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You may be seated.

Hello, Your Honor.

Good morning, Ron.

This is the case o Baylor v. Earls.

Thank you.

Good day, everyone.

AUDIENCE: Good day.

Miss Baylor, you petitioned the court for a DNA test.

You want to prove to your ex-fiance, Mr. Earls

that he fathered your three-year-old son, Marcus Junior.

Is that correct?

Yes, Your Honor.

You say Mr. Earls called off your wedding

just three months prior to getting married because of his paternity doubts?

Yes, Your Honor.

JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Earls,

you and Miss Baylor have been together

since you were 17 years old,

and you believe she's been unfaithful

the entire relationship.

EARLS: Yes, Your Honor.

Today, you're counter-suing Miss Baylor for a lie detector test

because you want the entire truth.

Yes, Your Honor.

All right. Miss Baylor, what have Mr. Earls' accusations and denial

done to your relationship?

Your Honor, his accusations have ruined our relationship.

It has tore us apart.

We have been together since I was 17, and he moved in with us,

and then we had two beautiful daughters,

and then after our third child,

we decided that we wanted to get married.

And he called off the wedding three months before we got married.

JUDGE LAKE: Really?

And we planned everything.

I had everything picked out, Your Honor.

I had a dress. He bought me a ring. Everything...

Our wedding day was supposed to be 12, 13, 14.

Like, that was so significant.

And it really hurt me for him to do that, Your Honor.

Can I submit this to you?

What is that?

This is my wedding planner.

I had everything...

JUDGE LAKE: May I see that, Ron?

BAILIFF: Yes, ma'am.

So you really planned an entire wedding?

Yes.

You had three children with this man...

BAYLOR: Yes, Your Honor.

...and I can see that really hurts you.

It hurts, like, so bad

for him to not think that my son is his.

Like, I don't know where these rumors came from,

I don't know who started them,

I don't know anything. I love Mr. Earls.

I wanna spend the rest of my life with him.

He's a beautiful little boy. So, Mr. Earls...

Yes, Your Honor.

You certain this child is not yours?

I'm certain. I'm 100% sure that that is not my baby.

So, this had to be really serious

for you to call off the wedding just three months before.

It was very serious.

What happened?

I went away on August 16,

and Sondra came and visited me,

two weeks after I was gone.

Uh, and she gave me some news that she was pregnant.

Okay, I was excited...

Come to find out a week later, she visited me again,

and she tells me, "I stepped out on you

"a month prior to the time you had left."

A month before I got pregnant with my son,

I did step out on the relationship. I did.

This was nowhere near the conception date.

This was a whole month before I conceived.

And when I told Mr. Earls that I was pregnant,

you know, he was happy, you know? We were both happy,

because we had two miscarriages before that.

Unexplained, you know?

And it devastated us, we wanted a baby. We planned to have my son.

And when he went away,

he just feels that, you know, the dates don't add up.

I suppose.

We didn't plan anything.

Okay, do you know what month you cheated in, Miss Baylor?

July.

Sure was.

Because I got pregnant in August.

I got pregnant August 14.

Let me go to my conception calculator here so I can understand this.

When was Marcus Jr. born?

He was born April 22, 2013.

JUDGE LAKE: Okay, now if we calculate the date of his birth,

your conception date would've been...

(JUDGE LAKE READING)

Yeah, but he's supposed to be premature.

That's about a ten-day window.

That's when you said you cheated.

I cheated in July, yes, Your Honor,

but that is not when I conceived.

My son was due May 7,

but I had a C-section due to...

I had two other kids,

my blood pressure goes up when I go into labor,

and I had to have a C-section.

That's why he was born April 22.

Miss Baylor, you're saying the baby was born early.

And so, your conception date

would actually have been later than what is projected here.

Yes.

Mr. Earls, do you think the baby was born early?

No, that baby wasn't born early.

She carried that baby full-term.

That is not true, Your Honor.

You don't know no baby

premature at six pound, nine ounces.

I know, that's a big baby.

(AUDIENCE LAUGHS)

I do agree. A six pound, nine ounce baby?

I mean that is a... That's a full-term weight.

EARLS: Yeah!

Exactly, because I was due May 7,

I had a C-section which was scheduled at 38 weeks.

Our daughters weigh five pound, seven ounces,

five pound, eight ounces, and they was full-term.

All babies are not gonna be born the same weight.

All my babies is.

