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It's not a secret that women constantly struggle to maintain a positive

self-esteem because we're constantly too tall too short too fat too thin too sexy

not sexy enough too emotional. Whatever! We're always something not enough or too much

We're never just right. Let's be honest

we all daily fight with our inner critics, that's why this video is

about how to maintain a positive self-esteem for a better relationship.

The battles against your inner self do not only affect yourself but also your

partner. That means self esteem influences your own satisfaction in a

relationship but also the satisfaction your partner feels with you in your

relationship. So if you feel really insecure and unsatisfied well, most

likely your partner's gonna feel that too and your partner won't be able to

make up for that and then all these insecurities creep into the way which we

interact with our partner. Hey ambitious entrepreneur

I'm Vivi welcome to Adventure Your World, my channel is all about creating

sustainable happiness and a deeper connection with your soulmate so you can

start living a happier life. Make sure you subscribe and Hit the little notification bell

to get notified whenever new videos are released. When you're trying to

address insecurities that creep into your relationship, then it's important

that you're honest with yourself and part of that is being really self aware.

Are you a person that tends to distance yourself from a partner or are you more

that needy kind of person? There's no right or wrong here. It's just really important

that you really tune in here and that you are honest with yourself and you share the honest

answer with your partner because your partner is your partner, he's your soul

mate, he's your teammate. There should be nothing that you should be afraid of or

scared or ashamed of. You should be there for each other, so there's no shame

in sharing your true inner self, then tell your partner what your biggest

insecurities are so he can help you watch out for them and catch you and lift

you up whenever you get caught up by them. Once you become self-aware and this

is an ongoing journey so you can always be more and

and more self-aware and ask your partner to help you with that. Just tell

them hey well you know whenever you see me getting insecure, tell me, let me know.

I need to improve that and whenever you let your insecurities shine through

practice love and compassion. We can't really control how we feel but we can always

control how we react to it. It's also really important that you separate your

self-worth from your performance because just because you've been performing

badly this time doesn't mean you are a failure, you are bad are you not good enough

because most of us really feel that our worth is based on our performance

today. So if you had a bad day, we feel that we're not good enough and we just

feel really shitty because well we're just not as good as all these other

amazing people out there right, I get you. But that's not true.

Because you are not your performance, you have good days and you have bad days and

you are amazing! Did you hear me? You're amazing!

And you're self worth should be way up there in the clouds. When you perform

poorly, that's most likely when your insecurities shine through and that's

exactly the moment when you need to practice self compassion.

and no matter how self-aware and self accepting you become there is always gonna

be things that make you insecure, so don't you worry. It's absolutely normal

and it's okay, but keep growing, keep working through them and life becomes

easier and better. Being in a relationship is a constant balance

between loving your partner the way he or she is and encouraging him or her to

grow constantly and as you are trying to get through your insecurities and battle

your way up and out of them. Really don't feel ashamed to ask your partner to help

you through it. That's why you are a team, that's why you're in a relationship. You

got this together. Please be nice to each other!

Avoid criticizing, shaming and blaming each other. It really doesn't get you

anywhere and don't believe that criticizing is

the same as communication because it really isn't. The most unhealthy

relationships are characterized by shouting, blaming and criticizing the

whole, whole time and how would you feel if your partner's constantly like you're

really bad at doing the bed right? I know like, the coffee you did this - really

didn't taste that good. I mean, can you never be at time for work?

Why do you always have to pick up the kids late? Is there any food you can

actually cook that tastes kind of good and acceptable? How would you feel? You

can't always criticize your partner. Both of you are not perfect. If there's something

that really bothers you, talk about it, at least give constructive feedback and

tell them how to improve because just blaming really doesn't get you anywhere

and it actually just makes the situation worse. Also it's really important to

distinguish shame from guilt and no they're really not the same. Shame means

I did something wrong, I did a mistake shame means there's something wrong with me

Do you get the difference? You can do something wrong

but that doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you! Okay? So don't

mix these two things up, you can feel guilty but please don't be ashamed. It's

really common for couples that argue a lot, that they criticize each other a lot,

and this can be from of:" If you weren't so selfish you would help more with the

housework" or "If it weren't so irresponsible with money we would be

able to pay our bills at the end of the month" or worse "what is wrong with you?

Don't you know better than that?" These are two of the worst things that you can

say. I mean, what is wrong with you for saying what is wrong with you? Seriously?

and even if you get the result that you're actually seeking by these

comments for example your partner helping you of the house works or paying

the bills or whatever it is, it's actually more harmful than helpful for

your relationship and are just creating negative

feelings such as anger, resentment or rejection so it really does not get you

anywhere if you really need to criticize your partner, be constructive and tell

him "hey, I know you doing that, I think that there are some better ways to deal

with it, here is how we could do that. What do you think about it?" Offer your

partner solutions rather than just saying like this is shit what are you

doing, what's wrong with you, we can't keep doing like that, this is really not

the right way and you will not improve your relationship. If you want to learn

more about building a stronger relationship, controlling your emotions

or living a happier life, make sure you get my free four day video training

series on this topic in the comment below, also if you liked this video give

me a thumbs up let me know in the comments below what do you most

struggling with in your relationship and if you found this video valuable make

sure you share it with your friends and family so they can start living a

happier life and relationship as well. Thank you for watching and I see you soon!

