News on Youtube Oct 27 2017

Are you hooking up with someone, but wonder if this could be something more?

So many people are stuck in the "friends with benefits" stage, but want to turn it

into a real relationship. How do we do that though? That's exactly what we will

be discussing in today's video.

Hey everyone, welcome back to TLC Thursday. I am your host and coach for

today. My name is Christal Fuentes, Author of "How

to be H.O.T. - Your Guide to Becoming Happy, Open and Trusting in Your Relationships"

as well as the founder of TheLadiesCoach.com. A site that gives women free

resources that can make their life a little easier. Today we are going to be

talking about how a friends-with-benefits relationship can

turn into the real deal. So many women ask me if it's possible, and what I think. First of all I

think friends-with-benefits usually gets a bad rap. I think the common

misconception is that women are incapable of having sex without emotions

getting in the way. And although that could be true to some extent, that is a

very generalized statement. I think people forget that women are also sexual

creatures, and a lot of women are sexually wired. Meaning more than

anything for these women, sex gets the priority. Who's seen Sex in the City? We

all know and love Samantha right?

"Yes it was. Now if you'll excuse me I have

another tour group coming through my vagina in ten minutes."

Truth is she's not an unrelatable character, in fact lots of women relate

to her sexual drive. Everything about Samantha was the benefits of it all. With

that said, even Samantha turned a friends with benefit relationship into

real love. Now I know this is a fictional character but like I said before, she is

actually very relatable. So for all of my "benefits" babes, I want you to know that

it's definitely possible to turn a sexual relationship into true love, but

there's definitely some things we have to know and that's what we're going to

be chatting about now. Before you turn your booty-call into Prince Charming, you

have to tell the truth about what's real and what's not. If he or she is not on

same page and you know this to be true, then forcing a relationship is not going

to work. A relationship is a choice two people make to be together, not just one.

One way you could put your feelers out there, is to see if your "friend" is

initiating any quality time with you. Especially if you're dating a masculine

man, a man will usually show his interest in someone he's pursuing. But don't be

afraid to do some initiating yourself. It's obvious you both have aligned

sexual interests, but it's important to see if you guys have shared non-sexual

interest. You can do this by inviting your friend to be a part of some of the

things you enjoy doing. If you notice this person is also inviting you to do

the same, then that might be a good sign. Once you start spending more time with

each other outside of the bedroom, the next thing you can do is get to know

each other on a real level. What does this person value in life, and is it congruent

to your values? What matters most to this person and is it something you can

support? Where does this person see themselves and does it conflict with

your own vision? It's important we get more clear about who we are wanting to

jump into a potential relationship with, because the number one thing that kills

relationships most is the illusions we create about our romantic partners. The

stories and false realities we make up in order to persuade ourselves that it's

okay to jump into a relationship that may not

be right for us. So pretty much what I'm saying is tell the truth. Get to know

this person, without getting stuck on the outcome you want. When we get too

attached is when we play ourselves, and that's exactly what we don't. You

want this person to see your most authentic self, so you know they are

falling for the real you and not an illusion. Okay so now you are starting to

spend more I'm outside of the bedroom. You're

participating in each other's interests, and have aligned values and visions. The

next thing I recommend you do is ASK. It doesn't hurt asking this person where

they see this relationship going. In fact it gives you clarity for where you could

be directing your energy. Again, don't get too attached to a specific outcome

because at the end of the day you really want to make sure it's not one-sided, and

both of you are choosing to invest in this together. Even if they don't want

a committed relationship, at least you have gotten clear and aren't prolonging

a one-sided relationship. But since I like ending videos on a high note I will

say some of the most beautiful relationships I know started from a

friends with benefits. Does this help? I want to hear from you.

Do you have a friends-with-benefits story that ended up in true love? Comment

below! Also if you've gained any insight from this video and know someone who

could use this, please share it with them. As always, make sure you subscribe to

this channel and don't miss any more videos. We come out with videos every

Thursday, and head to theladiescoach.com for more resources that can

make your life a little easier. Til next time. MUAH!

