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if you're listening to me today I want to let you know that sometimes the

person you need the most in your life is the person that you best without. you know

we fall in love and we attach our happiness to someone and when the

relationship goes south or when it becomes abusive, one-sided, we still remain in the

relationship because we believe that we will change the person or that one day

the person will realize just how much we love him or her. Then you realize that some

people sacrifice their happiness they sacrifice their being, their self worth

they sacrifice their bank account, you know, their strength gets drained by that

relationship. I want to let you know today that you cannot force someone to

love you ,to value you , to respect you to be faithful to you, to make you a

priority. When you are having to force a relationship, when you are having to do

more than it should take to make a relationship work, walk away from it. I

understand married people who refuse to walk away from a marriage that is

abusive and which is so painful to them because they do not believe in

divorce but what about you who is not married? what is your excuse?

Stop begging for a relationship then you should be closing. Some people come into

your life to teach you lessons so when they are done teaching you, they walk away.

Don't try to bring in someone who doesn't have any other thing to do in

your life , don't make the person remain in it. you are only going to create a

disastrous situation for your life, for your emotions and for your finance sometimes.

You need to let go. You need to take that bold step. You need to be brave and let

go of that person. There are times when your absence

from this person's life is going to make him or her realize just what a

blessing you have been. You deserve so much better in your life. You deserve

someone who loves you, who cares for you, who values you, who respects you. Don't

go through so much pain because you want to make a relationship work.

There is that person waiting to love you, to care for you. There is that woman

waiting to teach you that a woman can make sacrifices for a man as well and a

woman can give you and not just receive. There is that man who is out there

waiting to teach you then you have a value and that he wants to respect and honor

you as a woman. If you want a beautiful future, you may have to leave that person

you think is the best for you. Thank you for listening to me. Bye!

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Hoarding: How to Change Your Relationship With Stuff - Duration: 9:40.

Is there some sort of mental condition that causes hoarding

and prevents you from fiding a solution?

That's the question for today and we're going to answer it.

Hi there. I'm Angela Brown, and this is Ask a House Cleaner.

This is a show where you get to ask a house cleaning question

and I get to help you find an answer.

Now, today's show is brought to us by MyCleaningConnection.com,

which is a resource hub for all things with

really cool cleaning stuff.

One of the things you're going to find in the resources section

is a whole section on hoarding.

If you are a hoarder or you know a hoarder, there are some books that I personally recommend

that are going to help you over that hurdle.

Okay, so the question for today comes from a woman who asks this: "Angela, I'm wondering

is there some type of mental condition that a hoarder has, because sometimes I become

so overwhelmed with the purchase or overwhelmed with doing something or not doing something

that I should be, that I can't even think myself through rationally to the right solution

or option."

All right, so back to hoarding.

The question is, is there some sort of mental condition that is preventing a solution for

hoarding?

Now, my answer is this.

I'm not a licensed therapist, I have not been through the psychosomatics of hoarding, and

so I don't know the medical terms.

But what I do know is this.

There are a lot of really fine people that I know who have hoarding tendencies.

Maybe you're not a full blown hoarder, but maybe you hoard certain things.

Now, for example, I have a true confession.

I come from a hoarding background.

My grandparents were hoarders, my parents were hoarders, and there's nothing wrong with

the things that they hoarded.

I hoard books.

My house is immaculate but I hoard books.

There was one particular time I woke up and

I realized I had over 10,000 books in my personal library.

I've always been an avid reader and I love books.

But I realized with the advent of Kindle, I don't need 10,000 books.

So, I personally changed my view on why I had those books.

Now, as a hoarder, you can do this, too.

You can ask yourself why do you have these tendencies?

Where did this come from?

It probably came from something very innocent, like maybe your parents didn't have enough

of something when you were growing up.

Therefore, they stored things and saved things and hung on to things, so that they could

reuse those or get the most value out of them or whatever, and you have brought those values

with you into your adult life.

It's nothing to be ashamed of.

It's just a state of mind.

If you take this on as, "Oh my gosh, I'm a hoarder.

My life is shameful.

I can't focus.

I can't concentrate," just pick one item.

For me, it was my books.

I said, "Okay, I don't need 10,000 books."

Some of them I've read and I love those books, and so I hung onto those books.

Those go in my reference library.

All of the rest of them, if it's not ... On a scale of 1 to 10, if it's not a 9 or a 10,

it goes in the other pile.

The other pile, I put labels on the inside of the books, and I said, "Hey, this is a

complimentary book from Angela Oberer."

Oberer is my married name.

"Enjoy this book or pass it on to a friend."

What I did is every time I go church, there's a little bookshelf out in the front of the

church and I would take books from home.

They were like self-help books or books on families or books on getting along with people.

I would take those books and I would leave them at the church.