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The Secret To A Happy Relationship Or Marriage | by Tanvir Ahmed - Duration: 4:35.

What's up, everybody?

Welcome to the video.

My name is Tanvir Ahmed.

And hey, consider subscribing, if you haven't already, to upgrade yourself and your relationships

to the next level.

Society makes a lot about "sacrifices" in a relationship.

You are supposed to keep the relationship happy by consistently sacrificing yourself

for your partner and their wants and needs.

There is some truth to that.

Every relationship requires each person to consciously choose to give something up at times.

But the problem arises when all of the relationship's happiness is dependent on the other person

and both people are constantly in a state of sacrifice.

Just go back and listen to that again.

That sounds horrible.

A relationship based on sacrifices cannot be sustained, and will eventually be damaging

to both individuals involved.

You need to understand that it is up to you to make yourself happy, it is NOT the job

of your partner.

I am not saying that you shouldn't do nice things for each other, or that your partner

can't make you happy sometimes.

I am just saying don't lay expectations on your partner to "make you happy."

It is not their responsibility.

A healthy and happy relationship requires two healthy and happy individuals.

The keyword here is "individuals."

That means two people with their own identities, their own interests and perspectives, and

things they do by themselves, on their own time.

Figure out what makes you happy as an individual, be happy yourself, and then bring that to

the relationship.

This is why attempting to control your partner or submitting control over yourself to your

partner to make them "happy" ultimately backfires.

It allows the individual identities of each person to be destroyed, the very identities

that attracted each person and brought them together in the first place.

So, don't you ever give up who you are for the person you're with.

It will only backfire and make you both miserable.

Have the courage to be who you are, and most importantly, let your partner be who they are.

But how does one do that?

Well, it's a bit counterintuitive.

But that's exactly what I'll be discussing in next week's video.

Actually, I changed my mind.

We're going all in in this video.

So, listen up you savages.

So, how do you do it?

Well, you need to give each other space.

space.

Okay, maybe that's a little too much space.

You don't want to give them that much space because then you'd just be all alone on

a different planet.

But be sure you have a life of your own, otherwise it is harder to have a life together.

What do I mean?

Have your own interests, your own friends, your own support network, and your own hobbies.

Overlap when you can, but not being identical should give you both something to talk about

and expose one another to.

Some of us are afraid to give their partner freedom and independence.

This comes from a lack of trust and insecurity that if we give our partner too much space,

then they will discover that they don't want to be with us anymore.

Generally, the more uncomfortable we are with our own worthiness in the relationship

and to be loved, the more we will try to control the relationship and our partner's behaviors.

BUT, more importantly, this inability to let our partners be who they are,

is a subtle form of disrespect.

After all, if you can't trust your husband to have a simple golfing trip with his buddies,

or you're afraid to let your wife go out for drinks after work,

what does that say about your respect for their ability to handle themselves well?

What does it say for your respect for yourself?

I mean, after all, if you believe that a couple after-work drinks is enough to steer your

girlfriend away from you, you clearly don't think too highly of yourself.

Thank you for watching.

This is the part where you like this video and subscribe to my channel.

And remember, you are an amazing person and I love you.

For more infomation >> The Secret To A Happy Relationship Or Marriage | by Tanvir Ahmed - Duration: 4:35.

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The relationship between Oh Ji-hyee husband Lee Young-eun and Yun So-jung - Duration: 10:18.

The relationship between Oh Ji-hyee husband Lee Young-eun and Yun So-jung

Movie actor Oh Ji Hye was born in Seoul on September 3, 1968. (Actor talent Oh Ji Hye hometown Seoul)

I'm 50 years old this year. (Talent Oh Ji Hye age)

(Talent Oh Ji Hye Education School) Pre-graduation girl high school graduation

Graduated from Chung-Ang University's Theater and Film Department

(Talent Oh Ji Hye Profile Career) Debut in 1989 as a movie star while appearing in the movie 'Oh Dream Land'

Since then, Oh Ji-hye has appeared in the movie Taebaek Mountains, August Christmas, Singles,

Tachimawa and the Wicked Witches to the Heinok Express Express train,

Tongfari, the concubine of the royal palace, Namyoung-dong 1985, return home, drama spring, .

In fact, Oh Ji-hye's mother is Yoon So-jung and her father is an older actor, Oh Hyun-kyung.

Also, my grandfather is a filmmaker, Yoon Bong-chun, and I have a genealogy of third generation filmmakers.

For reference, Oh Ji Hye family is also famous as independence movement.

Just my grandfather, Yoon Bong-chun, received the National Patriotic Patriotic President from the government in 1993.