For more infomation >> How to Turn "Friends with Benefits" into a Real Relationship - Dating Advice for Women - Duration: 6:32.

-------------------------------------------

TERESA GIUDICE TALKS JACQUELINE LAURITA RELATIONSHIP - Duration: 2:23.

TERESA GIUDICE TALKS JACQUELINE LAURITA RELATIONSHIP: 'I'M SO DONE

Teresa Giudice is not happy with her former co-star and friend, Jacqueline Laurita.

According to a new report, the Real Housewives of New Jersey star and mother of four recently

addressed her ongoing feud with Jacqueline Laurita during a book signing for Standing

Strong, which was released several weeks ago.

"I'm so done.

When you love somebody in your house — love your family and find out their true colors

and they're backstabbing you, it's sad.

I wish her well, I just don't want her around me anymore.

I want good energy," she revealed to Life & Style magazine on October 26.

As fans of The Real Housewives of New Jersey may recall, Teresa Giudice took aim at Jacqueline

Laurita last season by labeling her former friend as "toxic, miserable, evil, [and]

psycho."

Giudice also said that Laurita allegedly goes around hurting people and said she was a miserable

person who never left home.

She even told her co-stars that Laurita was a cuckoo bird with issues.

At last year's reunion taping for The Real Housewives of New Jersey, Teresa Giudice took

major aim at Jacqueline Laurita and Caroline Manzo, who left the show after Season 5, were

the ones who called the IRS on her and her husband, Joe Giudice.

As fans well know, both Teresa and Joe Giudice were sentenced to time behind bars for bank

and wire fraud in 2014.

At the end of 2015, Teresa Giudice began a 15-month prison term at the Danbury Correctional

Facility in Connecticut but was released to her family just 11 months later.

As for Joe Giudice, he is currently behind bars at the Fort Dix Federal Prison, where

he will serve a 41-month prison term.

"You hurt me.

You hurt my family.

You should be ashamed of you," Teresa Giudice said at the time.

"I'm so happy I got that off my chest.

I believe that.

I do believe that.

I believe it in my gut.

I feel it in my gut."

For more infomation >> TERESA GIUDICE TALKS JACQUELINE LAURITA RELATIONSHIP - Duration: 2:23.

-------------------------------------------

What's a Healthy Romantic Relationship?!? - Duration: 8:44.

For more infomation >> What's a Healthy Romantic Relationship?!? - Duration: 8:44.

-------------------------------------------

Rufus Sewell on Lord M's "changed relationship" with Jenna Coleman's Queen in Victoria series two - Duration: 2:34.

Rufus Sewell on Lord M's "changed relationship" with Jenna Coleman's Queen in Victoria series

two Victoria's beloved former PM will make an

appearance in Sunday night's episode, reuniting with Jenna Coleman's Queen Victoria and Tom

Hughes' Prince Albert Rufus Sewell is back as Lord Melbourne in

series two of ITV drama Victoria – but don't expect everything to be the same between the

ex-Prime Minister and his Queen.

"What wouldn't work is trying to repeat the situation and the dynamic that Lord M

and Victoria had in series one, fun though it was to play," Sewell says.

"That had to end."

Victoria's beloved former PM will make an appearance in Sunday night's episode, reuniting

with Jenna Coleman's Queen Victoria and Tom Hughes' Prince Albert.

"By the time Albert arrived Melbourne's role and the nature of his relationship with

Victoria had changed, as it should," Sewell continues.

"After that Melbourne, who had always been a very vital man, changed and ageing caught

up with him relatively quickly so what was interesting was navigating his changed relationship

with Victoria and also with Albert.

"There had been a certain level of imagined antagonism to start off with, but actually

in reality they liked each rather a lot once the original suspicion went away, so it was

lovely to come back to work a little more with Tom Hughes."

