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Relationship Between Product and User - Duration: 12:08.

I'm Asrul

We're in "GOJEKIN"

wait no, "GO-JEK Talkin"?? "GO-TALKIN"??

ಠ_ಠ

Hey brother

what are we going to do now?

Introduce ourself right?

"GO-TALK About It"

My name is Asrul, from Product Engineer at GO-FOOD, I'm in charge for iOS platform

how long you've been here?

this May will be my 3rd year in here

My name is Arlinda

I'm Product Manager at GO-PAY

I was Porduct Manager at GO-JEK before

now at GO-PAY, is it different?

it is different

1 2 3 ..

stay with us at GO-TALK About It ༼ つ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ༽つ

here's the question

I think you have to go first

wow my photo ʘ‿ʘ

just rip it off

what does product engineer do?

(ʘᗩʘ')

what do we do?

smoking maybe

just kidding (͡ ͡° ͜ つ ͡͡°)

I can tell you from mobile engineer perspective

first thing we do is designing a catch up with designer team

so after we decide what features we're going to do

first thing we do is designing a catch up, because we want to see how it is implemented in the feature

at this stage we will have a lot discussion

the point of Mobile Engineering is

We build a feature for the app people need after conduct a research

also coding

of course, the point is we do coding

don't give hard question

I have no idea, I'm not the one who made this question

what are the difference between product engineering and product management

(▀̿Ĺ̯▀̿ ̿)

we become a slave of product management

no

I think the different is product engineering do coding

that's true right?

and the product management is more likely to gathering requirement

thinking about road map product

catching up with the business, marketing, and the others

I think that's the difference

I think it's right

how do product engineering see the users?

in my opinion

maybe there are some engineers don't understand this thing

when we developing a product and feature what we have to think about is being a user centric

actually is not only product manager jobs to analyze user behavior data

but we as product engineers have the responsibility to understand what users need

and from there we can decide what feature what we want to make in the future

that's right x3

especially in here(GO-JEK), a lot of developer already challenge a product manager

yes

when there's 1 requirement like

when there's 1 requirement and they be like

what is it for?

what's the impact?

what's the function?

what's the purpose?

something like that

and one of them is Asrul

how do product manager work with product engineer?

for me I have my own philosophy

relation between product manager and product engineer is like chef and waitress

so engineer is the chef

and product manager is the waitress

Product Manager is the one who ask the customer what they want and tell it to the chef

that's my philosophy for this team

so if there's an error in our product

customer will be angry at us

that's my opinion

do you agree?

yes I agree with you

but the point is we're working together as a team

what makes product engineer frustated

for me personally, what make me frustated is

product manager

no no

requirement that always change

might be caused by business impact

or

design that always changes

who are you going to be angry to then?

product manager right?

no no no

not that I'm angry

but more like we give a feedbacks

or change at the end of the sprint

that's the best one to make frustated

what is the most fulfilling part of being product manager?

I think the answer is pretty much the same between product manager and engineering

when our product is used and loved by people

(ღ˘⌣˘ღ)

that's the priceless fulfilling part

agree

when someone is posting our product online and they said "this is cool"

that's it

What are the perks of dating a product engineer?

PD : what are the perks of dating product engineer?

dating product engineer?!

I understand

sorry I never date product engineer

(☞ﾟ∀ﾟ)☞

the perks of dating us is when you wanted to build a startup and needed a website

take an advantage of him to make website

ya ya agree

how about product manager?

there's none

we got nothing, would even be more complicated

would be asking for difficult things

poor my girlfriend

If you have a chance to become a superhero,

what do you want to be and why?

hmmm which superhero

Saras 007 *actually 008*

SARAS 008

haha I'm old

Ironman is my favorite

because Ironman is makes more sense

we can actually build it and he's also rich

PD : this part is empty because we want you to ask questions one to another

oh alright

I have to ask a question for you

the question is

just don't ask about my salary

don't worry

what is the most memorable moment in GO-JEK?

you've been here for how long?

this May will be my 3rd year, I'm so old

what is the most memorable moment in GO-JEK?