No, they're not. No, they are not, because...

We're not going to get into that, because we're here to prove that my son

is your son.

EARLS: He is not my son.

BAYLOR: That is your son.

EARLS: Look, she carried him full-term.

She cheated on me in July, the time adds up.

She brought me all the way down.

I just want her to tell me the truth.

I wanna understand why you are cheating in the relationship.

I just felt like he was still lying to me.

EARLS: She couldn't close her legs.

So you... Who was this person you cheated with?

His sister's cousin.

So, this was a one-night thing?

A fling? What happened?

It was a fling, maybe. But not that long.

Just a couple of times and, like, that was it.

A couple too many.

But I used protection when I stepped out, unlike him.

He has two other kids outside of our relationship...

...that he stepped out on me on plenty of times.

I do. I do.

She cheated on me with the cable man.

No, I did not cheat on him with the cable man.

He was a friend.

Wait, when did the cable man get in it?

As soon as I went away, the cable man came in.

He was a friend. He took me to get my kids something to eat one day,

and we went to go play pool and have a few beers at the bar,

and I "cheated," supposedly.

My brother also even told me about some things.

What did your brother tell you?

Oh, my brother told me he caught her doing

mysterious things on her phone,

talking to others, talking about she wanna

meet up with them, and things.

We have your brother joining us today from your hometown.

That's good!

JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Earls...

Can you hear me?

Yes, ma'am.

Your brother has testified that you've caught Miss Baylor

in some very, uh, questionable circumstances. Is that true?

Yes, ma'am. About three weeks before, prior,

before my brother went away,

I caught Miss Baylor texting another dude

talking about how she wanna have sex with him.

The dude's picture kept popping up on the phone.

Miss Baylor?

Yes, I do flirt a lot.

I do. I flirt a lot.

Oh, God. Yeah, yeah.

More than a lot.

EARLS: Yeah, more than a lot.

BAYLOR: That is a lie.

But you were on the phone texting a guy.

BAYLOR: Yes, I was,

but Marcus has done me so much worse.

Mr. Earls, do you know anything else?

Uh, about two weeks after my bro went away,

we was having a get-together at the house,

and she was drinking, having a good time.

Next thing I know she burnt off,

and didn't come back till the next day.

She came home the next day?

PAUL: Yes, ma'am.

Who did you see her leave with, Mr. Earls?

A dude!

I left with my cousin,

and that's probably who he's seen me leave with, my cousin.

EARLS: That ain't her cousin.

Judge, she's a compulsive liar.

All right, Mr. Earls, thank you so much for your testimony today.

Yes, ma'am.

So, Mr. Earls, you say she just lies.

Yes, Your Honor.

JUDGE LAKE: And that's why you asked the court

to administer a lie-detector test.

Yes, Your Honor.

Oh, I just had a light bulb,

'cause I'm thinking to myself,

he is so mad at her for cheating,

and it is wrong,

but you were cheating, and you got two children outside the relationship,

but what you're most angry at, you're saying,

"You told me the truth, that you cheated,"

but you feel like she's making up this whole story

about the baby being early,

'cause she doesn't wanna admit that it's a possibility

that this other guy is the father.

She's in denial, Your Honor.

JUDGE LAKE: That's what's making you most angry?

Yes, ma'am.

So, when you found out she cheated

did you immediately have doubt?

Yes, I already knew like, it already...

It clicked to me. I was insecure.

JUDGE LAKE: What clicked?

That she cheated and that's his baby.

May I submit my evidence?

Absolutely. What did you bring for the court?

It's just the picture to show everybody in this court room

that this is not my...

Let me see that.

That is not my son.

You're presenting to the court...

...a side by side photo.

On the left-hand side is Marcus Jr.

EARLS: Correct.

JUDGE LAKE: And on the right-hand side...

Is a picture of you.

EARLS: Yes, Your Honor.

You don't believe you don't look anything alike.

EARLS: Nothing alike.

Okay, I have a question,

how did the baby get the name Marcus Jr.

then, if you never thought?

I felt bad. I always wanted a son.

I wanted a son with her.

I felt bad. I mean she crying in a hospital laid up

with her guts out on her belly.

So, I was like, yeah, you could give him my name.

BAYLOR: Your Honor...

JUDGE LAKE: So, wait a minute.

You seem like a strong-minded young man.

EARLS: Yes, I am.

