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9 Daily Habits That Build A Strong Romantic Relationship - Duration: 10:12.
Some of you may wondering this, what's the secret?
How do they do it, Or, How are they still so in love after all these years?
Believe it or not, habits make or break you, it is either having a habit that transform
you as a person, or you can build habits that destroy yourself.
And it applies in relationship as well.
A romantic relationship is not something that you take for granted, it requires effort and
good habits that encourage both partners to come as close as possible.
Sadly, most of people dream of a perfect relationship without equal effort.
And because of that, there are so many questions about love that people ask or search everyday,
unfortunately a lot of them are left unanswered, though the answer is so simple really.
One sure thing is, there is no secret ingredient to making a love and a romance work.
It just a lot of variables and factors that affect directly when you are forming a successful
relationship, and it is quite hard to generalize.
Simply put, every couple will have a different story and experiences on a case to case basis.
In this video, we are going to talk about some daily habits that build a strong romantic
relationship, by building the right habits, somehow you'll found a rhythm that will work
for your relationship, and since it's a daily habits, it'll work with your daily activities
too.
So remember that almost every great things that happen in life is a result of practicing
good habits everyday, including your love and romance.
By turning all the good aspects of your relationships into habits, and constantly practice the same
loving things every day, your love can always grow brighter and brighter, and ultimately
build a very strong and immense love affair.
So, here are a few habits you can build to ensure that love amongst you never dies.
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9 Daily Habits That Build A Strong Romantic Relationship
#1 - Honesty is Important
This is the foundation of your relationship, and everything actually.
Whether a little trivial everyday things, or when they genuinely ask you for advice,
just be honest to your partner, and yourself.
You know, it is better for your partner to hear it from you rather than from someone
else.
If your partner hurt you, just be honest and tell them, so do the opposite, if you think
it's your mistake, be honest and apologize.
No secrets and hidden things will make the both of you happy.
Your partner is your number one friend, so everything need to go through them first before
you go anywhere, or you don't have to go anywhere at all, your partner is everything that you
need after all.
By maintaining a good communication and honesty will keep your relationship alive and strong.
#2 - Have a date nights regularly
You know, living together everyday with the same environment can make you feel bored,
and having a date night every once in a while is just perfect.
It is the most important thing that will greatly benefit you and your spouse.
Doing a date nights can bring back some excitement into your life after a busy lives.
You don't have to go to an expensive restaurant at all, let's say, you can try doing something
different every time, whatever it is, you decide.
The point is, it is very important to do new things and keep the relationship fresh, spending
a specific amount of time to focus on your partner, and talk about everything that you
missed to tell within the entire week, anything is fine really.
There is no ideal date night.
When you and your partner go out to new places and try new things, you are strengthening
your relationship and creating new memories.
In any case, it is very important to find some time for each other besides our busy
lives.
#3 - Never stop flirting
Just like the old days, you are almost flirt everyday, when you meet, through phone calls,
or text.
The beginning of a relationship is always passionate, exciting and romantic.
There is so much enthusiasm and a desire to impress your partner in any ways possible.
When you start living together and comfortable with each other, the pace between you is going
to be more calm, steady and secure.
And thus, you may forget to flirt with your partner, don't let things become trivial between
you two, passion should not go out of the window.
And a way to ensure that you always feel the spark is to never stop flirting.
By doing that, you are creating the same moment as there was in the beginning of the relationship
unconsciously, and in no time, the spark will live.
#4 - Have a healthy quarrels (or a fight resolution mechanism)
Conflicts and fighting are inevitable in every relationship, staying together will make you
fight and have arguments every now and then.
So, it is a crucial thing to know how to solve your issues everytime you experience one.
Not only you, but you and your partner need to get over the obstacles on your road together.
Try to develop a strategy, like rules or processes that helps you resolve an argument.
Conflicts can be either constructive and destructive, the both of you will need different approach
in handling each conflict.
Pay attention to what works in your arguments and what does not in order to find a way how
to solve your problems faster and easier.
By having some kind of mechanism will also enables you to not hurt the person in the
heat of the moment, or refuse to apologize later due to egos.
After all, a relationship requires a team, not egos and pride.
Always work together on resolving your problems in a way that will not destroy your relationship.
#5 - Doing Chores
There will always a household chores activities to be done every single day.
Remember you are a team, so everything around the house should be an obligation for the
both of you.
