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If I have a hope for my work

I think it's that I hope people will question that...

they will see the work, they will look at the work

and they will question how the animal died,

and why the animal died.

This is the kitten that was

donated by the woman who taxidermied it,

using a book out of the library,

and so it looks like home taxidermy –

you can see it's had quite a rough life

because it's been well loved.

The start point for the artworks

is the animal itself,

particularly if I have been given

the history of the taxidermy when it's donated,

and I try and work that history

into the artwork

and I try to create that visually.

I think that taxidermy

when you see it, it's in sentimental poses,

you know, it's serene,

it's got some lovely representation of nature there –

and this is the opposite.

This is quite unnatural and I don't particularly want

it to be serene because the violence

that was inflicted on it was anything but.

I do use vintage brooches

and vintage beads in my work

and I adorn the animals.

This is about honouring and giving them value

and there can be kind've

of a bit of repulsion with taxidermy

and this is creating a push-pull so that

when you look at the work you're

attracted – it's sparkly, it looks lovely

and then at the same time

you're repulsed because the animal is dead,

and you might question: How did it come to be dead?

I'm also exposing some of the

aggression that the human has inflicted on the animal,

because I'm looking at the taxidermy

and stripping back some of that fur

and finding bullet holes and knife wounds

that have been stitched-up, that are in the skin,

and then I'm emphasising those with the choice

of colours. And so the jewels, they have

incorporated into them this red,

which represents that violence but you also

have the beauty of the jewels,

which is the beauty of the animal itself.

I'm not sure if I'm trying to remind people

what the animal has suffered,

or whether I'm saying, you know,

we're all responsible, because, as humans,

we're exploiting animals all the time

and here's another reminder

of what we're doing to all animals.

So really, the one work represents

our entire relationship with animals.

For more infomation >> 'It's our entire relationship with animals': Angela Singer on her art and taxidermy - Duration: 2:48.

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How to Keep In Touch After an Internship (Relationship Building) | The Intern Hustle - Duration: 5:50.

If you've been focused on growing your

professional network and have been

taking the time to attend events and meet

new people - way to go! And if you already

have an internship under your belt, even

better. But what do we do when we have

these relationships and how do we

maintain them? It's really about the long

game, right? You need to make sure that

you are building long-lasting

relationships with people that are

authentic, not the surface level crap. So

here are my five tips for how you can

keep in touch with people in your

professional network.

Hey there! I'm Jenna Rein from theinternhustle.com

and this is Initiative

Muscle Monday -- Helping you to start each

week with an intentional step toward a

successful future. Let's do this! First of

all it's important that you're reaching

out once a quarter or so. So that breaks

down to three to four times a year, not

so bad. Why? Well it's because you don't

want to be reaching out when you just

need a recommendation from someone for a

job that you're hoping to get. And it's

really not that hard to reach out to

someone three to four times a year. Think

about it -- If you know their birthday,

there's one, and the holiday/New Year

season is always a great time to reach

out as well. And then you only need to

find one or two more reasons to connect.

So when you break it down it's not that

hard. And that's what leads me to the

next tip, which is what you can say when

you reach out to somebody. Reach out and

serve them, not you. Always be adding more

value for them versus asking too much of

them. Because nobody wants to feel like

they're just being used. Your goal here

is to give, give and give some more and

when the time's right they're going to

remember that and they're going to want to

come through for you too. So beyond the

birthday and holiday reach outs that I

already mentioned, what can you connect

with them on? Well, question is what have

you bonded with them over? So whether

you met them at a networking event or

you have more time with them over an

internship, did you learn something about

them personally, that was unique to them,

or something maybe that was unique

between the two of you? For example -- this

one's kind of silly but whatever it

works -- My team members at my last company

happen to know that I love Taco Bell.

Like love Taco Bell. I actually still

will get random messages from them on

Instagram or even over email when they

see some special announcement about

Taco Bell. And it puts a huge smile on my

face and it gives them a reason to

connect with me. And another great

example is if you know something

personally about their family, right?