the most memorable moment was when we wanted to re-create GO-JEK apps

the first phase of version 2.0

at that time, there's still few numbers of engineers

for me, personally, we didn't have much experience to go to through this thing

there were lots of delayed process and we were facing other problems, too

at that time, we were really excited

full of intrigue

Intrigue and Inpolimic

but we've learn so much from that

now you should ask me question too

as one the female product manager

compare to others

what do you feel working in tech company as a female which I think mostly dominant by male?

to be honest, for me

I don't know what other females are thinking, but for me

I'd rather dealing with male employees

really?

because there's no hard feeling

Do you usually have hard feeling?

a little bit *just kidding

we are arguing a lot

and if you are arguing with guys

after we finished, there's no hard feeling if I work with male

hmm what else

and sometimes become a minority giving you some advantage

and benefit

yes something like that

This or That

how long have you known each other?

I know him for about 2 years

I've known him in GO-JEK for about 2,5 years

she was a loyal customer of my coffee

ya that's right

where is your coffee now?

It's already bankrupt

he used to sell coffee

Coffee Bundar

you guys supposed to know each other very well

yes supposed to be

but we never really work together

yes we never work together

I'm the man who love to play

too lazy to work

i'm in trouble if my wife know this

for buying cameras

I rather meet ghost

ghost will attack you

but ghost won't kill you

thief might kill you

lots of discounts using GO-PAY

for you guys who just watch our session,

we have a question for all of you

choose one of the product

thank you for watching us

if you want to know more about product engineer and product manager in GO-JEK

you can follow our instagram at

that's right

finally you remember our instagram

and for you guys who feel your job is not challenging you enough

or often work overtime

you can join us

you can join GO-PAY or GO-FOOD *or GO-JEK

*go to this link if you want to know more and want join us*

and also follow our linkedin at GO-JEK Indonesia

and subscribe our youtube channel Life at GO-JEK

you can find this kind of videos at our youtube channel

you can watch our previous episode there's Galih and Nabil explaining about UX

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Trump downplays Michael Cohen relationship, hints at more active role at Justice Department - Duration: 4:20.

YANG: President Trump started his day on the phone, calling into what seems to be his favorite

show, "Fox and Friends."

The president sounded off on all sorts of things, from the investigation into his personal

attorney, to the activities of the Justice Department.

Here to walk us through all of what the president said, our White House correspondent Yamiche

Alcindor.

So, quite a way to start the morning, Yamiche.

YAMICHE ALCINDOR, PBS NEWSHOUR WHITE HOUSE CORRESPONDENT: This was a pretty long phone

call from the president.

He talked about Hillary Clinton in that election.

He sounded like he could have talked for several hours.

At one point, the FOX News host asked the president about his personal lawyer, Michael

Cohen.

Cohen recently said he would plead the Fifth in a lawsuit filed against the president by

porn star Stormy Daniels.

This morning, Trump seemed to distance himself from Cohen and downplayed the work that Cohen

did for him.

(BEGIN AUDIO CLIP)

TRUMP: Well, as a percentage of my overall legal work, a tiny little fraction, but my

goal would represent me and represent me on some things.

He represents me like with this crazy Stormy Daniels deal.

He represented me, and I hope he's in great shape.

But he's got businesses, and his lawyers probably told him to do that.

But I'm not involved, and I'm not involved.

And I've been told I'm not involved.

(END AUDIO CLIP)

ALCINDOR: This was rally important, because the president -- his words were used against

Michael Cohen today.

The lawyers for the federal prosecution, which, of course, affect criminal case involving

Michael Cohen where he's being accused of bank fraud, they wrote a letter to the judge

saying, look, the president is saying that he only did a little bit of work for -- that

Michael Cohen only did a little bit of work for him, we should be able to see these documents

and there won't be that much privilege.

And the judge said, you know what, we're going to have a special master, which is not

what Cohen's lawyers wanted.

Now, this is seen by legal experts as a good win, because the president's lawyers and Michael

Cohen's lawyers wanted an independent person to go through all those documents that were

seized during that raid.

So, it's in some ways, it's kind of a win-win.

But the other problem is, though, that the president is out here talking.