How did you get to the hospital and decide,

"Okay, I'm gonna give this baby my last name as my Jr.

"and I don't believe he's mine."

That's, man, I can... Look, I don't know.

I just know I made a mistake.

Did you sign the birth certificate?

EARLS: I signed it.

You signed the birth certificate?

When you signed that birth certificate,

you acknowledged paternity, you understand that right?

Well, hopefully, this DNA can help me out.

You know black women like to put people on child support,

I ain't got time for that.

BAYLOR: You're not gonna pay...

Hold on!

Hold on, 'cause I'm a black woman.

No. No. Well, certain ones.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Your Honor.

JUDGE LAKE: Hold on!

Sorry, Your Honor.

JUDGE LAKE: Hold on!

Sorry, Your Honor.

Now we, look...

We get to the truth in this court room.

Okay.

JUDGE LAKE: Hold on!

Let's get something straight.

EARLS: Yeah, I'm back up...

It's women of all races and colors

that are receiving child support for children.

But let me be clear

the child support is for the child.

EARLS: Yeah.

(AUDIENCE APPLAUDS)

BAYLOR: Exactly.

And then let me be even clearer, you did this.

Once you sign that birth certificate,

you were responsible for child support.

So, don't come into my court room

talking about what a black woman gonna do

'cause this black woman gonna let you know.

(AUDIENCE APPLAUDS)

Now, I'm really ready for the results.

EARLS: Sorry.

Ron, hand me the lie detector results first.

Your Honor.

You were asked during the last ten years,

other than the one time you admitted to cheating,

have you had sexual intercourse

with another man?

You answered, "Yes."

The lie detector determined that was the truth.

That's because we split up.

Yeah.

Within that, we split up.

A lot of times, we split up.

Ms. Baylor, we asked you,

did you have sexual intercourse

with the man you admitted

to cheating on Marcus with more than one time.

You answered, "Yes."

Wow.

The lie detector determined that was the truth.

Wow.

I just mentioned that here, I've nothing to hide. I mentioned that.

Mr. Earls, you seem surprised.

She did testify in court today

that it was kind of a fling. It was more than one time.

Yeah, well, that ain't what I've been hearing

for the last three years.

JUDGE LAKE: So, you're saying

even though it was determined

that she was telling the truth,

the answer she gave to the questions are different

from what's she's been telling you?

Yes, Your Honor.

And that's why you called off the wedding.

That's exactly why I called off the wedding.

To be a man that's always wanted a son,

to be excited about it,

to go in the hospital, to give this child your name,

to sign the birth certificate

to be legally responsible for the child,

why is it, you haven't

been able to... It seems like you've done everything else.

I wanna give him the opportunity to know his father.

He knows his father for the...

I grew up without a father, okay?

I've been here for him, okay?

But I wanna give him that opportunity.

If you're not the child's biological father,

is this relationship over? Where do you go from here?

It's over, she, she, look, that lie detector test...

She passed it cause I mean,

I already knew she was lying to me all this whole time, anyway.

She passed it though.

You said the relationship is over

if Marcus Jr. is not your biological child.

EARLS: Correct.

But you had two children outside the relationship, and she stayed with you.

EARLS: She did, Your Honor.

Ms. Baylor, what are you thinking right now?

What are you feeling?

I feel that it is so unfair because...

I've been with him for so long.

I'm the one who's been there,

but he can have babies by other women,

and then always run off to them

but you wanna leave me?

But my son is his. They look so much alike.

You can tell, like, I wanna be with Mr. Earls

for the rest of my life. I love him.

He's the only man I know since...

17 years old. I was young.

Like, he is all I know.

JUDGE LAKE: If Marcus Jr. is not Mr. Earls' biological child,

where do you go from here?

I mean, I would love to be with him

but I can't make somebody stay if they don't wanna stay.

Even though, I did step out, yes,

but I was there for him.

All right. Well, I have the results.

Let's get to the truth.

In the case of Baylor v. Earls Sr.

When it comes to three-year-old

Marcus Earls Jr.,

it has been determined by this court...

Mr. Earls, you...

...are the father.

I told you.

I told you.

I have my doubts, I have my insecurity.

But I do love that little man.

JUDGE LAKE: And I'm sure he loves you too.

You're the only man he knows as his father?

EARLS: The only one.

Then does it hurt you in this moment that you did

carry that doubt for three, four years of...

Yeah, that's what's killing me right now.

