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At paradigm we're passionate about the rights of all to live good ordinary lives.

The Reach standard in support for living are designed to ensure everyone

is supported to choose where they live, who they live with, how they live and who

supports them. Reach has nine standards. We've worked with people across the

country to make a film for each Reach standard. So whether you are a self

advocate, family member, supporter, manager, commissioner, inspector -

please use these films in any way that works for you. So, here are two short

clips on focusing on the standard - I choose my friends and my relationships.

Take one.

Hi Zac. Are you ready for your planning meeting?

So today, we're planning what you are going to do next month.

So what would you like to do next month?

Gay Pride.

Alright, what is Gay Pride? I've never heard of it. It's a carnival.

It's a carnival? Alright. Shall I look it up?

Alright, so I didn't find a carnival but I found that Pride Parade is a

celebration of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender plus people. Is that what you

meant? Yeah alright. But it's on a Saturday

and on Saturday you normally go to the lunch club don't you? You've got lots of

friends at the lunch club haven't you? So Jo would miss you and Glenn would

miss you. They would all miss you wouldn't they?

They expect you don't they? And then afterwards you're going to football aren't you?

You already know lots of people, you already have lots of friends at the lunch club so

you're busy on that Saturday aren't you?

Take two

Alright Zac so, what do you want to do next month?

Gay Pride.

You want to go to Gay Pride? Yes.

Where did you hear about Gay Pride? Somebody tell you about it or did you

watch it on TV? A friend. A friend told you about it?

Which friend told you about it? Phil. All right so Phil told you about it. Yeah.

Let's have a look what the internet says. They have some photographs with lots of really funky

dressed people, very colorful. There you go. So, do you know what you would want to wear

when you go to Gay Pride? A funky dress.

A funky dress. That sounds good, do you have a funky dress or do you need to buy a funky dress?

Buy one.

Buy one. Okay should we arrange a shopping trip then?

Yes

Okay, when do you want to go shopping?

Weekend.

At the weekend. Do you want to go this weekend because we got a bit

of time haven't we? It's in July so we have

got a few weeks time. All right, so let's go this weekend.

Well I'm working this weekend so I'm on shift with you so we can do it this Saturday.

Is that okay? Yeah, all right and who would you want to go with?

Phil

You want to go with Phil. All right. That's nice, all right.

With staff.

You want to go with Phil and staff. All right. Have you asked Phil if he wants to come?

He already knows

He does already know, you told him about it and is he happy to

come with you?

He said yes.

Okay, fantastic let's go shopping Saturday, see

what we get for you to wear and then we can have a look how we get there and

arrange the day.

To get a train. We can get a train, I'm sure we can get there by train.

Thanks to all involved at three C's.

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Can This Mother-Daughter Makeover Save Their Relationship? - Duration: 3:01.

- Mom Kelly was so hung up on her 28 year old daughter's

Goth look, we decided to have her and her daughter

do a makeover swap.

The wig fairy is in the audience.

Tell us, how do they look?

- This was one of the most exciting transformations

I've ever done, and the mom was like, in for a treat, and,

I just can't wait for you guys to see them.

It's really exciting.

(audience applauds and cheers)

- This is Kelly before her makeover.

And here she is in her daughter's signature Goth look.

(deep hard rock music)

(audience applauds and cheers)

(Vivica laughs)

- Come on up here.

Oh my gosh!

I love it, it's so cute!

She looks great!

Okay...

Here's what Katie looked like just a little while ago.

And here's Katie in the look her mother's always dreamed of.

(lighthearted upbeat music)

(audience applauds and cheers)

- Wow!!

- Ahhh oh my God!

- Wow!

Wow!

What, ah!

- You look beautiful!

- Doesn't she look great?

(audience applauds and cheers)

So how do you all feel?

You first.

- I absolutely hate this.

(laughter)

I'm absolutely mortified that anybody is seeing me this way.

- Oh, you look so cool.

- But I am so proud of her for stepping out a little bit.

She looks fabulous!

- Awww, we got Mommy's approval.

- I am so proud of you and it doesn't matter

what you dress like, I'm always proud of you, Katie,

no matter what, I love you.

- Awww.

(audience applauds and sighs)

- I'll always love you! I love it!

Alright, girlfriend, how do you feel okay?

- I want those boots.

(laughter)

- No, how do you feel in this look, though?

- This is amazing.

- Okay!

- Oh, good! You know,

- this is a lot of fun.

(laughter)

(Kelly applauds)

I'm not gunna go out and buy it ...

(laughter)

- I'll buy it for you!

- But this would be something I could

go to lunch with my Mom in.

- [Audience, Kelly] Awwww!

- I love it!

- I love that!

- Rosie, what do you have to say about these two?

- Mom, I'm so proud of you because at the beginning

you were so judgemental of the way that she dresses.

And it's so different as a mom to step in

and understand their passion, understand why they dress

the way they dress.

And I think this just connects you more with your daughter

because there is this sense of respect of saying,

you know what, it's not that bad I'm gunna have fun with it;

and you know what, I love you.

And the best thing you told her is,

no matter what, I'm proud of you.

- [Panelist] Yay!

- [Rosie] And that's important.

- Mmm-hmm.

- [Vivica] That's what we need.

- Yep!

- Thanks Kelly and Katie!

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Vindi Wale Superb Funny threesome Relationship - Duration: 3:43.

see this vindi wale dating other girl after leave me alone

you say that you goes to class.this is your class

why you not say me about this directly?

listen..see is my girlfriend okk

so mind it and

do not make Noice here.this is a park many people see here

understand it.and get out

you listen he is my boyfriend..really really he is your boyfriend.listen vindi wala i kill you

why you do this thing with me

you kill me.....yessss

Vindi wala bastard .why you breakup with me

i thinking that you go to class and study

but here another study going on

ok ok relax relax

i punish you alot.relax! what for relax

hello leave please i do not know this happen

listen problem is that

oh my god! what i done.why i love you.i finish my carrier all things

see there rinki is much happy with there boyfriend

i am also come here to be happy with rinki's boyfriend

but you seen me another relationship

now what i can do

laugh..speak them forget it.

what happen sister?

see see this Baste.what he do here

he comes daily here

and he say me lie i am goes to study in Class

this is his extra class

sister wait i am calling my BF to beat him

hello

where are you

hey vindi wala what you doing..oh please beat him quickly friend.

yes yes he is coming..come quick

my friends BF sit here with another girl

you both confused me

i also not understand what i do here

beby i am coming..

broke the traffic and come fast with hocky stick

listen come with many boys with any toys

today fight occur definitly

hey hey listen where you are going in this problem

why are you going in this problem

come with me they continue there fight

put my hand

put my hand quick..get loss

oh my gold you are my life beby

listen i do not know anything.come with me

do breakup with this girl now

do breakup now

i tell you i call army

because police not listen

sad* why you breakup with me why?

tell me why?

hey police station

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Thank you sir

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'Relationship gone south,' Investigators look into why a college student would hire a hit-man - Duration: 1:33.

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Halsey Drops New Song 'Without Me'...& Yes, It's About Her Relationship With G-Eazy | Billboard News - Duration: 1:28.

♪ Thinking you could live without me ♪

♪ Thinking you could live without me ♪

- Halsey gives us all the feels

in her new heartbreak track Without Me,

where she dives deep into the breakup

between her and G-Eazy.

♪ In the end it's him and I ♪

Okay, so she doesn't specifically say

it's about their relationship,

but come on, we all know it is.

I'm especially convinced because back in July,

Halsey insinuated that the reason why they broke up

was because G-Eazy cheated on her,

and that's pretty much what Without Me is all about.

Take a listen for yourself.

♪ You don't have to say just what you did ♪

♪ I already know ♪

♪ I had to go and find out from them ♪

A cool part about the track which you may not be able

to hear unless you listen very closely,

is that it quotes the pre-chorus

from Justin Timberlake's classic song Cry Me A River,

which is Halsey's favorite breakup song.