Moreover, doing chores around the home is attractive in the eyes of your partner, and
by taking care of the dishes faster, enables you to have more free time for each other.
Well, there might be days when one of you is visibly exhausted after a long exhausting
day from work.
It is ok then to step in then to take charge.
So, make sure to be responsible, show initiative, and help as much as you can, and you will
see how much your partner will appreciate it.
#6 - Give compliments
This is a small thing to do, but very important.
Being together with your partner means that you are with them for a reason, there must
be a lot of things you like about them, so for once in a while, it is good to show them
what and how you feel about them.
Although, remember to never give fake compliments.
Just show that you are grateful if they do something for you.
If your partner had tried to dress up, appreciate them.
Compliment little things and gestures to make sure nobody feels underappreciated or unrecognized.
When you make your partner smile, that is something that will make you feel good too.
From now on, show them how much you care by appreciating them, say they are attractive,
and make them happy whenever you can.
#7 - Go Travel Together
Traveling is exciting and helps you discover things about yourself that otherwise you could
not.
It brings back your moment and helps you experience a range of emotions.
While it is good to go on travel alone, it is even more enjoyable with a partner.
Remember that it's very important to have some things in your relationship that make
you look forward to together.
So discuss things together, make a plan, and go travel together, you will feel the benefits
of it.
#8 - Celebrations for every little achievement
Celebrations are also one of the most important part of a relationship.
Whether at work or at home, it is very important for you to acknowledge their efforts and give
them a pat on the back.
Other occasions like birthday, anniversary or anything.
Remember to celebrate it together and make your partner feel special.
You do not have to do something extraordinary, even small things count.
These might seem trivial and inconsequential but these small habits or rituals will ensure
that your relationship blossoms and you experience a fulfilled relationship.
Remembering important dates and doing something to show how much you appreciate them is an
easy task, but a very beneficial one.
Celebrations are a special time for you and your partner.
#9 - Thank God It's Friday
Have a day of the week where you sit and reflect about your emotions.
Well date nights are meant to bring back some excitement into your life after a busy lives.
A ritual like 'Feelings Friday' is necessary to cater to your emotional needs.
It enables you to address the unaddressed emotional problems and come closer because
of that.
So, go ahead have your 'Stress-free Saturdays' or 'Feelings Friday' moment every now and
then.
As you can see, it does not seem difficult to have a healthy and happy relationship.
All you need to do is put some effort, and you will enjoy a beautiful relationship with
your partner.
Well, those are the 9 daily habits that build a strong romantic relationship.
So, Really cool information isn't it?
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your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!
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What Is a Relationship Between an INFJ and an INTP Like? - Duration: 5:58.
By the look of it, INFJ and INTP are completely different personalities.
It is hard to imagine that they actually can be compatible with each other.
However, there are some reasons and theories why they are highly compatible despite of
what people believe.
In fact, they often called as 'The Golden Pair'.
To get to know both personalities better, let's start from a little basic first.
INTP, which stands for Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Perceiving, are your typical
mad scientist, they are considered as the main thinker of Myers Briggs personality type.
The INTP's main function according to MBTI is introverted-thinking, followed by extroverted-intuition,
introverted-sensing, and last but not least pesky extroverted-feeling.
They are master at solving the logical world problem, and they can turn just about any
problem that is abstract.
They act based on facts, theories, and originality.
In fact, this is the main reason why they're so easily attracted to the INFJ personality
type.
Simply because INFJs are also a smart thinker, but in a different way.
While INTPs often get some difficulties when it comes to feeling and emotions, INFJs has
a much more defined Fe.
They can do many things with its empathy, intuition, and charisma that INTP really needs.
In terms of thinking, INFJ can actually understand the INTP who often feels like no one understands
them.
On the other hand, INTP adores INFJ because they have these keen instincts about people.
INTP wishes they had that to that degree.
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For many other reasons why INFJs and INTPs are highly compatible with each other, here's
six interesting lists that you need to know.
#1 - Both are introverted intuitive
That is quiet obvious.
However, when you look at it, it makes sense that they are compatible.
They share thoughts about theories and ideas.
The questioning challenge from INFJ for INTP is another thing that makes their relation
warm.
They definitely will enjoy learning new things together.
With that kept in mind, they can delve deeper in each other's heart without taking too
much consideration.
#2 - Opposing perceiving function
Perceiving functions consist of two types, namely intuitive function and sensing function.
INFJ and INTP have different perceiving functions.