I'm sorry, and I'm sorry to you too.

I'm sorry, too.

JUDGE LAKE: This is...

...a time for you to stand up and be the man,

the best man you can be.

You're right, Your Honor.

When you give a child your name,

there's a responsibility in that,

because when he looks to the example

of who he can be in this world,

his first point of reference

is gonna be the man that has his name.

So that means, it's time for you

to create that life so your son

can have a life he can emulate.

That's how you break the cycle.

That's how you make sure he doesn't end up

in the places where you've been.

If you all are gonna build a family,

or try to figure this thing out,

you got to set a proper foundation.

All this sleeping around outside the relationship...

No, no, no.

It's time to pull that all together.

Talk through it,

because I can tell you do both love one another very much.

I do love him.

I do love her.

JUDGE LAKE: And love is worth fighting for.

EARLS: Yes, it is.

Go fight it out in a good way this time, together.

Court is adjourned.

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5 Steps that You Should Take Before Starting an Open Relationship|HFE♪ - Duration: 8:55.

5 Steps that You Should Take Before Starting an Open Relationship

Have you and your partner thought about an open relationship? Could you actually have this type of relationship in your life or do you think that it would cause too many complications?.

Have you and your partner talked about the possibility of having an open relationship?.

It's currently becoming more and more common to find partners that choose to have more flexibility in their relationships.

This type of relationship is common in both younger couples who want to experiment without complications as well as partners who have been together for years and have become bored with the same routine.

In any case, there are some steps that you should take in order to have an open relationship that makes everyone happy and that will not cause any problems.

Define what it means to have an open relationship and what each person wants from it.

It may seem simple, but each person has limits and expectations that should be made very clear from the start.

Even if you think that your ideas and values are the same as your partner's, take the time to talk about everything that each person wants and will allow.

For example, you could think that your partner only wants the opportunity to talk to other women, without any sex or with only occasional sex.

However, he could be looking to start a relatively serious relationship with another person that includes relatively frequent sexual relations.

When it comes to topics as sensitive as sex, it is important that everything is made very clear:.

The number of partners, If it will be a casual relationship or a long lasting one, How long the open relationship will last, If you'll be the priority or just another girl in your partner's life.

We know that putting all of these things on the table isn't easy.

 So, you shouldn't try to force the conversation or make any immediate decisions.

It's best that you take at least a month to think and talk these things over.

Analyze if you're actually willing to share you partner.

After understanding what it is that your partner wants, take your time to figure out if it is okay with you.

Some people have no problem with their partner talking to other people.

However, they will never be okay with them having sex with others.

Meanwhile, other people are excited by the idea of an open relationship.

They can explore new things, games, and sex without limits.

When it comes to this point, it's important that you think about yourself.

 How far can you let your partner go without feeling that he is hurting you and without your self-esteem being affected?.

Imagine all of the possible scenarios and understand that emotions that they could cause.

Overall, it's important that you don't accept any conditions that you don' agree with, even if it seems fine to your partner.

Establish the limits with a lot of detail.

Even though it isn't necessary, it might be a good idea to write down the rules that are to be followed.

Make these rules while considering the expectations and limits that both people have established in the previous steps.

It may seem pointless, but at any point one person might feel unsure or in doubt about how far they can go.

As time passes, you can make changes based on your experiences.

With time, you'll discover new things that you want to try and limits that you don't want to pass.

The most important thing is that, no matter what, you're both respecting these limits.

This keeps the trust intact after having an open relationship.

Talk about your open relationship often and discuss any necessary changes.

The rules that you have should be changed every so often.

To do this successfully, it's important that you regularly talk about how you both feel.

Determine if there are any changes that would make you more comfortable.

Every conversation should be focused on the first step.

It isn't uncommon to find couples that, once they've experimented with an open relationship, realize they want to make substantial changes.

Again, remember that neither you nor your partner should accept situations that you are not comfortable with.

Accept that your relationship will change.

If you;ve had a stable relationship for many years, you'll notice a lot of changes if you choose to have an open relationship.

Typically, it's common that at the beginning there will be a lot of emotions, adrenalineand excitement about meeting new people.

As the relationship continues, you'll surely feel doubt, insecurity and jealousy.

 In addition, it will also change the relationship that you had with this person, depending on your personalities.

Some couples' relationships will greatly improve and, after a few months, they won't have the same problems that they had.