He's out here giving these interviews, and that's problematic for Michael Cohen because

he's contradicted him on all sorts of things.

And I should say, legal experts tell me that if they had a client like President Trump,

they would be in real problems because you want someone who will control your client

and not contradict somebody that's in federal -- that's involved in a federal investigation.

YANG: And it wasn't there -- it didn't end there.

There was -- there was more.

ALCINDOR: Yes, the president took aim, as he often does, at the Justice Department.

He hinted that he might take a more active role in the agency's investigation.

(BEGIN AUDIO CLIP)

TRUMP: I'm very disappointed in my Justice Department, but because of the fact that it's

going on, and I think you'll understand this, I have decided that I won't be involved.

I may change my mind at some point, because what's going on is a disgrace.

It's an absolute disgrace.

(END AUDIO CLIP)

ALCINDOR: Now, again, this is kind of typical of the president.

We've seen him talk about the FBI, especially the top tier of the FBI, saying that they

are crooked, that they're corrupt, that they're out to get him, that there's a witch-hunt.

But it's important that the president is saying, I might take a more active role.

That means he could maybe fire Robert Mueller.

That means he could maybe fire other people.

So, people are very worried, and the legal experts I talked to said that we should watch

for things like this because it could be little crumbs that he's leaving for what he could

do.

But I should say, just to turn back to Stormy Daniels and her lawyer, her lawyer was really

happy today.

He said that this is kind of stunning that President Trump is out here giving these interviews,

talking about these things.

He said it's making their case stronger and stronger by the day.

So, it's really problematic in some ways, at least that's what legal experts tell me.

YANG: And the opposing lawyer is happy about that.

What about the White House lawyers?

What about Trump's lawyers?

ALCINDOR: So, from the White House perspective, I talked to them, they said, you have to go

to the personal lawyers.

They want nothing to do with this.

Trump's personal lawyer has been very, very tight-lipped.

Stephen Ryan said he was OK with the special master, that he was a fine pick.

She's a retired federal judge.

They're not upset about that.

But, really, a lot of people aren't talking.

I talked to so many or tried to talk to so many lawyers there, or secretaries, their

PR people, and no one really wanted to talk about this.

And that probably goes back to the idea that the president is someone that's hard to control

and his lawyers are trying to figure out what to say when he's giving 15-minute-long interviews

to "Fox and Friends."

YANG: White House correspondent Yamiche Alcindor, thanks so much.

ALCINDOR: Thanks.

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What You Need To Know About Gamora And Thanos' Relationship - Duration: 3:59.

Gamora from Guardians of the Galaxy knows better than anyone else that parents just

don't understand — especially when they're power-hungry madmen like Thanos who aren't

your real dad anyway.

"I hope they remember you."

After ten years and 18 movies, Marvel Studios finally pulled the trigger on having the Mad

Titan Thanos go toe-to-toe with the Avengers.

But while everyone knows the Eternal's main mission is to acquire all six stones for the

Infinity Gauntlet, a big part of that mission revolves around his adopted daughter, Gamora.

But how did this relationship begin in the first place?

It changes depending on whether you're talking about the Marvel Cinematic Universe or the

comic books, and also depending on which comic you're reading — but the general skeleton

of their relationship remains the same no matter what.

Forget the finer details — this is all the stuff you need to know about the relationship

between Thanos and Gamora.

As established in the comics, Gamora is the last surviving member of a pacifist race called

the Zen-Whoberis— or Zehoberei, as they say it in the MCU.

When she was a young girl, her people were completely wiped out by a powerful invading

force.

Afterwards, Thanos discovered her alive and decided to adopt her, seeing great potential

in her as a deadly warrior.

On the surface, that's pretty selfish — but in an accidental fashion, it's also sort of

nice.

That act of compassion for the sake of violence in the midst of utter destruction would do

a lot to warp Gamora's developing mind in the comic canon — but in the movies, it's

so much worse.

In Gamora's comic origins, it was the evil Magus and his Grand Inquisitors who destroyed

her race.

But in the movies, it's established that Thanos himself is the one who exterminated her folks,

giving their relationship an intense and complex twist with an icky undercurrent of emotional

abuse.