Lord M resigned as Prime Minister for the final time in August 1841, and while Victoria

continued to write letters to him for a short period after he left public office, Sewell

initially expected not to appear in the second series of Daisy Goodwin's historical drama.

"One of the things that appealed about the role originally was that it was finite; a

lovely contained story with a beginning middle and end," he explains.

"I really didn't want Melbourne to be hanging around beyond the natural span of

his story.

"All the same, I knew that if all went well, I'd probably regret leaving when it came

to it and it turned out I was right.

"When the producers came to me with a way to bring him back in season two that was still

true to the story, I was only too happy to come back."

For more infomation >> Rufus Sewell on Lord M's "changed relationship" with Jenna Coleman's Queen in Victoria series two - Duration: 2:34.

-------------------------------------------

Chelsea ace Eden Hazard opens up on relationship with Alvaro Morata - Duration: 2:21.

Chelsea ace Eden Hazard opens up on relationship with Alvaro Morata

And the Belgian believes top players don't need long to get on the same wavelength. The Blues signed Morata from Real Madrid this summer for £75m.

In Chelsea's weekly newsletter Hazard said: "He's a top striker. When good players play together, they don't need to train two years.

"When we are on the pitch, we can see the movements he does and his technical ability is good so, with Alvaro – and, before, with Diego as well – it's good.

"I try to have a good connection with my striker because, in my position, it's good to have this player who is like a target man, so I need a good connection with him.".

Hazard will hope he can fire alongside Morata in the Premier League this weekend against Bournemouth. He explained: "We lost the previous two games, to Man City and Crystal Palace, and we did better against Watford.

So, we just want to keep going in this way, and win. "We know Bournemouth is a good team, they like to play football and have good players, but when we go there we do well also.

"Last season, we scored three goals; two years ago, we scored four goals. "So, yeah, I think everything is ready for us to have a good game.".

Chelsea are currently fourth in the Premier League, nine points behind leaders Manchester City. Hazard has yet to find the net in his six top flight appearances this season.

Morata has settled into English football vey well though, scoring six times in eight Premier League games.

For more infomation >> Chelsea ace Eden Hazard opens up on relationship with Alvaro Morata - Duration: 2:21.

-------------------------------------------

The Power of Core Assets: Positive Relationship Building - Duration: 1:22.

Hey, my name is Mike. I'm a mentor with Friends the Children. We're here at Gabriel Park.

We're doing something called ice-blocking. These guys are sitting on blocks of ice and sliding down the hill.

And I think everything that we teach them, that I teach them, is all about getting along with one another.

Positive relationship building is based on one of the foundational parts of our program.

You know, everything that we do builds on the relationship that we have with one another and with the youth that we serve.

If you think about our lives and what we do professionally, even our career goals, It's all about relating with our

fellow co-workers, our supervisors, making relationships in and among the community,

even relationships interpersonally in our homes so

being able to have a positive,

positive relationship building skills at this age is an essential building block

for success going forward.

For more infomation >> The Power of Core Assets: Positive Relationship Building - Duration: 1:22.

-------------------------------------------

Daisy Lowe addresses rumours of a lesbian relationship with Louise Redknapp - Duration: 2:36.

Daisy Lowe addresses rumours of a lesbian relationship with Louise Redknapp

After they met on Strictly Come Dancing, model Daisy Lowe and singer-turned-TV-presenter-turned-singer Louise Redknapp quickly became best friends.

The duo appeared on last year's show, with Daisy being eliminated seventh, and Louise making it all the way to the final and a runners-up spot.

Since the show finished, the pair have often been seen together, sparking claims of a same-sex fling. For some reason, people seem to struggle with the idea of two famous women being friends.

Rumours of a romantic relationship have only continued since Louise split from her ex-footballer husband Jamie. Daisy was quizzed about their relationship recently on ITV's Lorraine.