In other cases, the relationship will get to a point in which the couple realizes that there is no longer a reason to continue it.

What is certain is that the relationship with go through considerable changes and that you will both see life differently.

 The way in which this changes your relationship depends on the strength that you both have and the love that brings you together.

Have you and your partner thought about an open relationship? Could you actually have this type of relationship in your life or do you think that it would cause too many complications?.

What has been your experience if you've already had one?.

For more infomation >> 5 Steps that You Should Take Before Starting an Open Relationship|HFE♪ - Duration: 8:55.

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Abraham Hicks 🙂 Rampage For Every Relationship ~ No ads during video - Duration: 4:58.

So just for fun let's move up the emotional scale, in the subject of

relationships. So I sure wish I had my I sure wish I had one because it's lonely

business not having one right. Look around I see other people who have

relationships and I hate them. Wouldn't it be nice if I was inside of a well

created well intended well exercised vibrationally relationship? Wouldn't it

be nice if I could observe the aspects of my life and others and from it, see

aspects of things that I don't want and see aspects of things that I do want. And

note the difference. And wouldn't it be nice if every relationship whether it's

a personal, romantic, sexual relationship or whether it's a friendship with

someone or whether it's a meeting of a stranger. Every relationship every

relationship has positive and negative aspects. And wouldn't be nice if I was so

often tuned to the perspective of who I really am that I just saw the best in

everyone. So even though I know that my vortex is full of all of these things

that I've carved out that I want in a relationship by looking for positive

aspects everywhere I look I'm practicing those thoughts and those feelings on a

regular basis. Wouldn't it be nice if I just got that down so good that on that

subject I began to feel no lack at all. Would it be nice if I felt solos lack on

that subject or most any other subject for that matter.

I'm just feeling good in my now. Wouldn't be nice if everywhere I go people are

Ronda viewing with me and together we are knowing that we are so much more

than we were when we were singularly focused. Wouldn't be nice if I could

consciously be aware of the vibrational harmonic cooperative component dynamics

of interacting with other people no matter who they are and no matter where

I encounter them. Wouldn't it be so nice if I could be moving through this world

through the eyes of source where everywhere I look I see advantages to me

and to them. Wouldn't it be a wonderful thing if every conversation that I have

there is equal upliftment only to them or to me. Wouldn't it just

be the most wonderful thing if I was meeting more and more people at my level.

And wouldn't it be wonderful if my level was up here in this place of pure

positive energy. Wouldn't it just be the best thing ever if my inner being and I

are in steady concert with one another not because my inner being is lowering

my vibration but because I am rising to the vibration of my inner being. And

wouldn't it be just the best thing ever if law attracts you would match me up

with others who have been doing this same work. So that we are people who are

in vibrational alignment with our own intervenes and isn't the most logical

thing in all of the universe that Law of Attraction would bring another who has

tuned in tapped in turned on to me who is tuned in tapped in turned on and

wouldn't that just be the most explosive dynamic relationship that I could

imagine. Isn't it wonderful to understand law of attraction? Isn't it nice to have

a guidance system to know where I am? Isn't it nice to know where I am on the

emotional scale at all times? Isn't it nice to know that it doesn't matter

where I am I can get back there anytime I want to. Isn't it nice to know that I

don't have to be there a hundred percent of the time.

Isn't it nice to know that I could be there a hundred percent of the time.

Isn't it nice to know that I have control over the vibration that I feel.

Isn't it a wonderful life that I get to walk through my day-to-day experience

and witness the evidence of what I'm doing vibrationally. Everything in my

experience every relationship that crosses my path every single person that

I encounter my relationship with everyone and everything is evidence of

the vibrational relationship that I have accomplished with my inner being. I love

being the deliberate creator of my own experience. I love knowing about

vibration and focus. I love knowing about emotion. I love having this understanding

of how it all fits together. I love being the deliberate creator of my experience

and I love teaching through the clarity of my example. I love knowing than what

anybody else is feeling isn't about me and I love knowing that I don't have to

feel the way anybody else is feeling. I love teaching - the clarity of my

example. I love hooking up with my inner being just like I said I would, walking

this path together focusing upon the things that matter and taking thought

beyond which it has been before. I love being on the precipice

of relationships the way they were meant to be. I love having the vibrational

relationship with my own inner being first and foremost that's what's most on

my mind and then I love watching what comes next.

This is a good time for segment of refreshments.

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