Over the course of her childhood and adolescence, Thanos was a stern disciplinarian of a father

who only occasionally betrayed his compassion for his ward, and the harsh upbringing hardened

Gamora into exactly the sort of warrior Thanos wanted her to be.

But in spite of his goals of galactic domination and mass murder, he's not 100% evil.

Regardless of everything else, Thanos does love his adopted daughter in his own weird

way.

While he's violent and harsh to Gamora, he's flat-out murderous to anyone who hurts her.

The ninth issue of Warlock and the Infinity Watch sees Gamora get attacked by a group

of violent crooks who outnumber and outmatch her.

While she was saved by Thanos, it was only after the gang had already brutally beat her.

Her body broken, Thanos demonstrated his peculiar compassion by nursing her back to health,

making her better, stronger, and faster than she was before, replacing her entire skeleton,

and enhancing her reflexes, respiratory system, and physical strength.

He also removed her tear ducts, so that the young woman with the unspeakably hard life

would never know sorrow again, which may not be how that works, on any level, but says

a lot about Thanos' mindset.

Gamora stayed a ward of Thanos into adulthood, sticking by her guardian's side until she

discovered Thanos' genocidal ambitions, which he intends to realize with the full power

of the Infinity Gauntlet.

That realization was all the inspiration she needed to turn against the Titan.

Once she realized that her adopted father's obsession with death on a massive scale was

the real deal, she set out on her own, finally able to develop her own moral compass separate

from Thanos, the Worst Dad Ever.

No spoilers here, but a major aspect of Avengers: Infinity War revolves around Thanos' genuine

love for Gamora, giving the Death-obsessed Titan a disarming amount of emotional complexity.

But that compassion is outweighed by almost everything else Thanos does, leaving Gamora

with no choice but to stand against the man who raised her, and made her who she is.

That should catch you up on just about everything you need to know about Thanos and Gamora's

relationship.

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Work on your own relationship with Jesus - Duration: 4:31.

Each and every follower of Jesus Christ must work on their own relationship with

Jesus, and make sure that He knows them, that they stay with Him and that He is

pleased with them. They must endure with Him until the very end. Without Jesus we

can do nothing. If we do not remain with Jesus and in utter obedience to Him,

following Him and doing His will, then we cannot be fruitful,

we cannot be fruitful for the kingdom of God. Jesus warned that every branch in

Him, that does not bear fruit will get cut off and burned. Nothing is more

important than our relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only when we remain

with Him, when we stay with Him, walk with Him every day, listen to His voice and

respond, that we can do what He requires of us, that He can use us, it is only if

we make ourselves available to Him and are tuned in to Him, dedicated to Him to

serve Him, that we will be useful for His kingdom. Many believers are busy with

their own; religion they walk their own road, they are busy with their own

studies of the Bible, the are busy with their own projects for God. They believe in

Jesus, and they want to serve Him according to their insight, and according to

what other people tell them, what to do, but they don't have a relationship with

Jesus. Many are distracted from following Jesus

and they start running after other people. Jesus warned that He will say to

many believers in that day that they die, when they stand before Him, He will say to

them:"Go away I never knew you, you workers of wickedness."

We can only be pleasing to Jesus if our relationship with Him is right, if

He is pleased with us. We have to stay close to Him. Work on

your relationship with Jesus Christ. There is nothing more important than

that. Do not allow anybody or anything to distract you and take you away from

Jesus. If you need wisdom, if you need guidance,

pray. Talk to Jesus. Ask Him. Wait on Him. He is faithful and true. He loves you and

He cares for you. He will never leave you. He will guide you and He will teach you,

but you have to trust Him and stay with Him. Do not leave Jesus. Nothing can pluck

you out of His hand, but if you decide to stray,

if you go away from Jesus, you are in danger of hellfire, because Jesus will

not hold you back. Work on your own relationship with Jesus and make sure

that He is pleased with you and you're with him until the very end, to have

eternal life. May Jesus bless you.

Jesus Christ is alive and hell is real. I am here to introduce you to Jesus

Christ so that you can know Him and follow Him and have eternal life.

Subscribe to my channel to learn more about Jesus. May Jesus

bless you.