♪ So cry me a river ♪

♪ Go on and just cry me a river ♪

Moments after Halsey released her new breakup track,

she admitted on Twitter that the recording process

was very emotional for her, tweeting,

I cried the whole time I recorded it.

But now I feel proud and empowered.

There is though, a happy ending here,

because the couple has since gotten back together.

All right you guys, let me know in the comments

what you think of Halsey's new track,

and until next time, for Billboard News,

I'm Chelsea Briggs.

(electronic music)

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Royal expert revealed: Sarah Ferguson is Trying to improved relationship with Royal Family - Duration: 4:43.

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Signs that you must end the relationship - Duration: 3:48.

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How To Consensually Open Up A Relationship? - Duration: 2:29.

So, today we're talking about a little bit more unconventional and

non-traditional submission– "How to have a threesome."

No no other way to put it.

Set to expiration and polyamory in general is something that's becoming more widely

accepted as the years go on and it's really great to see people just you know

being able to do their thing, you know. Let your freak flag fly.

How do you exactly go about doing having a threesome

in the most conscious and consensual way?

Well, there's a couple of really pretty easy steps

that I'm gonna teach you right now.

First of all, if you are in a romantic relationship,

check with your partner.

It sounds pretty obvious and simple but you should be clear about

what you're looking for and having a third person come into

your relationship in a sexual way.

So make sure you're on the same page with your expectations.

Otherwise, it'll be pretty awkward.

Thank goodness for technology, we've got dating apps out the wide zoo including ones

that can help you find a threesome or any sort of polyamory anything that you're into.

So there's the classic Tinder, which is really great because a bunch of people are on it

so you can pretty much find whatever you're looking for hookup-wise.

And there's also specific apps like Feeld that were made for polyamory purposes

so the next time you and your partner have a free evening,

make a joint profile explaining what you're looking for and start swiping away.

Eventually, you'll find your match and what's great about dating apps

is that you immediately know that the other person is into what you're asking for,

so you don't to worry about any sort of feeling out of vibes in person–

you'll know as soon as you know.

Once you find your match and you're ready to make and things happen,

it's pretty simple, you know.

Consent and safety should be your first and only priorities

so if you've got that in mind, then just go with it from there.

I'm gonna leave it up to you and trust you all

to make good healthy sexual decisions.

you

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10 Things You Should Never Do in Your Marriage/Relationship (2018) - Duration: 3:31.

hello guys thank you for dropping by on my youtube channel it's the first time

you're coming here I'm Kadrian Thomas and on this channel every day I share one

video of tips of how you can enrich and enhance your relationship guys today I

want to talk to you specifically about 10 things you should never do in your

relationship or in your marriage number one never compare your wife to another

woman past nor present because when you do that you're actually saying she is

not good enough number two never classify your wife nor call her by

derogative terms that's the worst thing you can ever do to a woman number three

never make threats nor give ultimatums that you're about to leave or you're

going to leave if they don't change X or do X because remember guys they have a

choice to leave too and the time they may choose to leave they may not tell

you and it may take you as a surprise number 4 never borrow money from your

in-laws or your siblings without first discussing it with your partner with

your wife because when you do so and then she finds out or you tell her in

her eyes she may feel insecure about you not being able to provide for her as her

husband number 5 never let your parents control your

relationship guys not everything that happens in your hopes you need to take

up your phone and call your mama or call your dada and saying your wife is

doing this or your wife is not doing that listen by the time you want to take

their hands off the lever it may be too late and they may be in total control of

your relationship making every single decision for you

number six never hide an illness from your wife because if you do it may cost

you your life but if you do tell her about it it may be the saving of your

life even if it is your fault number seven never hide money from your

wife guys if you hide money then again if she does find out

you may be giving her the impression that you have another woman even when you

don't have another woman number eight if you have another baby mama let your wife

know if you messed up and you have another baby mama let your wife know

because the day it comes out it may be on your worst day number nine never

abuse your spouse physically verbally nor emotionally because it doesn't only

destroy her love bank for you it annihilates her and it leaves mental

scars for life number ten never lie nor cheat on your

wife guys if you lie or cheat you may lose her trust and that is something you

may spend the rest of your life trying to recover trying to regain its the

hardest thing for you to get back Trust takes time to build but when it's broken

it's hard to be repaired so those are my 10 tips for you today if you like the

videos I'm creating participate in the community and leave a

comment below what is one thing that you should never do as a husband in your

relationship and if you have not yet subscribed to my youtube channel just

remember that every single day I share one video of tips of how you can enrich

and enhance your relationship for now I'm Kadrian Peace out!

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Patriots' Tom Brady Focused on Relationship With Josh Gordon | Heavy.com - Duration: 2:46.

Patriots' Tom Brady Focused on Relationship With Josh Gordon | Heavy.com

With New England Patriots wide receiver Josh Gordon debuting for his new team last week, there was plenty of excitement surrounding Tom Brady's newest weapon.

And it seems even Brady is well aware of what Gordon can bring to the table, or at the very least is interested in building a relationship with his new teammate.

As ESPN's Jeff Darlington revealed on NFL Sunday Countdown ahead of Week 4, Brady has "taken it upon himself" to get close to Gordon.

"Tom Brady has taken it upon himself to ingratiate himself to [Josh] Gordon and really get to know him.

Their lockers are right next to each other in the locker room and Brady has reached out often times to Gordon to make sure they're on the same page." Darlington stated.

Josh Gordon's Upside, Struggles of Patriots Wide Receivers.

The Patriots offense has struggled to get things going in recent weeks, and Brady's new relationship with Gordon could help in a big way.

If the two are on the same page, it could go a long way toward fixing issues that plagued the team in the first three weeks.

Over the two-game stretch prior to Gordon's arrival, New England averaged just 15 points per game, including a 10-point showing on Sunday Night Football against the Detroit Lions in Week 3.

 During the recent stretch, no wideout has tallied more than 44 receiving yards and in the loss to Detroit, only two receivers even caught passes (Chris Hogan and Cordarrelle Patterson).

If Gordon and Brady are clicking early, it'll be scary for opposing defenses, and we should find out quickly moving forward whether the duo is on the same page or not.

Regardless, the longterm outlook between the quarterback-wide receiver will only benefit names like Rob Gronkowski, Julian Edelman when he returns and the rest of the team's offensive weapons.

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What is the relationship between faith and actions? - Duration: 2:09.

Any faith that does not have actions is dead, that's what St. James tells us in the Bible.

So we can believe in God, but if we believe that God is love, that God gave his only Son for our sake, that he sacrificed so much,

how can we live without sacrificing for each other?

If we really believe that God loves the human race that much, can we really live as if we are alone?

As if the only thing that matters is ourself?

So if we believe in the love and kindness, and the mercy that God has for the human person,

then I think to believe is to reflect that mercy.

To also be willing to sacrifice, to consider the happiness of other people as equally important to your own.

So in that sense, faith without works is dead, because it's just an abstract faith in notions of God, but it doesn't spring into action.

There's a great saying by the Russian writer Fyodor Dostoevsky.

He says it's easy to love the human race: let's just say I love everyone.

But it's so difficult to love that one person next to me. That one person who is annoying, that one person in the street perhaps who smells.

And that is exactly what we are about. Because I cannot save the entire human race. I don't have to, Jesus already did.

And I cannot feed every hungry person in the world, I cannot shelter every homeless person in the world.

But I can ask myself: who do I see in the street? Who do I meet in my life? What can I do to help that person?

And if they're not around, then maybe I should ask myself: am I looking close enough?

Because everywhere, people suffer, in so many ways, and it's so tragic.

Imagine the difference we can make as a Church, because there are so many of us.

And if we all make that little difference, what a change we are in the world, what a force for good we are.

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Abraham Hicks 2018 🙂 Relationship With Prosperity 🙂 No ads during video - Duration: 15:50.