Maybe their kid just qualified for the

State swim meet. Send them a note to

acknowledge their kid and let them know

that you were paying attention. Or maybe

you know that they love fly-fishing and

you came across this awesome Instagram

account all about fly-fishing... pass it on.

Again, you're giving you're not asking

for anything here. It's just a way for

you to keep in touch and continue to

build that relationship. Another way that

you can stay in touch with someone on

the professional level is by setting up

Google Alerts and following what's going

on with them, their company or their

industry.

So you go to google.com/alerts and

you type in their name or their company

name and enter your email. And then

Google is going to send you an email or

an alert every time this person shows up

in the news, or their company shows up in

the news. For example if someone just

signed a big new client and you know how

important that was to this person go

ahead and send them an email and

congratulate them. My third tip for you

is to keep things short and sweet. No one

really wants more email so your job is

to keep it short, upbeat and to the point.

And give them a reason to smile not a

reason to roll their eyes.

Speaking of reason to smile, it's okay to

throw in your accomplishments every now

and then as well. Keep them up to date on

your professional progress, and people

like to hear that they had a positive

impact on you.

It might also put you back on their

radar for someone that they want to work

again with someday. But just remember

that you want to keep it short and to

the point, and to always be focusing more

on them than you do on you. Tip number

four is to engage with them online. Are

they active on LinkedIn or Twitter? Great!

Read their articles, read their little

tweets, and engage with them. Leave

thoughtful comments or questions as

follow-ups. It's not only going to keep

you top of mind with them, but others are

going to see that and you never know

what opportunities may surface as a

result. And for the final tip, tip number

five, visit in person. So maybe you're

back in the area that you had an

internship or you met someone at a

networking event and you know that they

happen to live in the city that you're

visiting. Great! Reach out, see if they

want to grab coffee, or at the very least

if you can drop in to maybe

old internship and say hello to some

people. I did this every summer when I

was home, because my first internship was

back in my home state, and so it made it

really easy for me to drop in and say hi

to my mentor and get to make connections

with new people. Perhaps the new interns

that were there, but really just to stay

in touch and keep that relationship

going in person. The big takeaway here is

to consistently keep in touch with your

professional connections because if you

do it right they're going to be more than

happy to help you out when the time

comes. And they're definitely going to help

you out over someone who completely

forgot about them and has not maintained

a relationship or someone who maybe asks

a little too much of them. I hope you

found my five tips for how to keep in

touch with your professional contacts

helpful. If you did, please go ahead and

give this video a like and share it with

a friend or two. And while you're here

check out the description below where

I've linked my LinkedIn training. So you

can sign up for free and get access to

everything from setting up your profile

to really learning how you should be

using the social network to stay in

touch with people. Right? Everything we've

talked about in this video. I will be

back next week with another video. If you

haven't already, make sure you're

subscribed to this channel so that you

don't miss a thing.

For more infomation >> How to Keep In Touch After an Internship (Relationship Building) | The Intern Hustle - Duration: 5:50.

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సంతానం యోగం ఉండి సంతానం లేదనిబాధపడుతున్నారా |Astrology| Secrets of Wife and Husband Relationship - Duration: 2:20.

For more infomation >> సంతానం యోగం ఉండి సంతానం లేదనిబాధపడుతున్నారా |Astrology| Secrets of Wife and Husband Relationship - Duration: 2:20.

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How cautiousness allowed us to grow our relationship - Duration: 6:52.