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The Truth About Danica Patrick And Aaron Rodgers' Relationship - Duration: 4:12.

Danica Patrick is the most famous female driver in the history of both NASCAR and IndyCar

racing.

Aaron Rodgers is a Super Bowl winning superstar NFL quarterback for the Green Bay Packers.

So the news that the two of them have come together to form the ultimate power couple

sent shockwaves through the sports world.

How did it happen?

Here's a look at the truth about Danica Patrick and Aaron Rodgers' relationship.

Chance encounter

Though the worlds of NASCAR and professional football don't often intersect, as two of

the biggest celebrities in the sports world, it was almost inevitable that Patrick and

Rodgers would eventually meet.

But it wasn't exactly love at first sight when the two first met at the ESPY's, ESPN's

annual awards show, in 2012.

That's because Patrick was actually happily married at the time.

It wouldn't be until much later - and after many turns in life's winding road - before

Patrick and Rodgers would reconnect romantically.

Life in the fast lane

Patrick married Paul Hospenthal, a personal trainer and physical therapist some 17 years

her senior, back in 2005.

The couple met in Hospenthal's physical therapy office where Patrick sought treatment for

a hip injury, and according to People, the couple enjoyed spending time with their miniature

schnauzer Billy.

That came to a surprising end just four months after the 2012 ESPY's, with Patrick releasing

a statement on her Facebook page that read in part,

"I am sad to inform my fans that after 7 years, Paul and I have decided to amicably end our

marriage.

This isn't easy for either of us, but mutually it has come to this.

[…] He has been an important person and friend in my life and that's how we will remain

moving forward."

Three weeks after her divorce was finalized in 2013, Patrick revealed that she had a new

boyfriend.

But it wasn't Aaron Rodgers - it was fellow NASCAR driver Richard Stenhouse, Jr.

Competing against your significant other would seem to have its challenges, but Patrick insisted

it wouldn't be a problem.

"I always say I'll race people how they race me until they do something to make me change

my mind.

I don't anticipate that changing at all, or us having any issues on the track."

After nearly five years of dating, though, the couple officially called it quits at the

end of 2017.

Calling an audible

Though Rodgers has mostly kept his personal life private, his relationship with actress

Olivia Munn proved to be a major exception to the rule, as Munn spoke publicly about

their romance on numerous occasions.

"When I met him, I um, I said, 'So what do you do?' and he's like, 'Oh I play football.'

And I go 'Cool, what college?'

And he's like, 'Oh no, I play professional.'"

"Now, are you and Aaron Rodgers engaged?"

"No, we are not engaged at all."

"What is he waiting for?

He must think he's pretty special if he's gonna do better than this!"

All the media attention took its toll on their relationship, as fans found Munn to be an

easy scapegoat every time Rodgers struggled on the field.

Finally, after nearly three years of dating, the pair broke up in 2017.

Rodgers told ESPN the media spotlight was a factor.

"When you are living out a relationship in the public eye, it's definitely… it's difficult.

It has some extra constraints, because you have other opinions about your relationship,

how it affects your work and, you know, just some inappropriate connections."

Together at last!

In January, 2018, just one month after ending her relationship with Stenhouse, TMZ posted

a photo of Patrick dining al fresco with Rodgers, along with a few other people, at Mission

Mexican restaurant in Scottsdale, Arizona.

She didn't drag it out, quickly confirming to the Associated Press that she and Rodgers

are indeed dating.

There's just one major problem: Patrick is a lifelong fan of the Packers' biggest rival,

the Chicago Bears!

Though she was born in Wisconsin, she grew up in Illinois.

But she told the Associated Press it wouldn't be a problem.

"I told him a long time ago I'd always root for him as a player.

Now I am probably going to cheer for the whole team.

[…] Take out the word 'probably.'

Now I'm going to cheer for the whole team."

What could be next for Patrick and Rodgers?

After the competition of the 2018 Indy 500, Patrick plans to retire at 35 years old to

focus on her wine and clothing brands, ESPN Women reported.

"Retirement looks bright.

I think many people retire and don't know what they're going to do next and have to

figure it out, but I know what I'm going to do."