Yay, thank you. A couple different things. A couple months ago I had to spot that

I'm gonna be a millionaire. There was no resistance, there was no asking where why

any of that, it was just the truth. I don't have millions but it's coming. This

week and what I want to do is talk with you about like this where I turn that

off? Say again. Where I turn that off? So let me give you an example. So this week I

get to LAX I'm what's here for work all week I go to the hotel marriott 150

bucks for the room. I'm happy. Parking was fifty dollars I went nuts like I don't

usually go nuts but it was like just really bothered me and so I had to say

something to the valet guy and I had to say something to the manager. You know, I

was just like I'm it just it was beyond me. And then, she comped it. And that felt

okay, but it didn't feel right. I felt like I don't have to go through

something I have to get that. Oh not only that it completely distorted

how the universe works. Exactly. You threw a fit. I did. And then someone who doesn't

like to see fits being thrown, adjusted things, which sort of gives you the

impression as it does all people who have both feet stuck in the

manifestation of world. Rather than in the vibrational reality world. It gave

you the impression that, that's how you get what you want, you throw a fit. And

then other people compensate. Because it gives you the impression that, the goods

are held by other humans, who have been withholding them for you. And that they

hold the key to whether you get it or not. But they can only yield to you or

withhold from you in really mediocre term. The big stuff never comes through

fit throwing. Right, and so my concern is by focusing on that am I slowing down?

Right, I know, I'm slowing you down. But help me with this like, first getting

over that. Don't throw fits. What if I...Do you have any

other questions? No, but what if what haha right. What if I don't want to pay $50

for parking, how can I manifest that? Go somewhere else.

I like that hotel. Then pay the $50 and don't throw the fit. These are the

co-operative components. I want the red dot to connect to the red dot but now

it's in the way with the blue dot. Well I don't want the blue dot to be in the way

of the red dot. Well then figure it out. Figure it out. There's a way to figure it

out. There's a way to get it all. But the path isn't through manipulating others,

and getting them to give in or to compensate for you. The way to it is by

finding a way to be satisfied anyway. And in satisfaction, you will then be guided.

The impulse will come, to give you whatever you want. Now there are two ways

that you're looking at this. We can feel your thoughts in the room. There are two

things that you think would be the result of changing the way you look at

it. In other words, find a way to feel satisfied and so some are thinking - well

then one solution then would come is that he would still pay the $50, but he

wouldn't mind it. And another group are thinking - the hotel will stop charging so

much for parking. So he will only have to pay, nothing? Nothing pretty much trump's

something, doesn't it? Esther discovered that she can't charge little enough for

the recordings, to keep people from just stealing them and putting them online,

for nothing. Because nothing always trump's. In other words, maybe I could

charge nine dollars or eight or seven or six. But if she's even charging $1.00,

there are those that will say well nothing is better than one dollar. And so

the two solutions that most humans find is that either the Marriott will stop

overcharging for its parking, which seems like a solution.Or I will have so much

satisfaction going on that I'm not bothered by the fact that they are. And

we want to call your attention to yet a third solution - if you are determined to

feel satisfied. So you're not willing, to give away your satisfaction based upon

something you have no control over. You think

you've got control, because somebody tried to bend the laws of the universe

by responding to your fit. Which just teaches you to throw a fit, and throw a

fit, and throw a fit, and throw a fit and throw a fit. So you keep getting little

crumbs of finances while you feel miserable the whole way. And miserable is

a long way from satisfied. But if you were to bite the bullet and be happy for

just a little while, we know it's a big price to pay. But if you were to really

care about feeling satisfied. What would happen is - abundance would flow in. And

the $50 would feel irrelevant to you, in the scheme of all of the abundance that

is flowing to you. So you could for example, you could acknowledge, let's get

your yellow pad out, in its first thing in the morning. And we've inspired you to

write your pad. And you think the Marriott charged $50 for parking. This

just seems like price gouging. And it just feels like such unfairness. And I

can't change it, let's say I can't throw enough fits, to really solve that all the

time. And so I want to find some way of soothing myself. So I'm going to try to

take that subject that prickly, annoying maybe even more than annoying subject of

dissatisfaction and beyond. And I'm gonna see if I can find any satisfaction in it.

So because you want to feel better, you go down that path. And you think most

things are about supply and demand, and clearly there's not unlimited parking.

And so they've got to find some way of sorting it out what I feel better having

no parking available because they've given it all away to all the people that

got here first because there was no way for people to

discriminate. If Esther charged nothing for this seminar there would be no room

for the majority of you who are here now. The supply and the demand if there was

no charge for the parking it may have very well been all filled up and no

place for you to park at all. Is that more or less satisfying? Well that's less

satisfying. I am appreciative that there was a place for me to park. They could

just get so tired of people complaining about the parking situation. People that

aren't willing to pay for the cost of the parking structure, who aren't willing

to pay for the security of the parking structure, who don't care about the

maintenance of the parking structure, who don't care about the maintenance. The

management could just be so tired of dealing with people who are so upset

about parking that there could just be no more parking. Would that be more

satisfying? No, that's less satisfying. Well what's more satisfying? Parking. Well

how can i soothe that? So it's only the money and the parking that's bothering

me. So is it really what they're charging because there are all kinds of things

that you can spend your money on. Are you throwing a fit over every.... Ester

remembers finding the blouse many many years ago that cost so much money and

she could not afford it and she was furious with the department store that

they would have the gall to ask that much money for something that she really

wanted that she couldn't afford. It was like how wrong can you be? Why would you

do that to me? Why would you cause me to want something that I believe I can't

have. I believe I cannot park with these. I believe that I cannot afford to park

with these. My feeling about my personal prosperity is such that, I cannot buy for

myself ease. I have to buy for myself instead suffering. I'll park ten miles

away and I'll walk in. I'll uber-in, I'll uber-in, I'll uber-in. Then I don't have

any parking to do. I'll uber-in. What? You want sixty five dollars to get from the

airport to the hotel. Are you crazy? You gotta let them do whatever they're doing

and you got to decide that you can't find your happiness by controlling them.

Because there's always going to be another one that is uncontrollable. All

you can control is your relationship with your prosperity. And that's what

this is about. This is about your relationship with your prosperity. It's

not about how much parking costs? It's about your relationship with your

prosperity. And that bless it contrasting over charging parking garage, pointed

out to you, the imbalance in you, about your financial abundance and prosperity.

It just showed you that, you're not in balance yet. You're still wanting

others to do the adjustments, so that you can be prosperous. I want the whole world

to charge list for everything and then I'll be rich. If everybody would just

give everything away then I wouldn't need money that I don't have. So to

continue that story the company paid the money, so it's not even mine.

And B the next day I went to another Marriott and again they had $15 parking

there they never charged me, then the third Marriott I went to charge me 30

but I decided at the, at the counter. I decided I wanted peace more than I

wanted to have, be upset about parking and then when I got here this time. The

nice guy caught me and I just said oh and he said that's okay I'll take care

of it. So it felt like... just out of the blue? He just, I just said, I said well

that's a little high, no not out of the blue. You expressed your lack full

prosperity consciousness and expected someone to yield to you. And that will

get you a little ways down the road. But it won't make you rich. So then, so the

thing is just is to surrender all that, just surrender that whole process, that

thinking. Maybe surrender is the right word but a better word is decide that the way

you feel is what matters the most. You see what you're describing here, is

what a lot of people are doing. It's a very conditional response to life. You

charge me too much, I will respond with negative emotion. If you charge me just

right, I will respond with more positive emotion. So my emotion is controlled by

what you do. Which means I'm in a world of hurt all the time because I got to

control you, now I'm good, I'm developing my skill at getting free parking. I show

up, I act a little irritated and then you caught me.