For the intuition, INFJs really depend on introverted intuition while INTPs utilize
extroverted intuition instead.
For the sensing function, it is completely the opposite.
INFJ uses extroverted sensing function while INTP uses introverted sensing function.
This difference, rather than creating conflict, it draws each other.
#3 - INTPs are honest.
In fact, they may be the most straight-forward and truthful of all MBTI personalities, to
the point that their precision with the truth can seem pedantic to others, and even socially
awkward when they are attempting to see social rituals through their objective perspective.
Still, INFJs really love this quality, and often come to rely on the INTP's sense of
honesty and truth once they learn to trust the INTP.
#4 - There are not too many INFJ and INTP
Combined, they only make 5% of the world population.
It is extremely rare or even impossible for an INFJ to meet INTP and are willing to be
in a relationship.
Even though they are compatible, fate may say the otherwise.
However, when they do meet, they absolutely feel something difference.
It is completely true since they are just like magnet when met together.
#5 - Like to judge
Though INTPs do not carry any judging personality, which are basically how to make conclusion
and decision, they actually have function to do so.
Their cognitive functions are used to analysis something deeper.
Additionally, they also can improve their inferior function by having conversation with
their partner.
That is why INFJ and INTP are highly compatible.
#6 - Similar Fate
INTPs and INFJs share a similar thing, and that's why for the same reasons they can get
along really well.
INTPs are so counter to the dominant cultural mindset that life can be VERY wearing on us.
INFJs are even called "the confidants" and this quality is very nice to an INTP.
When their emotions do come out, it will only be to a select person or very very limited
group of people.
So, if an INFJ is the closest person to INTPs, then this rare outpouring is made much easier
for the INTP, and often makes the INFJ feel great as they are trusted with a rare characteristics.
Well, those are about the relationship between an INFJ and an INTP.
I think now we know why they are called the golder pair right?
So, Really cool information isn't it?
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your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!
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How to Develop Love for God | Build Your Relationship with God - Duration: 8:11.
You say I will love God but when you meet him will you be able to do it? How
then do we love God? The way to do it is, you keep for a while his Aishwarya
opulence out of your head and start thinking he is mine!
That is how love is cultivated. Even in the world a wife, her husband may be the
governor of the state of Texas but in the wive's head he is husband first and
governor for the others so she speaks to him like that
calling him darling and if the wife thinks he is the governor of the state
and he has so much of power and he commands so many officers then every
time the husband comes in front she will stand in attention and give him a salute.
The wife is able to love by forgetting his opulence and thinking of him
as the husband. A mother, her son may be the police commissioner of the county
but as far as the mother is concerned he is my Munna, she interacts with him in
that manner. Munna the Indian mangoes have arrived when you come home bring five kg
mangoes. Now the police commissioner reaches home
what mangoes have you brought you cannot recognize
Alphonso mango who has made you police commissioner?! See she thinks he is police
commissioner for others but as far as I am concerned he is my son Munna, that is
how she loves. Similarly if you wish to love God you have to establish your
relationship with him if you just say he's God God God God God you will do
sashtanga pranam none but the sweetness of the love will not come. We can establish
different relationships with God. Just like in the olden days there was the
king of a country now everybody had their different connections with the
king, the general populace they saw him as their regent they would see him from
far there is the king but the same king had his personal retinue of servants who
would take care of his palace. They had contact with him, he would instruct them
Ramu there is dirt in the garden it must be
clean by evening! Yes your majesty it will be done, now Ramu had a personal
connection with the King, he saw himself as the Kings servant and then the King
had his group of friends they saw him almost like an equal. They had grown up
playing cricket and football and hockey so with that privilege they would
interact, look they would tell the King it is my son's birthday party
you must come otherwise I will get upset now he's feeling this comradeship with
the king. The king is the same the relationship has grown closer and then
the same King had his children who would play in the Kings lap and pull his
moustaches and they would call him papa and make him a horse and sit on his back
and then the same King had his wife the queen who knew the King most closely she
would say Preetam or darling. The king was one everybody had
established different relationships of different levels of intimacy with the
King. Can we do that same thing with God? Areee nahi Swamiji he's God, he's so
far. That is your mental block, God is not far he's sitting in your heart he is
closer than the closest. The feeling that he is far away is our own intellectual
block. God says you can love me as your very own I have got no problem. "ye yatha mam
prapadyante tams tathaiva bhajamyaham" whichever soul loves me at
whatever time, to whatever extent, in whatever sentiment, I love the same soul
at the same time, to the same extent, in the same sentiment. If the devotee says
Krishna you are my friend come here I shall put my arm around your neck
Krishna says Arjun come on then let's walk arm-in-arm
we are buddies, if the devotee says Krishna look my love has now grown and
it has become so selfless it has become so intimate I don't need you to take
care of me I'm going to take care of you come on you are my child. Krishna says
mother Yashoda I have got no problem I am putting myself at your disposal and
if the devotee says look Krishna I know nobody except for you, you are my soul
beloved. Krishna says alright gopis I am your soul beloved. This law of love
gives hope to the soul that we also can access the supreme Almighty!