Then I would go to the gym in the morning and there's also a bookshelf at my gym where

people can buy and borrow books.

I donated a bunch of books to my gym.

So, every morning when I would go to the gym, I would take stacks of books.

Again, these are all self-help books, or books on how to better yourself, or books on ways

to make your life easier, or declutter your home, or whatever.

Then every time that I would go to a coffee shop, I would take a couple of books.

I would slip them in there and I would leave them on the table for other readers to drop

by as they were having a cup of coffee.

I started leaving books all around.

Then what happened is I started running into people and they're like, "Oh my goodness.

You're the person that gave me the book."

I'm like, "Oh, okay.

Thanks.

I glad you got some good use out of it."

The good news is this.

You can start with one item and start giving it away.

As you give it away, you're freeing up space in your life.

Now, for me, I had a tendency to buy cheap things.

I love cheap things.

I love discounts.

I love bargains.

I love deals.

A lot of hoarders do as well.

When you go into a store and you see, true confession, you see a pair of water shoes,

okay we all need a good pair of water shoes for the beach because we all go to the beach

all the time, right?

So, when they are on sale for $2 a pair, we need to buy six pair of those water shoes,

right?

They're in our size and they're only $2 a piece.

Because we spend so much time at the beach, not, we need six pair, right?

Not.

Okay, so I ended up with six pair of water shoes that have now lasted me over 20 years

because they never wear out because I never go to the beach.

But I saved these six pair of shoes for this reason.

It was a symbol to me that I had a problem.

I realized that, wait a second.

I bought these because they were on sale.

I don't need water shoes.

I don't use the water shoes.

So, unless I'm running through the sprinkler in my yard and I need a quick pair of water

shoes for some strange reason, I don't use them.

For me, what I did is I changed the way that I think and I made Walmart my new storage unit.

Here's how it works.

Walmart stores all my stuff.

I own all the stuff at Walmart.

Not really, but in my head.

I own all the stuff at Walmart, and it's my storage unit, and Walmart pays people to display

everything for me.

Without buying anything, I can go and I can walk up and down all the aisles, and I can

look at all the stuff that I own.

Not really. I don't really own it. I'm just saying.

I don't have to move anything around.

I don't have to trip over anything.

I don't have to pick anything up.

I don't have to pay taxes on the storage unit.

There's no cost to me whatsoever.

Only, only when I take something out of the storage unit do I pay the price.

Oh.

Suddenly, I don't have to warehouse all that stuff myself.

Walmart does that for me.

I can go, and there are time, believe it or not, I've gone into Walmart, I've gone up

and down all the aisles and I've walked out with nothing but one thing.

It's not a basket of things.

It's not six pair of shoes that are on sale for $2 a piece.

What it is, is okay, they're on sale, they're $2 a piece, when I need them, when I'm going

to the beach, if I run out of water shoes, at that point, I will come back to the storage

unit, everything is nicely organized, I know exactly where it is, I will buy that one item.

I will pay the fee on it at that time and I will take that one item home.

It changed the way that I shopped.

It changed the way that I bargain shop.

It changed the way that I started thinking about my stuff.

As a house cleaner, I think about stuff a little bit differently than other people because

in my head, everything has to be dusted.

If I have a collection of stuff, that means I have to dust.

If I have clothes, that means they need to be hung up and there must be closet space.

As you start thinking of things in a different way, you're changing your relationship to stuff.

I used to save these plastic containers that prepackaged food would come in because they

had nice ... They were nice plastic and they had nice snap-on lids that were air tight,

that were great for refrigeration and freezing and all this stuff, but after I got like 200

of these little tubs, I was like, holy cow.

What am I doing with 200 tubs that are empty?

I'm not going to use these 200 tubs.

I ended up donating them all and saying, "Okay, now no more tubs."

I also got rid of prepackaged food that I don't eat anymore.

But it changed my thinking and my relationship to the stuff.

So, pick one item at a time.

It might be kitchen storage containers, and it might be water shoes, and it might be books.

I don't know what it is for you, but like I say, there's some really fine people who

have some hoarding tendencies, and they may only hoard one or two things.

But if hoarding is consuming your life and you can't function because you can't find

anything, and so you just go out and buy another one, then there's a problem.

If that's you, now's a time to pick up a good book or two on hoarding.

Don't do anything until you've read through it and you've implemented the things that

are inside that book, because there is a cure.

There's a cure for hoarding.

Once you find the cure for you, and once you start changing your relationship to things,

it frees up this huge load of junk, and weight, and the overbearingness of mold and mildew,

and just crap that gets buried and embedded inside your stuff.

Along with that comes rats, and ants, and mice, and all other kinds of things if it's

not contained and it's not maintained.

Today might be a day for you just to change your relationship with stuff.

All righty, that's my two cents for today.