So I've got my conditional living down pretty good. And when I'm living in a

world where that's the way we play the game. The more we complain, the more

people who don't want to fight yield, the more people who believe that the

customer's always right, give the complaining customer what they

want. But that complaining customer holds themself in a state of constant

aggravation and pushing against. It's a price far, far too great to pay. Because

while you're saving $15 or $50 on parking, you're cutting yourself off from

the resources, from the replenishment of source energy, from the good ideas, from

the flow of life, from being in sync with your inner being

who knows where all the treasures are that you've got buried in your

vibrational reality. That's really what we're wanting you to hear. Anybody can

win if you're playing a tug of war in a physical world and you got people on

each end of a rope and you've got this line that you're trying to drag each

other across, the most determined ones, the ones with the most muscle, the ones

that, in other words it's easy to understand why one group would win a

battle over another group. But this goes back to the question that we were

talking about earlier. You didn't come to battle against one another. You came to

make peace with your own alignment. You came to make peace with your own inner

being. You came to utilize the leverage that the universe has already lined up

for you. You see you forget your worthiness when you fight with pettiness

over peanuts. It's like you forget, how worthy you really are, when you're

demanding of what comes to you, you've forgotten what's being offered to

you. You forget that not only is it just being offered to you it's being offered

to you in specific proportion and in perfect accuracy of detail of everything

that your life has caused you to ask for. If you could see the vortex, that you've

created and understand the care with which your inner being is aware of it.

And understand that your inner being knows each and everything that you've

asked for, and you're deserving of all of it, and knows your vibrational

relationship to every bit of it. If you could just accept that a little bit, or

just find a reason to feel satisfied and watch how much the universe yields

to you. It is our promise to you, that you will stop feeling like you need to,

nitpick over who else is doing whatever they're doing. See what happens is when

you've got your feet in this physical world, you want so much for them to get

you. That's why you complain to the valet guy, and then you complain to the front

desk, and then you complain to the manager, you'd go all the way to the

Supreme Court, if you could, in order to get them to get you. Because you're so

sure that you are right, and what we want you to understand is you can be

absolutely right with the facts and crossways of your own vibration. Because

it doesn't matter how right you are this watered up anger and negative

emotion is preventing you from your connection with what really will lead

you to all of the ultimate things that you've been asking for.

There is no giant right and wrong in the sky. There's just you letting in what

you're asking for and you're not letting in what you're asking for. And when

you're demanding it of other people you're not even beginning to let it in.

Because they don't hold the keys to your kingdom, you do. And your emotion is

letting you know, whether you're flown in the direction of all the resources that

are all lined up for you or whether you're pulling against them. And all right we

understand, nothing makes you feel more like throwing a fit than moving away

from who you really are. Nothing makes you feel more justified in your anger

than to be pinching off the resources especially when you've thought as much

as you've thought and you've put as much as you've put there and you care as much

as you care. Nothing feels worse than moving in opposition to that. And there's

not enough comp tickets in the world to compensate from moving away from what

you naturally will receive. It's not just money, it's not just values and deals. Its

clarity, and it's a timing, and it's rhythm, and it's replenishment, and it's

ideas. It's being in the right place at the right time.

It's feeling your worthiness, it's feeling your absolute power, it's knowing

that you can be or do or have anything that you choose, it's knowing that no one

can stand in your way, it's knowing that nothing is in

way, except some beliefs that you picked up along your physical trail that no

longer

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8 Pieces of Advice for Ending a Relationship on a Good Note

Ending a relationship with someone in a healthy and considerate way could be the start of the healing process and positive growth.

In most cases, ending a relationship isn't easy.

This is especially true because emotions can run high and it can be hard for us to end an era, too.

After everything, it's never easy to say goodbye.

  In this kind of situation, we don't only have to grapple with our own interior world, but also with the emotions of the other person.

When someone is really important to us, we try hard to find the right words or do the right things to minimize their hurt.

By doing so, in a way we're looking for some assurance that things will be okay.

To help both people move forward and find their own paths after the end of a relationship, we need to think about the following aspects.

Don't wait for the perfect moment Some people can't bring themselves to end a relationship because they think that there's a perfect moment to end it.

The truth is very different.

There isn't a perfect time for the end and, thus, we shouldn't wait to do it.

  Trying to find the perfect circumstances to bring an end to a relationship can hurt us just as much, or even more, than being indifferent to the situation.

We suggest that you prepare yourself for the break-up when you feel like the relationship that you're in isn't going anywhere.

For starters, you can stop making plans together.

This step will prepare you to open the conversation.

Remember that you don't need anyone's permission, nor do you need to be better than anyone to end a relationship.

Not wanting to be in the relationship anymore is more than enough reason to end it.

You need to be able to trust yourself as well as your decisions and good will.

Prepare the setting for ending a relationship Once you're ready to end a relationship, look for a tranquil place where you can have a good conversation. Avoid distractions and stressful elements.

It can be anywhere as long as you feel comfortable and can easily talk without feeling watched or judged.

Don't forget to mention good things about the other person Sincerity is key in every conversation.

However, when ending a relationship, it's even more necessary.

In addition to sincerity, it's important to remember the positive aspects of the relationship.

Also, you should remember the positive traits of the other person to let them know that you appreciated them and cared deeply for them.

Sometimes we're afraid to start the conversation because we know that we'll immediately be labeled as the bad guy.

However, if you know why the relationship won't work, you have to talk about it as soon as possible.

Doing so will give both of your the chance to grow and look for other relationships.

End the relationship face-to-face Digital media can make communicating easier but they can't replace certain things entirely.

When we have to end a relationship, the best way of doing it is by getting together, in person, face-to-face.

We all need a little dedication from the part of others.

Especially when we need explanations.

Think about it: don't hurt others in the ways you don't want others to hurt you.

If you're worried about not being able to express yourself properly, organize your ideas first.

You can use whichever method that you prefer, even on paper, but the most important thing is finding the physical space and time for the other person.

Make sure to use clear words Sometimes, we think that talking about ending a relationship is enough to end it, even without being clear in what we're saying.

The problem is that for one person, the message might be clear, but for the other, not so much.

In order to prevent any kind of confusion or any doubt on the other end, be specific with your words: "end", "stop being a couple", "separate".

Speaking as such with help both of you understand the situation clearly.

It's the first step for moving forward.

Don't compare Even if you think you have the worst relationship, don't compare yourself to the other person. Comparing is embittering and doesn't help you in any way.

Keep in mind that both of you worked together and though it didn't work out, there were always some good moments.

If you're currently in another relationship, or if you're seeing someone new and that's why you've decided to end your current relationship, avoid making the other person feel bad about it. It's not healthy for you, nor for anyone.

7. Assume your responsibilities and avoid punishing the other person In a romantic relationship, there are two people.

Those two people are responsible for what happens between them.

So, blaming your partner for deciding to end the relationship isn't healthy.

Remember that blaming the other person implies that there's a need for punishment. There is no reason for you to punish anyone.

Take a deep breath During a breakup, it's normal to go through a lot of emotions.

At some point, your partner might be harsh or make hurtful comments.

When you notice that happening, suggest taking a breather.

Go out for a walk or even just look out at the horizon in silence for a few minutes.

With these tips for ending a relationship, we hope that you can overcome it as best you can.

You can do it!.

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Genogram – Family Relationship Diagram - Duration: 51:32.

JOYCE: Thank you and welcome

to the Child Welfare Information Technology Systems

Managers and Staff Webinar Series

brought to you on behalf of

the Health and Human Services Administration

for Children and Families Children's Bureau,

and presented by ICF International.

Today's webinar features staff from Indiana and Ohio,

who will discuss their experiences and challenges

in developing and implementing Genogram

or Family Relationship Diagram functionality.

I am Joyce Rose, your host and facilitator for today's webinar.

Next slide, please.

Attendees are encouraged to participate in our webinar

with questions and comments.

All of our participant lines are muted now,

but we will open them for the Q and A session

at the end of the discusson.

However, please be aware that you can submit questions

at any time using the GoToWebinar chat feature,

and those will be queued up and addressed

during the standard Q and A session.