Oh Ji-hye: "I heard that my grandfather's nickname was '6: 5' before I was a child." In the independence movement, he suffered severe torture from the Japanese sergeant and broke his fingers. You were. "

Oh Ji-hye: "And your grandfather said that the film was part of an independent movement strategy, judging it as the most obvious way to instigate the masses."

Anyway, Oh Ji Hye is born as the eldest daughter of Yoon So Jung (whose real name is Yoon Tae-bong) and Hyun Kyung Oh and naturally grows as an actor.

Oh Ji-hye: "I was naturally walking the actor's path according to the influence of the actor father and mother and the atmosphere of the house."

But my father and mother are so famous that I feel stressed to some extent.

Oh Ji-hye: "At the beginning of my debut, I was told that I would be able to do that if someone in the restaurant said, 'I am a daughter of that family.'

Oh Ji-hye: "So I thought I was not mine.

But the relationship between Oh Ji Hye and her mother is very straightforward.

Yoon So Jung: "My daughter Ojie Hye is good at vocalization, and she endeavors to study the acting endlessly. If she was more beautiful, she would have sold well.

Oh Ji-hye: "My mother has gotten sexy and feminine that I do not have, but the acting is too old."

I do not think these words are possible because we are both mother and child who have no mutual mistakes.

There are two peculiarities when we look at the values and the view of life.

First, it is a definition of a smart, conscious actor.

Oh Ji-hye: "As long as you are promoting so-called progressive women's magazines, you are asking if you are too smart to learn."

Oh Ji-hye: "In fact, there are a lot of smart and conscious actors.

Oh Ji-hye: "Also, if you talk about social issues, you do not put them in the sports newspaper. In fact, there is a part of our society that requires the capitalism system to be" no problem ".

In a sense, it is not easy to make a lot of money if the actor is too smart or too involved in social issues.

Besides, the meaning of this Ojisah is that there is no problem even if you put a woman instead of an actor.

In the last general election, a female lawmaker, Kim Mo, said, "If a woman is smart, it is a pom-pom. It seems that our society is not so generous about 'smart women' or 'smart actors', as we have publicly said, 'Look a little short.'

For reference, Oh Ji Hye is very conscious of social participation, and his lecture and writing skills are also outstanding.

It is not easy for the entertainer to reveal the color, but Oh Ji-hye joined the DLP in 2004 with her husband Lee Young-eun.

Oh Ji-hye: "The life and political world view is right with the DLP, but in the last presidential election, I shot Roh Moo-hyun because of the election possibility."

Oh Ji-hye: "I was in a position to defend the culture and arts criticizing President Roh Moo-hyun at the usual stalemate," Hey, that's the president alone, "but I thought it was too much for this (2004) dispatch to Iraq. "

Oh Ji-hye: "My worries these days are that my child grew up, and the war is bad, but what did my mom and dad do when they said that our country war? If you ask ... I really sweat on my back. "

Oh Ji-hye: "I am so happy that they have taken away the oil after killing them.

Obviously, Oh Ji Hye was a critic Roh Moo Hyun supporter and clarified the pros and cons against Roh Moo Hyun policy.

There are not many people like entertainers, especially female entertainers.

For reference, talent Oh Ji Hye husband Lee Yong Eun is a film director.

They married in 1997.

Film director Lee Young-eun was born on March 24, 1971. I'm 47 years old this year. (Oh Ji-hyee husband Lee Young-eun)

After that, Oh Ji Hye will have one daughter.

Lee Young-eun's profile is for reference.

Assistant director of film access in 1997, assistant director and short film starring (1999)

And he made his debut as a director in 2005, when he won the film "Can not die like this".

At the time, for this work, as well as Mrs. Oh Ji-hye, Oh Hyun-kyung and Jangmo Yoon So-jung also appeared directly.

So Hyun Kyung Oh is the president of a large corporation, and Yun So Jung is a female doctor.

For reference, Oh Ji Hye lives with her husband and daughter in Yangpyeong.

Oh Ji-hye: "Everybody's dream is a romantic dream. I made a decision in 2006 to live off Seoul."

Oh Ji-hye: "Suddenly, when we do not get water, we have to fix it. Fortunately, our groom is MacGyver.

Oh, Ji-hye: "My groom is a shelf and I was nailed too much to make a storage space, I could have a shelf company, I knew I had good dexterity, but I did not have a chance to do it when I was in Seoul. Well done (laugh) "

Of course, Oh Ji-hye is also fighting with her husband, Lee Young-eun.

Oh Ji-hye: "If I fight with the bridegroom and stay for a few days, if I suddenly die, I will be sorry and sorry for my life.

Oh Ji-hye: "You have to know when a person will die. When you live and live in the wrong place, when you go to live, you do not reflect and reconcile.

Oh Ji-hye: "In fact, I do not know if you do not love me. I keep saying, I'm sorry, I love you.

Certainly this is a necessary word between married couples.