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10 Tips For Maintaining A Long-Distance Relationship - Duration: 4:00.
- There will be days where you're sad,
there will be days that you're hurting
and there will be days
that you miss that person more than ever
but I'm telling you it is so worth it
and the time that you see them afterwards
is even more worth it
and it makes it that much more enjoyable.
(peaceful music)
I've been in a long relationship
with my boyfriend named Chris
who lives about eight hours away from me.
- We're about 3,700 miles apart.
- He's from Norway and I'm from Brazil.
- In August of 2013, I made the eight-hour plane journey
to Manchester, England to meet him.
- We met each other at a website called 7 Cups
in which we're both volunteer listeners
to anyone who's going through a rough time
and even though we started off as friends,
the more we talked, the more we clicked.
- It was obvious after a couple months of texting
that we had a chemistry.
- Being in a long-distance relationship isn't easy.
- Like sometimes you just want to pick up your phone
and order an Uber or just get in your car
and drive to that person but you can't
because it's not physically possible.
- The three most important things for us
were commitment, trust and communication.
- Communication is definitely key,
Skypes, texts, funny photos, tagging in memes.
- Have scheduled days to like have calls
or have FaceTime, stuff like that
to make yourself feel closer to them.
- Sometimes we also leave random messages
on each other's phones.
- These things are so much fun
and they make the distance so much more bearable.
- You have to put in a lot of trust in each other.
- It's already hard for some people to trust
people that live close to them
so imagine living miles and miles away from someone
and having that trust that you need to have with them.
- You know, I was in college
so I was going to bars and stuff like that
and there was never a moment where Joe was jealous at all
which made it so much easier.
I would just really work on building trust.
- Once you are able to fully trust them
and they're able to fully trust you,
it makes it that much easier.
- My biggest tip, being in a long-distance relationship,
is to always have a trip planned.
- Make a plan with your partner.
- Plan the next time you'll see them
or plan little trips to see them
or little trips together or stuff like that.
Having that motivation, having that knowledge
that you know when you'll see them next
really, really helps with the times
that you're not with them.
- Try to visit as much as possible,
he visited me this past March for the whole month
and I'll be going up there in July for the whole month.
- Setting up an end goal and working towards it
makes a world of a difference.
- This October is exciting because well be getting married
and hopefully I'll be able to relocate soon after that.
- We're still together, we are both in Southern California.
Hopefully, we're here for the long haul,
I really wanna be, I love him a lot.
- I'm happy to say that I've purchased my one-way ticket
to Manchester to finally move in with him in December
and we have set a date
later on in March of 2019 to get married.
- Long-distance relationships can be scary and difficult.
- And it's not for everyone but I feel like
if you have a strong connection with that person
and you really love that person,
no matter how far they are,
you're gonna always feel their presence
like they're right next to you
and both of y'all can withstand anything that comes at you.
- Long-distance relationships can be difficult
and a lot of people even say that they're impossible
or they're unrealistic or they're too difficult
but I think that if you find someone
that you don't want to be without,
don't let the distance stop you from being together.
Distance is temporary.
Good things are worth fighting for.
(peaceful music)
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Ariana Grande's New Relationship Is Moving REALLY Fast | TMZ TV - Duration: 1:28.
>> PETE DAVIDSON IS TAKING HIS
RELATIONSHIP WITH ARIANA GRANDE
REALLY SERIOUS.
HE GOT TWO TATTOOS THAT
REFERENCE HER.
THIS IS HER BLACK MASK FROM
HER "DANGEROUS WOMAN" ALBUM.
HE ALSO GOT HER INITIALS ON HIS
THUMB.
>> ALREADY?
IT'S BEEN LIKE A WEEK.
