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Sarah Ferguson and Prince Andrew: a closer look at their unusual relationship

  Sarah Ferguson and Prince Andrew: a closer look at their unusual relationship The couple remain on the best of terms, despite their split in 1992.

Its been 21 years since and were officially divorced, and yet the former couple have managed to maintain a remarkably close relationship – so much so, that there has been speculation in the past that they will one day remarry.

The foundation for their bond is twofold; friendship and family.

Both parents are devoted to their daughters and , and have worked hard over the years to give the girls a solid and stable upbringing, despite their decision to split.

We take a closer look inside Sarah and Andrews unbreakable bond….

Sarah and the Prince – the second son of the Queen and Prince Philip – were introduced by the late.

Initially, the couple met as children, but fell out of touch in later years; in her autobiography, Sarah recalled sneaking away from her fathers polo matches as a youngster to play tag with like-minded truants – including Prince Andrew, who was just my age.

Years later, Diana invited Sarah to a party at Windsor Castle, where the pair met again and promptly started dating.

Andrew proposed after a whirlwind romance and the couple announced their engagement in March 1986.

They were married at Westminster Abbey on 23 July 1986, and welcomed daughter Beatrice in August 1988, followed by Eugenie in March 1990.

But, by the following year, the marriage was in trouble.

The couple decided to legally separate in 1992, triggered by the demands of his naval career – which meant the couple saw each other for a mere 40 days a year for the first five years – as well as rumours of her infidelity.

Four years later, the Duke and Duchess announced their mutual decision to divorce, in May 1996.

Reflecting on the split in a 2011 interview with Harpers Bazaar, Sarah admitted: I didnt want a divorce but had to because of circumstance. Of her 1996 divorce deal with , she said she had opted for friendship not money, explaining: When I met with Her Majesty about it, she asked, What do you require, Sarah? and I said, Your friendship, which I think amazed her because everyone said I would demand a big settlement.

But I wanted to be able to say, Her Majesty is my friend— not fight her nor have lawyers saying, Look, she is greedy. I left my marriage knowing Id have to work.

I have..

Certainly, Sarah seems to remain on good terms with the royal family.

Despite with her former father-in-law, , she has maintained a close connection with the Queen, who frequently invites her to at Ascot.

She has also acted as a representative of the royal family in recent years, standing in for Prince Andrew with the approval of the palace, and has been welcomed as a guest at Balmoral, the Queens Scottish estate, on a number of occasions.

She and Andrew also maintain a close friendship, and uniting for all major family events, including Princess Beatrices graduation in 2011.

More recently, Sarah and Andrew – who she  in a 2013 interview - purchased a chalet together in the Swiss ski resort of Verbier, some 20 years after their divorce.

In an last year, Sarah gave a revealing insight into her bond with Andrew.

A table cant stand on three legs, really, so you have the Duke and I, and the two girls.

Were a family unit and we lead by example.

We support each other emotionally and we support each other health wise.

At least every two weeks we sit down and communicate, the four of us. She continued: I think the one thing Ive done incredibly well – although I say it myself - is that Im a really good mum.

And I think my girls shows that..    .

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Love after 50: How to Create a Healthy Lasting Relationship without Past Trauma - Duration: 11:07.

there's always bumps in the road in every relationship but when you

understand your partner's past dynamics the childhood traumas that they're

bringing into you and you both get it there's a whole new way to communicate

through those traumas

welcome back to our second act with Paige and Silke we're continuing a

conversation with Riana Milne about childhood trauma and how that affects

our relationships as adults Riana welcome back to the show Thank you Silke

thanks for having me Riana in our in our last two segments you know you took

us through what childhood trauma is and you know how we recognize it and and and

how you deal with it what I'd like to focus on I want to our

last segment today is how do you know how do we build an emotionally healthy

relationship and what does that look like sure

ideally it's two consciously aware evolved people and research those the

best and longest lasting relationships are those that are spiritually based so

that's number one so get yourself out to webinars and seminars where other

spiritually conscious minded people exist that's number one but once you're

in the relationship what it looks like is a balance of me you and us like a

triangle okay okay so time for you time for them and time

as a couple it should be balanced it shouldn't be all about you all about

them so keep that in mind equilateral triangle then I have another saying it's

you and me against the world so your partner always comes first no matter

what even when you have children the problem

with a lot of breakups they put the children first they don't do their date

nights they're not having intimacy the family breaks up by the time the child

goes off to college huge mistake that's interesting that you

state that I is because of our generation especially mm-hmm you would

say the children are always first know if you put your partner first and that's

maybe why we have so many breakups that's right so the children grow up

actually accepting Saturday night is mom and dad's date night they are just going