Rodgers, meanwhile, has claimed he's "on the back nine" of his career.

So could the two be planning to settle down?

For her part, Patrick told E! news,

"I do [want to start a family], I don't know if it's in my future but it'd be something

I think I'd really like to have."

Whatever the future holds, we wish the happy couple the best of luck!

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Increase quality of your relationships! Eckhart Tolle - Duration: 10:58.

space consciousness is back as the alert aware field of presence and that is the

determining factor in any human relationship whether space consciousness

is still present whether there is space in the relationship whether they space

in you in the relationship or whether you are absorbed totally in object

consciousness and that's any kind of relationship the question is are you

there as space is that a depth a space from where you relate it begins with the

ability to listen to the other person

that is very closely related to being present to listen in that alertness no

matter what words are coming out of the other person's mouth and whether it's in

business relationship or whether it is in your personal relationship or whether

it's in your relationship that is very fleeting which very short encounters in

an elevator maybe just a few words are spoken in a shop in a restaurant with a

waiter and it all comes down to a moment of no thought just alert

spacious presence with your partner listening to him or her

somebody who comes to you with in an agitated state totally absorbed by some

live situation and the world will draw you in want to draw you in to complete

identification again with things you remember we mentioned the word things

meaning not just physical things but including physical things some people's

attention is totally into physical things their belongings their house

their car their dog their that Paul is very strong and that's the challenge the

world wants to in the world is ultimately the human mind becomes

externalized as the world out there wants to draw you back into total

identification with object consciousness objects this matters this madness is so

important I'm always amazed what kind of things people make important in their

lives how alternately insignificant the things are that they make important more

important than their state of consciousness they're in more important

than peace more important the tiniest things can assume an

importance that you give the power away to things you give them the power to

make you unhappy and what kind of things people give that power to is just

amazing

ephemeral fleeting things in situations that are here one day on the next things

that would pop even if you'd even if you discovered you had a serious illness or

you have an accident which sometimes can be a Great Awakening things that would

pop like a soap bubble and there unimportance would be revealed if

somebody told you you have a serious illness and you had me concerned with

all that suddenly it has no significance whatsoever the heavy problems that you

had been carrying around dissolved at once this is why for some people a

serious illness is the Great Awakening out of total immersion in object

consciousness there is no guarantee that the illness will awaken you because it

could add a further heavy object to your mind at the concept of me being

seriously ill which would add a further heavy thought form to identify ways to

your mind that is possible to but potentially an illness has the ability

to awaken you and to reveal to you that which is at best relatively important

and the truth is anything in this world a form of things

is relatively important and the your career your possessions your

relationships what you have achieved or not achieved what you know or you don't

know things that people derive their self sense of self from all relatively

important yes it's relatively important whether I

live in the street sleep on park benches or I have a nice home yes it makes a

difference in the realm of relativity

but you can be awake on the park bench as you can be a bike in a nice home and

some people are wakened precisely there after losing things things to identify

with so only there's only one thing that matters absolutely in one's life then

the rest of your life is recognized as relative it's not that you ignore it but

you recognize that the importance is only relative and the one thing that

matters and Jesus used those words - there's only one thing that matters he

said to me Martha in the story of Mary and Martha two women or two sisters he's

visiting and one is extremely busy to get this done in that I regard to get

the meal ready look who is here he's visiting us he's come and help me get

the meal this needs to be done peel the potatoes do this and Mary wasn't doing

in she was just sitting there looking at Jesus

and Martha says why don't you tell her to help me and Jesus wasn't really

concerned whether the when the food would be on the table or whether it

would be on the table he said Marius there's only one thing

that really matters this is a free translation and Marius chosen that one

thing that really matters now when you look to modern theologians they can't

they can't tolerate that statement and they do whatever they can to reinterpret

that they didn't really mean that

another simple way of putting it is you forget that the only thing that really

matters is your state of consciousness nothing else if that's if that's not

right nothing out there is going to be right and you're not going to be of much

help to anybody to see what is primary that is not selfish far beyond it it's

the opposite of selfish to recognize that and then what is so important to

have the power to make me unhappy