Until we meet again,

leave the world a cleaner place than when you found it.

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Relationship Rules of Survival and Expectations Guide | CoupleThing - Duration: 2:31.

how am I supposed to make you feel better when you don't tell me what's

wrong what's the matter decoding decoding you said

nothing was a matter how was I supposed to figure out what's wrong you should

know if I had a dollar every time you said that we've been together four years

I'd have at least fourteen hundred $60 maybe then you could afford a clue

what is it that it you expect from me Shall I spell it out for you? go ahead

Ooh not now babe. I'm doing my hair. That's the level of intensity of attention that I want.

the ratio of product to hair makes all the difference in the outcome of whether

it's a good hair day or about hair day one slip of the hand could cause it to be too greasy

requires a tremendous amount of concentration you're not defusing a bomb

ever treat your son away from my view because it comes across the city

that's my brain thank you change is Natalie's respondent and I cannot

control something

sometimes - hi Marie I need you to set aside for any time for just the two of

us it's important to enjoy each other's company without distractions

okay then well there's only one thing I want from you baby

anyway if you don't subscribe you're missing out I'm using every Wednesday at

4 p.m. Eastern Standard Time forever

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Professor Green hints that relationship with Millie Mackintosh was a 'mistake' in Instagram outburst - Duration: 3:28.

Professor Green hints that relationship with Millie Mackintosh was a 'mistake' in Instagram outburst

Professor Green hints that relationship with Millie Mackintosh was a mistake in Instagram outburst Professor Green took to Instagram to speak his mind.

has vented his frustration at being repeatedly mentioned alongside his ex-wife, , in the media.

Despite never mentioning her by name in a long Instagram caption, the singer, whose real name is Stephen Manderson, strongly hinted at the identity of the former Made in Chelsea star, claiming that her only claim to fame is me.

Sharing a photo of himself with bleach blonde hair, Stephen wrote: Over three million records sold, a few top tens including a number one for two weeks.

loads of top 40s, tours, shows to god knows how many thousands of people, all off of the back of my hard work, LIVES SAVED by the work I've done by putting my own suffering out there to help others through the 7 HIT documentaries I've made and all when I started with [nothing]. .

He continued: No chip on my shoulder about it, just facts - take that in and then try and understand HOW frustrating it is to constantly have my name mentioned next to a person [whose] only claim to fame is me.

Ive been so quiet this whole time, but Im so… bored of PR spinning… headlines because there isnt anything else she does of any relevance to speak about.

Apart from holiday.

Speak about my work, do that.

Criticise it if you want, Im cool with polarising people, Ive never wanted everyone to love me.

But STOP spinning everything I say to keep bringing up one bloody mistake I made. .

Professor Green recently teamed up with Prince William to surprise a group of students to talk about cyberbullying and mental health.

Kensington Palace posted a photo from the morning on Twitter, and speaking about his decision to support the cause, the rapper said: Ive always had anxiety.

Before I knew it was anxiety I used to tell my nan that I had a bellyache.

Later in life my dad took his own life and so did his brother.

I know a lot of people who have suffered a hell of a lot due to mental health issues so its something that means a hell of a lot to me..

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Click-B's Kim Sang Hyuk Confirms He Is In A Relationship - Duration: 0:45.

Click-B's Kim Sang Hyuk Confirms He Is In A Relationship

Love is in the air for original Click-B member Kim Sang Hyuk!.

On March 28 KST, a source from his agency Koen Stars confirmed reports that he is currently dating. They stated, Kim Sang Hyuk has been in a relationship with a normal civilian in her 30s since the beginning of this year.

They are currently dating happily just like any other couple. They are not at the stage where they are thinking of marriage. We ask for your support.. Soompi. Display. News. English. 300x250. Mobile. English. 300x250. ATF.

Kim Sang Hyuk originally debuted in 1999 as a member of Click-B. He is currently known for appearing on various programs as a panelist or a guest. He is also a regular panel member on I See Your Voice 5..

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Click-B's Kim Sang Hyuk Confirms He Is In A Relationship - Duration: 2:09.

Click-B's Kim Sang Hyuk Confirms He Is In A Relationship

Love is in the air for original Click-B member Kim Sang Hyuk!.

On March 28 KST, a source from his agency Koen Stars confirmed reports that he is currently dating.

They stated, Kim Sang Hyuk has been in a relationship with a normal civilian in her 30s since the beginning of this year.

They are currently dating happily just like any other couple.

They are not at the stage where they are thinking of marriage.

We ask for your support..

Soompi. Display. News. English.

300x250. BTF Soompi. Mobile. English.

300x250. ATF.

Kim Sang Hyuk originally debuted in 1999 as a member of Click-B.

He is currently known for appearing on various programs as a panelist or a guest.

He is also a regular panel member on I See Your Voice 5..

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