Once today's webinar has ended,

you may submit additional questions to

the email address listed above, or to your federal analyst.

I want to thank our participants from Indiana and Ohio

for their exceptional time and effort

in preparing for this webinar.

So, let's meet them starting with Indiana. LaTrece?

LATRECE: Hello, I'm LaTrece Thompson,

and I'm the Deputy Director of Staff Development.

MARY: Hi, I'm Mary Engle, I'm the Assistant Director

for IU's Training Partnership.

WITNEY: My name is Witney Ortiz,

and I'm a Peer Coach Consultant in Indiana.

JOYCE: Ohio?

KEVIN: Kevin Bullock, Bureau Chief

for the Bureau of Automated Systems

here at the Ohio Department of Job and Family Services.

MELISSA: Hi, this is Melissa Palmer.

I'm one of the Business Analysts

here with the Ohio SACWIS Project.

MICHELE: And this is Michele Lidle.

I'm also a SACWIS Business Analyst.

JOYCE: Thank you. And next slide please.

So just to review our agenda quickly.

We will be listening to

the Indiana Department of Child Services,

who will explain the use of the GenoPro software

and its applicability for child welfare practice in Indiana.

And then we'll follow the Ohio journey,

which will address their implementation

of Genogram functionality,

and their session will include a live system demo.

So, how about the Indiana team get started. LaTrece?

LATRECE: Hello, so, in this section,

we are going to explain how

the Indiana Department of Child Services

uses the GenoPro software

and its applicability for child welfare practice in Indiana.

The GenoPro is a genealogy mapping software.

GenoPro is intuitively easy to learn and simple to use.

Since 2009, Indiana has used this tool

to develop comprehensive Family Network Diagrams. Next slide.

So, the Family Network Diagram

combines the Genogram and the Ecomap

to identify a family's relationships

as well as a family's community connections.

These diagrams are completed by

the family case manager and the families.

In general, the family case manager

uses the Family Network Diagram

just to gather that useful information,

have a better understanding of what the relational dynamics

are within the family,

and any sort of behavioral problems within that network.

It also promotes the client's self-understanding,

it helps with conducting assessments

and establishing interventions.

So, here is an example of

the Family Network Diagram from GenoPro.

So, GenoPro allows the user to clearly analyze

the family's emotional and social relationships

within that family group.

GenoPro also generates a key that helps others

quickly and easily identify what the family dynamics are

in play with this family just from looking at that.

So some of the benefits for GenoPro.

Indiana's Department of Child Services

chose to use GenoPro because it's a comprehensive approach

of creating a Family Network Diagram.

Additionally, GenoPro supports the two components

of the Family Network Diagram: the Genogram and the Ecomap.

And GenoPro will allow users

to compile thorough and concise Family Network Diagrams.

Once the family case manager has completed the Genogram,

they're able to put that information into GenoPro

using the Family Network Diagram.

So, the family case manager will upload the file

into our case management system,

which is MaGIK here in Indiana.

And then there's an option for both the assessment

or the case to upload the file.

Once that file is uploaded, it's saved as a document

in the case or assessment,

and the family can choose to use the Family Network

as a subject matter

and the Family Network Diagram or Genogram

within the content of that with

uploading all of the information into MaGIK.

MARY: Hi, this is Mary.

And I'm going to start with talking a little bit

about some of the challenges that GenoPro comes with.

So, one of the biggest challenges in utilizing

the software for the case worker

is that it can be time consuming to complete.

However, what we know is that

putting in the time with families

and engaging them from the beginning of the process

builds that trust-based relationship that elicits

a more positive experience as the case progresses.

Secondly, it can require a high level of engagement skills

in order to be successful.

And the Department of Child Services

has provided family case managers with practice questions

that are located in policy

to help guide their use of the Family Network Diagram

with families.

These high-level engagement skills

can take time for case workers to develop,

but by providing some practice support,

it can help case managers feel more confident

with the execution in the field.

Thirdly, if it's done incorrectly,

it could create issues in critical case junctures

within the case.

If the diagram does not provide an accurate picture

of the family's connections,

then it can lead to issues when trying to find

placements for potential guardianships or adoptions.

This is why it's crucial to spend the time

in creating an accurate family network diagram

in the beginning of the case,

and utilize it as a tool throughout the life of the case.

Lastly, all of our DCS computers have GenoPro installed;

however, it can be a challenge when sharing those files

with team members outside of DCS,

like CASA or Service Providers.

If they have not, if they don't have that software

on their own computers,

the case managers are responsible for printing it,

scanning it, and emailing it to them

and to others who are working on the case.

And again, this is not a constant challenge, but

it can be time consuming when that does occur. Next slide.

So, when we talk about risks, what we know is

that it can challenge rapport building.

We found that to probably be the biggest risk

in completing the Family Network Diagram

because families could potentially get defensive

when they're being asked about

their family and social connections.

We know it takes a lot of work and effort

in order to gain the trust of our families,

which is why we built our practice model

upon four core conditions that you see on your screen

in order to work past potential challenges

and work with families.

We know if the family case manager approaches a family

with the Family Network Diagram

or any other case management tool

with genuineness, empathy, professionalism, and respect,

then their rate of success will be much higher.

So in 2009, when GenoPro was introduced,

Staff Development created a Computer Assisted Training

and we call them CATs

to help teach all family case managers

how to use this new tool.

Since that initial rollout,

we've used the same computer system training

as part of our new worker training.

New workers complete the CAT on the GenoPro tool

in their local offices prior to arriving

to Unit 2 of their "cohort training,"

which is what we call New Worker Training in Indiana.

In Unit 2, family case managers

will take the Engagement and Interviewing course,

which will lay the foundation

for understanding and building their practice skills

which are crucial to creating their Family Network Diagram.

And then later, in cohort training,

they will complete the Assessing Child Maltreatment

and Case Planning and Permanency courses,

which will provide training on the specific use

of the Family Network Diagram throughout the case.

By the end of training,

they're provided with opportunities

to practice developing them in GenoPro,

and that most often occurs in the field

during our last few weeks of the training course.

WITNEY: So, in Indiana, some case managers,

they complete the Family Network Diagram with pen and paper.

In Indiana, we highly encourage that

the Family Network Diagram,

which is comprehensive of the GenoPro, is really required.

But it is. So the Family Network Diagram is required.

But it is not a requirement to use GenoPro

to complete it.

Although we do highly encourage

our family case managers to do that.

This can sometimes present a challenge later during the case

if the case gets transferred

or if the employee leaves the agency,

as handwritten diagrams

can be illegible and difficult to really interpret.

This is why we support the use of GenoPro

and the development of these Genograms

so that it is clear and easy to understand

for everyone involved in the case.

It also allows for a digital copy

of the diagram to be available,

which is easier to update and adapt as the case progresses.

And if you all had seen the prior example

of the entire diagram, all the squiggly lines

and the different lines that were on there,

when a person starts writing those with a pen and paper,

it can be very, very challenging to really understand

the relationship that goes back and forth within the family.

Which can also really hinder permanency

for the children here in Indiana.

So we in Indiana, we have ongoing maintenance.

As it was mentioned earlier, GenoPro was installed

and continues to be installed on all new employee computers.

This went into effect in 2009.

The last update that we had was in 2011,

and all of our technical support is provided by GenoPro,

which has been very helpful.

So in Indiana, our current status,

we are currently training and utilizing GenoPro

in conjunction with our practice model here in Indiana

to help achieve permanency.

We've learned that the use of GenoPro

really enables us to understand family dynamics

and to get children to permanency quicker.

In the future, one of the things

that we're planning to do in Staff Development

is incorporate GenoPro throughout other trainings.

Currently, all new trainees receive this training

via a Computer Assisted Training,

but they also incorporate it in other trainings

within their new training experience.

We want to expand that to include it

in our experienced worker training,

to really highlight and really show the importance

of making sure our family case managers

are utilizing the Genograms through GenoPro

so that they can, if there are any questions

from service providers or from the courts,

then they can just print off a legible document

and be able to submit that.