Hello good evening

Thank you all for participating in the third webinar of my 90 day

well-being and health

Challenge Facebook group. It was awesome. Thank you very much for everybody who could not attend

I'm going to upload it tomorrow or

Monday at the very latest

So that you can also follow up what we have been discussing

It's Saturday and I would like I would like to reflect the week was was awesome. And

Something in our personal life this morning very early

My husband friends Ward Katharina to the airport. It's his daughter and

She is now

spending six months in

Toronto Canada

it's part of her of

her master studies so she will be

one

one

Semester she will be in in Canada. She's going to Portia

And doing some work there when she's coming back. She's going to Scotland

Edinburgh for another five or six months so that was a big step and

she was holding a farewell party on Thursday evening, and she was very emotional and

I was proud of her because she she did not stop talking

even though she was very emotional and

She had 30 people invited friends and some family members and she

She was talking about every every single one of them

So I was proud from with some people. She was very emotional and

Also France was very emotional which I very much like because he's

It's not a problem for him to show his vulnerability in these

Events, which I very much

appreciate because she's very human and

I think that he just passed that on to Catarina. She's very authentic and she persevered

so this morning when she he brought her to the airport, it was again, very emotional and she sent me a

Nice whatsapp message and she wanted me to come with her and she was very emotional. I

Was reflecting and thinking when I first saw her she was a very very small girl and

I remember exactly the place where it was and she took my hand and

It's all due to funds very very

Skilled way of dealing with situations. So it was

Thanks to him that the relationship between her and me

Had always the chance to grow in a very positive way he was never talking negative about

his wife

And he always gave her Catarina

Her own will and her own

way of taking decisions and

never spoke negative about any

Any participant in that?

Relationship with all of us so

We had the chance to really grow and harvest our relationship so we grew up really like friends and

It's lovely to see that she's asking me many questions I can help her with with

with some work that she is doing for her studies when it comes to

Read over it or just ask for help and support how I see things

because the whole

Her whole master studies is in English

She is now in in Stuttgart and that will be in total

Another two years and one year will be abroad as I said in Toronto in Edinburgh

Yeah, so today she left and she trusted to message us that she arrived very well, and she also called this is surprisingly

that's a new a new chapter in her life and

experience pure experience and

it's an adventure and

I'm very very happy for her that she took that decision to go. I

Remember when I I

had my

I was living six months in in England in Manchester near Manchester. I was in Stockport

when I did some translations for a company when I was

21 or 22 I think and that was that was an adventure as well

so

Doing something new challenge yourself and

Jump into the open you don't know what you will find, but just embrace what you can

Experience and be open to whatever comes

New things into your life that's something that I I really love and this is what we are doing here

building our own online business

Embracing what is available?

Working with tools that are at our hands

We have the digital business lounge. We have all these more than 6,000 Linda courses

It's amazing what we can do and we can craft so many things if we just see the options in front of us

Just learning something new

Thinking out of the box stepping

out of the comfort zone doing things that are new and unknown to us, which might be

connected with some fear, but once you have over it, it's it's very

Rewarding that you did the step

Yeah, so we will see how and I hope she likes which is very open a young girl young lady let's say she's 24

She's going 23. She's going to be 24 soon

she's very open and friendly and

There's no negativity around her which will always help her to succeed in life

Yeah, so that was my share for today and coming back to you tomorrow bye

For more infomation >> How cautiousness allowed us to grow our relationship - Duration: 6:52.

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4 Keys that should not be missing for a relationship to work - Duration: 1:49.

For more infomation >> 4 Keys that should not be missing for a relationship to work - Duration: 1:49.

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Should Men Pay For Everything In A Relationship? - Duration: 2:22.

Girls I just really need to speak up about this topic because I feel like in today's society it's

Just getting more and more taboo for when a man provides for the women. 50 plus years ago

That was the norm. That was the norm because we have gender roles.

Animals also have gender roles, kind of similar to our gender roles, you know!

So we are just living up to our gender roles when we expect a man to provide for us.

This is how he is able to show his masculinity

How else is he gonna do that? By pumping his muscles and grow them bigger?!

I mean a woman, she shows her femininity in many ways to the man. Her role is to be the caregiver.

Which she is and she expresses that by being nurturing caring taking care of a household, etc.