>> WHAT IS THIS GUY DOING?
HARVEY: HOW LONG HAVE THEY BEEN
DATING?
>> NOT LONG.
>> NO MORE THAN THREE MONTHS.
>> WAIT, WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.
PETER HAS TATTOOS ALL OVER HIS
BODY.
HARVEY: LET ME TELL YOU
SOMETHING, HE MAY HAVE 100
TATTOOS BUT THE NEXT WOMAN HE'S
WITH IS ZEROING IN ON THAT
TATTOO.
>> IF HE WANTS TO, HE WILL JUST
GET IT COVERED UP BY SOMETHING
ELSE.
>> HOW DOES ARIANA GRANDE FEEL?
DOESN'T IT FREAK YOU OUT A
LITTLE BIT IF SOMEBODY TATTOOS
THEMSELVES AFTER A MONTH?
>> IT DEPENDS ON THE GUY.
SOME GUYS GET THEIR NAME
TATTOOED ON YOU, LIKE I KNEW I
WOULDN'T BE WITH YOU FOREVER.
OTHER ONES, LIKE OH, IT MAKES
SENSE.
>> HAS HAPPENED TO YOU RAQUEL?
>> OF COURSE.
>> HOW MANY TIMES?
>> THREE.
HARVEY: DID THEY COVER THEM UP?
>> ONE COVERED IT UP.
HARVEY: WHAT DID RAQUEL TURN
INTO?
>> A CLOUD.
[LAUGHTER]
>> HOW DO YOU KNOW?
>> I HAVE SEEN IT.
IT'S OUT OF THERE.
IT'S A CLOUD, A DARK CLOUD NOW.
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Useful Tips to Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work | PH and USA by Alex Natividad - Duration: 4:45.
You're lucky I'm sharing the spotlight with you..
okay
What a diva!
Hey guys welcome back to the channel I'm Alex I'm currently in the Philippines
I'm Jonald I'm currently in California and we are in a long-distance relationship
so today we're going to share with you
four of our personal tips to make your long-distance relationship work
so our first tip for you is to always find time to talk to each other
for example I wake up and I need to go to work in an hour....
so you know in that one hour from brushing my teeth to washing my face to driving there....
that's the time we actually talk or for example on my way home
I drive home... so even in the most not to say inconvenient... but you know you
sometimes you have to multi-task doing your stuff and talking so you can accommodate each other
You're not together physically and you know
the only thing you can do to bond is to talk
So next, always schedule date nights
so for us, what we usually do is we
watch our favorite show then we screenshare using Skype.
Usually we watch our favourite series, which is Friends.
I think personally I've watched that over a hundred times already but I still love
re-watching episodes and then we click play at the same time...so it feels like
you're watching together like we're beside each other in the cinema
and aside from watching our favorite shows online together we also try
to find the multiplayer games because there's a lot on the internet
so atleast it's a new activity that you can do.
Maybe we can show you sometime
like we will compile a list of games or ideas that we've actually used
that you can actually use it in your long-distance relationship if you are in one
The third tip for you is you know create your own traditions and actually
Live your traditions. One of our traditions is when Alex sends me her OOTDs
or outfit of the day... When we were together
I always appreciated what she wears... I like her clothes so there...Thanks!
I always liked seeing it... so now that I'm away... I don't get to see her anymore
so I request her to "Hey, send me your OOTDs once you get home"
Aside from the OOTDs Jonald also loves socks. I think we've mentioned that before already
Like he has so many socks!
so now we are trying that I pick his socks every time he goes to work
so he sent me a picture with lots of socks then I try encircle every day
what socks he should wear for that day.
Our last tip is to always surround yourself with supportive people
Alex and I are lucky
because our parents are very understanding you know and they're very supportive
in their own ways like last night I told my parents...
I'll just eat in my room because Alex and I have a date night.
My mom brought tray to my bedroom you know .....
she's just trying to help us out and be supportive. Yeah actually Jonald's parents....
are super nice like they would really send pictures if they go out and or if they
have special occasions. They would send pictures of Jonald
especially when he forgets to send me pictures, sometimes they would send first
So ofcourse, we have each other to depend on when you're in a long-distance relationship but it's super helpful
If you have positive energy surrounding the both of to motivate you that it can work
because if it's all negative then of course you will also feel so negative about the relationship
so thank you for watching our video I hope that you get something concrete or
something that you can actually apply to your relationship so have your own
little traditions create your own date nights and go make that LDR work
thanks guys don't forget to Like and subscribe to my channel and we'll see
you again in our next videos! Bye!