It also is a primary factor in making sure that

as we're moving forward with our practice model in Indiana,

that the GenoPro is utilized.

Some of the lessons that we've learned

have enabled us to understand family dynamics better,

which is one of the key factors

in children reaching permanency.

Some of our future plans is to really,

and I kind of talked about that a little bit,

is really just expanding,

to be included in some of the different trainings throughout,

not just new worker, but to expand it out

in experienced worker training.

MARY: So when we talk about challenges

and risks in our practice model, you know,

one of the skills that we really encourage

and push with our new workers

is the engagement skill that we discussed a little earlier,

and so just another note about that

and the importance of having those foundational skills

as you move forward with a software program like this.

Because everything we put into it is coming from the family

and that empowerment piece for them

is really critical in making sure that this is accurate

and that we're not damaging the relationship

with the families in the process.

So really, this is just part of a holistic approach

to engaging and working closely with children and families

through our practice model,

and involving them in the decisions that are made,

including the decisions about placement and permanency

for their children

and understanding those people that are closest to them

and what their relationships look like.

Can help us in those critical junctures.

If a removal happens, if a placement change happens,

or if any other sort of disruption happens,

we get with our team through our practice model

and we go back to these diagrams that we've developed

and can have some meaningful conversations

about how to move forward with that,

and helping families feel like they really are

driving their case planning progress and their movement

towards permanency.

MELISSA: Good afternoon, this is Melissa

speaking from the Ohio SACWIS Project.

And we are thrilled to be a part of this webinar,

sharing the recent addition of the Genogram

to SACWIS functionality.

To date, our county users have been quite complimentary

of the new Genogram functionality.

As you will soon see, while it is simple in design,

it is a welcome addition to the important work

being done by our Child Welfare case workers.

But before Michele shares with you the "why"

behind Ohio's decision

to implement Genogram functionality into SACWIS,

I would like to offer some contextual information,

or rather background, on Ohio's makeup and our SACWIS project.

Ohio's SACWIS began its rollout in 2007,

having all 88 counties live by 2008.

Ohio's SACWIS serves to support the work

of 88 public children service agencies

and 38 Title IV-E Courts.

The state of Ohio is rich and unique in its size,

as well as its diverse populations

being served across the state,

throughout various suburbs of large cities,

farming communities, small towns, and cities.

Ohio's counties range in size from major metro counties,

serving populations upward of 800,000 or more,

to medium-sized counties

serving populations between 50,000 to 100,000,

to our smaller counties that serve populations

of up to 400,000.

Ohio is one of nine states that is county-administered

and state-supervised.

So when it comes to SACWIS development

of new functionality or enhancements,

it is important that we are tuned to and keep in line with

the pulse of our user community

and the diversity that lies within our 88 counties

in terms of size, cultural diversity,

funding resources, training and knowledge sharing.

Next slide, please.

The work of the SACWIS project is guided by our mission.

The Ohio SACWIS Project Mission

is to provide automated technology solutions

to Ohio's state and local child welfare agencies

that support service delivery and practice

for the safety, permanency and well-being

of our children and families.

The developments of the Genogram functionality

support the project's mission in supporting service delivery

and best practice efforts of our end users,

and their engagement with families as important benchmarks

of safety, permanency and well-being are addressed.

SACWIS' Integrated Project Team, or IPT,

is a critical driving force

in achieving this mission to support the end user.

The IPT is comprised of dedicated business staff

that are responsible for

the development, implementation, maintenance,

and support of Ohio SACWIS.

The work and innovation of the Application Support Team,

Business Support Team, Finance Team, and Reporting Team,

in conjunction with staff from

Ohio's Office of Information Services and Vendor Project,

all support one another

in the creation and execution of Ohio's responsive efforts

to enhance Ohio's SACWIS in supporting

child welfare practitioners in their service delivery.

It is a diligent work of the IPT

in concert with input from our county users

that our Genogram has come to tuition.

And we are here to share this with you today.

So now, without further ado,

I will hand things over to Michele

to talk further about Ohio's journey to Genogram.

MICHELE: Thank you, Melissa.

The Genogram project that we set to implement here in Ohio

is really part of a much larger undertaking

to streamline our relationships data entry overall.

In our SACWIS system,

previously our relationship data was recorded

and stored separately in intake,

in the case, and in the provider area

where we have foster homes and kinship families.

And so, it was possible to have

multiple different relationships

between the same two persons in our system.

With the person- level relationship

Genogram initiative,

which was deployed to our production environment

as recently as December,

we moved the relationship data to the person record,

and at the same time kept it accessible

from various modules and work items throughout our system.

To achieve this, we had millions of

existing relationship records that had to be converted,

and I would say that was one of our biggest challenges.

We had to develop a hierarchy,

and give preference to relationships

associated with adoptive child birth parents,

that's part of our AFCARS data.

Then we had to say what else we wanted to maintain

if we had relationships that didn't agree with each other

in SACWIS and we had to pick one.

So, in the end, all things being equal,

we hoped that the most recently modified relationship

would be the most accurate and we had to go with that.

But as an end result, we now have a system

in which there can only be one distinct relationship pair,

like biological mother and biological son,

between any two people in SACWIS,

which makes the data much more consistent and clean

throughout the system.

The only exception to that rule is in our intake record.

So, if you have an abuse and neglect report,

that will maintain the relationships

between those different parties

at the time of the screening decision

since we know that relationships may change over time

and we want to preserve the integrity of the initial report.

So, the newly designed functionality

makes it easier for our end users to view and maintain

their relationship information,

and incorporates the system-generated Genogram view

of that data.

Additionally, users can now document

extended family relationships,

even if the relatives are not otherwise found

in our SACWIS system,

if they're not members of a SACWIS case,

we can still add those extended family members

and show how they are related

to the families that we're working with.

Our goal was to ensure accurate, consistent data

across all of the different areas of our system,

improve our user experience,

and provide additional tools for family search and engagement.

Because Ohio is a county-administered state

and completion of a Genogram is not something

that is required by our rules,

use of Genograms varies across the different agencies

in our state.

So, our hope was that by incorporating this into SACWIS,

and making it something that can

easily be generated by our system,

that this would expand and support use of the tool

for all the great reasons that Indiana just described

as to how it can be useful for working with families.

So, our Genogram, which I'm going to demonstrate

in just a moment, uses the same standardized Genogram symbols

that our Child Welfare Training Program uses

in the training of new child welfare case workers

when talking about how to use Genograms in the field.

To develop our Genogram, we integrated Go JS software

into our SACWIS system, and this was just what

our project team found to be the best option

for Ohio to meet our goals.

There's information about this software available online.

So I'm going to show you what this looks like

in just a minute.

As you see on our slide here, this is a direct quote

from one of our SACWIS users

who has been using our system since the beginning

and when she first saw our Genogram,

she said this was great and that she loved it.

And just as Indiana was explaining,

using a Genogram can require some skill.

It can be time consuming to complete in the field.

And so, here was a person who had been in child welfare

for a long time and had not wanted to use

Genograms in the past because they seemed complicated.

But having it in SACWIS has been a game-changer for her.

So give me just one second and I will pull up the screen here.

Okay, so, this is a person record in our SACWIS system.

This is a fictitious person that I created today

for purposes of the demonstration

in our test environment.

And we have different modules.

One of them is now relationships.

It has its own module within the person record.

So, if I go to Person Relationships,

I land on a list page that shows

all the different people in SACWIS

who have some relationship to our focus person, "Harry."

I can expand the relationships for any one of these

or all of these people in the list

to see how each of these people are related to my focus person,

as well as how they are related to one another

if that's the case.

We also have an editor view of the relationship,

and if I click on my editor page,

this is where I can add or maintain

the relationships between people.

And this is really so much simpler

than the old way that we had of doing this work in our system,

and so users really do find this

to be much more straightforward and simple,

and they're better able to avoid making mistakes

when setting up the relationship.