So a man only has one task and I don't think is that much to ask for really?

Think about this, us women

we are responsible for so many more things than just putting bread on the table.

We are responsible for bringing life to this earth.

We are responsible for making that life survive on this earth.

And there are so many more things that we are responsible of.

So I think going to work, paying the bills, is not really too much of a big deal for the man to do.

So all these cheapskates today that are

complaining about women, who they claim are materialistic because a woman who has a

mentality that she expects the man to be the breadwinner.

They manipulate women by saying that she's a gold-digger, that she's this, that she's that. Don't buy into that!

These are just cheapskates that want to use your body for free. They want to use your femininity for free

They want to use your caring for free,

They want you to bring him children to this earth for free!

So

Please don't buy into these thing and you really need to position this from the beginning in a relationship.

If a man cannot accept these terms then it's just simple. Goodbye...

You are incompatible with each other. There is clearly no future

because you have different mentalities and different ways of looking at things. And please women, there is nothing to be ashamed about it!

Just don't be manipulated by society is my only advice that I want to give you!

For more infomation >> Should Men Pay For Everything In A Relationship? - Duration: 2:22.

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5 Reasons Why Narcissists Can't Maintain Intimate Relationships - Duration: 5:30.

5 Reasons Why Narcissists Can't Maintain Intimate Relationships

If you currently have a relationship with the narcissist, then I believe this short

video will be useful for you.

Narcissism, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), is defined as a strong sense of "grandiosity,

a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration."

People diagnosed with NPD are often defined as arrogant, demanding, manipulative, and

self-centered.

Surprisingly, narcissists have an extreme self confidence, which draws some people attention

to them, however, you should know that this projection is merely an illusion, because

deep inside, they are actually quite a fragile individuals.

Moreover, they also often use this fragility as a source of simpathy from others.

Because of their traits as a narcissist, you'll hardly find a good relationship with any narcissists.

Narcissists tend to take advantage of any kind person's act.

Worse, they will see a person's kindness as an act of weakness, imagine a great white

shark that detects blood in the water.

While intimate relationship happens when the couple loves, understands, and respects each

other.

Such relationship is only a dream when it comes to relationship with narcissist.

If you are wondering why, here is the reasons.

#1 - They only want power

Narcissist demand appreciation of their power from their partner.

They do this by pretending to be weak, hurt, and desperate as a way to seek attention,

care, and kindness.

However, narcissist will use this to take advantage of others and leech their energy

to feed what they want, which is attention and attention.

#2 - They cannot trust others

Trust is one important element in a relationship.

Unfortunately, narcissists just cannot afford that.

They fail to trust others because narcissists are wired to see themselves as the one who

can be trusted.

Others are just additional objects that can be stirred to feed the narcissists.

#3 - Looking for motives

Narcissists always try to find out how to victimize their partner.

They will do it through some motives ranging from giving and taking affection to pretending

to be hurt, and being frustrated.

All of these are only used as bait so that the narcissist can have higher chance to use

their victims.

#4 - Abusive

If the other partner starts to make defensive move against the narcissists, things can get

worse.

They usually will start doing crazy things such as throwing stuffs and scratching their

body.

However, this can get worse when the other partner becomes the target of abusive behavior.

Literally, the other guy can be the punching bag for the narcissists.

#5 - It's impossible

It is just impossible to establish a good or even intimate relationship with narcissists.

They really just want you to be the victim.

Nothing else.

Despite the fact that they give you attention, care, and support, they will take everything

back, leaving you with nothingness.

All in all, that's the 5 reasons narcissists can't have intimate relationships.

Really cool information isn't it?

Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

Don't forget to subscribe to our channel and watch all our other amazing videos!

Thanks for watching!

For more infomation >> 5 Reasons Why Narcissists Can't Maintain Intimate Relationships - Duration: 5:30.

