while meditating on the meaning

So he tells us, that we must

chant the name of God.

But that is not enough.

We could be chanting it mechanically

that will have no value

See even a parrot

can be taught to chant "Krishna Krishna"

I have been

to houses of devotees in India

who have taught their parrots and mainas

Hare Krishna Hare Rama, and

the mainas say all kinds of interesting things

Does it have any value?

If you press the maina's neck it will not say, Hare Krishna

Hare Rama, it will say "Kooooo".

So

along side with the

chanting, we need to absorb the mind!

Ultimately the mind

is the cause of bondage

and the mind is the cause of liberation.

You all have heard this 100s of times

Kripaluji Maharaj never

fails to emphasize this point!

That look you need to

engage your mind.

But Kripaluji Maharaj goes one step

further.

He says, not the

sentiments

Utilize the form as well.

You they say that

a picture is worth a 1000 words

you all heard that right!

So the power of pictures!

Now if I say

remember your child

Do you remember your child's name

or do remember your child's picture?

Picture! That is how

you remember entities, that is how your remember people!

If I say remember your car

do you remember Toyota or Mercedes

or do you remember the picture of your car?

When you have parked your car in that

parking lot and you're going by

you're measuring every car

against the picture in your mind. Ahh there it is!

So we all think in terms of pictures!

They are far deeper and

meaningful to us.

Realizing this people

they utilize the power of visualization.

You know in the sports field

they have always known it.

The most successful golfer

in history Jack Nicklaus

he said

that I never

hit a shot without first visualizing

the ball falling into

the whole. Because when

I keep that image deeply

embedded in me

then automatically my

physical, mental, intellectual processes

they conform

to enable the ball to fall there.

I was reading the

the website

of a sports psychologist called

John Murray who has trained

a number of Olympic medalists

and Wimbledon

winners etc.. so he was saying

that before you serve that tennis ball

he says you picture

it falling in the place in the court

where you wish

it to fall and

then you hit it.

Another

great example I came across

of the power of the subconscious

was of Natan Sharansky

Natan Sharansky was a Jew who

used to live in Russia, in communist Russia.

So he was falsely accused

of being a NATO spy.

And he was put into a prison in Siberia

He was there in prison for 12 years

So how to pass time

He started playing chess in his mind.

He used to play chess since childhood.

So he used to in him mind keep on

playing with the World Chess Champion

Gary Kasparov

and keep defeating him in his mind.

Until it sank so deep into his subconscious.

So finally on the intervention of

Bill Clinton he was released.

So he went off to Israel.

And once Gary Kasparov

he came there for an exhibition match.

So sometimes these world champions

they take on 5 people at a time. So they play against 5

He happened to be one of those 5 and

he defeated Gary Kasparov.

So reporters asked him how did you defeat

the world champion? He said I defeated him 1000s of times in my mind

it came naturally to me.

Arnold Schwarzenegger

5 times Mr. Universe. His testimonial

is also very interesting.

When he first won the prize he was asked that did it

take you by surprise? He said no

I had practiced it 1000s of times in my mind

So it came naturally.

So this power of the subconscious

is so tremendous

So people, they utilize it

by giving them positive affirmations.

But Kripaluji Maharaj says use positive

Images!

See you make your New year resolutions.

In terms of words right!

Now you made it on 1'st January.

What is it? I'm sure you have forgotten

But if you were to visualize it

It would be a totally different matter.

If you were to visualize!

I shall not take this drink.

and make that picture strong

in your mind, there is a far

greater chance that you would remember it.

I came across an experiment done

in the Michigan State University

Hospital, their ICU unit.

So what they did was

that

patients who had come to the ICU

when they are released from there

they are given a set of instructions.

Now one group out of this test sample,

they were given written

instructions & explained

the 2nd group

were given written plus

visual instructions and explained

and after 3 days

the surveyors they rang up the

people to find out how many

of them remembered the instructions.

So amongst the group that had got

written instructions,

only 6% remembered.

And amongst the group that had got

written plus visual instructions

43% remembered.

That is the power of visualization.

So in the same way

when we take the name of God

we wish to deeply absorb our

mind in God,

and what is the best way to do it?

So Maharishi Patanjali says

create the divine sentiments

Kripaluji Maharaj says

bring the image of God

now create the divine sentiments.

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He says all your spiritual

sadhanas are like the body

and visualization is

like the life-air!

You try it out

if you wish to develop love for Radha Krishna

just visualize their images

and see how easy it becomes

If you can do just this much

that you close your eyes and bring their images

in front, you have the basis

for loving them..