It's a simple dropdown with relationship values to select,

and the reciprocal relationships

are automatically generated when a relationship is saved.

We also have the ability with an add button right from here

to add additional people by searching through SACWIS

to pull in others or create brand new people

if they're not found in our system

for the purpose of documenting their relationship.

So, this has been a good help to users,

and this functionality is actually replicated

in various areas in the system.

As I mentioned earlier, all the relationships

live within the person record, if you will,

but they are accessible in our intake module

as well as when you're looking at your family case record.

You can access the same information in the same format,

but the context in the case limits that information

to those folks

who are associated with that case as members,

or even as associated relatives who may not be

members of the case family that you're working with,

but perhaps grandparents or other supportive person

who have some involvement.

Now to the Genogram,

which is the real reason we came here today.

It's just a simple click on the Genogram icon.

And the system renders all the relationship information

in the form of a simple Genogram.

So, as I said earlier, we do use the same basic

Genogram symbols that workers are trained on.

There's a legend here at the bottom of the screen

that shows what the different symbols mean.

We also incorporated some view of person characteristics

that may have been added to a record,

and by color and placement of the shading

we can give you a high-level view of where

some of those attributes may exist within the family.

It's a little hard to see.

It's kind of light on my screen here,

but we do have a yellow highlight

around my focus person, who is Harry.

Whoever I have in focus on the right,

I have this box that shows a person's spotlight.

We give just some basic information about the person,

as well as some of those characteristics I mentioned.

If we have any mental health or substance abuse characteristics

that have been documented or any medical concerns,

those can be shown, and you can get kind of an overview

of the family as far as those things.

I can change my focus person.

If I want to look at Harry's mother instead,

I can just click on that person

and change my person's spotlight information on the right

to showing some information about her.

You'll see on this person, I've also added a safety hazard.

In our system, it's the way to track hazards

that might exist for the case worker's own safety;

things that you'd want to call attention to

such as "This person is a person who has weapons in the home."

That's something a new worker might want to know

when going out.

So, we just highlight some of those things.

And that's our Genogram.

We did incorporate a couple of screen shots of the Genogram

in the slide presentation, so you'll have those for reference.

And that's it for us, I'll turn it back over. Thank you.

JOYCE: Alright. So, here we come. Next Slide.

Next slide.

Next.

Alright, so here is Mr. Bullock's contact information

if anyone who is attending would like to contact him directly,

and we also previously provided Indiana's contact info.

Let's move on then.

That was absolutely excellent. Thank you so very much.

Let's move to the next slide, which is our Q and A session.

I'm going to ask my colleague, Subeera, to run this session.

SUBEERA: Thanks, Joyce.

As a reminder, the PowerPoint is available as a handout.

It's available on the right side of the screen.

If you click on handouts, you can download it for viewing.

Candy, do we have any questions in the queue?

CANDY: Thank you. As a reminder for parties on the phone,

to ask a question press "Star-1."

Please un-mute your line and record your name only

to be introduced.

Again questions from the phone, press "Star-1" please.

If you'd like to withdraw the request, you may press "Star-2."

Thank you. Please stand by for your first question.

SUBEERA: Candy, do we have any questions in the queue?

CANDY: Currently we're showing no questions in the queue.

As a reminder, parties may press "Star-1."

SUBEERA: Okay, I will start with the questions

we're getting through the chat box.

Our first question: Does the Indiana team know

how much the state spends per year to use the GenoPro tool?

LATRECE: No, I do not know the exact cost.

I know that when it was initially installed,

it was at a one-time cost.

But I'm not quite sure of the cost at this time.

SUBEERA: Thank you. Next question.

Is the software integrated within the SACWIS

used by Indiana, or do staff

have to re-enter all of the participant data

when creating the Genogram?

MARY: What was the first part of that question? Sorry.

SUBEERA: Is the software integrated within

the SACWIS used by Indiana,

or do staff have to re-enter all of the participant data

when creating the Genogram?

MARY: We enter it into GenoPro,

and then from there they are able to upload that

into our computer system.

JOYCE: This is Joyce and I have a follow-on question to that.

Given that GenoPro is not integrated

into your SACWIS system, what and who triggers

the GenoPro Family Network Diagram upload

into MaGIK, and how often does it occur?

MARY: So, technically on every case,

whether that's a child needs services case

where the courts are involved, or an informal adjustment,

all of those cases are required to have a Genogram in them

at the time the case transfers from

the assessment worker to the permanency worker.

So ideally, all of them would have them

as far as GenoPro is concerned.

SUBEERA: Candy, do we have any questions in the queue

before we move on to the next one in the chat box?

CANDY: We're currently showing no questions from the phone.

As a reminder, parties again can press "Star-1."

SUBEERA: Thank you. Next question.

Does the Ohio team have an estimate

for the cost of building the Genogram Functionality?

KEVIN: No we don't.

That included both the relationship conversion

and the Genogram, so it's kind of difficult, I think,

for us to split it out and say exactly how much

just the Genogram costs.

That was part of our contract with

our interval deliverable agreement with our vendor.

SUBEERA: Thank you. Does either state have outcome information?

Has this been helpful in finding relatives

as placements for kids in care?

MARY: I know in Indiana, once those are actually completed,

I don't know if there's necessarily been

any formalized data.

But within the local county offices,

the cases who have a really solid, completed Genogram

and an Ecomap through GenoPro,

that Family Network Diagram helps us to figure out

what the underlying needs are for the family,

it helps to figure out who could be potential placements,

and just really working with the family

so we can work with them from the inception of the case,

so we have case closure faster.

MELISSA: So as far as Ohio, our Genogram functionality

has only been in about two months,

so we don't have a lot of feedback yet

as far as what impact that may have.

But we do hope that we'll find more county agencies

utilizing a Genogram, because we know

there are many agencies who do use the Genogram

as part of their regular practice.

And we're just hoping that this will maybe make their lives

a little easier as well as kind of expand that use.

SUBEERA: Thank you. I will move on to the next question.

Does GenoPro work on a specific operating system,

or is it available for multiple platforms?

LATRECE: Can you repeat that question?

SUBEERA: Does GenoPro work on a specific operating system,

or is it available for multiple platforms?

LATRECE: So in Indiana, GenoPro,

our IT team automatically uploads the program

on every family case manager's computer.

That's where they use it

and that's where they put all the information in.

They don't use it on any other equipment.

MARY: And the computers that are delivered to our staff members

are all Microsoft operating systems utilizing Windows.

I don't know what the current version of Windows is for that.

So we have not experimented, at least to my knowledge,

with Apple systems or anything else.

And so, right now, we're just looking at the Windows systems.

SUBEERA: Thank you.

Candy do we have any questions in the queue?

CANDY: We're showing no questions.

Again, it's "Star-1" for questions, please.

SUBEERA: Thank you.

I will move on to the next question in the chat box.

Do staff in your states have tablets or laptops

to engage families in the field?

LATRECE: So in Indiana, our staff do have laptops.

KEVIN: In Ohio, with us being county-administered,

it depends on the county.

But many of our county children services agencies

do deploy some sort of mobile device.

We know that they're using all platforms

to access our application.

SUBEERA: Thank you. I will move on to the next question.

How do either of the states address Native American history

for the purposes of ICWA? Or "I," "C," "W," "A."

MELISSA: Yes, we do have functionality

incorporated within our person module to capture

and we document that the family was asked

about their Native American heritage.

We also document notifications,

we can generate notifications to the tribe from within SACWIS,

as well as documentation of the outcome

and whether or not the membership was verified.

So, we do have all of that information.

Our Genogram does not currently display that information,

but that is something that we may consider

as future enhancements --

incorporating other demographics into our Genogram.

MARY: As far as Indiana is concerned,

there is not anything specifically with ICWA.

We obviously follow all of those guidelines and procedures.