"Louise is so much fun, it was good to see her come alive and blossom that way [on Strictly]," she said. "We bonded over our love of theatre and dancing. Louise and I were each other's cheerleaders.".

And now Daisy has addressed the suggestion that she and Louise's relationship is romantic or sexual. "I'm aware of all the lesbian hints. It actually makes me laugh," she said on her Femme podcast.

"People find it strange we are friends. Why? She's an amazing, warm, honest woman. I'm proud of her. This is what women should do, support each other.".

She added: "I don't use best friend often especially with someone I've only known for a year but Louise Redknapp completely changed my life. "The two of us became these kind of wonderful confidence boosters for one another.

While Daisy launches her podcast, Louise has made a shock return to music.

The former Eternal singer's third and last studio album was Elbow Beach in 2000, and 17 years later she shared a picture on Instagram of her in the studio recording new material.

She announced an "intimate and live" show in London and will follow up the date with a full tour in January 2018. Watch Louise Redknapp's reworking of Eternal's classic 'Stay', recorded this year at Metropolis Studios, below:.

For more infomation >> Daisy Lowe addresses rumours of a lesbian relationship with Louise Redknapp - Duration: 2:36.

-------------------------------------------

Man Utd star Ander Herrera insists he has a fantastic relationship with Jose Mourinho - Duration: 2:58.

Man Utd star Ander Herrera insists he has a fantastic relationship with Jose Mourinho

The United manager and the Spanish midfielder had a somewhat public spat following their sides shock defeat to Huddersfield at the weekend.

But the Red Devils returned to winning ways with a 2-0 Carabao Cup victory at Swansea on Tuesday night and Herrera was determined to silence talk of a rift between him and Mourinho.

We have a fantastic relationship, but what I said was that in the first 30 minutes they had a better attitude than us, Herrera said.

But after that we had a good attitude and we were even close to drawing the game, which is not so easy after playing bad the first 30 minutes. But now we want to forget what happened on Saturday.

"We have a fantastic relationship, but what I said was that in the first 30 minutes they had a better attitude than us." Ander Herrera We want to move forward for a massive game against Tottenham and try to win.

After the defeat at Huddersfield we needed good feelings back, because when you lose a game you want to play as quick as possible and play well. Second-placed United go into Saturdays game at Old Trafford above Spurs on goal difference.

It is the start of a huge eight days for United who welcome Benfica in the Champions League on Tuesday before hosting Chelsea the following Sunday. It is a big week, but Tottenham is our target now, Herrera said.

It is a tough game and Tottenham is a direct rival for the title. They are there every season.

In the last two or three years they have improved a lot and they are contenders for everything; for the Champions League, for both cups and for the league.

We saw the game they played with Real Madrid and they were not worse than them. So that means they are ready for anything. United kick off against Spurs at 12.30pm.

For more infomation >> Man Utd star Ander Herrera insists he has a fantastic relationship with Jose Mourinho - Duration: 2:58.

-------------------------------------------

Shin Min Ah and Kim Woo Bin's relationship as he continues with his cancer treatment. - AMAZING NEWS - Duration: 2:30.

Recent reports revealed more details on Shin Min Ah and Kim Woo Bins relationship as he continues with his cancer treatment.

Min Ah and Woo Bin have been dating for over two years, and are often called a visual couple, thanks to their good looks.

Kim Woo Bin was diagnosed with head and neck cancer earlier this year and is currently focusing on chemotherapy.

Recent photos of both of them visiting the hospital together circulated the internet, proving that Min Ah has been a great emotional support for Woo Bin.

By staying strong next to her boyfriends side, Min Ah provides both the emotional and physical support that Woo Bin needs during his toughest time.

"I saw the two of them visiting a general hospital together located in Seoul".

— Eye Witness.

Min Ah also released an official statement through her agency.

"I am helping Woo Bin with his treatments as best as I can.

— Shin Min Ah.

Fans only wish him a speedy recovery and thank Shin Min Ah for being an incredible support by his side.