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How to diffuse relationship arguments in 10 seconds (2018) - Duration: 7:50.

can you have an argument free

relationship is it even possible at all

now for me to answer that question I'll

have to tell you the process of how we

deal with argument so we defuse any

argument in 10 seconds or less it was

the first time you're dropping by on my

youtube channel I'm Katherine Thomas and

every single day I post one video where

I share tips of how you can enrich and

enhance your relationship now many of us

we've been conditioned to think that

there is a right way and a wrong way to

argue in our relationship there is a

fair way and there's an unfair way of

arguing in the relationship but let's

look at the definition or a few

definitions of what an argument is

number one an argument is a statement or

a set of statements that you use in

order to convince somebody else that

your opinion of something is correct

number two a discussion or debate in

which a number of people put forward

different or opposing opinions and

number three an argument is a

conversation in which people disagree

with each other angrily or heatedly now

that is the one that most of us we have

utilized in our relationships where we

argue and we fight loudly angrily with

our partners with our spouses now early

in my relationship I can tell you guys

I'm the one who started most of the arguments

and the ones that I didn't start I

and usually when you argue with your

spouse or with your partner it's usually

over some small itsy-bitsy tiny things

until though say there's a fair way and an

unfair way a right way and the wrong way

to argue why I tend to disagree with it

is that no matter how you argue whether

you argue fairly whether you argue

heatedly or whether you argue kindly

somebody is always trying to win the

argument somebody is trying to get the

other person to see that their opinion

or their notion or their thought about

something is correct

now if you want to argue you can go to

the court or you can go join the debate

team but you don't need to argue in your

relationship so instead of arguing fair

or fighting fair or arguing calmly the

right or wrong way as they put it why

not just not argue at all now there's a

process to reach in the place where you

don't argue at all and as I've said

before I was the one who started most of

those arguments anyhow and the thing

about it guys is that you can't out

argue a woman and in the process you may

win the argument but in the process

you're losing at heart and therefore

early in the relationship

we went through a a process when two

people just come together to live in

each other's presence one person will do

things one way the next person will do

things another way and therefore it will

take some amount of time for you to

understand each other of how you get

things done because it's by

understanding your spouse that you'll be

able to diffuse or not to have those

arguments in your relationship now in

the initial stages what happened was

that when we had a big argument or we

had

argument my wife would go and she would curl up

and she just not talk to may cry because

of things i have said or how i handled

the situation and then when both of us

were calm we dealt with it i wanted to

deal with the situation right there and

then as we grew it reached a point where

we argued and we trashed it out right

there whether it was calm or whether it

was loud we argued on the trash though

right there but then what happened was

that one or both of us left the

conversation not feeling fulfilled by it

and therefore there was a kind of

silence in the home then It reach

another point where we argued calmly but

at the end of the day we made up we hug

we kiss and we put whatever there was

behind us so whether there's a right way

a fair way an unfair way I've tried

all of them and it didn't work what we

do now is that we have a conversation

and we have a discussion two adults

sitting down together and we put a and B

on the table

and we discuss a and we discuss b a

good C and D on the table and we discuss

C and D are a B C and D and we work

through the process and come to a

compromise

or come to an agreement instead of

arguing trying to win the conversation

but in 10 seconds or less or how do we do it

well this is how I do it whenever an

argument is about to brew I turn it into

a job a hug or a kiss I turn it into a

joke a hug or a kiss that's what I do

when an argument is about to brew my

wife just hold on to one of my hands

look me the eyes

directly and begin to speak and when she

is doing that there is no way under

heaven that I can argue with her I can't

i just can't argue with her and I can't flash

her off either can't do that

well I've never practiced doing that at any

point in your marriage but I just can't

do it

so she holds onto my hands or my hand and

begin to look Me in the eyes and she begin to

speak and then it just get diffused so

the argument in essence does not start

at all and we're about 97% of the way

right now in dealing with that because

we're headed to an argument free

relationship once and for all because it