But within GenoPro,

you can put different ethnicities, cultures,

and other things that they might identify with

just in singularly,

but also if you want to use it as an Ecomap,

also that can also be included.

We can put all that information into GenoPro.

SUBEERA: Thank you. I will move on to the next question.

Is the software linked with any person locator tools?

Example: Clear Accurint for easy linking of family members

and demographic information to cases.

MELISSA: In Indiana, GenoPro system is not linked; however,

once you upload the Family Network Diagram into MaGIK,

you will link it to the children --

whoever is actually in that.

So, you would be able to, in theory, once those are uploaded,

have every single person connected

within our overall system of MaGIK.

KEVIN: And in Ohio, our SACWIS application

is not currently linked to a parent locator.

SUBEERA: Thank you. Next question is for Indiana:

When the file is uploaded from GenoPro into your SACWIS,

it's done as a PDF or other file,

and placed into a file cabinet?

Or is the data actually integrated

at the database level?

MARY: So, it's integrated at the database level.

It goes into our computing system, so Casebook.

When it's uploaded into there, it stays within that.

It's not ever a hard copy;

everything is electronically stored within our system.

SUBEERA: Thank you for the answer.

I'll move on to the next question.

Can you get statistics from the Genogram software?

For example, how many parents have been married

at the time of birth?

MELISSA: We do capture that data element elsewhere

in the person record,

but we do not pull it from our Genogram.

We've had that as existing functionality.

LATRECE: Yes, Indiana would be the same on that.

That would be within our database, Casebook,

but not necessarily GenoPro

collecting any additional information.

SUBEERA: Thank you. Next question.

Since the last update was reported in 2011,

how effective is the system for staff?

MARY: So it's an extremely effective tool when utilized.

Even though the information hasn't necessarily been updated,

it still has all of those relationships,

and social and emotional relationships.

And there are, give or take, 20 to 30 different options

as far as different levels of connectiveness emotionally.

You can also put health issues.

There's a myriad of different things

you can put into the GenoPro

through the Family Network Diagram.

So even though it hasn't been updated,

it is still very useful.

SUBEERA: Okay, thank you. The next question is for Ohio.

Did Ohio use any open source software to implement Genogram?

KEVIN: No, it's all JAVA-based

integrated with our existing application.

As I mentioned, we did use to go JS

as part of a toolkit to help with the rendering.

SUBEERA: I do have another question for Ohio

and you may be able to answer this

along with the answer you provided.

Did Ohio develop their Genogram in-house?

KEVIN: Yes, it was custom-built

to integrate with our existing application.

SUBEERA: Thank you.

Candy, do we have any questions in the queue?

CANDY: We're showing no questions at this time.

Again, from the phone, you may press "Star-1."

SUBEERA: Thank you. I will move on to the next question.

What was the biggest challenge of getting workers

to create and fill out a Genogram,

and how did you address it?

MARY: So in Indiana, the biggest challenge

isn't necessarily having them complete a Genogram,

it's just taking that additional step

to actually put everything into GenoPro.

I know that right now within our training process

for our new family case managers,

we want them to utilize that.

So, we're showing it to them within their on-job training,

and then also within our engagement field,

we're trying to pull the Genogram and GenoPro

into that as well.

MELISSA: In Ohio, there is training available

to encourage the use of Genograms

and to help workers understand

how this can have a positive impact on their work.

But it is not something

that is currently required for every case.

That's more of an agency to agency policy.

SUBEERA: Thank you.

I'll move on to the next question, it's for Ohio.

How long did it take to build the functionality in Ohio?

MELISSA: Well, from the point of beginning design sessions

to implementation was about a year.

KEVIN: Again, that incorporated

the person-level relationship conversion,

so there's a lot of time invested in that as well.

SUBEERA: Okay, thank you. I do have a related question.

If a state wanted to obtain Ohio's Genogram code,

is the state willing to share it

on the Federal Repository when it becomes available?

KEVIN: Yes, we are.

SUBEERA: Okay, thank you. I will move on to the next question.

Is data entered into the Genogram software

stored in the database for

the main case management system (MaGIK or SACWIS)?

MELISSA: In Ohio...

MARY: Can you repeat that question?

SUBEERA: Is data entered into the Genogram software

stored in the database for the main case management system?

MARY: Yes, in Indiana it is.

MELISSA: In Ohio, we're actually using the SACWIS data

to create the Genogram.

And users can actually download a PDF of the image,

but unfortunately at this time

they're not able to save a point-in-time rendering

of the Genogram in our system,

but that is something that we hope to change in the future.

SUBEERA: Thank you.

Candy, do we have any questions in the queue?

CANDY: We're currently showing no questions.

SUBEERA: As a reminder, you can type the questions

in the chat box or press "Star-1" to ask a question.

JOYCE: So, this is Joyce and I have a question.

My assumption is that you actually share

the family relationship or Family Network Diagrams

with your families? Is that correct?

MARY: In Indiana, in part, yes.

The actual Family Network Diagram

is something that the family case manager

and the family develop together.

As far as seeing what the finalized

actual picture would look like,

no, but I think all of those conversations

are discussed verbally.

JOYCE: Okay, thank you.

For Indiana, does the state provide GenoPro licensing

and software to CASA or your other service providers?

LATRECE: No, we do not.

SUBEERA: Candy, do we have any questions in the queue?

CANDY: We are showing no questions from the phone.

Again, parties may press "Star-1."

SUBEERA: If you would like to ask a question,

you may type it in the chat box, or press "Star-1."

JOYCE: So, while we are awaiting any additional questions

that may come in,

I would like to circle back to both states and to your teams.

As we have walked through this,

is there any other key information

that you may like to share with states?

Indiana?

LATRECE: I think, as I mentioned earlier,

there's a lot of importance around engagement skills.

It's not really a tool that

you should just go out and start asking intrusive questions

without establishing some rapport first.

It can give us a lot of information

that's helpful at critical junctures

and looking for placement

and discussing those family relationships.

If they're changed,

if relationships get stronger or amended,

we can definitely update the GenoPro

and put that new information in there.

But you have got to take that first step

and build rapport and a trust-based relationship.

Because the information you enter

is obviously only as good as what our families give us.

As we know in working in child welfare,

we often deal with families

that have a lot of conflicted relationships

and difficult relationships,

and may not want to share that information with us right away.

You know -- it also goes to engaging fathers

and how we approach parents and family members

and gathering that information

and help them understand the point of it.

We're not trying to necessarily invade their lives

in every single way.

But that this gives us an opportunity

to help work with them on

placement and permanency for their children.

So, that first step is really critical.

JOYCE: Excellent. Ohio?

KEVIN: The only thing I'd like to add,

I mentioned that we would like to share our code

on the Federal Repository,

but if anybody has a more immediate need,

they can send me an email.

We can work through our process,

but that could happen sooner if need be.

JOYCE: And Kevin, your code is Java-based, right?

KEVIN: Correct.

JOYCE: Okay, thank you. Subeera, do we have any more questions?

SUBEERA: There are no questions in the chat box.

Candy, do we have any questions in the queue?

CANDY: We are showing no questions from the phone.

As a reminder, parties may press "Star 1."

JOYCE: Okay, well, let's move on to the next slide, please.

I certainly want to thank our presentation teams

from both Ohio and Indiana.

That was absolutely excellent,

and I wouldn't be surprised if you get some questions

sent directly to you.

So, thank you so very much.

So, this webinar has been recorded

and will be made available online.

When it is completed and posted,

a message will be sent announcing availability

on the Children's Bureau website.

And as a reminder, you can download the PowerPoint

by clicking on the handouts on the right-hand side

in the little box.

Again, thank you to our state presenters.

As we move forward with this series,

the next confirmed upcoming event is on March 14th,

a discussion of the DSS online resources available to you,

which is basically a demo of the Agile online resources

and the DSS website.

So, I want to extend a sincere thank you

to you all for attending,

and that ends the webinar for today. Goodbye.

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