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The Love Doctors solve your relationship troubles - Duration: 4:54.
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What Paul Pogba has said about his relationship with Mourinho is rather interesting - Duration: 5:41.
Football News24/7 It's been a real mixed bag of a season for Manchester United's Paul Pogba
The Frenchman has had intense media scrutiny on his back ever since he returned to Old Trafford for £89m two years ago from Juventus, who he had joined on a free transfer in 2012
He become a superstar in Turin, consistently popping up on social media thanks to his wonder goals, and his performances in his four seasons in Italy convinced José Mourinho to spend an enormous amount of money on him
Pogba has somewhat failed to hit the same heights in the Premier League though, managing just 11 goals in 57 appearances for the Red Devils
The 25-year-old was even dropped on occasion by Mourinho this term, and was criticised by his manager due to his poor form too
His last two performances haven't been up to standard either, firstly in United's FA Cup final defeat by Chelsea, and then for his country on Friday night
In fact, Pogba was booed off by the home supporters in their 3-1 win against Italy, with the particular lowlight coming when he struck a long-range shot out wildly for a throw-in
There has even been some speculation about his future, as Paris Saint-Germain have been rumoured to be interested in his services
It does appear that he will remain at Old Trafford though, even with the growing frustration about his performances, and the doubts about the relationship he has with Mourinho
The Portuguese hasn't been immune to criticism from the United faithful himself, notably about his playing style not suiting the 'Manchester United way'
And while on international duty, Pogba gave a pretty interesting insight into their relationship, or lack of one
In fact, the midfielder revealed that he barely spoke to Mourinho during the 2017/18 campaign, doing very little to quell whispers about a rift
His comments are very revealing, and do show that there may have been plenty of truth in suggestions of a fall-out
"I am not the coach. You will have to see with him," he answered when asked if the pair have an issue
"He made his choices. "There is the team, the coach has to make his choices. If he thinks he has to put me on the bench because I was not good or he prefers to change the system, it is his choice
This year, I have been on the bench. "Why? I was injured. Then I had a virus. Against Newcastle, I was taken off, I had a virus and I could not breathe
"Nobody knew, only the inside, me, the doctor, and I did not go crying in the media to say that I was not well
" Very interesting stuff from Pogba indeed. It doesn't bode well for the new season either, because if United are to bridge the gap to rivals Manchester City then they need to be working consistently as a unit
His consistency is up for debate, but there is no doubt that on his day, Pogba can do things with a football that very few others can
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'My daughter-in-law and I have a non-existent relationship' - Duration: 4:53.
Every family knows what it's like to suffer through internal tensions, wether it be with parents, children or in-laws
But when a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't get along, the resulting tension affects everyone in the family
The Sun's advice column got an anonymous letter submitted to it, and it has sparked online debate
Writing to the column Dear Deidre, she wrote: 'My daughter and I have had a non-existent relationship with my son's wife for years
We've tried to sort it out but she isn't having any of it.' The mother went on to explain that her son and his wife, who are both 28, were married six months ago, however, the mother revealed at their wedding she and her husband were mistreated
'My husband and I are in our early fifties and we weren't seated at the top table,' she wrote
'I was gutted because my son had told me that there wasn't a top table. There was – but it was all her family
' The concerned mother went on to say she and her daughter-in-law got on well at the start, 'but the relationship started to deteriorate between her and my 30-year-old daughter over silly things
' The mother explained that they've tried to sort it out over the years, but nothing has worked
She wrote: 'My son visits us on his own because he says his wife feels uncomfortable at our house
We are not welcome at their house because his wife doesn't want anyone visiting. Can you give me any advice on how to move forward with the situation?' Of all the relationships in family life, the one between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often the most challenging
No matter what the issues may be between a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, everyone in the family usually knows about them
Unfortunately each member of the family sees the situation from their own perspective — meaning they bring their own emotional baggage along, and as a result, it's difficult for any of them to stay neutral
Deidre says, 'Try writing a letter to your daughter-in-law explaining that you hate this conflict
'Say you realise something's gone wrong between her and your daughter but you want to make amends
Suggest you meet up in a neutral place. 'If she agrees make a real effort to be extra-friendly – compliment her on how she looks and take a real interest in her
'She may or may not change her tune, but at least you will know you've tried your hardest
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