can be done who says you can't have an

argument free relationship it is by

growth and in another video I'll share

how where my thought processes were

where I am today and where I'm headed

and how I was able to get to where I am

today where my wife was able to get to

where she is today and where both of us are

headed because of what we have done over

the years to develop such a connection

such a relationship that in 10 seconds

or less we can defuse any arguments that

argument just doesn't get started

at all so in our marriage in our

relationship we've experienced going three

four five six months without one single

argument without a one single argument and

because of that the love just continue

to be embellished and the connection is

strong because when there are no

arguments the emotions don't get dry out

and when there are no arguments and no

fuss and no fights then we can focus on

that which is important in building a

better relationship if you like the

videos I'm creating click the like

button below subscribe to my youtube

channel leave a comment share with the

community what do you think do you think

you can have an argument free

relationship or do you think that you always

have to fight leave a comment below like

my video and interact with the community

what do you think do you think you can

have an argument free relationship and

remember every single day on this

channel I share one video of tips of how

to enhance and enrich your relationship

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Why Prince Charles has a 'strained' relationship with sons William and Harry - Duration: 4:29.

</form>  Over the years, the royal family has seen their fair share of heartbreak and drama

 With affairs, break ups and deaths, they've really been through the mill - and they've been through it all under the watchful eye of the public as well

 The combination of these factors was always bound to lead to some tension and rifts among family members - and rumours of rocky relationships have been swirling for some time

  But according to a royal insider, there may be more truth to the rumours than we previously thought, especially when it comes to Prince Charles and his sons, Harry and William

 According to an anonymous source, the relationship between the two boys and their father is "strained"

  "They are very different people and they just don't get on. It's as simple as that

They rarely see each other outside of official business," the source told The Daily Beast

 And there's one thing in particular that the boys do that Charles disapproves of - public emoting

  Apparently the Prince of Wales "hates" that his children have become popular with the public for discussing their feelings about the loss of their mother, Princess Diana

 William and Harry opened up about their mother's death for a BBC documentary in 2017, marking 20 years since the tragic car accident which claimed her life

 The interview was intended to help reduce stigma around mental illnesses.  Harry, 33, said about his initial reaction to being told, while at Balmoral, that his mother was dead: "Disbelief, refused to accept it

"  Prince William, 36, added: "I remember just feeling completely numb, disorientated, dizzy

 "You feel very, very confused.  "And you keep asking yourself 'why me?' all the time 'why, what have I done? why, why has this happened to us?'

"  Charles did not feature in the documentary.   The 69-year-old had a difficult relationship with Diana, and is thought to have been having an affair with Camilla Parker Bowles throughout their engagement and marriage - with Diana once finding a bracelet he had commissioned as a secret gift for her

  Diana and Charles divorced in 1996 after receiving a letter from the Queen advising them that was the best decision for everyone

 As well as their "emoting", Charles is also thought to disapprove of the younger royals more laid back approach to royal tradition

 The Daily Beast reports that William, Kate, Harry and Meghan all call staff at the palace by their first name, which he views as a rejection of his communication style

 Writer Christopher Andersen has also suggested that Charles is unhappy with the amount of work William and Kate undertake

 He said: "William is unhappy with Charles's camp for promulgating the notion that the Cambridges aren't pulling their weight

 "In fairness, they have three young children and there is no reasonable way they can be expected to match the hundreds of tree-plantings, plaque-unveilings, ribbon-cuttings, hospital visits, and walkabouts Charles and Camilla perform each year

"   Despite these reports, Charles recently played a key role at the royal wedding in May, making a touching speech about his "darling" Harry

  The boys have also publicly praised their father's behaviour after their mother's death

Read More The Royal family  Harry said: "One of the hardest things for a parent to have to do is to tell your children that your other parent has died

 "How you deal with that I don't know.  "But, you know, he was there for us.  "He was the one out of two left and he tried to do his best and to make sure that we were protected and looked after

 "But, you know, he was going through the same grieving process as well."