out that's what we do we get a sitter Friday night is family night it's either

board games or we all go to a movie together an event so you know there is

dynamic than the family that I also teach I teach a lot of family work but

you and me against the world so friends don't come first I always say a four to

one ratio on couple states to friend dates I hear this all the time well

when's the last time you had a date together the eyes go up to the ceiling

like so that's too long oh well we go out with friends all the time no not

good enough because the guys are talking about football but women are talking

about careers or recipes whatever that kids and they're not relating on an

intimate basis for days as a couple to one as a group really good probably

recommended at that okay requirements are met that the top five to six

requirements are met as a couple of requirements or non-negotiables so if

I'm working with somebody in their 30s and they want marriage in a family they

don't stay with dating someone who says well yeah kids are okay no no it's like

yes I want kids I've always seen myself as wanting to be a dad that's a

requirement there non-negotiables like I Scott from the TV show he goes well he

must love dogs if he doesn't love dogs it's not for me perfect one of my crazy

requirements is must love to dance and do it well and I've got an incredible

boyfriend that dances amazing because that's part of something I really enjoy

so you know those are the things requirements know what they are and

don't to settle because you're not gonna be happy your emotional needs are met

you know they they show you their love and the ways that you need and your

functional needs are met so functional needs are are they a good partner around

the household are they neat are they clean

do they help with the cooking and the cleaning you know they're good partner

in all areas that you need there's no hard and fast rules but what are your

emotional and functional needs we need to define that point in our life we

should know what those are exactly and then do you have the same dream for your

future together what does one year three years five

years ten years look like to you and they better well match especially over

50 right so and I'd say also practices good health

mind/body/spirit because if you do those things and you don't have a partner that

does its gonna you're gonna have a hard time you really are and I did want to

mention to silca about you know family dynamics and you know childhood trauma

goes through the generations and the first segment when we talked on there

having 210 traumas if you are someone from childhood trauma mom or dad had it

too so think back and then their parents had it so this goes through the

generations and the only way it stops is if you go through an intensive coaching

program like mine that totally deals with life love and trauma from the past

and getting rid of it and being clear of it and then bringing your children up or

grandchildren up in an environment where it does not exist that is so essential

how do you work with people I know you said globally which means you have give

us an example of how we would work with you okay well I live in Delray Beach

Florida paradise except during the Hurricanes and I do have local clients

but primarily I have global clients and just like you and I I work through Skype

so and I have a 200 page workbook that they get and a live-in love book and we

work together module by module and everyone presents to me a different

puzzle a different dynamic so from their answers on the worksheets I then know

how to turn around and help them so the notebook is the magic and the other

books are the research but you really need the magic to all come together and

someone to guide you through where your dynamics were and how to change them so

it's a six-month VIP program or I also have a 90-day online school what's

called the life and love training academy and I have relationship rescue

for couples and dating to mating for singles and again people of all ages and

backgrounds attend the school platform do you do you have an example especially

somebody our age that you know I have a perfect yes okay one of my clients I

call her Marie came in and she says Rihanna I'm here to help

you me through a divorce and I looked at her file and she was 72 and she's been

married over 40 years I said you really want a divorce now at this phase of life

he's cheating on me all the time he's cheating again well how old is he

78 and I'm like well you try coaching with me she goes well yes I went

coaching to raise my self-esteem I've lost myself I don't know who I am and I

hear that all the time I haven't been happy he's verbally abusive and mostly

abusive he ignores me he's passive-aggressive

she's definitely in a toxic relationship and I said Marie this is a program for

you so she I said can we get Ken in here she was probably not he doesn't think

anything's wrong with him so I said well let's start so I started with her and

she started changing and became more appealing and attracted to him and a

book loved beyond her dreams was sitting on the table one day she was out he

picks it up and reads it he calls me in this gruff voice he goes are you Rihanna

the coach and I said yes I am he goes womp Ken Murray's husband I said hey how

you doing you want to come in and see me he goes yeah I think I better he goes

you know there's personality things you talked about in the front part of this

book the 14th personality types that can break your heart and said yes because I

probably have about six of them I didn't think I was the problem but I guess I am

I said look the relationship is in crisis

we're not pinning a problem on either one of you come on in I'll catch you up

then we'll go together and since then he was cheating he admitted that he never

admitted that before to her she just suspected it they sold that house where

he cheated in the house they bought this beautiful new home together in a

community where she is active he was active and they are doing amazing today

so I'm like you don't want to divorce at this stage of life guys you've come this

far so he was like it was so amazing to see the transformation from her anger

and the resentment and she was so closed down all the time and him just saying

I'm not dealing with it so he went off and did his own life

and then now they're walking in holding hands and they're happy and it's really

a beautiful transformation that's why I love what I do well and I love happy

endings

I'm not going forever we already have we're already out of time on our segment

again yeah I love that story I mean that that is that is hope very late in life

and that that's a great example so thank you for sharing that I would encourage

you know all of our viewers if you if any of this resonates with you if this

is yet that meetin I need to look into this deeper do get in contact with

Rihanna again we have all of your information on our website as well as in

the video description below and you know I hope that we'll do a lot more have you

back a lot more there's so much is so much more to talk about is there

anything anyone last-minute thing you want to leave our viewers with we 4mad I

mean if there is always bumps in the road in every relationship but when you

understand your partner's past dynamics the childhood traumas that they're

bringing into you and you both get it there's a whole new way to communicate

through those traumas so like Ken and Marie they had no idea what was going on

there is hope there is answers I would love to help you I would be truly

honored please reach out to me well thank you thank you somebody was great

talking with you and we look forward to having you back again on another episode

thank you our second act with patron silica thanks okay bye bye everyone

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